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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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Am I being unreasonable, we have had a few mmmf sessions recently and past but now mr is saying no more until he gets at least ffm, I think we should still do mmf or more  until we find a female to play with us... am i being selfish, I know he enjoys it as much as me.. just being stubborn i think.. lol. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable   Oi ain't helping my course.."
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I being unreasonable, we have had a few mmmf sessions recently and past but now mr is saying no more until he gets at least ffm, I think we should still do mmf or more until we find a female to play with us... am i being selfish, I know he enjoys it as much as me.. just being stubborn i think.. lol. Xx"
Well perhaps if you continue them one of the MMMM F, may be able to suggest a potential F for the FFM, seems logical.  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable Oi ain't helping my course..
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that "
Exactly this, swinging should work both ways! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on what you both agreed to before you started. My wife and I agreed that we only wanted a mmf and she said she didn't know how she would react seeing me with another woman. If now I decided that it was only fair for me to fuck another woman because she has had other men then I would be the selfish one not her if she said no |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Am I being unreasonable, we have had a few mmmf sessions recently and past but now mr is saying no more until he gets at least ffm, I think we should still do mmf or more until we find a female to play with us... am i being selfish, I know he enjoys it as much as me.. just being stubborn i think.. lol. Xx
Well perhaps if you continue them one of the MMMM F, may be able to suggest a potential F for the FFM, seems logical. "
yes not a bad idea  |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It all depends on what you both agreed to before you started. My wife and I agreed that we only wanted a mmf and she said she didn't know how she would react seeing me with another woman. If now I decided that it was only fair for me to fuck another woman because she has had other men then I would be the selfish one not her if she said no "
we only had a few rules.. but they kinda got left behind when we started enjoying ourselves more.. and i do like being centre of attention, and willing to share him. Maybe once lol.
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable Oi ain't helping my course..
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that
Exactly this, swinging should work both ways!"
 I know I'm just greedy xx |
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"It all depends on what you both agreed to before you started. My wife and I agreed that we only wanted a mmf and she said she didn't know how she would react seeing me with another woman. If now I decided that it was only fair for me to fuck another woman because she has had other men then I would be the selfish one not her if she said no "
Same for us ! I've never wanted to see him with another woman but it's Inkeds turn on to see me with another guy
To change the rules without both wanting to would be selfish on one part |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable Oi ain't helping my course..
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that
Exactly this, swinging should work both ways! I know I'm just greedy xx"
Or as you suggested, selfish. |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable Oi ain't helping my course..
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that
Exactly this, swinging should work both ways! I know I'm just greedy xx
Or as you suggested, selfish. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable Oi ain't helping my course..
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that
Exactly this, swinging should work both ways! I know I'm just greedy xx
Or as you suggested, selfish. "
True or not? |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Think its very selfish your getting what you want. Then start a thread on the forums expecting everyone to be on your side. "
it's a bit of tongue and cheek, we don't take it too seriously. Xx
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
Stevenage |
"His request doesn't seem unreasonable Oi ain't helping my course..
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that
Exactly this, swinging should work both ways! I know I'm just greedy xx
Or as you suggested, selfish.
True or not? "
no just greedy, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable Oi ain't helping my course..
I'm not trying to, it seems you're having plenty of what you enjoy, now he's looking to restore a little balance by having his turn
I'm also not suggesting he doesnt enjoy the MMMFs but maybe he would like to be the centre of attention for a change.
It does appear you might be a touch selfish if you hadn't thought about that
Exactly this, swinging should work both ways! I know I'm just greedy xx
Or as you suggested, selfish.
True or not? no just greedy, "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's interesting that most of the people that say you are selfish are the single men and women where as the couples don't see it as so black and white.
I don't think it matters what anyone else thinks apart from you and your hubby. The wife and I have always said that if one of us has a problem with whatever we do then we will stop. We enjoy what we do but we don't need this and would certainly never let this affect of relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were closer I'd be your chaps F  wow, i would swap being greedy if you joined us.. he will be wanting to move to Plymouth now xx"
Well if you ever fancy a trip down south...
