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Fisting for the first time x
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over a year ago
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"You need two things and you need loads of both. Lube and patience. Go slowly and listen to your body. "
Oh, I was thinking the two things were a fist and a vagina  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience, take it slowly, gradually work your way up from a finger or two, and if she tells you to stop then stop."
I did not even realise this was being done to me the first time mr here did it, I was soooooo turned on by him playing with me that it was until after an all mighty orgasm he told me what he did, I never thought it could be such a turn on but he proved me wrong now I love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking of getting one of them Hun will it definitely make me stretch more xxx "
An inflatable? If so yes, it's what assisted the guy to fist me for my first ever time. |
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"I'm going to try and do it on my self see if I can get it all in and stretch my self xxxx "
That would be best to try first..
I've recently started fisting a new lady friend of mine, at her insistence. ...I never would have thought my hand would fit in there but with her guiding me in a finger at a time at the pace she was comfortable with I finally managed it... and her orgasm when she told me to wiggle my fingers was awesome. |
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Your in need of a good lube , patience and get yourself relaxed loads of foreplay trust in your partner if you say stop , make sure he does as he's tol
You can wear a latex or similar examination glove that helps too
Once in the orgasms are memorable ! |
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Relax good lube communication
One step at a time once the whole fist is in Get use to it before any movement
Yes if you play with your clit at same time that does help All the best doing right it can be real pleasurable and have intense orgasm |
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Theres a fab couple not far from you (rachel-graham) who should be able to give you some hints.
Rachel is quite bi and has shared with me some of her recent fisting experiences. I believe she has a photo in her profile doing just this!
Might be easier with another lady rather than just DIY. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly, don't think of it as "fisting" - a fast, aggressive approach will be painful, not erotic.
Also, don't approach it as a quest "today I want to be fisted ", just let it evolve.
I prefer to think of it as "honey pot-holing" is much more pleasurable for both parties - sensing those moments of further relaxation and not rushing. As a "honey pot-holer", that moment when your hand is inside and you can use all fingers and thumb to stimulate, is amazing. I'm guessing from my partners' reactions they enjoyed it too 
Never needed lube - maybe I just have small hands and nimble fingers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking to try fisting for the first time please no funny comments xxxxx thank u xx "
Try your 1st fisting experience with a lady as they usually have smaller hands than men
Oh and lots of lube, oral to relax you and patience  |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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I love seeing a woman being fisted it's looks so damn sexy. I have always wanted to do fisting but not been lucky enough to find a willing woman to do it too. Go for if girl take your time and enjoy maybe put some pictures on your profile when you manage it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its definitely better and easier if its done by a lady! Guys have big hands generally hehehe
Its a truly awesome feeling though, relaxing is key
Enjoy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only got 4 fingers in on my self It hard to do xxxx "
Yeah it sure is, your hand can't curve into you at the correct and most comfortable angle, I got wrist ache trying! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still can't do it to my self as yet x love Hannah "
As a woman who enjoys this, let me tell you I can't do it to myself. Logistically it's just too hard, trying to bend etc. Have you tried with anyone else yet? A partner, fwb? It's likely not something you'll just do on a first meet (although I have, but it had been discussed before) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Patience, take it slowly, gradually work your way up from a finger or two, and if she tells you to stop then stop.
I did not even realise this was being done to me the first time mr here did it, I was soooooo turned on by him playing with me that it was until after an all mighty orgasm he told me what he did, I never thought it could be such a turn on but he proved me wrong now I love it "
Exactly the same about 6 weeks ago, I usually struggle with 3 fingers but my meet here had me dripping fingering me hard, I knew he was adding more fingers due to the pressure but I didn't know until after a MASSIVE orgasm that he had nearly his entire fist inside me, mmm what a feeling, he's since done it again and I love it |
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