My wife keeps cheating on me. Because the first time she did it i told her i loved the sound of it. But now she goes every other week and doesnt want to fuck me anymore. I think shes got feelings for her lover |
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"She knows im on here but doesnt think much of it as i hardly meet anyone just chat really. And in exchange i let her meet a few school friends. But its got out of hand now. "
Tbh you should have agreed on a few parameters before either or both of you seeing other people. There's still time to sit down, be open and honest with her.
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"She knows im on here but doesnt think much of it as i hardly meet anyone just chat really. And in exchange i let her meet a few school friends. But its got out of hand now. "
In exchange for you being on fab you "let" her meet some school friends? Are you her keeper and how old is she ffs. |
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If it's got out of hand, and you are unhappy, then you need to sit down and talk with your wife.
Your feelings are important, and probably every swinging couple makes mistakes. It sounds like you are OK with her seeing other people, just not as frequently as she currently is. If you can calmly talk about this with her, and help her understand how you feel about things there might be a way forward.
Equally you should listen to your wife's feelings. Find out what she is getting out of this, why she's going off with other guys as frequently as she is, why she's not having sex with you
But in the end...there are two people who can solve this...yourself and your wife.
Good luck. |
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"My wife keeps cheating on me. Because the first time she did it i told her i loved the sound of it. But now she goes every other week and doesnt want to fuck me anymore. I think shes got feelings for her lover"
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"My wife keeps cheating on me. Because the first time she did it i told her i loved the sound of it. But now she goes every other week and doesnt want to fuck me anymore. I think shes got feelings for her lover"
What a tangled web we've weaved... |
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"She knows im on here but doesnt think much of it as i hardly meet anyone just chat really. And in exchange i let her meet a few school friends. But its got out of hand now.
In exchange for you being on fab you "let" her meet some school friends? Are you her keeper and how old is she ffs. "
Totally this! |
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"My wife keeps cheating on me. Because the first time she did it i told her i loved the sound of it. But now she goes every other week and doesnt want to fuck me anymore. I think shes got feelings for her lover"
She prob cheating on you cause she knows your on here and have been for over a year. So why you complaining |
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You gotta figure out your boundaries and let her know. You are clearly not vanilla monogamous and receptive in some way to an open relationship .. maybe the cuck fantasy might appeal to you.
Neither will work if you are both not comfortable in the relationship so unfortunately you're going to have to talk about how you feel with her |
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"My wife keeps cheating on me. Because the first time she did it i told her i loved the sound of it. But now she goes every other week and doesnt want to fuck me anymore. I think shes got feelings for her lover"
Your green arrow suggests you have been encouraging her,when did it turn into cheating i dont know cause I thought cheating is when you dont know what she is up too,i think you should ask her lover what is it that he is doing better and maybe she will let you fuck her after you have changed the way you do it or just tell her you had enough and want to end it all. |
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Sit down and talk to her. First things first ask her if she is developing feelings for somebody else. Be prepared for the worst but try not to make an argument of it. Letting her know you are aware there's been a change somewhere may be enough for her to realise things are going a bit too far.
Don't make any drastic proclamations like that you demand she stop seeing other people for good, because if you loved the idea of it before you'll love it again, but tell her the truth.
From the sounds of your original post the truth is that you are feeling neglected emotionally and sexually.
Relationships require nurturing and effort from both sides. |
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Talk to her about it or get over it, you agreed from the offset but now what you're basically saying is you're pissed off that she's getting laid and you're not |
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