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Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun |
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I think it's a typo and means "putting on a show".
Most single bi ladies are happyto play with another lady alone without the men watching or they want all parties to be equally involved in any play. Very few are happy to put on a live porn show for the guy. It's often referred to as being a performing seal. |
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"I think it's a typo and means "putting on a show".
Most single bi ladies are happyto play with another lady alone without the men watching or they want all parties to be equally involved in any play. Very few are happy to put on a live porn show for the guy. It's often referred to as being a performing seal."
This |
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"They're out there. You just need the right bait.
Like cake. "
And prosecco and good chat
But definitely things have to feel inclusive, relaxed, fun and. With no pressure
Good luck x |
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"They're out there. You just need the right bait.
Like cake.
And prosecco and good chat
But definitely things have to feel inclusive, relaxed, fun and. With no pressure
Good luck x "
Thank you @-}-- |
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"I think it's a typo and means "putting on a show".
Most single bi ladies are happyto play with another lady alone without the men watching or they want all parties to be equally involved in any play. Very few are happy to put on a live porn show for the guy. It's often referred to as being a performing seal.
This "
This....is boring, i don't mind angel going off for a roll about with another women for a bit, but ultimately i want to be right amongst it. Eveyone getting their jollies, in a nice jumble of bodies.  |
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Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X |
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"You could go to a club. We've met single women twice and both times we were at a club 
This is the only way
They aren't out there in the real world."
No its not.
Yes they are |
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Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid. |
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"You could go to a club. We've met single women twice and both times we were at a club
This is the only way
They aren't out there in the real world.
No its not.
Yes they are "
If they are then usually they are fruit loop, watch out for your man, we've witnessed this first hand. |
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You could find a couple who also seek the same as you where both males watch as the ladies play. I personally like being watched ........... it turns me on. No stage directions....... just pure fem fem lust.............
Lots of sexy fun, laughter where everyone is respected X |
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"You could find a couple who also seek the same as you where both males watch as the ladies play. I personally like being watched ........... it turns me on. No stage directions....... just pure fem fem lust.............
Lots of sexy fun, laughter where everyone is respected X"
This works for us too, love it (have we met?) lol |
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"You could go to a club. We've met single women twice and both times we were at a club
This is the only way
They aren't out there in the real world.
No its not.
Yes they are
If they are then usually they are fruit loop, watch out for your man, we've witnessed this first hand."
Watch out for my man in what way x |
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"Yes and is there something wrong in hubby watching two women getting it on then joining in the fun ?"
Nothing wrong at all, other women may feel put off by this. Personally I am bi but, I am always mindful if a lady joins us she needs to feel totally relaxed and not a toy. |
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"You could go to a club. We've met single women twice and both times we were at a club
This is the only way
They aren't out there in the real world.
No its not.
Yes they are
If they are then usually they are fruit loop, watch out for your man, we've witnessed this first hand.
Watch out for my man in what way x"
A Unicorn is a mythical creature, today's have an agenda and may pretend to be so to get to where they want to be.
We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys. |
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X"
The bi fem wouldn't be a sex toy nor would she be treated any different to anyone else we met and this coming from someone who slates us off in the forums then blocks us says it all really doesn't it ? |
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"You could go to a club. We've met single women twice and both times we were at a club
This is the only way
They aren't out there in the real world.
No its not.
Yes they are
If they are then usually they are fruit loop, watch out for your man, we've witnessed this first hand.
Watch out for my man in what way x
A Unicorn is a mythical creature, today's have an agenda and may pretend to be so to get to where they want to be.
We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys."
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"Yes and is there something wrong in hubby watching two women getting it on then joining in the fun ?
Nothing wrong at all, other women may feel put off by this. Personally I am bi but, I am always mindful if a lady joins us she needs to feel totally relaxed and not a toy."
Has its mentioned in our profile This lady wants to experience lots of girl on girl but with my hubby present and hopefully him joining in wether it be a cpl or single bi fem |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid. "
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check "
I don't think that will help in your quest  |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
I don't think that will help in your quest "
Probably not but saying it has it is, is it ok for us to get slated on this forum ? For a pure simple desire of ours then not defend ourselves ? |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check "
that's not really the way to go about it |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
that's not really the way to go about it"
But getting slated on here is ? |
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Deffo go to clubs and parties socials are good too! I'm attending one tomorrow great to meet fems and other couples..
