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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, new to the scene so I'd like some advice please
I am a single male, but I'd like to visit a swingers club and experience more of what the scene can offer. But what do you Do?!? Are there any rules (bar the obvious respect and boundaries) that I need to know about? Any codes or anything similar to the ones used in dogging??
Sorry for the long post,
Thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most clubs have a page of rules on their website. There are some obviously ones, but unfortunately not all single guys realise such a thing...
I'm sure some couples and single ladies will chime in with their own 2 cents, just remember that not everyone is the same so respect each different dynamic. |
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I think forget your at a swinging club and imagine it a works do, polite chat not d*unk not too needy or try hard, we have met some great guys at clubs and some who are too d*unk and some who seem to ... "struggle" with the environment and are too keen let's say don't go to get laid go to make friends if that makes any sense at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drink too much, ignore people all night, then when they start playing gradually ease yourself in and start touching without asking, make sure you only say "you don't kiss" or whatever strange statement you want to come out with deep into the play, causing all parties to feel uncomfortable, once you're done, get up, get dressed and scuttle off without saying a word, the joys of open play areas eh? |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Hi, new to the scene so I'd like some advice please
I am a single male, but I'd like to visit a swingers club and experience more of what the scene can offer. But what do you Do?!? Are there any rules (bar the obvious respect and boundaries) that I need to know about? Any codes or anything similar to the ones used in dogging??
Sorry for the long post,
Thanks
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Hey well done for taking the plunge! I'm sure you'll have lots of fun after you research the club scene before you jump in.
I've sent you a link to the hints and tips page on the BMFC website that helped me LOTS before my first club trip. I still refer to it even though I've been to more than a few clubs in my time!
Feel free to ask about any details you're not sure about. Hope this helps! |
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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago
south west , continental |
Relax, enjoy, chat, use facilities if they have spa or sauna. Mingle like at a party, chat to everyone, manners, be polite. Don't get d*unk, don't be a dick head and don't follow like a lost sheep. If you strike a rapport with a lady or a couple you will know. |
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