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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks? |
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?"
all the good ones left and came on here! |
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?"
It got turned into a sex site... Had a nice date relationship of there once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we allowed to advertise other web sites....!"
I doubt it will make any difference. These are 2 different types of sites, I'm on POF as I was told it's called plenty of fucks, but nothing. With a view of a relationship I only met 1 person (who wasn't exactly truthful with her 4yr old pics) I messaged another who went into stalker mode within a week and all the pretty ones don't respond.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guessing the ratio of men to women was more inverted the other way as far more women seek relationships than men.
So the men who were having no luck on here and other sex sites due to either the numbers game or them being cheb ends flocked to POF and other dating sites to spin the odds in their favour, kind of like women who use Fab to look for relationships to try and beat the numbers game.
Ergo POF becomes more like a traditional sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be nice to have a decent dating site I'm going to be single forever at this rate 
Same  "
Im resigned to it already... and not all that upset by the idea if Im honest  |
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"It would be nice to have a decent dating site I'm going to be single forever at this rate
Same
Im resigned to it already... and not all that upset by the idea if Im honest "
Yeah I know what you mean,being single definitely has it's advantages. I can be an absolute slob at home without anyone moaning at me,no man to nag me,I can be lazy and unwashed if that's what I desire 
On the other hand I want someone to wake up with,to share problems with,to protect me,plan thing's with. Go for lazy sunny evening walk's,use and abuse me in a nice way
God damn it man where are you!  |
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"It would be nice to have a decent dating site I'm going to be single forever at this rate
Same
Im resigned to it already... and not all that upset by the idea if Im honest
Yeah I know what you mean,being single definitely has it's advantages. I can be an absolute slob at home without anyone moaning at me,no man to nag me,I can be lazy and unwashed if that's what I desire
On the other hand I want someone to wake up with,to share problems with,to protect me,plan thing's with. Go for lazy sunny evening walk's,use and abuse me in a nice way
God damn it man where are you! "
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i've noticed a change in how and what people approach you for online since i first started.
even on other fuck sites guys were keen to chat or be friends even if not wanting to meet you. hardly anyone tried the faf method on others sites.
none of them are dead though, or don't seem to be. plus with the weather being nice i'm guessing people are going outside more and this means less people online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?"
It's just like FAB and real life, plenty of idiots and plenty of good people.
I have had dates off both and no complaints from either site about people I have me. Personally I think FAB has gone worse then POF.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?"
well i tried every dating site without luck so it does seem dead dating sites
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it "
Ironically, I'd quite like a date |
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it
Ironically, I'd quite like a date "
To be far most guys on here do but it's generally referred to as a social |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it
Ironically, I'd quite like a date
To be far most guys on here do but it's generally referred to as a social "
I don't mean a social, I mean an actual date. |
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it
Ironically, I'd quite like a date
To be far most guys on here do but it's generally referred to as a social
I don't mean a social, I mean an actual date."
Sorry I was only teasing
Hope you find what you're looking for |
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it
Ironically, I'd quite like a date
To be far most guys on here do but it's generally referred to as a social
I don't mean a social, I mean an actual date."
Me too ! Its lovely outside ...balmy. Would be great to go for a dinner, walk along the river with a lovey lady. Fabbing is great - but a date on a lovely summers evening with a cute girl would be very nice indeed |
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Back when I was doing the online dating thing, I preferred OK Stupid to POF. It's easier to out the weirdos when they've answered hundreds of questions about themselves. On POF everyone has the same profile.
Despite that, I did meet some normal and nice people though. A couple of them I regret things didn't work out After being on there for a while, though, you realise it's always the same people.
Guess I'm destined to be Forever Alone too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it "
Absolutely!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?"
Tinder deffo. Cut to the chase, short profile, like or not.
PoF used to be people not prepared to pay. Match and other paid for services remains those looking for serious.