Ive only met 2 couples at there home as I don't feel safe unless we've spoken lots before!
And yes also agree sometimes you can feel like a sex toy that doesn't need batteries
Keep looking  |
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"I think people ate trying to give you advice. "
sounds to us that some peeps are and that we are grateful for but one or two are hell bent on slating us but come on lets be frank are right in thinking that a bi fem will only play with other bi fems without male interaction ? How fecking selfish are they ? Also why is it when viewing bi fems profiles they will only meet men ?
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
that's not really the way to go about it
But getting slated on here is ?"
no that's not the ideal outcome either, but maybe you should just try a club or even a social, as then you will have the chance to say what you want without any need for misinterpretation from both sides... |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys."
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for. |
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"I think people ate trying to give you advice. sounds to us that some peeps are and that we are grateful for but one or two are hell bent on slating us but come on lets be frank are right in thinking that a bi fem will only play with other bi fems without male interaction ? How fecking selfish are they ? Also why is it when viewing bi fems profiles they will only meet men ?"
if I am meeting a couple, I expect to play with both, from the outset not after having a bit of a fumble with her.. |
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I have been approached at parties and clubs by other bi women who are part of a couple, assuming I will play with them because I am bi. There is certainly an assumption that single bi gems will play with any bi women. In fact I do not go to parties now because of such a bad experience at one. |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check "
Very well said |
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"I have been approached at parties and clubs by other bi women who are part of a couple, assuming I will play with them because I am bi. There is certainly an assumption that single bi gems will play with any bi women. In fact I do not go to parties now because of such a bad experience at one."
Understandable I guess |
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"I think people ate trying to give you advice. sounds to us that some peeps are and that we are grateful for but one or two are hell bent on slating us but come on lets be frank are right in thinking that a bi fem will only play with other bi fems without male interaction ? How fecking selfish are they ? Also why is it when viewing bi fems profiles they will only meet men ?"
Selfish for not meeting couples... ok
I was very nervous when I started and was unsure of couples. I think it's the whole two people who know each other very well and then me on my own scenario. I'm a very shy and nervous person and didn't want to jump in at the deep end. |
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What's in it for me?
If I want a girl. Then it is girl.
If I want a guy. Then it is guy.
If it is a.couple. I get him.off on something she should have done alone. And I go home alone. Couple wake up together |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's in it for me?
If I want a girl. Then it is girl.
If I want a guy. Then it is guy.
If it is a.couple. I get him.off on something she should have done alone. And I go home alone. Couple wake up together"
Good point to a degree |
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"I think people ate trying to give you advice. sounds to us that some peeps are and that we are grateful for but one or two are hell bent on slating us but come on lets be frank are right in thinking that a bi fem will only play with other bi fems without male interaction ? How fecking selfish are they ? Also why is it when viewing bi fems profiles they will only meet men ?
Selfish for not meeting couples... ok
I was very nervous when I started and was unsure of couples. I think it's the whole two people who know each other very well and then me on my own scenario. I'm a very shy and nervous person and didn't want to jump in at the deep end. "
That we can understand we do try to put peeps at ease from the start tho |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check "
Op, try to be careful. Taking on board comments given by single ladies and trying to understand their perspective will serve you better than arguing with them. They are telling you how they perceive what you are saying on here and on your profile. Use those comments to help yourself. |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
Op, try to be careful. Taking on board comments given by single ladies and trying to understand their perspective will serve you better than arguing with them. They are telling you how they perceive what you are saying on here and on your profile. Use those comments to help yourself."
We welcome Any positive comments but the negative ones annoys us. Is this site about having lots of naughty sexy fun ? Whatever that fun is ? |
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"We welcome Any positive comments but the negative ones annoys us. Is this site about having lots of naughty sexy fun ? Whatever that fun is ?"
If by negative you mean ones you don't agree with that's not going to help your cause either  |
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You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
Op, try to be careful. Taking on board comments given by single ladies and trying to understand their perspective will serve you better than arguing with them. They are telling you how they perceive what you are saying on here and on your profile. Use those comments to help yourself.
We welcome Any positive comments but the negative ones annoys us. Is this site about having lots of naughty sexy fun ? Whatever that fun is ?"