Love your pics! Look like a fun couple x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you are bisexual so why not have a FFM or maybe MFMF can't see why you want more MMMMF etc unless the buzz is being the centre of attention? How about mixing it up a bit? |
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"If you were closer I'd be your chaps F wow, i would swap being greedy if you joined us.. he will be wanting to move to Plymouth now xx
Well if you ever fancy a trip down south...
Love your pics! Look like a fun couple x"
Distance is only a matter of time and motivation and you certainly cover the latter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were closer I'd be your chaps F
I'm sure he would travel for you, get Pol to ask him and everyone's a winner!  "
I've a feeling we could sort a mfmf here ya know   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were closer I'd be your chaps F wow, i would swap being greedy if you joined us.. he will be wanting to move to Plymouth now xx
Well if you ever fancy a trip down south...
Love your pics! Look like a fun couple x
Distance is only a matter of time and motivation and you certainly cover the latter "
That gives me more confidence in my ploy to find my own man on fab. I often think distance is a problem but to be honest, Plymouth is pretty pants on the decent man front.
Sorry OP. I'm not high-jacking! |
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"If you were closer I'd be your chaps F
I'm sure he would travel for you, get Pol to ask him and everyone's a winner!
I've a feeling we could sort a mfmf here ya know "
With a little bit of planning, would be honoured to be your wingman BabyG  |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It's interesting that most of the people that say you are selfish are the single men and women where as the couples don't see it as so black and white.
I don't think it matters what anyone else thinks apart from you and your hubby. The wife and I have always said that if one of us has a problem with whatever we do then we will stop. We enjoy what we do but we don't need this and would certainly never let this affect of relationship"
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If you were closer I'd be your chaps F wow, i would swap being greedy if you joined us.. he will be wanting to move to Plymouth now xx
Well if you ever fancy a trip down south...
Love your pics! Look like a fun couple x"
we like to have as much fun as we can and you look amazing too thank you xx |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"OP you are bisexual so why not have a FFM or maybe MFMF can't see why you want more MMMMF etc unless the buzz is being the centre of attention? How about mixing it up a bit? "
yeah we still meet cpls and we will still have fun but he said we can't meet anymore guys until we meet another fem, I'm ok with it honestly though, just a bit of light humour, you know as a cpl you have these jokey chats .. was just sharing it. I'm a greedy girl but not selfish xx |
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"OP you are bisexual so why not have a FFM or maybe MFMF can't see why you want more MMMMF etc unless the buzz is being the centre of attention? How about mixing it up a bit? yeah we still meet cpls and we will still have fun but he said we can't meet anymore guys until we meet another fem, I'm ok with it honestly though, just a bit of light humour, you know as a cpl you have these jokey chats .. was just sharing it. I'm a greedy girl but not selfish xx"
still think Jenga Sex party is a goer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable "
have to agree with this. I am very reluctant to play at present because its been ages since Mr has had any proper time with another lady.... so i can well understand the partner in the op |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If you were closer I'd be your chaps F wow, i would swap being greedy if you joined us.. he will be wanting to move to Plymouth now xx
Well if you ever fancy a trip down south...
Love your pics! Look like a fun couple x
Distance is only a matter of time and motivation and you certainly cover the latter
That gives me more confidence in my ploy to find my own man on fab. I often think distance is a problem but to be honest, Plymouth is pretty pants on the decent man front.
Sorry OP. I'm not high-jacking! "
jack away xx |
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By *ampol OP Couple
over a year ago
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"His request doesn't seem unreasonable have to agree with this. I am very reluctant to play at present because its been ages since Mr has had any proper time with another lady.... so i can well understand the partner in the op"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I being unreasonable, we have had a few mmmf sessions recently and past but now mr is saying no more until he gets at least ffm, I think we should still do mmf or more until we find a female to play with us... am i being selfish, I know he enjoys it as much as me.. just being stubborn i think.. lol. Xx"
no youre not because finding that female may take a long time or maybe that's his reasoning !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We can all be selfish but being over selfish ain't good. I think the female OP should balance the books because it's the latter."
Swinging should be a two way street... You should both be getting what you want from it.
I agree with ground rules, but they should be loose to start with as you are constantly evolving. You may not think you want something at the start but this can change...
There are 2 main rules for me. They are honesty and communication at all times. Everything else is a discussion between the two of you at the relevant point |
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