Tinder replaced PoF and all attractive people went there, but if you're not pretty enough for Tinder (1st rule of Tinder be attractive. 2nd rule of Tinder don't be unnactractive) you probably remain on PoF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pof is full of dirty old men and nutters ,and some are now on here lol "
So long as there are their female equivalent (the dirty cougar) on a site then I can't say I'd be totally put off... Though I'm not as interested in the nutters mind. |
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By *eppoMan
over a year ago
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"It would be nice to have a decent dating site I'm going to be single forever at this rate
Same
Im resigned to it already... and not all that upset by the idea if Im honest
Yeah I know what you mean,being single definitely has it's advantages. I can be an absolute slob at home without anyone moaning at me,no man to nag me,I can be lazy and unwashed if that's what I desire
On the other hand I want someone to wake up with,to share problems with,to protect me,plan thing's with. Go for lazy sunny evening walk's,use and abuse me in a nice way
God damn it man where are you! "
Hello I said ... hello
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By (user no longer on site)
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?
It got turned into a sex site... Had a nice date relationship of there once"
I think many conventional dating sites have morphed into sex sites! I honestly do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a lovely lady on POF in January 2012...We are friends. Foremost, we do engage in passion now and then. I do treat her well, I pay for everything. No not sex. I actually enjoy watching her with young fit men. We go to clubs as a couple.
POF. Great if your wise and a gent. Plenty of losers in life just some are on POF....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a girl on POF who was lovely, real girlfriend material. Made me wonder why on earth she was on there...POF definitely seemed to attract those who were really invested in it and thus often became a hotspot for those who were unable to meet people in the non virtual world. Tinder still seems to be a far more casual place with far more level headed people...but, in many ways they have also become a victim of their own successes.
Just like Fab...the sheer amount of users means the increased number of flakes/timewasters/dreamers/cheaters etc. |
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Pof is still the best free dating site out there. I get loads of nice girls on there and ex was from there. Fab on the other hand is well hard to find a girl to converse with never mind anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pof is still the best free dating site out there. I get loads of nice girls on there and ex was from there. Fab on the other hand is well hard to find a girl to converse with never mind anything else "
probably because this is not a dating site x
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"It would be nice to have a decent dating site I'm going to be single forever at this rate
Same
Im resigned to it already... and not all that upset by the idea if Im honest
Yeah I know what you mean,being single definitely has it's advantages. I can be an absolute slob at home without anyone moaning at me,no man to nag me,I can be lazy and unwashed if that's what I desire
On the other hand I want someone to wake up with,to share problems with,to protect me,plan thing's with. Go for lazy sunny evening walk's,use and abuse me in a nice way
God damn it man where are you! "
It's me! I'm here! |
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I find with PoF you either like the photo's,but the write up is terrible or non existent or I like the write up,but the photo's are not to my liking.
I rarely like both,sometimes it's annoying when you really like someone's pic's but you feel like you're pulling teeth thinking for God sake man give me something to grip onto give me more than one word answer's.
I've lost faith and now I just can't be arsed  |
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Or people who are miles away...ooh I could go on...
Like I don't want to see 6 photos of a motorbike,I don't want to see your kid's,granny or you in a fancy dress costume. I don't want to see a view without you in in,I don't want to see 'fill in later' etc etc etc
There could be a reason I'm single  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was on Tinder a bloke referred me here.
When i was on POF a guy wanted to send me videos of him beating his salami.
I'm just as well off on here.
No romance, just meaningless sex forever *sobs* great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to call pof "plenty of fucks"
You could get sex every day if you wanted. If was looking for more than that....mostly you can get as after all it was a dating site.
I've always found it funny. The amount of single women on here, who used to be or still are on pof.
Actually this poses a question of other web sites. Like if you take a profiles on here and check them against local escorts or hookers. You will find are several escorts in your area also on here...as if they dont get enough sex for their job
Take south west for instance. I notice 3 females...escorts. ones got 12 veris showing on here yet. Yet had 140 cocks that have left feedback on a escort site.
So back to pof.
I find mostly in that vanilla world...once in a blue moon you meet a kinkster... or someone who's tried the scene and wants to know more...its not easy, but have had a few dates from pof...that have become life or regual sex.
However recently I've renamed the site...
