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Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting. |
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"Aren't we all lol 
Thanks for posting but from your profile it would appear that you aren't looking for a single gent?"
Maybe they would like a hotwife to join them as a couple? |
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"Aren't we all lol
Thanks for posting but from your profile it would appear that you aren't looking for a single gent?
Maybe they would like a hotwife to join them as a couple?"
Dunno about them but your Mrs is fucking incredible!  |
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Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by. Our profile is a classic example, it states that we do not meet single men, but the reason being that once you open your inbox to all single men.. it's flooded! However I have a select few who I use on a regular basis, solo and group, but I found them.
So my point is, they are out there, they're just hiding behind inaccurate profiles!... keep searching and hopefully you'll find your unicorn! X  |
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Lost count on how many guys we've met whom said they wanted to have regular meets and either their never available or we don't hear from them again
Completely given up now and just enjoy one of meets |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting."
just wanted to mention that we have met Hantsguy at milf club he joined in our gangbang and was the best looking bloke in the club. Would love to be the hot wife but think we are maybe too far apart for anything regular  xx |
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We're a Hotwife couple (although we also swing). Love being a Hotwife. I like to have lovers. We do a mixture of me seeing them alone and for threesome fun. We consider our guy's as friends and treat them as such, so it's very much a threeway relationship. Some men are put off my our 'friendship' style approach, so we realise we're not for everyone. But I only need 2 or 3 men on the roladex so it's all cool. Took us a hell of a long time to find guys who genuinely enjoy this arrangement, and it's always a shame when their circumstances change and they can't do it any more.
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"Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by. Our profile is a classic example, it states that we do not meet single men, but the reason being that once you open your inbox to all single men.. it's flooded! However I have a select few who I use on a regular basis, solo and group, but I found them.
So my point is, they are out there, they're just hiding behind inaccurate profiles!... keep searching and hopefully you'll find your unicorn! X "
Any chance you could help rewrite my profile ?? |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting. just wanted to mention that we have met Hantsguy at milf club he joined in our gangbang and was the best looking bloke in the club. Would love to be the hot wife but think we are maybe too far apart for anything regular xx"
And for a second I misread that as 'hertsguy' instead of hantsguy..... I'm sure I would have remembered someone like you lol... forgetting the fact I've never been to milfclub!! Lucky Hantsguy is all I can say...  |
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"Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by. Our profile is a classic example, it states that we do not meet single men, but the reason being that once you open your inbox to all single men.. it's flooded! However I have a select few who I use on a regular basis, solo and group, but I found them.
So my point is, they are out there, they're just hiding behind inaccurate profiles!... keep searching and hopefully you'll find your unicorn! X
Any chance you could help rewrite my profile ??"
Your profile seems pretty perfect already. However I'd be willing to do pretty much anything you ask |
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In my experience when chatting with couples a lot of them (not all) would like to video the meet and that normally ends it with me,
I can understand why they would like to do it but I wouldn't unless I was doing the actual recording and editing, Even then I probably wouldn't do it until I had got to know her/them over 3-4 meets |
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"Aren't we all lol
Thanks for posting but from your profile it would appear that you aren't looking for a single gent?
Maybe they would like a hotwife to join them as a couple?
Dunno about them but your Mrs is fucking incredible! "
I agree we should be talking about her |
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"Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by. Our profile is a classic example, it states that we do not meet single men, but the reason being that once you open your inbox to all single men.. it's flooded! However I have a select few who I use on a regular basis, solo and group, but I found them.
So my point is, they are out there, they're just hiding behind inaccurate profiles!... keep searching and hopefully you'll find your unicorn! X
Any chance you could help rewrite my profile ??
Your profile seems pretty perfect already. However I'd be willing to do pretty much anything you ask "
How about moving a little closer ?? And thank you, yours is pretty perfect too x |
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"Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by. Our profile is a classic example, it states that we do not meet single men, but the reason being that once you open your inbox to all single men.. it's flooded! However I have a select few who I use on a regular basis, solo and group, but I found them.
So my point is, they are out there, they're just hiding behind inaccurate profiles!... keep searching and hopefully you'll find your unicorn! X
Any chance you could help rewrite my profile ??
Your profile seems pretty perfect already. However I'd be willing to do pretty much anything you ask
How about moving a little closer ?? And thank you, yours is pretty perfect too x"
Hmm requests of that magnitude may take a little longer!.. let's start small, maybe by getting naked first.. then seeing what happens 
Thank you by the way x |
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"Aren't we all lol
Thanks for posting but from your profile it would appear that you aren't looking for a single gent?
Maybe they would like a hotwife to join them as a couple?"