Ok, but you are a couple and want single women. If a single woman says something about your profile, you can either learn from her comment or argue with it and call it negative. Makes no difference to other people which you do.
Also, just check your own posts, there is quite a bit of slating of couples and single ladies.
We've met lots of single ladies at clubs and through here. They are just like the rest of us, but have to watch out for lots of things. Learn from what they are saying and you might improve your chances of a successful meet. |
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"You are a couple wanting fun. If you are not getting it then.  "
yes we're getting fun as per our Veris and I'm sure there is more fun in store for us yet |
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You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
Op, try to be careful. Taking on board comments given by single ladies and trying to understand their perspective will serve you better than arguing with them. They are telling you how they perceive what you are saying on here and on your profile. Use those comments to help yourself.
We welcome Any positive comments but the negative ones annoys us. Is this site about having lots of naughty sexy fun ? Whatever that fun is ?
Ok, but you are a couple and want single women. If a single woman says something about your profile, you can either learn from her comment or argue with it and call it negative. Makes no difference to other people which you do.
Also, just check your own posts, there is quite a bit of slating of couples and single ladies.
We've met lots of single ladies at clubs and through here. They are just like the rest of us, but have to watch out for lots of things. Learn from what they are saying and you might improve your chances of a successful meet."
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"You are a couple wanting fun. If you are not getting it then. yes we're getting fun as per our Veris and I'm sure there is more fun in store for us yet"
Your only female verification is hidden. Enjoy your loads of fun! |
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"You are a couple wanting fun. If you are not getting it then. yes we're getting fun as per our Veris and I'm sure there is more fun in store for us yet"
Is the "I" the female? It should be a "we " lol |
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"You are a couple wanting fun. If you are not getting it then. yes we're getting fun as per our Veris and I'm sure there is more fun in store for us yet
Your only female verification is hidden. Enjoy your loads of fun!"
Jess we met her in quest in Leeds not actually played |
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"You are a couple wanting fun. If you are not getting it then. yes we're getting fun as per our Veris and I'm sure there is more fun in store for us yet
Your only female verification is hidden. Enjoy your loads of fun!
Jess we met her in quest in Leeds not actually played "
So your loads of fun reference refers to no single female? |
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"You are a couple wanting fun. If you are not getting it then. yes we're getting fun as per our Veris and I'm sure there is more fun in store for us yet
Your only female verification is hidden. Enjoy your loads of fun!
Jess we met her in quest in Leeds not actually played
So your loads of fun reference refers to no single female?"
And it is the female that us the "I"? |
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Most of my meets are with couples who want a tangle of bodies rather than a performing seal. Maybe I'm unusual in not preferring FF fun but it's really not my thing through experience - I crave a cock as well as a woman's touch - having both together is divine. Your profile in my opinion isn't terribly welcoming to a single bi fem - it smacks of inexperience and wanting a teacher which may not appeal to many women on here. Yes, I fully appreciate it's a Catch 22 - and there are I'm sure women on site who will be prepared to lead the way. I'd suggest clubs or reviewing single fem profiles carefully as well as reviewing your own to ensure it conveys your message correctly before messaging. Good luck. |
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"Most of my meets are with couples who want a tangle of bodies rather than a performing seal. Maybe I'm unusual in not preferring FF fun but it's really not my thing through experience - I crave a cock as well as a woman's touch - having both together is divine. Your profile in my opinion isn't terribly welcoming to a single bi fem - it smacks of inexperience and wanting a teacher which may not appeal to many women on here. Yes, I fully appreciate it's a Catch 22 - and there are I'm sure women on site who will be prepared to lead the way. I'd suggest clubs or reviewing single fem profiles carefully as well as reviewing your own to ensure it conveys your message correctly before messaging. Good luck. "
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"Yes and is there something wrong in hubby watching two women getting it on then joining in the fun ?
A lot of women don't want to be performing seals "
Yaay, performing seals in a looking for a bi fem thread, i want to sit and throw fish  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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Of course, it's always worth remembering there are also single bi women on Fab who DO want to put on a show with the couple's fem for the guy before play, and DO want to be used as a sex toy by the couple - because that's what they enjoy.