Plenty of freaks
Since it was sold and matchmaker dot com own it...its gone down the pan. Its full of fakes. Full of freaks.
For first time in long time I get messages from women, that I can't respond to unless I pay a load of money. Yeah right then. What women in her right mind would want someone to pay to contact them..it isn't even a fun platform to chat on. On pof I find women instantly want to swap numbers or use an app. Generally get given a number within few messages. Guess perhaps one gets to sell oneself more on plenty of freaks then here. Also if you clearly are part of the small amount of single blokes...your a winner.
I actually have on pof that I like kinky fun and sex, perhaps that's why seem to attract like minded thinkers.
I don't use it any more... simply because its not the site it was..people say that bout Fab I hear these days, both on and off the forum...but isn't it the case with all web sites of this nature. Its great at start... when real people from scene..before the wrong people start joining and the masses find out and well I think it all turns to profits before the benefit of site members.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?"
Like said in my post. It went like this when it was sold.
To a big rival
Its owned by matchmaker dot com now...so naturally they going to make it crap...it used to be the biggest and most successful dating web site for stats etc on net. Sadly its had its day, what you say I've heard before from other Fab and pof women.
Ha I actually met a woman on here recently. She says she's 45 on here. I had already checked her out on pof haha she's actually 50...and on pof you see a 50 year old woman ha yet on here and in her veris...well I think folk must think she's 45...I notice it a lot with age...but with lots of other stuff.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it
Absolutely! "
Having tried the fishy site and found exactly this, I moved to fab. I have found that some fab guys are not always what they seem either. Gone back on pof to the "mature" bit but getting resigned to facing the future as a single too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I recently took a break from here to try PoF. I met a lovely guy on there, he seemed to be tge only decent one there. We met a few times, it was all going perfectly well and then he just stopped getting in touch. It was strange because he genuinely seemed as interested as I was |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recently took a break from here to try PoF. I met a lovely guy on there, he seemed to be tge only decent one there. We met a few times, it was all going perfectly well and then he just stopped getting in touch. It was strange because he genuinely seemed as interested as I was "
This is exactly why modern online dating is so difficult. It's too easy to stop communicating with someone if they see someone else they like. People can simply delete you without even an explanation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recently took a break from here to try PoF. I met a lovely guy on there, he seemed to be tge only decent one there. We met a few times, it was all going perfectly well and then he just stopped getting in touch. It was strange because he genuinely seemed as interested as I was
This is exactly why modern online dating is so difficult. It's too easy to stop communicating with someone if they see someone else they like. People can simply delete you without even an explanation..."
Yea Definitely! I don't think I'm cut out for it I'd much rather be told that they're not interested over having them cut all contact out of the blue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"3 years ago and a few years before POF was a good dating site and was also generally a successful place to find people. Now I went on to see what it was like now and it is a disaster. No idea what happened. I don't suppose anyone knows why it became plenty of freaks?"
People just use it for a sex site. Lie on their profiles they're looking to date in order to lead to a real relationship. Lies really. It's so wrong to lie and deceive someone into sex. So tired of countless useless dates that I came off it.
Decided had enough of trying and making an effort in getting to know someone for a relationship, that I decided to seek a friend with benefits instead. Came here because least everyone is on the same page and mostly upfront about it. I know what to expect and I'm in control.
Just out of interest, was your and anyone else's bad experience due to younger guys And girls? Or all age brackets? |
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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago
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"My friend works in the internet/telephone "dating" industry, and things aren't always what they seem!
Well don't stop there..."
Ever notice that the flirty woman you message at £1 a go, always responds with another question back to you and always implies a date but is always too busy to actually set one? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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i thought that POF were trying to clean up their act and because more like the match.com of this world rather than a AFF....
i was always of the opinion this place anf that place were two completely different places and that people who were trying to use it for the same reason were misleading people
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My friend works in the internet/telephone "dating" industry, and things aren't always what they seem!
Well don't stop there...
Ever notice that the flirty woman you message at £1 a go, always responds with another question back to you and always implies a date but is always too busy to actually set one?"
