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over a year ago
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
That many...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
It's not picky at all, I think it's the nature of the site to be honest, there's plenty of people that by their profile, we wouldn't consider meeting at all, but face to face at a club is a different story.
Pretty much why we generally only meet people at the club and don't bother arranging meets on here. |
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim  |
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??
With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim "
Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!
It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ?? |
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
awwwww why not 13 then unlucky for some  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??
With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim
Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!
It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ?? "
If he says Janine Lindemulder, I'm gonna cut him! |
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??
With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim
Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!
It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ??
If he says Janine Lindemulder, I'm gonna cut him! "
Sharings caring haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??
With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim
Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!
It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ?? "
he loves tribbers |
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??
With respect, I seriously doubt you've viewed every single woman on this site to make such a claim
Haha Jesus I'm more straight than bi but there is definately more than 11 females on here that are super hot !!!
It's making me wonder what type he actually likes ?? he loves tribbers "
Haha touché |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at. |
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"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at."
Tbf OP I rarely see someone I really fancy and prefer to actually meet someone in a club as for me it can be many things that make me want to get naughty with someone ... and those things can't always be seen at the end of a camera or keyboard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at."
Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.
Tbf OP I rarely see someone I really fancy and prefer to actually meet someone in a club as for me it can be many things that make me want to get naughty with someone ... and those things can't always be seen at the end of a camera or keyboard "
so true I love fibbers to ......I mean tribbers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.
Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy "
Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
That's about 10 more than me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you can be too picky. If for instance you discount a person because they have a name you don't like or drive a red car. However on the important things no, you can movers be too picky."
I would discount a person on the basis of the name they have chosen. Says a lot about a person, especially if they have chosen 'anal destroyer' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you can be too picky. If for instance you discount a person because they have a name you don't like or drive a red car. However on the important things no, you can movers be too picky.
I would discount a person on the basis of the name they have chosen. Says a lot about a person, especially if they have chosen 'anal destroyer' "
I would discount someone also on their user name, #pussypounder etc nahhhhh pass thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you messaged the said 11?"
I've met 3, I chat with 5 of them, perve at 2 and 1 I don't want to blow it with so I'm choosing my time wisely to follow up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you messaged the said 11?
I've met 3, I chat with 5 of them, perve at 2 and 1 I don't want to blow it with so I'm choosing my time wisely to follow up."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With 26000 users...... what would make you think your overly picky!!  "
There's nowhere near 11 on here I would meet sexually.
Picky and proud!
I also like a guy who has high standards and wouldn't shag just anyone just because he was horny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can't be to picky ....but just because you chat with someone here doesn't mean your going to fuck them ....picky for sex yes ...but for friendship and a giggle not so picky unless they prove to be a dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.
Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy
Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet?"
Awww bless ya, look at you with the insults
Oh, I didn't say I'd literally cut them
Don't you worry about who I meet and don't meet petal  |
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"100% picky here.
If you're not what we like then why would we??"
Picky isn't just about looks either.
A message can say a lot about the person sending it along with what they have in their Veri's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"100% picky here.
If you're not what we like then why would we??
Picky isn't just about looks either.
A message can say a lot about the person sending it along with what they have in their Veri's."
Looks can often be deceiving... put it lower on the list I say.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??
I don't handle rejection too well "
no I'm sorry your breasts are so gorgeous I dont think I could handle them without disturbing furniture |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??
I don't handle rejection too well "
no I'm sorry your breasts are so gorgeous I dont think I could handle them without disturbing furniture |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??
I don't handle rejection too well "
no I'm sorry your breasts are so gorgeous I dont think I could handle them without disturbing furniture |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you can be too picky. If for instance you discount a person because they have a name you don't like or drive a red car. However on the important things no, you can movers be too picky.
I would discount a person on the basis of the name they have chosen. Says a lot about a person, especially if they have chosen 'anal destroyer'
I would discount someone also on their user name, #pussypounder etc nahhhhh pass thanks "
I'm so glad I didn't go with my first choice name of StormageddonAnalDepthChargeMcThruster |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.
Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy
Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet?
Awww bless ya, look at you with the insults
Oh, I didn't say I'd literally cut them
Don't you worry about who I meet and don't meet petal "
Ok...shush now, grown ups are talking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The issue is some people on here are not picky at all. Who wants to shag somoeone that's been with everyone! I set high standards and expect any lady I'm with to have high standards. I may not get Many meets but I can assure you they are quality meets  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"would say there's nothing wrong with being picky but i've got to a point now where i don't find anyone attractive. that's probably too picky."
This is what I'm worried about, I just presume things by reading between the lines and cross them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"would say there's nothing wrong with being picky but i've got to a point now where i don't find anyone attractive. that's probably too picky.
This is what I'm worried about, I just presume things by reading between the lines and cross them off"
Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks- does it bother you?
I only have 2 people I'd meet off here. Any little thing puts me off. People would call me frigid no doubt and I couldn't give a shit. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"would say there's nothing wrong with being picky but i've got to a point now where i don't find anyone attractive. that's probably too picky.
