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'Can't accommodate & can't travel'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people put this on their profile? Surely you have to do one or the other in order to meet other people. "
I can't accom I have kids
I only travel local ...if I put I can travel people take it I will go mikes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe they prefer to be picked up by their meets. "
Never thought of it that way, suppose it makes sense. Maybe there should be a third option for 'pick up only'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some just starting out swinging, those that are nervous, or looking in secret etc., they may just be 'browsing' at first, with a mind to progress at a later stage.
Also, 'Cybersex' is an interest option here - perhaps some just like to chat/flirt with no intention of travelling or accommodating.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good grief! I am meeting. I have my own car. I don't want to be picked up. I don't rely on public transport. I won't accommodate but. ..I will meet in a fairly local hotel. I don't have an infinite amount of time to meet so I'm not traveling for longer than I'm meeting. I can't believe this concept is so alien to so many. It really doesn't mean I'll only pop next door  |
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"Good grief! I am meeting. I have my own car. I don't want to be picked up. I don't rely on public transport. I won't accommodate but. ..I will meet in a fairly local hotel. I don't have an infinite amount of time to meet so I'm not traveling for longer than I'm meeting. I can't believe this concept is so alien to so many. It really doesn't mean I'll only pop next door "
Didn't you know on Fab it's expected you accommodate, yes that's allow strangers into your home (what sane person in this day and age would really would do that?) AND you should travel whatever distance that is required! Nah de na not I !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people put this on their profile? Surely you have to do one or the other in order to meet other people. "
maybe they get picked up or use public transport
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good grief! I am meeting. I have my own car. I don't want to be picked up. I don't rely on public transport. I won't accommodate but. ..I will meet in a fairly local hotel. I don't have an infinite amount of time to meet so I'm not traveling for longer than I'm meeting. I can't believe this concept is so alien to so many. It really doesn't mean I'll only pop next door
Didn't you know on Fab it's expected you accommodate, yes that's allow strangers into your home (what sane person in this day and age would really would do that?) AND you should travel whatever distance that is required! Nah de na not I !! "
thats right you have to accommodate if they cannot and provide fresh linen and a full English with a feedback form |
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"Good grief! I am meeting. I have my own car. I don't want to be picked up. I don't rely on public transport. I won't accommodate but. ..I will meet in a fairly local hotel. I don't have an infinite amount of time to meet so I'm not traveling for longer than I'm meeting. I can't believe this concept is so alien to so many. It really doesn't mean I'll only pop next door
Didn't you know on Fab it's expected you accommodate, yes that's allow strangers into your home (what sane person in this day and age would really would do that?) AND you should travel whatever distance that is required! Nah de na not I !! thats right you have to accommodate if they cannot and provide fresh linen and a full English with a feedback form"
Yep and place on the fresh linen those cute swans made from towels with rose petals scattered!!! |
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By *anKevCouple
over a year ago
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"Good grief! I am meeting. I have my own car. I don't want to be picked up. I don't rely on public transport. I won't accommodate but. ..I will meet in a fairly local hotel. I don't have an infinite amount of time to meet so I'm not traveling for longer than I'm meeting. I can't believe this concept is so alien to so many. It really doesn't mean I'll only pop next door
Didn't you know on Fab it's expected you accommodate, yes that's allow strangers into your home (what sane person in this day and age would really would do that?) AND you should travel whatever distance that is required! Nah de na not I !! thats right you have to accommodate if they cannot and provide fresh linen and a full English with a feedback form
Yep and place on the fresh linen those cute swans made from towels with rose petals scattered!!!"
And don't forget the little chocolates as well..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people put this on their profile? Surely you have to do one or the other in order to meet other people. "
I don't accommodate, I don't want to.
I don't travel outside my town as I don't have time.
I,m looking for local meets or car sex in suitable vehicles. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Seems some people are unable to answer what I thought was a legitimate question without being sarcastic or just plain rude!
What I meant by the initial question was that if a person wasn't willing to accommodate and wasn't willing to travel then basically they weren't prepared to meet so why be on here.
My understanding was that you would have to do one or the other.
Evenif you only wanted to meet within walking distance of your home, surely that would be travelling?
