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What's wrong with men

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sexyjosie advertised for a gang bang today at mine. 10 guys said they were definitely coming and another 15 said they were interested.

Reality - two turn up. One idiot says he's left his condoms in the car and of course we never see him again. The other decided he can't do it and slinks off.

And all throughout there is a constant stream of men messaging her supposedly interested.

So what's wrong with men on Fab??? Those couple of dozen men who pretended to be interested could have been up their nuts in a 19 year olds pussy. Instead we get two asshats who can't go through with it.

Men of Fab, you are a fucking disgrace. No, scratch that, not a fucking disgrace because you couldn't even do that.

Russ

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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i tired arranging a gb on here, got something similar except both guys did fuck me, they turned up an hour apart though haha.

did notice a lot of guys expressed an interest but only wanted wank chat.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its much easier to arrange a GB at a club these days. Relying on people on here to turn up will inevitably lead to disappointment.

There will be tons of men posting on here saying they would have turned up now though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i tired arranging a gb on here, got something similar except both guys did fuck me, they turned up an hour apart though haha.

did notice a lot of guys expressed an interest but only wanted wank chat."

Arrange another one and I'll be the guy in the middle at half past the hour Haha.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"i tired arranging a gb on here, got something similar except both guys did fuck me, they turned up an hour apart though haha.

did notice a lot of guys expressed an interest but only wanted wank chat.

Arrange another one and I'll be the guy in the middle at half past the hour Haha."

don't need a gb if you're turning up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wankers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i tired arranging a gb on here, got something similar except both guys did fuck me, they turned up an hour apart though haha.

did notice a lot of guys expressed an interest but only wanted wank chat.

Arrange another one and I'll be the guy in the middle at half past the hour Haha.

don't need a gb if you're turning up.

I'll be round shortly.;-)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The fools.

If you say your going to do something, do it.

Losers.

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By *ue and robCouple over a year ago

ware

We found if you want six men invite 18 want 10 invite 30 once we invite 12 hoping for 3_4 and they all turned up!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah some people are just full of bull,put them in a real life situation and they p*ss their pant's.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do your research better. I used to do gangbangs all the time only ever had one that wasnt a full house

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the keyboard warriors ruin it for the few genuine ones on this site. If I say I'm going to attend, I do, unless a situation arises that I cant then I notify the person/club in question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they made the decisions in completely different mindsets. A horny guy coming online for a wank vrs a semi-normal guy with nerves and normal(ish) emotions.

How many of them had verifications?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say the arranger..might not have vetted the people properly...in most cases I can pull a pool of guys..mostly ones I've met before and of course theyve had experience being around other guys, whether straight or bi.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dreamers, wannabes and wank merchants.

I enjoy a good gangbang.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shame that you are so far away. I would have been with you and happily performed. I'm sure that you have heard that many times but I am verified and always turn up

I agree that there is little more frustrating than being let down by dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say the arranger..might not have vetted the people properly...in most cases I can pull a pool of guys..mostly ones I've met before and of course theyve had experience being around other guys, whether straight or bi."

Not always the case. We organised a small one with friends. All but 1 guy we had met before. Was well verified.. on the actual day not one got in touch or replied.

However also once invited more than needed because of drop outs but then got them all.

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Can I ask regarding the two that showed.. had they met her before? Maybe they just weren't attracted to her?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I arranged one a couple yrs ago. 2 girls 11 men. Took weeks and weeks to arrange. Socials and making sure these were guys that had done similar before. It is possible but takes time and good judgment ( not saying you have non of these )

Maybe next time it'll be more successful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was invited to a gb LAST YEAR BUT AT 10.25 PM.There was no way I could drive down from Doncaster to Lincoln and hope to raise an eyebrow never mind a cock lol.

Shame though as she had a stunning figure

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By *hat The CuckCouple over a year ago

South London

Took us 3 months to arrange a MMMF. Lots of guys dropped out before the event, deleted their profiles or just stopped responding to us.

We now only stick to meeting those with recent meet verifications and with experience in what type of meet we are seeking to have. Saves a lot of hassle.

Socials are also best as mentioned.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Lots are all talk.

Suggest arrange one at club, either on a normal night and hope enough guys are intrested. Or book a night with club and set it up as an event, where club then knows to let the singles in.

Just make sure if you book it as an event, you show up.

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By *eek12Man over a year ago

lakenheath

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He makes a good point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not always the case. We organised a small one with friends. All but 1 guy we had met before. Was well verified.. on the actual day not one got in touch or replied.