A very guid point!! |
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"Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by. Our profile is a classic example, it states that we do not meet single men, but the reason being that once you open your inbox to all single men.. it's flooded! However I have a select few who I use on a regular basis, solo and group, but I found them.
So my point is, they are out there, they're just hiding behind inaccurate profiles!... keep searching and hopefully you'll find your unicorn! X "
Thank you for your post and words or encouragement and here's hoping |
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"Lost count on how many guys we've met whom said they wanted to have regular meets and either their never available or we don't hear from them again
Completely given up now and just enjoy one of meets "
Its a shame but I have heard from other couples that this happens - seems like some guys like the idea of just having a guys wife and then move on
Personally I would prefer the ongoing dynamic offered by a true hotwife  |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting. just wanted to mention that we have met Hantsguy at milf club he joined in our gangbang and was the best looking bloke in the club. Would love to be the hot wife but think we are maybe too far apart for anything regular xx"
Hi gus and thank you 
I would love to be the single guy that you are looking for - such a great couple and one hell of a sexy lady!!!
Depending on your definition of regular- distance can be overcome |
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"We're a Hotwife couple (although we also swing). Love being a Hotwife. I like to have lovers. We do a mixture of me seeing them alone and for threesome fun. We consider our guy's as friends and treat them as such, so it's very much a threeway relationship. Some men are put off my our 'friendship' style approach, so we realise we're not for everyone. But I only need 2 or 3 men on the roladex so it's all cool. Took us a hell of a long time to find guys who genuinely enjoy this arrangement, and it's always a shame when their circumstances change and they can't do it any more.
Mrs"
Sounds like a great approach!! Guid sex comes from being able to communicate and this is easier if you are friends I think!
Glad you have found what you were looking for |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting. just wanted to mention that we have met Hantsguy at milf club he joined in our gangbang and was the best looking bloke in the club. Would love to be the hot wife but think we are maybe too far apart for anything regular xx
And for a second I misread that as 'hertsguy' instead of hantsguy..... I'm sure I would have remembered someone like you lol... forgetting the fact I've never been to milfclub!! Lucky Hantsguy is all I can say... "
I agree
Sophie is one very sexy lady and James is a great guy. I am very happy I was allowed the privilege to join them |
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"Prefer not to have a regular. Emotional bond during a meet yes, but over time no, would be a bit too personal for us tbh."
That's the guid thing with swinging - everyone is different
It is all about finding someone who matches what you seek |
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"We're a Hotwife couple (although we also swing). Love being a Hotwife. I like to have lovers. We do a mixture of me seeing them alone and for threesome fun. We consider our guy's as friends and treat them as such, so it's very much a threeway relationship. Some men are put off my our 'friendship' style approach, so we realise we're not for everyone. But I only need 2 or 3 men on the roladex so it's all cool. Took us a hell of a long time to find guys who genuinely enjoy this arrangement, and it's always a shame when their circumstances change and they can't do it any more.
Mrs
Sounds like a great approach!! Guid sex comes from being able to communicate and this is easier if you are friends I think!
Glad you have found what you were looking for "
Thank you. Not so much that we have found what we originally set out to look for. But we have had a journey that had brought us a lot of fun, some great friends, and some experiences we hadn't anticipated. Keeping an open mind and not being rigid is probably why the lifestyle works so well for us. Wish we had more time on our hands though.
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"We're a Hotwife couple (although we also swing). Love being a Hotwife. I like to have lovers. We do a mixture of me seeing them alone and for threesome fun. We consider our guy's as friends and treat them as such, so it's very much a threeway relationship. Some men are put off my our 'friendship' style approach, so we realise we're not for everyone. But I only need 2 or 3 men on the roladex so it's all cool. Took us a hell of a long time to find guys who genuinely enjoy this arrangement, and it's always a shame when their circumstances change and they can't do it any more.
Mrs
Sounds like a great approach!! Guid sex comes from being able to communicate and this is easier if you are friends I think!
Glad you have found what you were looking for
Thank you. Not so much that we have found what we originally set out to look for. But we have had a journey that had brought us a lot of fun, some great friends, and some experiences we hadn't anticipated. Keeping an open mind and not being rigid is probably why the lifestyle works so well for us. Wish we had more time on our hands though.
Mrs"
Don't we all!! Weekends never seem long enough and no one seems to want to meet during the week.