A recruitment agency I was signed up to once put me up for a job on one of those text services. I said no, it felt unethical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did meet my ex on a different dating site to POF and we were together for 6 years so they can work, just depends on which one you use. These days it just feels soul destroying. Plus my tolerance to bullshit is a lot lower these days. |
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I signed up once and my profile was deleted after 4hrs. Not sure why? It might have been that I put gynaecologist as a job... did say in the profile text I wasn't a gynaecologist but happy to take a look. Didn't bother with it again... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think today's dating sites are based on yesterday's Web mindset. You remember the one. When you used to look at something that had a lot of likes and think "my a lot of people like this", when a woman would write something and you'd think "I wonder what this woman has written", when someone would recommend something and you'd think "how nice of them to offer me an unbiased recommendation", when you'd get a message from a stranger and think "I wonder what interesting friendly thing this person is going to say to me", when you'd see something is highly rated and think "that must be good", and when you'd see someone had a lot of friends and you'd think "they must be popular".
Now you don't even know if you're talking to a human or a bot. You can't tell if people are being honest or getting paid to promote a product or site. Now nothing is real, not even like counts, ratings, or friends. They're all just fake or manipulated. On top of this, that naive friendliness of the web of yesteryear has long been replaced by people who don't know if you're a person or a bot sending you blunt unfriendly demands, abuse, or spam.
You just can't conduct dating on anything so riddled from head to toe with scepticism. Even Fab is borderline useful to swingers and may be slowly passing its sell by date too. When you lose faith in something you stop respecting it and you start abusing it. That's why Fab should take the problem of "timewasters" seriously |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think today's dating sites are based on yesterday's Web mindset. You remember the one. When you used to look at something that had a lot of likes and think "my a lot of people like this", when a woman would write something and you'd think "I wonder what this woman has written", when someone would recommend something and you'd think "how nice of them to offer me an unbiased recommendation", when you'd get a message from a stranger and think "I wonder what interesting friendly thing this person is going to say to me", when you'd see something is highly rated and think "that must be good", and when you'd see someone had a lot of friends and you'd think "they must be popular".
Now you don't even know if you're talking to a human or a bot. You can't tell if people are being honest or getting paid to promote a product or site. Now nothing is real, not even like counts, ratings, or friends. They're all just fake or manipulated. On top of this, that naive friendliness of the web of yesteryear has long been replaced by people who don't know if you're a person or a bot sending you blunt unfriendly demands, abuse, or spam.
You just can't conduct dating on anything so riddled from head to toe with scepticism. Even Fab is borderline useful to swingers and may be slowly passing its sell by date too. When you lose faith in something you stop respecting it and you start abusing it. That's why Fab should take the problem of "timewasters" seriously "
Hi. In your opinion what would you describe as a time waster? |
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"My friend works in the internet/telephone "dating" industry, and things aren't always what they seem!
Well don't stop there...
Ever notice that the flirty woman you message at £1 a go, always responds with another question back to you and always implies a date but is always too busy to actually set one?"
Erm no I don't look for women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will say if you just want to get laid, live in a city and actually look up what to do. Then to tinder is really very good. But you need all 3 of the relevant things otherwise don't waste your time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think today's dating sites are based on yesterday's Web mindset. You remember the one. When you used to look at something that had a lot of likes and think "my a lot of people like this", when a woman would write something and you'd think "I wonder what this woman has written", when someone would recommend something and you'd think "how nice of them to offer me an unbiased recommendation", when you'd get a message from a stranger and think "I wonder what interesting friendly thing this person is going to say to me", when you'd see something is highly rated and think "that must be good", and when you'd see someone had a lot of friends and you'd think "they must be popular".
Now you don't even know if you're talking to a human or a bot. You can't tell if people are being honest or getting paid to promote a product or site. Now nothing is real, not even like counts, ratings, or friends. They're all just fake or manipulated. On top of this, that naive friendliness of the web of yesteryear has long been replaced by people who don't know if you're a person or a bot sending you blunt unfriendly demands, abuse, or spam.
