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Advice/tips regarding cowgirl position
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Not sure if it's just me but I don't tend to get sexual please myself when a lady is on top riding me. And I always feel like most ladies are basically just bending my cock back and forth lol
Don't get me wrong I honour the position for as long as they need to orgasm as I'm fully aware that its a very good position for them.
Just wondered if there were any tips from guys or gals about that position, maybe even to make it more enjoyable for me?
It's a tough position on a soft bed for example to give upward reliable thrusts. . Sometimes feels like you are just pushing the lady upwards hah
Never felt comfortable for me so any advice or even agreement from other guys. As I said I always honour the position though, it's too much fun watching a lady orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have nothing really constructive to say other than you're not alone. I used to hate (hates definitely too strong but going with it anyway) girl on top and it done nothing for me to the point if loose interest and eventually go soft if I didn't flip her over and drill it home.
But then I found Mrs s. somebody who knew what they were doing on top and not only is it enjoyable it's enjoyable to the point I can cum in that position.
Not always but then hey. I don't need to always. |
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"I have nothing really constructive to say other than you're not alone. I used to hate (hates definitely too strong but going with it anyway) girl on top and it done nothing for me to the point if loose interest and eventually go soft if I didn't flip her over and drill it home.
But then I found Mrs s. somebody who knew what they were doing on top and not only is it enjoyable it's enjoyable to the point I can cum in that position.
Not always but then hey. I don't need to always. "
May I ask what Mrs S does differently to people before?? Sounds like you were in the same boat as me until you met your fantasticly gorgeous lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have nothing really constructive to say other than you're not alone. I used to hate (hates definitely too strong but going with it anyway) girl on top and it done nothing for me to the point if loose interest and eventually go soft if I didn't flip her over and drill it home.
But then I found Mrs s. somebody who knew what they were doing on top and not only is it enjoyable it's enjoyable to the point I can cum in that position.
Not always but then hey. I don't need to always.
May I ask what Mrs S does differently to people before?? Sounds like you were in the same boat as me until you met your fantasticly gorgeous lady."
That's just it. I'm not really sure. I can't put my finger on it though I'm sure I've had my tongue on it.
It's still grinding movements but just in a diff way I guess. Helps that I'm insanely attracted to her too and love looking up at her.  |
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"It never occurred to me that some men don't like it,I just thought they'd be grateful for a rest"
It's not that I don't like it as such, I don't seem to be able to orgasm from it really is what I meant. Any beautiful lady bouncing up and down on me and orgasmig is always very pleasurable. . I just don't seem to be able to climax?
Maybe it's just me ! But you are right. . Sometimes it's nice to have a rest haha a valid point. |
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Definitely an angle thing..
If the person can hold onto your ankles or at the knees and get the angle right (about 50 deg) so that they can rock back and forth, you know it's right when they are stroking the length completely and seeing that ass and being able to spank it is very nice.
There's a certain dependency on the persons hip movements too.
When done well, it's awesome
Good luck  |
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By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It never occurred to me that some men don't like it,I just thought they'd be grateful for a rest"
It's not that men don't like it, if not done right it's just your rock hard cock being sat on by a heavy body - painful |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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First of all get a harder mattress that you can trust against her.
Alternatively hold against her by tightening your stomach, groin and thigh muscles.
While sitting on a cock and grinding on it is very pleasing for the lady but not so much for the lads try to encourage her to do up and down movements as well by holding her around her hips and help her moving up and down steady and regularly. A fit lady should be well able to move up and down like you would on a trotting or galloping horse, it's all about getting into a rhythm. Or she can steady herself by leaning forward holding on to your shoulders or by putting her hands flat on your chest. |
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I sometimes lose my hardon like this. Conserntrate on the visual, that helps or the one for me is to tell em to turn around as reverse cowgirl seems to have a better angle ( plus a cheeky thumb up the bum gets em wiggling on ur cock more) lol |
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Personally I love it .
With one girlfriend
I can caress her heavy tits and suck her nipples. They seem fuller when hanging.
I even slip my hand in , rubbing her clit . Her orgasms are intense too and she can gush .
If she's happy I'm definitely happy
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Some great advice I will Deffo take it on board.
