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We are on fabs to meet single women who are in high demand and very hard to find. So that leaves us stagnant in terms of swinging although we do have fun in many other ways. Are there couples out there where the guy is content to watch? Does this happen? |
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We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use  |
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"We are on fabs to meet single women who are in high demand and very hard to find. So that leaves us stagnant in terms of swinging although we do have fun in many other ways. Are there couples out there where the guy is content to watch? Does this happen? "
We had this on our profile for months as I don't play (spectator only) and didn't really have much success so gave up.
Biggest issue is finding couples that Mrs is attracted to both the male and the female and where the female half is fully happy sharing her man fully. |
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"We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use "
We got a PS4 and Xbox 360 with CoD and FIFA haha!  |
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"We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use "
We've had a few of these requests we say hell thats fine as long as we can borrow the female to do the same, they soon back off  lol don't think these people understand swinging.... |
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"We are on fabs to meet single women who are in high demand and very hard to find. So that leaves us stagnant in terms of swinging although we do have fun in many other ways. Are there couples out there where the guy is content to watch? Does this happen?
We had this on our profile for months as I don't play (spectator only) and didn't really have much success so gave up.
Biggest issue is finding couples that Mrs is attracted to both the male and the female and where the female half is fully happy sharing her man fully. "
Mrs P is a rare cuck queen |
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"We had a message off a couple asking if I'd be prepared to wait downstairs at their home while they had fun with my wife upstairs , had to admire the cheek they didn't even ask if my wife liked the look of them ffs. I told them yes as long as they had a PlayStation I could use
We've had a few of these requests we say hell thats fine as long as we can borrow the female to do the same, they soon back off lol don't think these people understand swinging...."
But surely their are 100's of couples who just want to meet single women. No understanding needed just personal preference? |
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"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid."
In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience... |
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There was a time when this scenario was fine with me . I was a lazy swinger too , and suffered a bit if performance anxiety so it suited us at the time .
Problem was though it was way too contrived and the meets we had became dull and repetitive .
Fortunately we no longer seek the meets where I sit and watch , and as my wife has developed a bit of desire to watch me as much as I like seeing her , our swinging has become 100% more fun . |
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"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.
In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience..."
Fair comment, but not always the case |
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"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.
In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...
Fair comment, but not always the case "
yea can totally understand that to be the case . |
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"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid."
Yep , spot on .
We had loads of meets where this was the case .
Not just this , but on many an occasion you could see the guys wife wasn't comfortable when he was fucking my wife either .
You either have the mentality for this lifestyle or you don't . Simple really . |
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"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.
In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...
Fair comment, but not always the case "
But asking couples if the guy will just watch whilst your guy enjoys 2 women at once is unfair and to us not swinging, don't get me wrong we enjoy a FFM meet (see veris) but they are a rarity and MFMF meets will always in everyone being actively involved, he'll if you don't fancy any other guy on the planet and just want ladies just concentrate on finding single ladies
Equal way dynamics is the key.... |
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"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.
In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...
Fair comment, but not always the case
But asking couples if the guy will just watch whilst your guy enjoys 2 women at once is unfair and to us not swinging, don't get me wrong we enjoy a FFM meet (see veris) but they are a rarity and MFMF meets will always in everyone being actively involved, he'll if you don't fancy any other guy on the planet and just want ladies just concentrate on finding single ladies
Equal way dynamics is the key...."
All a bit harsh on the op.
No one is forcing anyone to meet them,they are simply asking are there any couples out there where the male of the other couple is happy to watch.
Everyone has there own kink and what they would like to try,yes,it's a long shot,but it's their long shot,and their sexlife.they may find what they are looking for,they may not.
Quick ps to the op,my post earlier was firmly tongue in cheek  |
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"For us it would come accros that the guy is fine with fucking other women but insecure about his wife with other men so us personally would avoid.
In our experience, please note, in our experience this has been the issue, thus we avoid nowadays, we reiterate in our experience...
Fair comment, but not always the case
But asking couples if the guy will just watch whilst your guy enjoys 2 women at once is unfair and to us not swinging, don't get me wrong we enjoy a FFM meet (see veris) but they are a rarity and MFMF meets will always in everyone being actively involved, he'll if you don't fancy any other guy on the planet and just want ladies just concentrate on finding single ladies
Equal way dynamics is the key....
All a bit harsh on the op.
No one is forcing anyone to meet them,they are simply asking are there any couples out there where the male of the other couple is happy to watch.
Everyone has there own kink and what they would like to try,yes,it's a long shot,but it's their long shot,and their sexlife.they may find what they are looking for,they may not.
Quick ps to the op,my post earlier was firmly tongue in cheek "
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take pictures and videos of the sexy couple going at it like rabbits! 