However also once invited more than needed because of drop outs but then got them all.

while I do not agree with the p[ractice...some peeople best think what most single guys allegedly want:

either one woman

or meeting many women

*but without it needing another male present

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I attend a gangbang recently we all had a fantastic time with an amazing women she took us all and some , it was amazing but the rules were well prepared and everybody understood and played the game ;(pardon the pun) so attend if you say your going , if not let us single lads take your place and have fun .

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

Yes, lots of men are just fantasists, however by observing these three simple rules you can generally get a successful GB

1. Exclude obvious idiots. Illiterate messages, over vulgar profiles, guys who communicate in. Porn speak etc

2. Observe the 25% rule. Only one in four guys will turn up. So if you want ten guys invite forty.

3. Prove a willing woman actually exists. Lots of guys will think the organiser is a male fantasist and/or its a scam and they will be robbed. Get the woman to appear in a cam room at a set time or be willing to do a phone check with guys. If guys know for certain there is a real woman they are much more likely to turn up.

I speak from experience..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

shame you weren't closer,I know you have no right to believe me when I say I would have turned up had I got an invite,but what's the point in being on here otherwise...plus as a single guy I'd probably take any meet with a woman going,it's a struggle to stand out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its sad times really. When i first started on here years ago i used to get lots of interest and messages. but since this site has been inundated with timewasters then its bad for business.Generally my advice is dont go for all the good looking guys all þe time, try us average guys once in a while, you'll be surprised how loyal we can be ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thing that gets me about this site is whenever someone rants, people rant along...there's always two sides to a story, seems odd how these men bailed?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

they must have had a reason to bail but at same time you gotta be able to commit once you take the invite

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"they must have had a reason to bail but at same time you gotta be able to commit once you take the invite"

No you don't. If you turn up to a meet and something isn't right you don't have to go through with it. Not saying that was the case here but we don't really know, do we.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"Thing that gets me about this site is whenever someone rants, people rant along...there's always two sides to a story, seems odd how these men bailed?"

no, it's really usual for men to pretend they want something on here just to get their jollies.

probably just some smelly, lazy man wanking and cba to actually shower and go out and fuck. just coz you're not one of these men doesn't mean they don't exist or that the OP did anything wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexyjosie advertised for a gang bang today at mine. 10 guys said they were definitely coming and another 15 said they were interested.

Reality - two turn up. One idiot says he's left his condoms in the car and of course we never see him again. The other decided he can't do it and slinks off.

And all throughout there is a constant stream of men messaging her supposedly interested.

Men of Fab, you are a fucking disgrace. No, scratch that, not a fucking disgrace because you couldn't even do that.

Russ"
yes doesn't sound good theirs a lot of bravado with meets like this but when it comes down to it they havnt got the balls ,ive been in similar situations stage fright and all dont be disheartened next time will be great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We tried to arrange a GB but it died a death.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wankers. "

To the point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally i prefer women who are more exclusive.

So thats whats wrong with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really not my thing sorry...not a judgement..

But standing in line...

I prefer it when there is a connection a mutual desire a need that is reciprocated..

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By *ait88Man over a year ago

Plymouth

LIBIDO. A man’s sex drive changes frequently, and often for no obvious reason. Each and every single “no show” would have turned up AT THE TIME HE VOLUNTEERED. But come event time, and things have changed. He doesn’t feel like it for one reason or another. Organisers who expect dropouts to have the manners to inform them of changes of mind are living in the past. We don’t have that kind of society any more. It isn’t all bad - the explicit photos on many profiles are no longer regarded as being obscene. Everything changes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How much were you asking for this gang bang?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wankers. "

I suspect so...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Somebody said she was possibly a "fat old slag with STDs" well, it doesnt take Sherlock Holmes to look up her profile and see that she isn't. Quite honestly, if a young beauty like Josie has trouble attracting guys on here then I dont think us fat old 'uns have much chance.

Call me an old mother hen if you like but, frankly, I'm glad that she wasn't used and abused by a load of guys who are just not worthy of her,I'm not so naive as to think that young Josie is as pure as driven snow but she certainly seems better than that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well that escalated quickly

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By *rnortholtMan over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Am I surprised at what happened? No.

Do I turn up when I say I will? Yes.

Can I understand the OP being frustrated? Yes.

Will the OP's rant make things better in future? No.

Did it make him or Josie feel better?

I'll leave them to answer that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Somebody said she was possibly a "fat old slag with STDs" well, it doesnt take Sherlock Holmes to look up her profile and see that she isn't. Quite honestly, if a young beauty like Josie has trouble attracting guys on here then I dont think us fat old 'uns have much chance.

