Had a meet arranged... turned up at the hotel and he wasnt what he the profile or pix were like... he invited me into the room and i saod i think ive got the wrong room and i left....
Eeek i do feel bad but i couldnt have gone through with it after seeing him as different ...
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"No he came out to get me it was the shittest excuse ever but i couldnt do it...blergh"
Did you not say "excuse me, you look heck all like your picture " |
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Don't feel bad.... not your fault if they don't match up to what their profile says.... and good job you met at their hotel and not the other way round... at least you could just politely decline and walk away... |
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"No it was the first meet in a while so
Argh sorry i feel awful"
Don't feel awful..,
I'd have done the same!
It's his fault for lying in the first place |
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Yes don't blame yourself I would of done the same ......wtf I had a meet like that walked straight passed them the pi. Was over 25 years old he had hair and it was brown the one I passed was grey !!! Why can't people be honest? ??? |
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You shouldn't feel. Bad! You have the right to say no! Especially if he doesn't look like his photo! That's dodgy for a start! And I would suggest a social meet first next time, Stay safe. X |
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"Had a meet arranged... turned up at the hotel and he wasnt what he the profile or pix were like... he invited me into the room and i saod i think ive got the wrong room and i left....
Eeek i do feel bad but i couldnt have gone through with it after seeing him as different ...
" theres a lot who dont have own pics so have to be carful should always ask for them in text or kik and put a mark on them but sorry to here you had to go |
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"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room "
Most likely being paid for by work, so he thought he'd chance his arm, use a fake profile and wing it.
Wouldn't have got as far as his room though??
You have nothing to feel bad about, you go girl x |
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"Had a meet arranged... turned up at the hotel and he wasnt what he the profile or pix were like... he invited me into the room and i saod i think ive got the wrong room and i left....
Eeek i do feel bad but i couldnt have gone through with it after seeing him as different ...
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To take the step forward in meeting again after a break , to turn up at a hotel to meet a total stranger based on his pics was a brave step .
Sorry it turned out so bad |
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"Don't feel bad.... not your fault if they don't match up to what their profile says.... and good job you met at their hotel and not the other way round... at least you could just politely decline and walk away..."
this - and good on you for walking away - i would have chatted to him though and said why |
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"Coz he musta paid a lot for the hotel room
That's his problem.... and he can have all the biccies to himself
Lol ok "
if he had been honest from the off he wouldnt be alone in his room now would he --- do not feel bad about it - you done nowt wrong |
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