If I have learnt one thing since I have been on fab it is to keep an open mind and not stick to one particular idea or scenario. If I did I would never have went to a club and that opened a new world and new friends |
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I'd love to meet a regular couple in South Wales. In my opinion there seems to be a lot of genuine guys on here, but the couples looking for them get overwhelmed and give up. Any couple wanting a regular hot wife scenario PM me. |
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"We've been looking for a localish guy for regular meets too, finding it hard on here for a genuine guy for 1 meet never mind regular meet "
It seems there are genuine couples out there and genuine guys just maybe we aren't in compatible locations |
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"I'd like to be one, but as I'm single that's unlikely at the moment
again - location, location, loacation "
Yeah it defanatly is ,if your in a location where you see a hot wife couple and start chatting ...brilliant ....if not ..it ain't the end of the world and you'll just have to be patient |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting."
Well we both know one that fits the profile. |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting.
Well we both know one that fits the profile. "
Do I?
Definetly need to arrange a drink and chat..... |
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"Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by"
Sorry, is the term “hotwife” descriptive of a certain type of person in swinging, or simply “a wife who is good looking”? There are so many little buzzwords and phrases for people in the scene that it is a bit confusing. |
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"Being a hotwife myself I know they're fairly hard to come by
Sorry, is the term “hotwife” descriptive of a certain type of person in swinging, or simply “a wife who is good looking”? There are so many little buzzwords and phrases for people in the scene that it is a bit confusing."
hi there yes it is a certain type of swinger, obviously a wife (or maybe a girlfriend) who has the permission and often encouragement to play with other guys (and maybe girls). It does seem people term Hotwife in slightly different ways, some like for the wife to play solo with the third person, some husband to the hot wife like to be more involved and suggest guys for her to play with, some husbands may wish to be there at any meets, some just like to hear all the details after a meet.
As I say there are many slightly different views of a hotwife, but the wife's freedom to enjoy herself by enjoying a third person is the basic principle.
Hope that helps?
Great profile btw
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"Lost count on how many guys we've met whom said they wanted to have regular meets and either their never available or we don't hear from them again
Completely given up now and just enjoy one of meets "
thats problem with single guys always complaining but they just want to shag randoms and say anything to get into a ladies knickers no wonder they blocked on most profiles i think 80% of them are not capapble of being honest |
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"Lost count on how many guys we've met whom said they wanted to have regular meets and either their never available or we don't hear from them again
Completely given up now and just enjoy one of meets thats problem with single guys always complaining but they just want to shag randoms and say anything to get into a ladies knickers no wonder they blocked on most profiles i think 80% of them are not capapble of being honest"
I would luv a regular wife to meet up with . I dont wanna shag randoms |
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"Lost count on how many guys we've met whom said they wanted to have regular meets and either their never available or we don't hear from them again
Completely given up now and just enjoy one of meets thats problem with single guys always complaining but they just want to shag randoms and say anything to get into a ladies knickers no wonder they blocked on most profiles i think 80% of them are not capapble of being honest
I would luv a regular wife to meet up with . I dont wanna shag randoms "
Amount of times ive heard that said and never hear from them again unbelievable |
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"Lost count on how many guys we've met whom said they wanted to have regular meets and either their never available or we don't hear from them again
Completely given up now and just enjoy one of meets thats problem with single guys always complaining but they just want to shag randoms and say anything to get into a ladies knickers no wonder they blocked on most profiles i think 80% of them are not capapble of being honest
I would luv a regular wife to meet up with . I dont wanna shag randoms
Amount of times ive heard that said and never hear from them again unbelievable "
I can imagine its quite a few . Think that their bark is worse than their bite and bottle it when the offer is there x |
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"Hubby available for hot wife or couples. Lol there never local.
It seems to be a southern thing, all the hot wives are further north  "
Or in fact in Scotland, Ireland, Wales, anywhere except down here!! |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting."
*cough*..... Look no further |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting.
*cough*..... Look no further "
mmmmm I'm looking I'm looking x and after I've wrote this ill look again lol |
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"Lost count on how many guys we've met whom said they wanted to have regular meets and either their never available or we don't hear from them again
Completely given up now and just enjoy one of meets thats problem with single guys always complaining but they just want to shag randoms and say anything to get into a ladies knickers no wonder they blocked on most profiles i think 80% of them are not capapble of being honest
I would luv a regular wife to meet up with . I dont wanna shag randoms
Amount of times ive heard that said and never hear from them again unbelievable "
The thrill is on the chase for some guys.....and ladies. Once they've got what they want they disappear. It's happened to me on more than one occasion.  |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting.
*cough*..... Look no further mmmmm I'm looking I'm looking x and after I've wrote this ill look again lol "
Glad you didn't mind my little post x had a little perve at you |
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"Hubby available for hot wife or couples. Lol there never local.
It seems to be a southern thing, all the hot wives are further north
Or in fact in Scotland, Ireland, Wales, anywhere except down here!!"
Well it seems there is one or 2 very sexy Hotwives down south after all |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting.
