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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
Moans like this will probably push your innacurate figures from 2 to 0 |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Have you sent a thousand messages? "
So has he had 100 replies to the 1000 he's sent? I didn't think that many people replied according to all the threads that complain about getting no replies? I'm seriously confused now!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that staying to get laid and having fun, fantasy fulfilment and enjoying the thrill of other people's minds and bodies is a fair reason to stay.
If you make friends and long term relationships out of it then great but that's not what some guys want . As long as you are clear on what you want from here then everyone has a right to be here |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
Do you find it hard to sit down after pulling those figures out...  |
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends.
Do you find it hard to sit down after pulling those figures out... "
Do you concur with these figures or are your hit rates slightly better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you sent a thousand messages?
I'm concerned this will lead to a deluge of guys sending a thousand messages now to get their two meets  "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never sent a thousand messages, I've had my fair share of meets
I'd suggest sending "fancy a fuck?" may not be the most eloquent way to entice the opposite sex into letting you stick your cock in their fancy.
Saying that 2 out 1000 with that line ain't bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
Where did you get those statistics from?? |
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"I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far ."
huh. So how come your stats are better then |
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"I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far .And not one of the 4 verified you?"
Busted 
I remember your profile now OP. You've had offers though haven't you. Look hang around a few more months and you'll soon be in the ghey groove and can accept those invites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far ."
Interested to know where you "found" these figures ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These figures seem to be from the Institute of Made up Stuff.
Your numbers don't fit with my experience of fab. Maybe it's your messages that have this effect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My own figures suggest that 9/10 women would fight eachother with sticks just to sit on my lap.
These are real figures that I saw somewhere or other. Honest.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far .
huh. So how come your stats are better then "
people pull stats out of thin air |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you sent a thousand messages?
I'm concerned this will lead to a deluge of guys sending a thousand messages now to get their two meets "
I may send 5 mails a week I may send a maximum of about 20, I might send none, I have had around 20-30 meets from this site and my messages directly and I am not blessed with an elongated frame like some others so that fucks up your numbers homie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
ha and where did you get this priceless information ? I'm leaving tomorrow based on these stats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in a challenging market competing with not some the finest equipment yet I'm still pulling in more than your numbers, I think you just made the whole bullshit up, where's the studies done? Fabuniversity by Ben dover |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
No idea where the fuck youre getting those stats from.
I'd say on average for me about 8/10 first messages get a reply.
But i rarely send the first message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to know where you found those stats and why they're more reliable than your own personal (unverified) stats.
In fact it often makes me laugh when people comment things like "It takes the average guy 6 mths to get a meet" like any worthwhile research has been done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far ."
So that's odds of 2/125 not 2/1000... Bit of a difference there to your original "statistics". |
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"Have you sent a thousand messages?
I'm concerned this will lead to a deluge of guys sending a thousand messages now to get their two meets "
Reminds me of the football analyst who came up with the idea you needed 9 shots to get a goal. So the team basically started shooting from anywhere in the oppositions half |
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends.
No idea where the fuck youre getting those stats from.
I'd say on average for me about 8/10 first messages get a reply.
But i rarely send the first message.
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Because you are a sexy bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far .And not one of the 4 verified you?"
I've met lots of men who haven't verified me and vice versa. The last man I met hasn't any verifications and didn't want one.
Maybe he's ashamed of me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you sent a thousand messages?
I'm concerned this will lead to a deluge of guys sending a thousand messages now to get their two meets
Reminds me of the football analyst who came up with the idea you needed 9 shots to get a goal. So the team basically started shooting from anywhere in the oppositions half "
Did they win? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would imagine that some guys do send hundreds if not thousands of messages with little return. But other guys send a few messages to carefully selected profiles and have a high return. And there will be guys who don't need to send messages because they are the ones in receipt of messages. The guys we meet seem to do ok. But there are men here that I do wonder why they bother.
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends.
Do you find it hard to sit down after pulling those figures out...
Do you concur with these figures or are your hit rates slightly better "
I don't use this site the way the op (and maybe others) does (do). Neither do I get the same results. I should probably start a whole new thread on that. |
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"Have you sent a thousand messages?
I'm concerned this will lead to a deluge of guys sending a thousand messages now to get their two meets
Reminds me of the football analyst who came up with the idea you needed 9 shots to get a goal. So the team basically started shooting from anywhere in the oppositions half
Did they win?"
Nope, they did very badly. Statistically in-swinging corners are more likely to score than out-swinging corners but many managers still prefer out swinging ones because they look better when they do score. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
Your statistics will only be valid if you put FACT! in capital letters after them...everybody knows that, FACT! |
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends.
Your statistics will only be valid if you put FACT! in capital letters after them...everybody knows that, FACT!"
No, you need to put 'end of' afterwards. All the best debaters know that's how you win an arguement on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends.
No idea where the fuck youre getting those stats from.
