I would like to think I am polite and will message when it's a no thanks, someone asked advice I responded and they deleted my message. I then set a status saying about the lack of manners.
I have just received a shitty message from a girl I messaged 10 minutes after the status thinking it's about her calling me names.
If a guy does that he is made out to be the worst person in the world but it seems women on here get away with it. Is that fair? |
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over a year ago
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"Its more the principle, I'm not easily offended it's the fact she did and blocked so I couldn't respond.
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the simple answer is don't put up the status, then people will be less likely to accuse you of anything....
are you just annoyed she blocked you first? |
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"Its more the principle, I'm not easily offended it's the fact she did and blocked so I couldn't respond.
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why you wanna get into stupid arguments over the internet anyway, you really that bored?
do put statuses up. it's your profile and if she got paranoid about it that's her problem really.
although whinging statuses will likely put off any women you message when they see them. |
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i would not update staus from or after a message as the person may think its about them and get offended...
i find it bizarre and childish to update staus bar about others whether its good or bad.. i avoid the ones that brag about a meet on status bar... |
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"Not annoyed she blocked me, I just think it's a more common occurrence with some users on this site and despite reporting they seem to get away with it. "
but you were the one being petty by putting the status up in the first place...
if you don't want the hassle, don't post it |
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"Not annoyed she blocked me, I just think it's a more common occurrence with some users on this site and despite reporting they seem to get away with it. "
How do you know they get away with it, they may get a temporary message ban, you wouldn't know what action admin take. |
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"Not annoyed she blocked me, I just think it's a more common occurrence with some users on this site and despite reporting they seem to get away with it.
but you were the one being petty by putting the status up in the first place...
if you don't want the hassle, don't post it"
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The status was an observation not a moan or brag and was totally unrelated to her or anything in her messages.
The point is sending a shitty message seems to be a far to common and when it's a guy that does it everyone agrees he's wrong.
When a girl body shames a guy or degrades his sexuality why is that ok behaviour? |
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"The status was an observation not a moan or brag and was totally unrelated to her or anything in her messages.
The point is sending a shitty message seems to be a far to common and when it's a guy that does it everyone agrees he's wrong.
When a girl body shames a guy or degrades his sexuality why is that ok behaviour?"
Who says its ok? Abusive messages sent by anyone are not acceptable but all you can do is report and block. |
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"The status was an observation not a moan or brag and was totally unrelated to her or anything in her messages.
The point is sending a shitty message seems to be a far to common and when it's a guy that does it everyone agrees he's wrong.
When a girl body shames a guy or degrades his sexuality why is that ok behaviour?
Who says its ok? Abusive messages sent by anyone are not acceptable but all you can do is report and block."
It's the impression I have had from others, by your response I am glad to see it's not just me who thinks it's wrong.
Lesson learnt regarding status will just have to continue to report abusive people. |
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"The status was an observation not a moan or brag and was totally unrelated to her or anything in her messages.
The point is sending a shitty message seems to be a far to common and when it's a guy that does it everyone agrees he's wrong.
When a girl body shames a guy or degrades his sexuality why is that ok behaviour?
Who says its ok? Abusive messages sent by anyone are not acceptable but all you can do is report and block.
It's the impression I have had from others, by your response I am glad to see it's not just me who thinks it's wrong.
Lesson learnt regarding status will just have to continue to report abusive people. "
I doubt you'll get abuse if you stop posting negative updates, not saying its right that people send abuse on the back of them but it just encourages the bored trolls who have nothing better to do. |
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"The status was an observation not a moan or brag and was totally unrelated to her or anything in her messages.
The point is sending a shitty message seems to be a far to common and when it's a guy that does it everyone agrees he's wrong.
When a girl body shames a guy or degrades his sexuality why is that ok behaviour?
Who says its ok? Abusive messages sent by anyone are not acceptable but all you can do is report and block.
It's the impression I have had from others, by your response I am glad to see it's not just me who thinks it's wrong.
Lesson learnt regarding status will just have to continue to report abusive people.
I doubt you'll get abuse if you stop posting negative updates, not saying its right that people send abuse on the back of them but it just encourages the bored trolls who have nothing better to do."
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