You beautiful as well hun don't put yourself down

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

And now I wish I hadn't read this thread. I too, was compelled to look up her profile and what I saw was a very young looking "19" year old.

Even one to one, there is no way I'd meet her, because apart from anything else, I doubt her age, she looks younger.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I think the real title of this thread should be "52 year old man fails to pimp out barely 19 year old (almost) child for gang fuck"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How much were you asking for this gang bang?"
£3.50 each its an economy GB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always a fan of sweeping generalisations. It's what makes the world go round after all.

Like with anything it takes time and patience for it to be successful. Apart from the limited amount of information given, I have no idea if you looked at their verifications or how long you'd been talking to these men for.

Sure not everyone is going to be genuine, not everyone is going to be able to perform on the night and others might not feel comfortable in the situation they're in and not want to go any further (completely in their right to say no and walk a way).

Anyway, what's wrong with men on fab? I don't know, maybe the same thing with any group of people you decide to rant about really.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

And now I wish I hadn't read this thread. I too, was compelled to look up her profile and what I saw was a very young looking "19" year old.

Even one to one, there is no way I'd meet her, because apart from anything else, I doubt her age, she looks younger. "

disappointed it took till this post for someone to point this out. Totally agree and probably why the guys that did turn up left

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"I think the real title of this thread should be "52 year old man fails to pimp out barely 19 year old (almost) child for gang fuck""

Glad I wasn't the only one thinking that. Just wasn't sure how to say it.

Unbelievable. I'm just hoping all the men that didn't turn up realised and decided to stay away.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she looks underage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the real title of this thread should be "52 year old man fails to pimp out barely 19 year old (almost) child for gang fuck""

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And this thread basically covers all that is quite wrong and dysfunctional about the majority who frequent Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The problem with the site is that you can verify but you can't do a bad verification or name and shame.

if there was some type of star rating for people on the site like Amazon has it would give additional info the verifications don't.

It's much easier to arrange a social first and then a GB with the people the women liked from the social afterwards.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"The problem with the site is that you can verify but you can't do a bad verification or name and shame.

if there was some type of star rating for people on the site like Amazon has it would give additional info the verifications don't.

It's much easier to arrange a social first and then a GB with the people the women liked from the social afterwards.

Of course you can write a bad verification and long as you weren't a dick about it but the recipient would most likely Not show it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the real title of this thread should be "52 year old man fails to pimp out barely 19 year old (almost) child for gang fuck"

I'll give this post a Thousand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How much were you asking for this gang bang?"

This question is bound to have you reprimanded by Admin...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's par for the course on fab...Timewasters

Doesn't surprise me at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the real title of this thread should be "52 year old man fails to pimp out barely 19 year old (almost) child for gang fuck"

Glad I wasn't the only one thinking that. Just wasn't sure how to say it.

Unbelievable. I'm just hoping all the men that didn't turn up realised and decided to stay away.

V x "

See how this thread got turned on it's head? From a rant against men ( all men in general or all on Fab at least) to saluting those 15 men. Well done boys! You are real men! Don't let your dicks lead your brains!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem with the site is that you can verify but you can't do a bad verification or name and shame.

if there was some type of star rating for people on the site like Amazon has it would give additional info the verifications don't.

It's much easier to arrange a social first and then a GB with the people the women liked from the social afterwards.

Of course you can write a bad verification and long as you weren't a dick about it but the recipient would most likely Not show it "

That's why I suggested a star system as well as the verifications.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The OP posted a valid rant and somehow got turned into the bad guy? This site...

I was shagging my way round Leicester when I was 18, and round York when I was 19. Being young does not mean someone is being coerced into sex. The lady in question has multiple verifications and it looks like she is pretty much in control. Having a responsible guy managing a GB is pretty much standard advice when anyone posts on here about arranging one. So how come he is now a dirty old perv whereas when I shag 19 year old guys its high fives all round?

As I said, this site...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem with the site is that you can verify but you can't do a bad verification or name and shame.

if there was some type of star rating for people on the site like Amazon has it would give additional info the verifications don't.

It's much easier to arrange a social first and then a GB with the people the women liked from the social afterwards.

Of course you can write a bad verification and long as you weren't a dick about it but the recipient would most likely Not show it

That's why I suggested a star system as well as the verifications."

We started and suggested on a thread some possible way to rate people and/or for them to have stats (a commit to meet option, did they meet etc..) but got shot down in flames about the idea.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"The OP posted a valid rant and somehow got turned into the bad guy? This site...

As I said, this site...

1. She doesn't even look 19

2. Like you I was also very active very young, but I did my own thing. Personally a guy in his 50s arranging parties of men for young ladies of this age / maybe younger I find unsavoury.

