So was talking to a couple getting to know one another what not..
Everything was going great until I mentioned we have 3 children.. then they never replied to our messages :/
Is that a put off? I mean it wasn't like I asked them to babysit or anything ffs
I don't know ... just a tad confused but hey ho moving on..
Anybody else had this sort of thing happen? Are married couples with children not allowed to have fun? Hahaha  |
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Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids |
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids "
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ... |
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"You ever been on a plane with a kid sat behind you ? Now imagine 3 of the little monkys... you just came across someone with a long memory  "
Haha i know what your saying but I never mentioned for them to come to ours etc so they wouldn't of ever met them... haha not just a long memory  |
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ... "
Don't feel shitty. For some reason they decided you weren't compatible, that's all. There will be other people to meet |
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ...
Don't feel shitty. For some reason they decided you weren't compatible, that's all. There will be other people to meet "
You're right ... thanks for your advice greatly appreciated ... enjoy your weekend xx |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ... "
They probably thought you won't make the social due to the logistics in organising child care for 3 kids.
Nothing wrong with what you said, but they may have had bad experiences before with couple having kids needing child care. |
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"So was talking to a couple getting to know one another what not..
Everything was going great until I mentioned we have 3 children.. then they never replied to our messages :/
Is that a put off? I mean it wasn't like I asked them to babysit or anything ffs
I don't know ... just a tad confused but hey ho moving on..
Anybody else had this sort of thing happen? Are married couples with children not allowed to have fun? Hahaha "
Their loss, as looking at profile and photos you're a great couple, female is sexy as hell, obviously enjoys anal play too, you have a decent cock on you.
With a bit of patience & organising it could've been great. Just wasn't meant to be, don't take it personally, you'll still have a queue waiting to join you two
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ...
They probably thought you won't make the social due to the logistics in organising child care for 3 kids.
Nothing wrong with what you said, but they may have had bad experiences before with couple having kids needing child care. "
I totally get that ... but you can't tarr everyone with the same brush but I understand that point of view ... |
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"So was talking to a couple getting to know one another what not..
Everything was going great until I mentioned we have 3 children.. then they never replied to our messages :/
Is that a put off? I mean it wasn't like I asked them to babysit or anything ffs
I don't know ... just a tad confused but hey ho moving on..
Anybody else had this sort of thing happen? Are married couples with children not allowed to have fun? Hahaha
Their loss, as looking at profile and photos you're a great couple, female is sexy as hell, obviously enjoys anal play too, you have a decent cock on you.
With a bit of patience & organising it could've been great. Just wasn't meant to be, don't take it personally, you'll still have a queue waiting to join you two
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aww thankyou very kind of you to say... and yes you're right it's just never happened to us before so was abit ugh but it's all good ... we will finally meet a couple who will fully enjoy us ...  |
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"So was talking to a couple getting to know one another what not..
Everything was going great until I mentioned we have 3 children.. then they never replied to our messages :/
Is that a put off? I mean it wasn't like I asked them to babysit or anything ffs
I don't know ... just a tad confused but hey ho moving on..
Anybody else had this sort of thing happen? Are married couples with children not allowed to have fun? Hahaha
Their loss, as looking at profile and photos you're a great couple, female is sexy as hell, obviously enjoys anal play too, you have a decent cock on you.
With a bit of patience & organising it could've been great. Just wasn't meant to be, don't take it personally, you'll still have a queue waiting to join you two
aww thankyou very kind of you to say... and yes you're right it's just never happened to us before so was abit ugh but it's all good ... we will finally meet a couple who will fully enjoy us ... "
No problem, just wish you were closer and looking for single men too lol  |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ...
They probably thought you won't make the social due to the logistics in organising child care for 3 kids.
Nothing wrong with what you said, but they may have had bad experiences before with couple having kids needing child care.
I totally get that ... but you can't tarr everyone with the same brush but I understand that point of view ... "
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"Could be worse... I get radio silence after sharing my face pic lol
Lol we had user no longer on site  "
That's quite an achievement. We should meet up and curdle milk with our ugly mugs lol |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Anything could have happened, and it could just as likely have nothing to do with you mentioning your children.
As always with Fab, why worry about it? It was never meant to be."
Its not so much that people "worry about it".
It's more like when things don't quite go the way you expect, it is nice to get some feedback or second opinion to see if you did something wrong. If you did something wrong, it helps to know so that you don't make the same mistake again.
I'm not suggesting that the OP did anything wrong though , I'm just explaining why people bring these issues to the forum - not that they are "worried" about it, they are just concerned. |
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"Anything could have happened, and it could just as likely have nothing to do with you mentioning your children.
As always with Fab, why worry about it? It was never meant to be.
Its not so much that people "worry about it".
It's more like when things don't quite go the way you expect, it is nice to get some feedback or second opinion to see if you did something wrong. If you did something wrong, it helps to know so that you don't make the same mistake again.
I'm not suggesting that the OP did anything wrong though , I'm just explaining why people bring these issues to the forum - not that they are "worried" about it, they are just concerned."
exactly!!. Not worried in the slightest a little feedback in the sense of as to why the communications stopped would of been nice to say the least as it was going so well haha.. but it happens .. fall of the horse you get back on right? |
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I'm not condoning their choice, but could it be not just the fact you have 3 children, but the fact you have 3 while still being quite young?
Personally I don't see why this should be a problem, but I know some people have strange attitudes towards people who have more than one child while still young.
Either way it's definitely their loss as your profile is very enticing! |
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ... "
I don't meet men with school aged children as experience has taught me arranging a meet is difficult.
It could be this couple have had similar experiences, or it could be they simply changed their mind.
You need to reset your "oh well" meter because you will NEVER have universal appeal and if "knock backs" make you feel shitty you'll have a miserable time here. |
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"Are you sure it was you mentioning children that put them off? Did you suggest that they came to your home?
It could just be that they changed their mind and it coincided with your message about your kids
They was talking about meeting for a social.. we agreed obviously we have to plan in advance for somebody to watch our babies .. I mentioned that saying having 3 children you know it need some planning and preparation.. then they didn't respond .. so I was just like oh okay haha i guess it's a problem.. idk just makes you feel shitty aha ...
They probably thought you won't make the social due to the logistics in organising child care for 3 kids.
Nothing wrong with what you said, but they may have had bad experiences before with couple having kids needing child care.
I totally get that ... but you can't tarr everyone with the same brush but I understand that point of view ... "
Unfortunately, with limited time some of us do. |
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I would just say its not "their loss". That's quite insulting to the other couple who simply changed their mind and if they decided they didn't want to meet aren't actually losing anything  .
I understand that its a way of reassuring people though. |
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