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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think i just found our neighbours across the road on another site. Quite cute but how close is too close? Any one with any stories on this."
We would never meet anyone local.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
We always said when we started out that we wouldn't meet anyone in our local area...politely turned down a few couples when we found out they were near to us.
But we recently decided to throw caution to the wind when I recognised a lady from a couple (from their profile photos) sitting next to me at a local parade.
To cut a long story short we emailed them asking if it was her etc.
Turns out that I was right and they have become very good friends.
Later discovered we had more in common that just living very near to each other! Twilight Zone springs to mind....lol
Worked out well for us but to be ,could have just as easily turned out to be a big mistake!
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
We met a couple that is half a mile from us and that was not a mistake! They are a lovely couple and sexy to boot!
Not met em for a while, but that is a problem from our end, not theirs! We also found that a couple, whose garden backed onto ours were also swingers! We went for coffee, but they decided we were too close... Funily enough, they were introduced to us by a couple in Exeter!!! (who are also extremely scrummy!  ) |
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Like to keep home and swinging life separate as we can't count on everyones discretion. Saying that we have heard a few comments so maybe everyone knows anyway though not direct from us.
We do wear chameleon necklaces so not hard to spot if you are in the know, though seems not many are. We should start a campaign  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for us neighbours too close to home and too risky. they could turn out to be nice friends, but also risk that they might not.
We got a message inviting us to play from a dog walking acquaintance (he had face pic on profile so we knew). He doesn't know who we are (we think) as we dont have face pics on public profile. He's never hinted about it at all in meeting him since
We declined offer as we want to keep swinging separate from local life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the phrases I loathe: usually uttered by a man that won't accommodate but wants to meet in your house! 
I had a local playmate, we'd be on the same train, come across each other in Sainsbury's, you'd never guess we knee each other.
Trust, respect and boundaries. Four years on he still contacts me once a week even though he's moved.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of the phrases I loathe: usually uttered by a man that won't accommodate but wants to meet in your house!
I had a local playmate, we'd be on the same train, come across each other in Sainsbury's, you'd never guess we knee each other.
Trust, respect and boundaries. Four years on he still contacts me once a week even though he's moved.
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"dont shit on own doorstep" I should have said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of the phrases I loathe: usually uttered by a man that won't accommodate but wants to meet in your house!
I had a local playmate, we'd be on the same train, come across each other in Sainsbury's, you'd never guess we knee each other.
Trust, respect and boundaries. Four years on he still contacts me once a week even though he's moved.
"dont shit on own doorstep" I should have said!"
Not on mine anyway, as it makes a terrible mess lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A family member of a good friend of mine works in a swinging club ive often wanted to attend. I dont know whether they would be discreet about my attendance or tell them. Its not a major issue but i would like to attend the club to try it out. Any advice guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is the whole 'what happens in swinging stays in swinging' but it just depends on whether they will have the discretion that others would. Its not that i want to play with them its just they work there lol. I am thinking of just going for broke |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Wish wish could find a nice local couple, as we cant accomidate and cant travel silly miles due to kids. Just think be able to pop around for fun and not have far to go etc etc. xx |
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