You just can't conduct dating on anything so riddled from head to toe with scepticism. Even Fab is borderline useful to swingers and may be slowly passing its sell by date too. When you lose faith in something you stop respecting it and you start abusing it. That's why Fab should take the problem of "timewasters" seriously "
Fully agree |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i thought that POF were trying to clean up their act and because more like the match.com of this world rather than a AFF....
i was always of the opinion this place anf that place were two completely different places and that people who were trying to use it for the same reason were misleading people
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that's part of the problem as well yeah. mark (markus?) does ban anyone from using that site for sex, but what that really means is if you're looking for sex on POF you have to be covert about it and can't say, else you get banned.
of course men who like dating and need a social sites like that will appeal to them, and some men are outright liars to get sex, but hiding the fact also doesn't help.
you can tell anyway now on dating sites who is just after a fuck, not all give it away but many do, loads of little hints like pics of them in bed, topless. or just they have made no effort to say what type of dating they're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you lose faith in something you stop respecting it and you start abusing it. That's why Fab should take the problem of "timewasters" seriously
Hi. In your opinion what would you describe as a time waster?"
Our definition of a "time waster" would be someone who, for whatever reason, isn't currently interested in meeting people but doesn't communicate that clearly so you end up chatting to them but nothing comes from it. This may be because they're fake, because they haven't told their partner yet, they haven't plucked up the courage to swing yet, or because they're having a break. It's not usually simply because they don't like the look of you as most people are pretty straightforward with telling you if they're not interested in you.
The more people expend energy chatting to people who aren't serious about meeting, the less patient they become with new connections, until they start posting negative status updates or sending one liners as they've adopted the view that everyone is a "time waster". This is a classic example of what happens to people when they lose faith in the product they're using and start to be either abusive or cynical with it. At the moment this phenomenon only effects a small percentage of users. But if the site grows lots more fake users and fails to develop tools that allow people to see who's worth talking to and who isn't (who's actively interested in meeting at the moment and who's just looking or having a break) then more and more people will grow cynical of Fab and it will begin to fail on a massive scale. That's what I was hinting at |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"Maybe there could be an ongoing thread for people who want to date, "
there's 2. i posted on one, which i've never had a reply to yet so not had a bad experience.
the other was good for finding a fuck but nothing more than that so i don't post on it now. |
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"Maybe there could be an ongoing thread for people who want to date,
there's 2. i posted on one, which i've never had a reply to yet so not had a bad experience.
the other was good for finding a fuck but nothing more than that so i don't post on it now."
Ok, shame really as seems to be a good few who want a little more. |
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"Maybe there could be an ongoing thread for people who want to date,
there's 2. i posted on one, which i've never had a reply to yet so not had a bad experience.
the other was good for finding a fuck but nothing more than that so i don't post on it now.
Ok, shame really as seems to be a good few who want a little more."
you might have better success than me on them?
i think coz i have a lot of tattoos i come across as shallow and so attract that type of guy or ones who just wanna try out a tattooed woman. i don't even bother with many guys online now coz of it. |
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"Maybe Fab should start a dating site?
I think it did, not sure what it was like. I'm sure it was called flirts or something
i joined it ages ago, think it's dead.
That's a shame!"
if it's called fabflirts (and i think it was) seems the site doesn't exist now. |
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"Maybe there could be an ongoing thread for people who want to date, "
and another one for people who want an extramarital relationship and perhaps another one if you have a car you want to sell? |
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There are plenty of threads that I'm not interested in. And lots that have zero to do with swinging.
What's the issue with this kind of thread?
I simple don't read those that don't interest me. |
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People should check out our post in the feedback forum suggesting a forum area for "poly/fwb/relationships". I think this could really help lots of Fab users out so please give it a thumbs up |
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"There are plenty of threads that I'm not interested in. And lots that have zero to do with swinging.
What's the issue with this kind of thread?
I simple don't read those that don't interest me."