However anyone wishes to play here, if it is consensual, respectful and pleasurable by all parties, it's healthy and fine to seek and enjoy. |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for. "
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X"
Thank you. Exactly This is what out me off looking for couples. I'm no one's sex toy nor performing monkey for the husbands ultimate wanking in a corner experience.  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X
Thank you. Exactly This is what out me off looking for couples. I'm no one's sex toy nor performing monkey for the husbands ultimate
wanking in a corner experience. "
Why does that put you off? Probably 90 % of couples here are looking for a meet with a single woman where all three will share each other equally and the woman who joins the couple will be treated with care and respect.
Why not look for the ones who want the same experience as you, rather than the ones who don't? |
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X
Thank you. Exactly This is what out me off looking for couples. I'm no one's sex toy nor performing monkey for the husbands ultimate
wanking in a corner experience.
Why does that put you off? Probably 90 % of couples here are looking for a meet with a single woman where all three will share each other equally and the woman who joins the couple will be treated with care and respect.
Why not look for the ones who want the same experience as you, rather than the ones who don't?"
I did! Every one of those couples (and alot messaged or I to them) were fake couples, hubby wanting a show, I didn't fancy the husband or the wife the other time, wife didn't actually exist or the wife said her husband wouldn't be allowed to play with me...i was her play thing!). No thanks. Too much hard work for little return.
Op, I have never come across single women who think they're gods gift. You need go realise not every woman will like you the husband or may be not fancy your wife. Then there's the safety aspect. If things become uncomfortable or just not feeling it anymore, that single woman has two of you to fend off. Far too many of us single women have get treated selfishly. Sometimes I'd rather go without then risk feeling used as a sex toy. Doesn't look like you're going to find what you seek here (and it's not because us single women are up on our high horses. So maybe clubs are the place for You? |
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X
Thank you. Exactly This is what out me off looking for couples. I'm no one's sex toy nor performing monkey for the husbands ultimate
wanking in a corner experience.
Why does that put you off? Probably 90 % of couples here are looking for a meet with a single woman where all three will share each other equally and the woman who joins the couple will be treated with care and respect.
Why not look for the ones who want the same experience as you, rather than the ones who don't?"
Now this is where the the trouble lies.Although we have gone. Through lots of single bi / straight womens profiles they seem to want the same things : single men / bi men why is this ? Perhaps they are using this site for dating and not what it is which is a swinging site . Just saying |
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
that's not really the way to go about it
But getting slated on here is ?
no that's not the ideal outcome either, but maybe you should just try a club or even a social, as then you will have the chance to say what you want without any need for misinterpretation from both sides..."
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X
Thank you. Exactly This is what out me off looking for couples. I'm no one's sex toy nor performing monkey for the husbands ultimate
wanking in a corner experience.
Why does that put you off? Probably 90 % of couples here are looking for a meet with a single woman where all three will share each other equally and the woman who joins the couple will be treated with care and respect.
Why not look for the ones who want the same experience as you, rather than the ones who don't?
Now this is where the the trouble lies.Although we have gone. Through lots of single bi / straight womens profiles they seem to want the same things : single men / bi men why is this ? Perhaps they are using this site for dating and not what it is which is a swinging site . Just saying "
Trouble is it's you that thinks highly of yoursekf and you just do not think of others or this site in general. All I've read it's all about you.
This site is not just a swingers site! FAB = Friends And Benefits!!
Anyone can use this site however they wish as long as they stick to the rules. I know people who use the forums only or as a pic site. All are perfectly acceptable. If I want to stay for single men Only, then I will. That's allowed too.
Lighten up and stop acting selfishly. Think you shown your true colours but I honestly wish you the best of luck! |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
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In my fmf scenario myself and the man start first, with the woman joining in very quickly, or both women with the man and no bi stuff with the woman. This is why I stopped looking for couples and took bi off my profile. I can get what I want in the real world, if I want it. |
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X
Thank you. Exactly This is what out me off looking for couples. I'm no one's sex toy nor performing monkey for the husbands ultimate
wanking in a corner experience.
Why does that put you off? Probably 90 % of couples here are looking for a meet with a single woman where all three will share each other equally and the woman who joins the couple will be treated with care and respect.
Why not look for the ones who want the same experience as you, rather than the ones who don't?