It does seem that some ladies like to sit on you and require you to pump upwards which can be tricky to get a good rhythm going. I'll relay the idea of the lady doing most of the pulling up and done,logistically it makes more sense rather than trying to thrust upwards haha
I don't confess to being a sexual pro, so all advice is welcome.
I'm good in other areas, just never felt like cowgirl position suited me. I will up my game ! |
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Definitely an angle thing..
If the person can hold onto your ankles or at the knees and get the angle right (about 50 deg) so that they can rock back and forth, you know it's right when they are stroking the length completely and seeing that ass and being able to spank it is very nice.
There's a certain dependency on the persons hip movements too.
When done well, it's awesome
Good luck "
Reverse cowgirl?! |
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Definitely an angle thing..
If the person can hold onto your ankles or at the knees and get the angle right (about 50 deg) so that they can rock back and forth, you know it's right when they are stroking the length completely and seeing that ass and being able to spank it is very nice.
There's a certain dependency on the persons hip movements too.
When done well, it's awesome
Good luck
Reverse cowgirl?!"
Oh you are so innocent ignite.
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If thrusting up is desired then instead of being in the kneeling position, try the lady in more of a squatting position with feet flat an knees up. She can bounce more as you thrust. |
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Definitely an angle thing..
If the person can hold onto your ankles or at the knees and get the angle right (about 50 deg) so that they can rock back and forth, you know it's right when they are stroking the length completely and seeing that ass and being able to spank it is very nice.
There's a certain dependency on the persons hip movements too.
When done well, it's awesome
Good luck
Reverse cowgirl?!
Oh you are so innocent ignite.
Lol"
Fuck off with your lols  . He wasn't talking about the same thing as you was he?
Anyway you're the one that say's you've useless at sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be very careful with this one people ... I was on another site where some guy was bemoaning the fact that he'd broken his 'penis' with this position!!!!!
I didn't laugh, honest I didn't .... small smile, but no laugh *ouch* |
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Definitely an angle thing..
If the person can hold onto your ankles or at the knees and get the angle right (about 50 deg) so that they can rock back and forth, you know it's right when they are stroking the length completely and seeing that ass and being able to spank it is very nice.
There's a certain dependency on the persons hip movements too.
When done well, it's awesome
Good luck
Reverse cowgirl?!
Oh you are so innocent ignite.
Lol
Fuck off with your lols . He wasn't talking about the same thing as you was he?
Anyway you're the one that say's you've useless at sex "
I never said that, but thanks for being the usual mean heart cold woman you always are to people on the forums.
Don't change the habit of a lifetime 'luv'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being on top and have made quite a few guys cum this way. Love rev cowgirl too but only made 1 guy cum like that. I use a twerking motion when I'm on top or squat and bounce, but that can make your quads burn quite quickly!
Happy to show any hot fit black guys my skillset  |
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"I love being on top and have made quite a few guys cum this way. Love rev cowgirl too but only made 1 guy cum like that. I use a twerking motion when I'm on top or squat and bounce, but that can make your quads burn quite quickly!
Happy to show any hot fit black guys my skillset "
Sound advice, seems squatting is the better method to sitting! |
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Definitely an angle thing..
If the person can hold onto your ankles or at the knees and get the angle right (about 50 deg) so that they can rock back and forth, you know it's right when they are stroking the length completely and seeing that ass and being able to spank it is very nice.
There's a certain dependency on the persons hip movements too.
When done well, it's awesome
Good luck
Reverse cowgirl?!
Oh you are so innocent ignite.
Lol
Fuck off with your lols . He wasn't talking about the same thing as you was he?
Anyway you're the one that say's you've useless at sex
I never said that, but thanks for being the usual mean heart cold woman you always are to people on the forums.
Don't change the habit of a lifetime 'luv'
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Bless you are so nice to me 
I was only being nice anyway as I've seen your thread's being ignored with zero replies. I'll know not to in future |
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Definitely an angle thing..
If the person can hold onto your ankles or at the knees and get the angle right (about 50 deg) so that they can rock back and forth, you know it's right when they are stroking the length completely and seeing that ass and being able to spank it is very nice.
There's a certain dependency on the persons hip movements too.
When done well, it's awesome
Good luck
Reverse cowgirl?!
Oh you are so innocent ignite.
Lol
Fuck off with your lols . He wasn't talking about the same thing as you was he?
Anyway you're the one that say's you've useless at sex
I never said that, but thanks for being the usual mean heart cold woman you always are to people on the forums.