No issue at all - so start one! |
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"People should check out our post in the feedback forum suggesting a forum area for "poly/fwb/relationships". I think this could really help lots of Fab users out so please give it a thumbs up "
Couldn't seem to find. |
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"There certainly are guys on here who want more, just usually 300 miles away  that happens a lot guys wanting more but live closer to mars than me"
think about it though, it's totally not feasible, so it's easy to pretend you want more when really all you want is a fuck and a safe one at that where there's 100% no chance of anything developing from it. |
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"There certainly are guys on here who want more, just usually 300 miles away that happens a lot guys wanting more but live closer to mars than me
think about it though, it's totally not feasible, so it's easy to pretend you want more when really all you want is a fuck and a safe one at that where there's 100% no chance of anything developing from it."
Yes I get your point, |
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"There certainly are guys on here who want more, just usually 300 miles away that happens a lot guys wanting more but live closer to mars than me
think about it though, it's totally not feasible, so it's easy to pretend you want more when really all you want is a fuck and a safe one at that where there's 100% no chance of anything developing from it.
sorry to destroy your dreams. players gonna play though and need exposing.
Yes I get your point, "
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"Pof is still the best free dating site out there. I get loads of nice girls on there and ex was from there. Fab on the other hand is well hard to find a girl to converse with never mind anything else probably because this is not a dating site x"
I know this isn't a dating site genius. But I'm saying no one on here even talks, never mind meets. And pof compared to their rivals, I still think pof beats it |
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"There certainly are guys on here who want more, just usually 300 miles away that happens a lot guys wanting more but live closer to mars than me
think about it though, it's totally not feasible, so it's easy to pretend you want more when really all you want is a fuck and a safe one at that where there's 100% no chance of anything developing from it."
If you did find a guy for a relationship on here, would you want it to be a conventional relationship or a swinging relationship? If the former, this might not be the best site for you. |
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"There certainly are guys on here who want more, just usually 300 miles away that happens a lot guys wanting more but live closer to mars than me
think about it though, it's totally not feasible, so it's easy to pretend you want more when really all you want is a fuck and a safe one at that where there's 100% no chance of anything developing from it.
If you did find a guy for a relationship on here, would you want it to be a conventional relationship or a swinging relationship? If the former, this might not be the best site for you. "
who me? i'm only here for the chat now and maybe a fuck buddie, but with the actual buddie part and not just the fuck.
wouldn't even look for a guy online now i know how shady they can be. |
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"Basically men lied through their teeth about wanting to date just to get laid so we women thought fuck it at least in fab the guys are up front about it "
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"Maybe Fab should start a dating site?
I think it did, not sure what it was like. I'm sure it was called flirts or something"
Wasn't Flirtomatic by any chance was it? |
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"People should check out our post in the feedback forum suggesting a forum area for "poly/fwb/relationships". I think this could really help lots of Fab users out so please give it a thumbs up
Couldn't seem to find. "
Here...
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/651608
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I met my husband on POF having had a couple of hundred drinks/coffee meets and three or four few week dalliances over four years. There was as much sex available as I wanted and replying to messages could have been a full time job. John said his experience was the opposite. Contact from a few women, mostly not what he was looking for in a partner. Five meets in three months. Sex with three. I couldn't believe the variation so as experiment we set up profiles. I had 700 meet me hits and at least 15 new men message every day in three weeks. Then got fed up and deleted , as only an experiment. John's profile has been up for five months, he has 56 meet me hits and messages/ replies from around 10 women. I don't think we are at different places on the looks/personality stakes so explain the different experiences |
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"I recently took a break from here to try PoF. I met a lovely guy on there, he seemed to be tge only decent one there. We met a few times, it was all going perfectly well and then he just stopped getting in touch. It was strange because he genuinely seemed as interested as I was "
My guess is he thought after a couple of dates he would get laid and when this didnt happen he moved onto the next person x I had exactly same thing but luckily for me ive met somone oh here starting as FB then FWB now developing more but we have both been hurt before so taking it slow and enjoying ourselves xx |
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"It always was.... but now it's the same people on all the apps and sites and here "
That's called the human population, what where you expecting? Martians? |
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"Maybe Fab should start a dating site?
I think it did, not sure what it was like. I'm sure it was called flirts or something
Wasn't Flirtomatic by any chance was it? "
It was Fab Flirts and it was shit |
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