I did! Every one of those couples (and alot messaged or I to them) were fake couples, hubby wanting a show, I didn't fancy the husband or the wife the other time, wife didn't actually exist or the wife said her husband wouldn't be allowed to play with me...i was her play thing!). No thanks. Too much hard work for little return.
Op, I have never come across single women who think they're gods gift. You need go realise not every woman will like you the husband or may be not fancy your wife. Then there's the safety aspect. If things become uncomfortable or just not feeling it anymore, that single woman has two of you to fend off. Far too many of us single women have get treated selfishly. Sometimes I'd rather go without then risk feeling used as a sex toy. Doesn't look like you're going to find what you seek here (and it's not because us single women are up on our high horses. So maybe clubs are the place for You?"
We understand your point of view but we have come across quite a few profiles of women and they come across as such we do realize too there is lots of fake profiles on here . We also can see we might have to reword our profile to make it clearer as to what we are seeking |
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Op, you've only been on 3 weeks. At first the mass of fakes and oddball profiles and the newness of the whole thing can blind you from the good stuff.
I'd suggest taking it a bit steadier before jumping to too many conclusions about anything. Relax, watch, learn and keep it fun. |
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"Just because your husband likes to watch you with other men, does not mean that he gets the right to watch you with a Bi lady. That's the trouble with a lot of couples on Fab, they want the Bi female to put in a show for the gratification of the male and to say you want a Bi female to watch you both is even worse. It's all about what the couple want, not the Bi female. What's in it for the Bi female? If she wants to lick a pussy she,d be better off with a lesbian, rather than being a couples sex toy. X
Thank you. Exactly This is what out me off looking for couples. I'm no one's sex toy nor performing monkey for the husbands ultimate
wanking in a corner experience.
Why does that put you off? Probably 90 % of couples here are looking for a meet with a single woman where all three will share each other equally and the woman who joins the couple will be treated with care and respect.
Why not look for the ones who want the same experience as you, rather than the ones who don't?
Now this is where the the trouble lies.Although we have gone. Through lots of single bi / straight womens profiles they seem to want the same things : single men / bi men why is this ? Perhaps they are using this site for dating and not what it is which is a swinging site . Just saying
Trouble is it's you that thinks highly of yoursekf and you just do not think of others or this site in general. All I've read it's all about you.
This site is not just a swingers site! FAB = Friends And Benefits!!
Anyone can use this site however they wish as long as they stick to the rules. I know people who use the forums only or as a pic site. All are perfectly acceptable. If I want to stay for single men Only, then I will. That's allowed too.
Lighten up and stop acting selfishly. Think you shown your true colours but I honestly wish you the best @of luck!"
What's this site called. ? Fabswingers right not match.com or e harmony or any other dating site and has to us thinking highly of ourselves oh dear sorry we will lower our self opinions of us just to appease you |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
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I just think they have been a little impatient like an other reply stated not been on site long..maybe sent out many msgs and not had many returned?
This does not mean we are up ourselves or fake..sure you will always find fake profiles but you need to these out.
I imagine lots of bi fems meet only a few times a month and get tons of msgs they can't choose to meet everyone!
Why not come to the social at Xtasia tomorrow? |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
Plenty of single men around, so why do this?"
Although I don't agree fully with that poster's point, for some it's a strong impulse to take someone else's partner. Now on the swinging scene that's not necessarily a bad thing. But respect is importance. |
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You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check
Op, try to be careful. Taking on board comments given by single ladies and trying to understand their perspective will serve you better than arguing with them. They are telling you how they perceive what you are saying on here and on your profile. Use those comments to help yourself.
We welcome Any positive comments but the negative ones annoys us. Is this site about having lots of naughty sexy fun ? Whatever that fun is ?
Ok, but you are a couple and want single women. If a single woman says something about your profile, you can either learn from her comment or argue with it and call it negative. Makes no difference to other people which you do.
Also, just check your own posts, there is quite a bit of slating of couples and single ladies.
We've met lots of single ladies at clubs and through here. They are just like the rest of us, but have to watch out for lots of things. Learn from what they are saying and you might improve your chances of a successful meet."
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"Some couples act like they are very special and people have to jump through hoops to meet them.
Some couples act like a bi woman would be there to put on a show for the man and as an experiment for the wife.
