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over a year ago
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I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him x |
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over a year ago
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I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then. |
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over a year ago
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then."
Pretty much this.
Don't be/play the victim just be ruthless sometimes its the only way.  |
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then."
I've tried that in a nice way a lot so yes block him i will have to do that eh x didnt like the idea of him wanting me to only wear what he brought me xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then.
Pretty much this.
Don't be/play the victim just be ruthless sometimes its the only way. "
just felt very uncomfortable today thou xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He'll get the hint well enough from doing that. Nobody is here to feel uncomfortable, you've got the tools to deal with it. Fingers crossed your fabbbng experience improves. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Block.
And if he sets up another profile after that, block.
Do not interact with him at all."
oh yes Deffo to block him and i will no if it's him as he old messages are wrote the same way thank you hun xx |
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then."
Yes pretty much the same. Any decent guy should take the hint, if not report to admin and they can block his account. Hope he leaves you alone. |
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"He'll get the hint well enough from doing that. Nobody is here to feel uncomfortable, you've got the tools to deal with it. Fingers crossed your fabbbng experience improves. "
oh yes I have been having a great time lately and I so don't want to feel uncomfortable any more xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him x"
just say youre with the vice squad and have his details  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then.
Yes pretty much the same. Any decent guy should take the hint, if not report to admin and they can block his account. Hope he leaves you alone."
thank you hun I really was kind to him but I've blocked now so fingers crossed he doesn't message again xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him xjust say youre with the vice squad and have his details "
hahah well I can say that really as he is high up in his job lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"dont be guilt tripped into meeting him because he has bought you stuff - "
oh my Deffo want hun I was kind saying i can't meet and that to him x. But as others have said block is best and that's what I've done now hun xx
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then.
Pretty much this.
Don't be/play the victim just be ruthless sometimes its the only way. "
This |
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over a year ago
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"Unfortunately polite and subtle don't always work on here so think you've done the sensible thing. "
oh yes he got 2 accounts on here and had to be the bigger person and block them both zx just hope he leaves it.at that now thou xxx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then.
Pretty much this.
Don't be/play the victim just be ruthless sometimes its the only way.
This "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then.
Pretty much this.
Don't be/play the victim just be ruthless sometimes its the only way.
This "
Sounds very creepy OP. Hopefully he'll see your thread and realize it's not nice what he is doing. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd keep it simple. Say 'no thanks, it's no longer what I'm looking for' and block him afterwards. You avoid the whining 'but why not' comeback messages then.
Pretty much this.
Don't be/play the victim just be ruthless sometimes its the only way.
This
Sounds very creepy OP. Hopefully he'll see your thread and realize it's not nice what he is doing. Good luck."
oh yes I've felt so uncomfortable today when he said he brought me underwear and boots stocking to put for him
Fingers crossed he doesn't have another account thou to message me now.xxx |
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over a year ago
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"Have you got the filter on that stops new members messaging? If he can't instantly message the wait might make him think. "
oh yes hun I've got all bits blocked hun xx
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him x"
Like everyone says block him, report him as he will come back with another profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him x
Like everyone says block him, report him as he will come back with another profile."
oh yes Deffo think he will make a new account to watch me feel very uncomfortable today about it all xx |
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him xjust say youre with the vice squad and have his details hahah well I can say that really as he is high up in his job lol
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well say it then scare living daylights out of him especially if jack Reagan goes round  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him xjust say youre with the vice squad and have his details hahah well I can say that really as he is high up in his job lol
well say it then scare living daylights out of him especially if jack Reagan goes round "
lol he would shit himself big time he is very high up.in his work but we all have jobs I no but he should no better really I Think what he has done today is not right at all x |
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"If someone makes you feel uncomfortable like that and then tries to get round blocks then it might be worth talking to the Police, or at least tell him that's what you're doing."
can i inbox you hun plz on this
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You said no the first time. This is no different. Your 46 years of age just say no thanks n move on x"
I totally agree, drama llama going on here. Sorry but just be an adult and be straight then just block delete and set filters. |
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"You said no the first time. This is no different. Your 46 years of age just say no thanks n move on x
I totally agree, drama llama going on here. Sorry but just be an adult and be straight then just block delete and set filters. "
all blocked now hun x |
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him xjust say youre with the vice squad and have his details hahah well I can say that really as he is high up in his job lol
well say it then scare living daylights out of him especially if jack Reagan goes round lol he would shit himself big time he is very high up.in his work but we all have jobs I no but he should no better really I Think what he has done today is not right at all x"
its not gentlemanly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have some trouble that I need help on . this guy I have meet him a few times in the past but last time I met him I felt uncomfortable and he left I did say sorry for it all but didn't want to be cuffed up really hmm .Well now he has a new account on here and he has messaged me saying he has brought me underwear and boots to wear for him I don't want to be mean to him but now I feel very uncomfortable what should I do to be as petite as i can and say no thanks to him xjust say youre with the vice squad and have his details hahah well I can say that really as he is high up in his job lol
well say it then scare living daylights out of him especially if jack Reagan goes round lol he would shit himself big time he is very high up.in his work but we all have jobs I no but he should no better really I Think what he has done today is not right at all xits not gentlemanly"
oh yes Deffo love I feel so uncomfortable about it all but hopefully he don't make another account and find me on here again xx |
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