Is it just me or does this phrase really grind on everyone? I have been the single girl before and would definitely not be 1. Attracted to people who wanted to use me to make their marriage work 2. Appreciate being a test subject...the whole phrase 'spice up our lives irritates the hell out of me and basically oozes drama in my opinion...people need to stop testing girls out as a buffer for a boring life and actually fully consider the reality of what they are planning to do...we have threesomes because we both fully enjoy beautiful ladies...not to glue us together or find something that is missing...in my opinion it's just wrong and I see far to much of it these days  thoughts? |
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"Is it just me or does this phrase really grind on everyone? I have been the single girl before and would definitely not be 1. Attracted to people who wanted to use me to make their marriage work 2. Appreciate being a test subject...the whole phrase 'spice up our lives irritates the hell out of me and basically oozes drama in my opinion...people need to stop testing girls out as a buffer for a boring life and actually fully consider the reality of what they are planning to do...we have threesomes because we both fully enjoy beautiful ladies...not to glue us together or find something that is missing...in my opinion it's just wrong and I see far to much of it these days thoughts? "
My thoughts are these .
We swing for mutually satisfying fun , so if those we play with want to spice up their lives , bring it on .
As long as there's no drama , and we all have fun it's all good  |
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Ok, it’s definitely not just me. I’ve seen plenty of people say this too. So, no, it’s not just me. And sure, some people will be just using the phrase, but I can 100% assure you I know people have done this stuff to “spice” things up and it hasn’t worked.
But obviously some people here have done it and disagree with me. Fair enough I know it’s a reality though. Plenty of girls here do not want to be the test subject. |
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"Ok, it’s definitely not just me. I’ve seen plenty of people say this too. So, no, it’s not just me. And sure, some people will be just using the phrase, but I can 100% assure you I know people have done this stuff to “spice” things up and it hasn’t worked.
But obviously some people here have done it and disagree with me. Fair enough I know it’s a reality though. Plenty of girls here do not want to be the test subject."
But as you are in a couple, why let it bother you? |
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"Ok, it’s definitely not just me. I’ve seen plenty of people say this too. So, no, it’s not just me. And sure, some people will be just using the phrase, but I can 100% assure you I know people have done this stuff to “spice” things up and it hasn’t worked.
But obviously some people here have done it and disagree with me. Fair enough I know it’s a reality though. Plenty of girls here do not want to be the test subject."
You're right people have done this to spice things up and it hasn't worked. That's for many reasons though, maybe it didn't match the fantasy or one person didn't really want to do it.
I read that you're suggesting that couples who want to meet another woman often treat the single woman as a mere accessory to their sex life and from what I've read on here some do.
What I think is that doesn't mean that everyone who wants to spice up their sex life will do the same or even want to meet single women. |
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