I'd say on average for me about 8/10 first messages get a reply.
But i rarely send the first message.
Because you are a sexy bitch "
Im also a massive lush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm awful at messaging people online as I can't do flirting and/or interesting.
Found going to clubs helps more as i come across as an actual normal human being in real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
It's not all about messages though. They aren't the only way to get meets. |
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Seeing as we're doing stats tonight out of every 100 messages a woman gets maybe 10 might be of interest.
Of those 10 only 2 will be guys who are actually meeters and aren't just looking to chat endlessly or gather pics.
Of the 2 men you meet .5 of them will be worth seeing again |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Seeing as we're doing stats tonight out of every 100 messages a woman gets maybe 10 might be of interest.
Of those 10 only 2 will be guys who are actually meeters and aren't just looking to chat endlessly or gather pics.
Of the 2 men you meet .5 of them will be worth seeing again "
I think your figures are a tad optimistic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
I haven't sent anywhere near 10% of this numbers and have had more than 2 meets. In fact, even though I've been turned down on many instances, there have been half that when I was the one to reject a meet.
OP, wrong statistics, mate. |
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"Seeing as we're doing stats tonight out of every 100 messages a woman gets maybe 10 might be of interest.
Of those 10 only 2 will be guys who are actually meeters and aren't just looking to chat endlessly or gather pics.
Of the 2 men you meet .5 of them will be worth seeing again
I think your figures are a tad optimistic."
Perhaps if I factor in organised socials? |
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"I haven't sent anywhere near 10% of this numbers and have had more than 2 meets. In fact, even though I've been turned down on many instances, there have been half that when I was the one to reject a meet.
OP, wrong statistics, mate. "
I quite like your statistics  |
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"I would like to point out that these are figures I have found , they do not apply to myself. I have exchanged under 250 messages and have had 4 meets so far ."
So you've kept count of how many messages you've sent? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Seeing as we're doing stats tonight out of every 100 messages a woman gets maybe 10 might be of interest.
Of those 10 only 2 will be guys who are actually meeters and aren't just looking to chat endlessly or gather pics.
Of the 2 men you meet .5 of them will be worth seeing again
I think your figures are a tad optimistic.
Perhaps if I factor in organised socials? "
I have to say, out of 100 meets, I am lucky if I get a meeter. |
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"I'm assuming those 1000 messages are those lovely copy and paste ones that we love to receive
My favourite  "
Exactly.
Surely anyone would realise something needs changing if they're sending a thousand messages and not getting a response..? |
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Ive met a grand total of 2 women off here in however many years with varying degrees of effort, both where social.
2nd one said I was the nicest one and the only one to ask what her disability was.
If you Include all messages (conversation ones too) then he may not be far off |
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"This is more for single guys but assuming you are attractive, component, and have a well written profile the following numbers apply.
Out of 1000 messages roughly only 100 will see reply's and then only 2 of those will actually be interested. So out 1000 messages you can expect 2 meets.
Going on that it is no surprise single males will struggle. On this basis if your here to just get laid. LEAVE you are wasting your own and others time. It would be better spent elsewhere.
Stay for the community and friends."
What utter tosh 
when I was a single guy on here I could arrange at least one meet every week
Yes it takes work but by careful research of profiles and good messages I proved it was possible.
So instead of blaming the numbers try looking at your own methods |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't be the only one who doesn't think it's hard to find people? Finding the right people is tougher, but I'm aware that's probably less of a concern for those who are complaining about struggling... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Successful folk on here are not necessarily successful because they look like an extra from Baywatch.
It's because they exhibit patience, personality and have that je ne sais quoi that someone on here is looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm assuming those 1000 messages are those lovely copy and paste ones that we love to receive
My favourite "
Ha! Does that actually happen? I suppose copy and paste saves time, but I don't get why anyone needs to go crazy with bulk messaging.
Will be interesting to know if people had success with that!? They must get some replies...
And I was in another thread about limits on messaging. Soo many people do say they have ran out of messages... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Successful folk on here are not necessarily successful because they look like an extra from Baywatch.
It's because they exhibit patience, personality and have that je ne sais quoi that someone on here is looking for.
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^ This is a great post! ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The key for us in getting meets is to not waste much time on anyone who can't commit to a meet after a couple of days of chatting, if it's all "not sure when I'm free, very busy at the moment" blah blah blah we just move on, if we are excited enough to make time to meet, then if they are not as excited, then it wasn't meant to be...... |
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I think all of us genuine single guys realise that we vastly outnumber the ladies. But to reduce it to a numbers game is a little crass to say the least. You dont innundate all the ladies with message after message. I personally only send messages to ladies I feel I might have something in common with, and if I dont get a response or I get one and they dont like my message or picture then thats part of the dating game... At the end of the day fab is still a dating site albeit of a more sexual nature...or maybe that should be more of an open and honest nature than most. |
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