Likewise, being picked up by your meet would be travelling as opposed to accommodating would it not?
Going by some of the responses we all think differently so we all may think that this means different things. Surely it would be clearer to everyone if people just said what they were willing to do or not do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why does it concern you ?
They might ask why you're married on here and have no photo, to which I'll guess you would answer "it's none of there business" ?"
It doesn't 'concern' me, I'm simply asking a question as I'm interested in why these terms are used together as opposed to one or the other. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For some just starting out swinging, those that are nervous, or looking in secret etc., they may just be 'browsing' at first, with a mind to progress at a later stage.
Also, 'Cybersex' is an interest option here - perhaps some just like to chat/flirt with no intention of travelling or accommodating. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why does it concern you ?
They might ask why you're married on here and have no photo, to which I'll guess you would answer "it's none of there business" ?"
I do have photo's, including a face pic, says so in my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems some people are unable to answer what I thought was a legitimate question without being sarcastic or just plain rude!
What I meant by the initial question was that if a person wasn't willing to accommodate and wasn't willing to travel then basically they weren't prepared to meet so why be on here.
My understanding was that you would have to do one or the other.
Evenif you only wanted to meet within walking distance of your home, surely that would be travelling?
Likewise, being picked up by your meet would be travelling as opposed to accommodating would it not?
Going by some of the responses we all think differently so we all may think that this means different things. Surely it would be clearer to everyone if people just said what they were willing to do or not do.
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The trouble with that is if you put you can travel people misinterpret that as willing to travel anywhere. That simply isn't the case. So I'd rather put people off contacting me who are puzzled by it than invite those that think I'll travel to Scotland to meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good grief! I am meeting. I have my own car. I don't want to be picked up. I don't rely on public transport. I won't accommodate but. ..I will meet in a fairly local hotel. I don't have an infinite amount of time to meet so I'm not traveling for longer than I'm meeting. I can't believe this concept is so alien to so many. It really doesn't mean I'll only pop next door
Didn't you know on Fab it's expected you accommodate, yes that's allow strangers into your home (what sane person in this day and age would really would do that?) AND you should travel whatever distance that is required! Nah de na not I !! thats right you have to accommodate if they cannot and provide fresh linen and a full English with a feedback form
Yep and place on the fresh linen those cute swans made from towels with rose petals scattered!!!"
My personal favourite are the ones who "cannot accommodate" but have in their profile that anyone they meet "must accommodate at all times and not in hotels or a car" total double standards and lack of understanding |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people put this on their profile? Surely you have to do one or the other in order to meet other people. "
I always thought they should make this a radio button (either/or), but perhaps add other buttons too - 'local only', 'hotels only', 'pick up only', 'not meeting', might help to clear up the confusion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people put this on their profile? Surely you have to do one or the other in order to meet other people. "
Other day I say someone with similar status and they had like 20+ veris, I was wondering how that was possible at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems some people are unable to answer what I thought was a legitimate question without being sarcastic or just plain rude!
What I meant by the initial question was that if a person wasn't willing to accommodate and wasn't willing to travel then basically they weren't prepared to meet so why be on here.
My understanding was that you would have to do one or the other.
Evenif you only wanted to meet within walking distance of your home, surely that would be travelling?
Likewise, being picked up by your meet would be travelling as opposed to accommodating would it not?
Going by some of the responses we all think differently so we all may think that this means different things. Surely it would be clearer to everyone if people just said what they were willing to do or not do.
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Yeah I thought that too. Why people think travelling is meant as they won't travel far baffles me x |
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Op, I'll tell you what your post has revealed to me and which people are skirting about and which happens all the time.
1. Lots of guys will do and say anything to get a glimpse of pussy; and this includes travelling 100 miles to a hotel in someone's backyard and then pay the whole cost on top. They have been hoodwinked into believing it is being gentlemanly.
2. If a single fem had posed the same questions, the responses WOULD have been different 100%. Some call it pussy power. Others quote demand and supply. Some say long may pay inequality continue.
3. A lot of folks agree but will schtum because they want to say the " right" things.
My verdict is this: read in between the lines and play ONLY if you are comfortable with the terms.
Do not overreach!  |
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