Don't change the habit of a lifetime 'luv'
Bless you are so nice to me
I was only being nice anyway as I've seen your thread's being ignored with zero replies. I'll know not to in future "
See what I mean?
Hah take your angry at the world persona somewhere else.. . My posts get replies just fine from people I've never spoke to.
Keep living in your echo chamber girl. . It's all you deserve.
Any chance to try and out people down, it's embarrassing and very telling.
Good luck with that |
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I never said that, but thanks for being the usual mean heart cold woman you always are to people on the forums.
Don't change the habit of a lifetime 'luv'
Bless you are so nice to me
I was only being nice anyway as I've seen your thread's being ignored with zero replies. I'll know not to in future
See what I mean?
Hah take your angry at the world persona somewhere else.. . My posts get replies just fine from people I've never spoke to.
Keep living in your echo chamber girl. . It's all you deserve.
Any chance to try and out people down, it's embarrassing and very telling.
Good luck with that"
Ok I apologise for saying you're not very good at sex  |
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I never said that, but thanks for being the usual mean heart cold woman you always are to people on the forums.
Don't change the habit of a lifetime 'luv'
Bless you are so nice to me
I was only being nice anyway as I've seen your thread's being ignored with zero replies. I'll know not to in future
See what I mean?
Hah take your angry at the world persona somewhere else.. . My posts get replies just fine from people I've never spoke to.
Keep living in your echo chamber girl. . It's all you deserve.
Any chance to try and out people down, it's embarrassing and very telling.
Good luck with that
Ok I apologise for saying you're not very good at sex "
Seeing as I never said that it's quite arbitrary.
Making up straw man insults and then apologising for them is weak.
Good luck with that. |
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"Ok maybe just ignore each other now"
It's hard to ignore someone that follows your threads just to insult you.
Maybe an admin/moderator should actually do their job and ban her for a while.
Simple solution really. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Ok maybe just ignore each other now
It's hard to ignore someone that follows your threads just to insult you.
Maybe an admin/moderator should actually do their job and ban her for a while.
Simple solution really."
A simpler solution would for you both to ignore each other.
Your thoughts on moderators are obvious so maybe send that to Admin themselves instead of having digs on the forum all the time as to be fair, that is against rules. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Ok maybe just ignore each other now
It's hard to ignore someone that follows your threads just to insult you.
Maybe an admin/moderator should actually do their job and ban her for a while.
Simple solution really.
A simpler solution would for you both to ignore each other.
Your thoughts on moderators are obvious so maybe send that to Admin themselves instead of having digs on the forum all the time as to be fair, that is against rules."
To add to this, I have checked both peoples threads and the only paths that were crossed between the two of you was on a fuck /avoid thread.
Maybe avoid those threads if it is upsetting to get an avoid |
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You just try to give some good advice hey ho 
Also (just to be clear) her on top with your elbow against the mattress, her holding your hands arms straight allow her to lift herself up and down and thrust against you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You just try to give some good advice hey ho
Also (just to be clear) her on top with your elbow against the mattress, her holding your hands arms straight allow her to lift herself up and down and thrust against you "
Is this what they mean by bedroom gymnastics? |
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"Ok maybe just ignore each other now
It's hard to ignore someone that follows your threads just to insult you.
Maybe an admin/moderator should actually do their job and ban her for a while.
Simple solution really.
A simpler solution would for you both to ignore each other.
Your thoughts on moderators are obvious so maybe send that to Admin themselves instead of having digs on the forum all the time as to be fair, that is against rules.
To add to this, I have checked both peoples threads and the only paths that were crossed between the two of you was on a fuck /avoid thread.
Maybe avoid those threads if it is upsetting to get an avoid "
Thankyou |
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You just try to give some good advice hey ho
Also (just to be clear) her on top with your elbow against the mattress, her holding your hands arms straight allow her to lift herself up and down and thrust against you
Is this what they mean by bedroom gymnastics? "
Indeed you can get a 9.5 with that one |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Cowgirl feet on the floor then just lift up down up down both hands at the top of his thighs for balance, or thecother way round but it's a killer on the legs ...talk about legs shaking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ask her to ride you facing your feet , holding on to your shins , leaning forward a tad .......lovely view and comfy"
Like I said...try reverse! Works well all round! |
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