An 'inexperienced' wife that is probably only pretending to be bi to please the man is a massive turn off for most women. A pillow princess (Google it) is no fun.
Not many bi women would want to be 'used' by a couple but thankfully those couples are easy to spot and avoid.
You say couples think they are special crickey you are having a laugh think and know that just about every single woman on this site thinks she is God's gift and quite frankly some of them need a reality check "
*some* couples. I was giving you an insight into how SOME couples are and why they put women off.
If you thought my post was about you then you must be right as you know yourselves and I don't.
Your later posts confirm this. |
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"The thing I find very strange about this is it seems for sure like the OP doesn't see a single female on here as the same as the female in the couple. Same thing, same sex, same species."
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"The thing I find very strange about this is it seems for sure like the OP doesn't see a single female on here as the same as the female in the couple. Same thing, same sex, same species."
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"The thing I find very strange about this is it seems for sure like the OP doesn't see a single female on here as the same as the female in the couple. Same thing, same sex, same species.
Spot on "
Agree with some of this but the single females may have a different mind set.
No one has mentioned how they see it it's all seems like a witch hunt aimed at the couples.
Who would of guessed swinging would be so up in the air.
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"The thing I find very strange about this is it seems for sure like the OP doesn't see a single female on here as the same as the female in the couple. Same thing, same sex, same species.
Spot on
Agree with some of this but the single females may have a different mind set.
No one has mentioned how they see it it's all seems like a witch hunt aimed at the couples.
Who would of guessed swinging would be so up in the air.
It's meant to be fun."
I don't think there was a witch hunt against a group. But agree, swinging never works when people say single guys are like this, fems are like that, couples are the other.
All we think is, some *people* are great, some have issues with some things, and some are dicks. Doesn't matter if they are a single guy, lady or couple.
Agree, lets keep it fun, especially on the keyboard.... |
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"The thing I find very strange about this is it seems for sure like the OP doesn't see a single female on here as the same as the female in the couple. Same thing, same sex, same species.
Spot on
Agree with some of this but the single females may have a different mind set.
No one has mentioned how they see it it's all seems like a witch hunt aimed at the couples.
Who would of guessed swinging would be so up in the air.
It's meant to be fun.
I don't think there was a witch hunt against a group. But agree, swinging never works when people say single guys are like this, fems are like that, couples are the other.
All we think is, some *people* are great, some have issues with some things, and some are dicks. Doesn't matter if they are a single guy, lady or couple.
Agree, lets keep it fun, especially on the keyboard...."
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"Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun "
'Putting on a shoe' lol. And true. |
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"Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun
'Putting on a shoe' lol. And true."
Whoops I'm dyslexic so have the odd slip every now and again as I sometimes switch letters round when they appear next to each other |
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"Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun
'Putting on a shoe' lol. And true.
Whoops I'm dyslexic so have the odd slip every now and again as I sometimes switch letters round when they appear next to each other "
We like the idea of the girls putting on shoes, they're sexy |
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"I think people ate trying to give you advice. sounds to us that some peeps are and that we are grateful for but one or two are hell bent on slating us but come on lets be frank are right in thinking that a bi fem will only play with other bi fems without male interaction ? How fecking selfish are they ? Also why is it when viewing bi fems profiles they will only meet men ?
Selfish for not meeting couples... ok
I was very nervous when I started and was unsure of couples. I think it's the whole two people who know each other very well and then me on my own scenario. I'm a very shy and nervous person and didn't want to jump in at the deep end. "
This. Plus I know what I'm looking for in men. As I have so little experience with women I don't really know what Im looking for. |
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"Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun
'Putting on a shoe' lol. And true.
Whoops I'm dyslexic so have the odd slip every now and again as I sometimes switch letters round when they appear next to each other "
I understood what you meant. Wasn't taking the piss. Thought it was a good image. |
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Wow - just noticed this thread!
Okidoke - I'm a single bi-curious woman (I'll always like cock too much to be fully bi!) who occasionally plays with couples at clubs and parties if we all click and fancy the pants off each other! This in itself is a lot harder than finding a single male sex partner - as 3 people have to like/fancy each other rather than 2!
Most experiences I've had with couples have been great and we've all left the room with a big grin! Only notable exception was one where the woman 'forgot' to mention she was essentially straight and that I could 'do things' to her but nothing would be coming my way - and her husband could shag me but not kiss me!