And as a younger less experienced girl, if she took fright the OPs in a whole heap of trouble.

3. If all was well with OP and young girl, why did two guys that did turn up do a runner ? Clearly all was not well, so yes good for the guys leaving and not going through with it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The OP posted a valid rant and somehow got turned into the bad guy? This site...

As I said, this site...

1. She doesn't even look 19

2. Like you I was also very active very young, but I did my own thing. Personally a guy in his 50s arranging parties of men for young ladies of this age / maybe younger I find unsavoury.

And as a younger less experienced girl, if she took fright the OPs in a whole heap of trouble.

3. If all was well with OP and young girl, why did two guys that did turn up do a runner ? Clearly all was not well, so yes good for the guys leaving and not going through with it. "

Maybe you're right, in which case, I'm wrong. But I have arranged and partaken of many GBs, and there's always one or two runners. It's more likely that they were expecting to be part of a large group and backed out when they realised they were going to have to do all the work.

I started swinging 20 years ago before the internet, and was guided into clubs and dogging by a 65 year old man. I appreciated it a lot.

I agree, she looks very young for her age, but the verifications state that she's a willing participant. Obviously, without her input on this thread none of us can be certain, but why attack the OP? He's made a valid post, yet is now practically a criminal in the eyes of this site.

The stories and fantasies forum is full of posts from guys posting about shagging their 19 year old neighbours, step daughters, and daughters friends, without a sniff of condemnation. But because someone has decided the OP is grooming without evidence (the GB didn't happen, after all) then all hell breaks loose.

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By *inkerbell67Woman over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Maybe it was her age that put them off ,they may prefer a older lady with experience not a young girl who should be out with her friends enjoying the last of her youth ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem with the site is that you can verify but you can't do a bad verification or name and shame.

if there was some type of star rating for people on the site like Amazon has it would give additional info the verifications don't.

It's much easier to arrange a social first and then a GB with the people the women liked from the social afterwards.

Of course you can write a bad verification and long as you weren't a dick about it but the recipient would most likely Not show it

That's why I suggested a star system as well as the verifications.

We started and suggested on a thread some possible way to rate people and/or for them to have stats (a commit to meet option, did they meet etc..) but got shot down in flames about the idea."

You can report no shows to Admin. But you can't compel anyone to fuck simply because he turned up at your door.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Ok here's the thing .

The young lady is the age she says she is . Fact .

There are mitigating circumstances leading to her wanting an arranged gangbang . She can't go dogging which was one of her favourite choices until recently .

A guy of 52 is perfectly ok to arrange / meet or anything else with a 19 year old . Infact with his experience I would say she was in safe hands for this type of activity .

Many 19 year old young women are shagging multiple guys every weekend , and have little or no back up . At least she is being sensible by having safety in mind .

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Ok here's the thing .

The young lady is the age she says she is . Fact .

There are mitigating circumstances leading to her wanting an arranged gangbang . She can't go dogging which was one of her favourite choices until recently .

A guy of 52 is perfectly ok to arrange / meet or anything else with a 19 year old . Infact with his experience I would say she was in safe hands for this type of activity .

Many 19 year old young women are shagging multiple guys every weekend , and have little or no back up . At least she is being sensible by having safety in mind ."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once drove a round trip of 120 miles to meet up for a gb and they never turned up, annoys me the men bashers on here.

I've never ever let anyone down on a meet but had two on shows..... just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the real title of this thread should be "52 year old man fails to pimp out barely 19 year old (almost) child for gang fuck""

At 19 your not almost a child! For god sake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the real title of this thread should be "52 year old man fails to pimp out barely 19 year old (almost) child for gang fuck""

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's an adult woman ffs. Over 18 .

She has been to clubs so would have shown legal ID.

As for looking underage. Don't see it myself. Would put the lady around 20 .

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

If you've blocked him you shouldn't be using the forums to get around that block by sending replies such as this, 'tis against the rules "

Anyone can reply to a post whether you are blocked or not.Most of us wouldn't even know if people have blocked us anyway.

The rule is you can't ask them to unblock/ take their filters off/ put them on the spot by asking them why they have blocked you etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ditto! Been there, done that. You need to build up a circle of trustworthy reliable guys.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

disappointed it took till this post for someone to point this out. Totally agree and probably why the guys that did turn up left

I have got to this point without looking at the persons profile. Looks like a lot of other people did too. I am not sure why thats disappointing

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

19 is not a child and is also overage to join the site. However, if you think she looks young you are best reporting it so Admin can take a look.

As the poor girls profile is being discussed now then I am going to shut this.

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