This is what I'm worried about, I just presume things by reading between the lines and cross them off"
think it just happens. you spend you time experimenting and then just don't really find what you actually want and start ruling people out for the most stupid of reasons, or your standards go too high coz i think deep down you know what you want isn't on here (this is what happened with me anyway). |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Picky, no.
What's the point in building a dynamic that's not right, 90% of thre fun, to me, is fancying the pants off someone, and the anticipation of what will happen, then playing with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only play with the guys I connect with. I don't know if that's picky or not. That being said we only play with a few guys, but that's due to time constraints more than pickiness. There are probably plenty of guys on Fab I could have some fun with, but I'll never know because sadly we don't have time to find out.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Really think looking on here and being picky, kinda defeats the object of swinging, we are a little picky for the first meet and then very picky for subsequent meets i.e. They look fun and nice let's play and if that's great let's play again, if the plays not great then thanks but not again, so our analysis comes after the first play not before, so OP open your mind, don't prejudge, meet some people, some of them may blow your mind...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
no it not because everyone on this site is too picky when it comes to making friends |
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"I don't have a 'type' I have a series of qualities that I look for, they can be found in many ages, shapes and sizes. And you're, right captain literal I haven't viewed every woman in the site, but I've had a good browse in my area and that's what I'm looking at.
Don't try and be a smart arse, your OP states there's literally 11 people on this whole site you fancy
Oh dear we have a badass in the room...it's you being a smartarse doof! if we are taking everything literal, your comment about threatening to "cut someone" for liking a person could scare the shit out of a potential meet?
Awww bless ya, look at you with the insults
Oh, I didn't say I'd literally cut them
Don't you worry about who I meet and don't meet petal
Ok...shush now, grown ups are talking."
Pulls up a chair, reaches for the popcorn..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you could let me know if I'm in your special 11??
I don't handle rejection too well "
FFS I need to know, am I one of the chosen 11??
Got a feeling I'm not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky?? no it not because everyone on this site is too picky when it comes to making friends as for those who say they not picky they are not telling the truth "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
Yep. I want a local woman to meet. If I was less picky and would settle for one offs with men in Scotland I'd be sorted. |
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It always amuses me when people on here put themselves on a pedestal to announce how picky they are.
Define picky.
I have preferences. Brad Pitt wouldn't get a look in but Tommy Lee Jones would. Does that mean I'm not picky or have different tastes?
We're on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers...I'm sure all our family and friends would class us as picky!
Some people need to get over themselves! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It always amuses me when people on here put themselves on a pedestal to announce how picky they are.
Define picky.
I have preferences. Brad Pitt wouldn't get a look in but Tommy Lee Jones would. Does that mean I'm not picky or have different tastes?
We're on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers...I'm sure all our family and friends would class us as picky!
Some people need to get over themselves! "
trawling .......net out picking up anything that moves ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It always amuses me when people on here put themselves on a pedestal to announce how picky they are.
Define picky.
I have preferences. Brad Pitt wouldn't get a look in but Tommy Lee Jones would. Does that mean I'm not picky or have different tastes?
We're on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers...I'm sure all our family and friends would class us as picky!
Some people need to get over themselves! "
That's where we slightly differ. I'm not "trawling" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky?? no it not because everyone on this site is too picky when it comes to making friends"
That's not true. A lot of people don't have time to play very much, and in the time they do have for the lifestyle they already have enough friends. As I said in my earlier post, our limited amount of meets are due to time constraints not pickiness. But if all our friends on the swing scene disappeared we would start meeting new people again. And we would meet the ones that we liked best. But I would hardly say that meeting the ones we like best is picky. Surely everyone will go for their favourite?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really think looking on here and being picky, kinda defeats the object of swinging, we are a little picky for the first meet and then very picky for subsequent meets i.e. They look fun and nice let's play and if that's great let's play again, if the plays not great then thanks but not again, so our analysis comes after the first play not before, so OP open your mind, don't prejudge, meet some people, some of them may blow your mind...... "
I would agree with that. If the fun dries up from the chosen few, it might be worth giving someone else a chance. It's very hard to make a judgement on just from a Fab profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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old saying is you don't have to have to look at the mantel piece to poke the fire,
Of course you have the right to be picky what's the point in doing something if your not going to enjoy it |
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"old saying is you don't have to have to look at the mantel piece to poke the fire,
Of course you have the right to be picky what's the point in doing something if your not going to enjoy it "
Lots on here don't know what a mantel piece is LOL. |
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??"
It's preference not picky x |
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"I know what I like, and so far there's literally 11 people on this whole site I would want to get it on with...
Is that being too picky??
It's not picky at all, I think it's the nature of the site to be honest, there's plenty of people that by their profile, we wouldn't consider meeting at all, but face to face at a club is a different story.
Pretty much why we generally only meet people at the club and don't bother arranging meets on here."
I have found that. Messaged some people and been ignored but when they met me they changed their minds. I even ended up dating one woman off her who ignored my message lol |
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We prefer socials and clubs ,as it can be quite frustrating when there are no pics of both parties on many profiles.I wont even consider a profile with no pics of the Mr,so i feel sorry for Jack lol.Saying that he has my full permission to meet alone ,as its rare to find couples that we both fancy and click with.
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