Another couple only told me once in the playroom that they were soft swap only!
I don't put on my profile that I meet couples as
A) I get more messages than I can cope with as it is and
B) I only tend to play with couples at clubs and parties anyway - so can do the chatting there and then rather than online!
I may be a single fem but I'm most definitely not 'up my own arse' (much more fun having someone else up my arse!) and I'm certainly not only after the guy if I approach a couple. There are loads of gorgeous single guys on fab - why the hell would I want the aggro of trying to come between a couple?
The main issues on this thread seem to come from lack of communication/understanding of other viewpoints!
Let's hope they can be sorted amicably! |
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"Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun
'Putting on a shoe' lol. And true.
Whoops I'm dyslexic so have the odd slip every now and again as I sometimes switch letters round when they appear next to each other
I understood what you meant. Wasn't taking the piss. Thought it was a good image."
I know I realised after you posted
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"Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun
'Putting on a shoe' lol. And true.
Whoops I'm dyslexic so have the odd slip every now and again as I sometimes switch letters round when they appear next to each other
I understood what you meant. Wasn't taking the piss. Thought it was a good image.
I know I realised after you posted
#doseybitchmoment "
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"Wow - just noticed this thread!
Okidoke - I'm a single bi-curious woman (I'll always like cock too much to be fully bi!) who occasionally plays with couples at clubs and parties if we all click and fancy the pants off each other! This in itself is a lot harder than finding a single male sex partner - as 3 people have to like/fancy each other rather than 2!
Most experiences I've had with couples have been great and we've all left the room with a big grin! Only notable exception was one where the woman 'forgot' to mention she was essentially straight and that I could 'do things' to her but nothing would be coming my way - and her husband could shag me but not kiss me!
Another couple only told me once in the playroom that they were soft swap only!
I don't put on my profile that I meet couples as
A) I get more messages than I can cope with as it is and
B) I only tend to play with couples at clubs and parties anyway - so can do the chatting there and then rather than online!
I may be a single fem but I'm most definitely not 'up my own arse' (much more fun having someone else up my arse!) and I'm certainly not only after the guy if I approach a couple. There are loads of gorgeous single guys on fab - why the hell would I want the aggro of trying to come between a couple?
The main issues on this thread seem to come from lack of communication/understanding of other viewpoints!
Let's hope they can be sorted amicably! "
You really haven't used the forums in a while have you?
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"Wow - just noticed this thread!
Okidoke - I'm a single bi-curious woman (I'll always like cock too much to be fully bi!) who occasionally plays with couples at clubs and parties if we all click and fancy the pants off each other! This in itself is a lot harder than finding a single male sex partner - as 3 people have to like/fancy each other rather than 2!
Most experiences I've had with couples have been great and we've all left the room with a big grin! Only notable exception was one where the woman 'forgot' to mention she was essentially straight and that I could 'do things' to her but nothing would be coming my way - and her husband could shag me but not kiss me!
Another couple only told me once in the playroom that they were soft swap only!
I don't put on my profile that I meet couples as
A) I get more messages than I can cope with as it is and
B) I only tend to play with couples at clubs and parties anyway - so can do the chatting there and then rather than online!
I may be a single fem but I'm most definitely not 'up my own arse' (much more fun having someone else up my arse!) and I'm certainly not only after the guy if I approach a couple. There are loads of gorgeous single guys on fab - why the hell would I want the aggro of trying to come between a couple?
The main issues on this thread seem to come from lack of communication/understanding of other viewpoints!
Let's hope they can be sorted amicably!
You really haven't used the forums in a while have you?
Amicably pfft "
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
Plenty of single men around, so why do this?"
We have had this too a number of times |
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Excellent point. "
The other thing is that many people mix up a single female or male profile with someone who is single. All the profile means is that you are meeting alone, not that you are single. There is an assumption by many women in couples that a single female is single as her status, and wanting a man. Its not true, many single female profiles are just meeting alone and have a partner so don't need yours. |
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In all the FFM meets we've had, never put on a show for hubby, it would bore him, it should be just 3 people all enjoying each other, simple, why make it so complicated? |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
Plenty of single men around, so why do this?
