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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Do you have any evidence for this"
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex |
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex"
evidence that most men would risk an std than upset a woman |
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex"
The risk of catching anything via oral is greatly smaller than having unprotected sex. |
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex
The risk of catching anything via oral is greatly smaller than having unprotected sex. "
British Association for Sexual Health and HIV says oral sex accounts for most cases of genital herpes now |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I am not saying std's cannot be transmitted. If someone has chlamydia, gonorrhoea or the like, it will obviously contracted but realistically oral is the lesser of two evils over penetrative if no protection is being used. *Making me queasy.
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sexevidence that most men would risk an std than upset a woman"
How many men do you know that use dental dams? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men would rather catch an STD than miss out on some pussy because they upset a woman by insisting on the use of a dental dam. "
I'll give the STD a miss thanks. But will take up your pussy invite  |
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sexevidence that most men would risk an std than upset a woman
How many men do you know that use dental dams? "
i dont same as i dont know any women that use a condom for oral. But in my experience its been through choice and not so they dont upset someone. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex
The risk of catching anything via oral is greatly smaller than having unprotected sex.
British Association for Sexual Health and HIV says oral sex accounts for most cases of genital herpes now"
That is odd. I thought genital herpes were a different strain to the ones found on/in your mouth. |
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex
The risk of catching anything via oral is greatly smaller than having unprotected sex.
British Association for Sexual Health and HIV says oral sex accounts for most cases of genital herpes now
That is odd. I thought genital herpes were a different strain to the ones found on/in your mouth. "
I've had forum bans for posting links before but Google: "Using dental dams and condoms during oral sex is a good idea…" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex
The risk of catching anything via oral is greatly smaller than having unprotected sex.
British Association for Sexual Health and HIV says oral sex accounts for most cases of genital herpes now"
I'd like to know how they know that. Is the mouth to genitals virus slightly different in some way? Is it hpv 1 on the genitals? Or does the hpv1 mutate to hpv2 when it touches the genitals. I need a doctor to explain this to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't know what sort of men you're talking about, but no man I know would willing risk catching an STI to be very honest with you (even the over sexed ones). |
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"Don't know what sort of men you're talking about, but no man I know would willing risk catching an STI to be very honest with you (even the over sexed ones)."
So all the men you know use dental dams? |
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I've never seen a man or a woman insist on the use of a dental dam. Whether this is through willingness to take a (perceived) calculated risk, fear of upsetting the other person or ignorance I don't know.
Popular opinion from what I read seems to be that most people would rather go without than participate in protected oral. However on the occasions I have asked a guy to use a condom for oral he has always agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't know what sort of men you're talking about, but no man I know would willing risk catching an STI to be very honest with you (even the over sexed ones).
So all the men you know use dental dams? "
The ones that I know do, yes (or at least tell me that they do); most of them are OTT about safer sex and have walked away from situations that wasn't right for them personally - it all depends on attitude I guess and birds of a feather flock together  |
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Human Pailloma Virus-16, the strain responsible for cervical cancer, is also linked to mouth/throat cancer. There are no symptoms with this one and most people don't know they have/have had it. HPV positive throat cancer is commonest in heterosexual men and the more unprotected oral sex, the greater the risk. There's quite a few resent published papers on this but many people are unaware of the link. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never heard anyone say they've used a dental dam nevermind it being standard practice, but I have heard lots of people both male and female say they'd rather go without than use a dental dam. I think it's more to do with lack of enjoyment than risk of upsetting someone.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't talk for anyone else but a lot of the pleasure of oral sex for me is the sensation on my tongue and the taste from a lady's natural juices as she becomes aroused.
So it's a balancing act between risks involved and the pleasure that I am seeking from my sex. No form of sex is risk free and I opt to have oral without a dental dam but penetration with a condom. I know there will be an element of risk to this, but all the evidence points to a lower risk. But a risk nevertheless.
Oral with a dental dam would severely reduce my pleasure from oral, but if a lady asked me to use one I would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would suspect that catching an sti as a result of a condom breaking or falling off is just as risky as catching an sti from oral sex. As with all fun things in life (whether sex or skydiving) one takes a calculated risk and takes measures to minimise that calculated risk. The only way to be sure of not catching an sti is to remain monogamous. As as most of us on this site want to enjoy multiple partners we are all taking by that calculated risk.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have any evidence for this
There's a risk of getting or passing on STIs if you're giving or receiving oral sex. The risk increases if either of you has sores or cuts around the mouth, genitals or anus.
This is because viruses and bacteria, which may be present in semen, vaginal fluid or blood, can travel more easily into a partner's body through breaks in the skin
http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx#Oral-sex"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please all play safe and be honest for f... Sake if you have something then get it treated, and wait
Where do you buy your dental dams? "
any carpet shop should sell them. Lol |
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