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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm finding it hard to fulfill my fantasy of joining a couple, I'm polite in my messages but couples don't seem to give me a chance and rarely reply! Am I doing anything wrong? Any advice? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Yea you've said you want to meet females but maybe experiment with a couple, probably making them feel like a second choice as you can't get a single woman.
Also, if they look at your profile and see no public pics, chances are you'll get deleted |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I understand if people go on looks only but if they go for more Than looks first surely conversation is the way? "
I'd say most people need physical attraction no matter how good your chat is |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I understand if people go on looks only but if they go for more Than looks first surely conversation is the way?
I'd say most people need physical attraction no matter how good your chat is"
totally agree. for me i've been well into a few guys on here then i see their face pic and am put off. it's the main reason i have face pics on my profile in the first place, don't see the point in guys messaging me if they don't like what they see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand if people go on looks only but if they go for more Than looks first surely conversation is the way?
I'd say most people need physical attraction no matter how good your chat is"
Totally agree with this. It's online so all starts with a physical attraction, good conversation is a second on internet sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe go to a club - just be chatty - or look at who locally is going to a club - chat with them and maybe meet them there - less pressure and others to chat to as well - you never know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking at your profile - my suggestion would be to add a few more photos mate.
Although the ladies are absolutely right in what they've said above. Physical attraction is key!
But as well as that - I've found that being in the right place at the right time - talking with the right couple is sometimes what it takes.
I've personally had an experience where I got messaged by a couple, we had an incredible night, and we've not seen or heard from each other since. Just pot luck.
One final bit of advice would be to cater to both of them. Don't just assume you're talking to him or her. They'll both ultimately make the decision, so make sure you sell to them both! |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"I'm finding it hard to fulfill my fantasy of joining a couple, I'm polite in my messages but couples don't seem to give me a chance and rarely reply! Am I doing anything wrong? Any advice? "
They will find you if they need you
In the mean time, stop asking if you are doing something wrong
Try to put yourself in a couple position: will you accept any single guy who contact you? I don't think so |
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