We have had this too a number of times "
Buggar whatever that type of woman is trying to do if you trust him and are secure in your relationship it's not a issue
No one can be stolen or used that way unless they want to be |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
Plenty of single men around, so why do this?
We have had this too a number of times
Buggar whatever that type of woman is trying to do if you trust him and are secure in your relationship it's not a issue
No one can be stolen or used that way unless they want to be "
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
Plenty of single men around, so why do this?
We have had this too a number of times "
But your circumstances are different to the OPs so it's not the same situation |
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
Plenty of single men around, so why do this?
We have had this too a number of times
But your circumstances are different to the OPs so it's not the same situation "
I certainly think there are some females in couples who feel threatened by 'single' females. Much more so than men in couples who feel threatened by 'single' men |
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"Wow - just noticed this thread!
Okidoke - I'm a single bi-curious woman (I'll always like cock too much to be fully bi!) who occasionally plays with couples at clubs and parties if we all click and fancy the pants off each other! This in itself is a lot harder than finding a single male sex partner - as 3 people have to like/fancy each other rather than 2!
Most experiences I've had with couples have been great and we've all left the room with a big grin! Only notable exception was one where the woman 'forgot' to mention she was essentially straight and that I could 'do things' to her but nothing would be coming my way - and her husband could shag me but not kiss me!
Another couple only told me once in the playroom that they were soft swap only!
I don't put on my profile that I meet couples as
A) I get more messages than I can cope with as it is and
B) I only tend to play with couples at clubs and parties anyway - so can do the chatting there and then rather than online!
I may be a single fem but I'm most definitely not 'up my own arse' (much more fun having someone else up my arse!) and I'm certainly not only after the guy if I approach a couple. There are loads of gorgeous single guys on fab - why the hell would I want the aggro of trying to come between a couple?
The main issues on this thread seem to come from lack of communication/understanding of other viewpoints!
Let's hope they can be sorted amicably! "
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"Wow - just noticed this thread!
Okidoke - I'm a single bi-curious woman (I'll always like cock too much to be fully bi!) who occasionally plays with couples at clubs and parties if we all click and fancy the pants off each other! This in itself is a lot harder than finding a single male sex partner - as 3 people have to like/fancy each other rather than 2!
Most experiences I've had with couples have been great and we've all left the room with a big grin! Only notable exception was one where the woman 'forgot' to mention she was essentially straight and that I could 'do things' to her but nothing would be coming my way - and her husband could shag me but not kiss me!
Another couple only told me once in the playroom that they were soft swap only!
I don't put on my profile that I meet couples as
A) I get more messages than I can cope with as it is and
B) I only tend to play with couples at clubs and parties anyway - so can do the chatting there and then rather than online!
I may be a single fem but I'm most definitely not 'up my own arse' (much more fun having someone else up my arse!) and I'm certainly not only after the guy if I approach a couple. There are loads of gorgeous single guys on fab - why the hell would I want the aggro of trying to come between a couple?
The main issues on this thread seem to come from lack of communication/understanding of other viewpoints!
Let's hope they can be sorted amicably!
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We have even seen it in the clubs, the so called Bi fems that go nowhere near any other ladies but make a bee line for the guys.
Maybe they just haven't found any females that interest them? These women are bi, so of course they would also be interested in guys.
For me being bi, (and only recently allowing myself to open up about this) the one thing that gets to me is when I see people questioning bi women and their sexuality.
I would also say that I'm not completely 50/50 with men and women, but this changes to what I'm in the mood for.
You completely misunderstood what we were saying.
What we meant is that the females in question aren't bi at all but use it as an in to get to the guy.
Witnessed it first hand on two occasions
Plenty of single men around, so why do this?
We have had this too a number of times
But your circumstances are different to the OPs so it's not the same situation
I certainly think there are some females in couples who feel threatened by 'single' females. Much more so than men in couples who feel threatened by 'single' men"
It happens with couples meeting couples too, one woman feeling threatened by the other. |
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"Personally the whole putting on a shoe aspect before your fella wants to join in would put me off and I know many bi fems that would feel the same way
Meets where it's mutually inclusive for all parties involved from the get go are much more fun "
id kinda prefer to sit and watch my partner with a lady before joining in.. but then im not bi more bi playful. So playing with a woman with no guy involved physically isn't for me x
Although best times have been when we both spoil and pamper the lady together |
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