*cough*..... Look no further "
I have been but maybe not been forward enough
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"Hubby available for hot wife or couples. Lol there never local.
It seems to be a southern thing, all the hot wives are further north
Or in fact in Scotland, Ireland, Wales, anywhere except down here!!
Well it seems there is one or 2 very sexy Hotwives down south after all "
I'm a southern Hotwife |
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream."
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream.
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
Mrs"
What disadvantages could they be ? |
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream.
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
Mrs
What disadvantages could they be ?"
Well the disadvantage is that the woman is not single, and I think most men would rather have a single woman. With a Hotwife the husband will have to approve and the husband will always come first. The arrangement is likely to include the husband in play and in communication, which may not suit all men. But its ideal for men who enjoy threesomes. Hotwives probably won't be able to give a man the kind of time and flexibility that a single woman can give, and hotwives may not be exclusive with their lovers/FBs. It's a good arrangement for a man who is busy and doesn't want a proper relationship.
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream.
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
Mrs
What disadvantages could they be ?
Well the disadvantage is that the woman is not single, and I think most men would rather have a single woman. With a Hotwife the husband will have to approve and the husband will always come first. The arrangement is likely to include the husband in play and in communication, which may not suit all men. But its ideal for men who enjoy threesomes. Hotwives probably won't be able to give a man the kind of time and flexibility that a single woman can give, and hotwives may not be exclusive with their lovers/FBs. It's a good arrangement for a man who is busy and doesn't want a proper relationship.
Mrs"
I'd be happy with that kinda arrangement t.b.h I have a few couples on my friends list and 75% of the time I'm chatting to the hubby ...I do understand that the hubby will come first in everything that is arranged |
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting.
*cough*..... Look no further
I have been but maybe not been forward enough
We need to sort out a 'proper' meet
Hello "
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"Well there have been a few posts on this topic recently so I thought I would start this post.
If you are a single gent looking for a Hotwife for regular fun or a Hotwife seeking a single gent then let's get chatting.
*cough*..... Look no further
I have been but maybe not been forward enough
We need to sort out a 'proper' meet
Hello "
Hopefully you are going on Sat night? Xx |
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream.
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
Mrs
What disadvantages could they be ?
Well the disadvantage is that the woman is not single, and I think most men would rather have a single woman. With a Hotwife the husband will have to approve and the husband will always come first. The arrangement is likely to include the husband in play and in communication, which may not suit all men. But its ideal for men who enjoy threesomes. Hotwives probably won't be able to give a man the kind of time and flexibility that a single woman can give, and hotwives may not be exclusive with their lovers/FBs. It's a good arrangement for a man who is busy and doesn't want a proper relationship.
Mrs"
Sounds pretty guid to me
I would like some playtime with just the hotwife though - maybe sending pics or videos to her Husband but as with any new relationship (either single or with a hotwife)
Commumication is key |
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream.
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
Mrs
What disadvantages could they be ?
Well the disadvantage is that the woman is not single, and I think most men would rather have a single woman. With a Hotwife the husband will have to approve and the husband will always come first. The arrangement is likely to include the husband in play and in communication, which may not suit all men. But its ideal for men who enjoy threesomes. Hotwives probably won't be able to give a man the kind of time and flexibility that a single woman can give, and hotwives may not be exclusive with their lovers/FBs. It's a good arrangement for a man who is busy and doesn't want a proper relationship.
Mrs
Sounds pretty guid to me
I would like some playtime with just the hotwife though - maybe sending pics or videos to her Husband but as with any new relationship (either single or with a hotwife)
Commumication is key "
Arhh, my husband LOVES that! Being sent pics and vids of me playing |
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream.
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
Mrs
What disadvantages could they be ?
Well the disadvantage is that the woman is not single, and I think most men would rather have a single woman. With a Hotwife the husband will have to approve and the husband will always come first. The arrangement is likely to include the husband in play and in communication, which may not suit all men. But its ideal for men who enjoy threesomes. Hotwives probably won't be able to give a man the kind of time and flexibility that a single woman can give, and hotwives may not be exclusive with their lovers/FBs. It's a good arrangement for a man who is busy and doesn't want a proper relationship.
Mrs
Sounds pretty guid to me
I would like some playtime with just the hotwife though - maybe sending pics or videos to her Husband but as with any new relationship (either single or with a hotwife)
Commumication is key
Arhh, my husband LOVES that! Being sent pics and vids of me playing "
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
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Hi everyone. I would love to meet a couple or single lady for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids "
That's a shame. There are guys who don't get or appreciate the Hotwife concept and what it means for that particular couple. But you just have to keep searching xx |
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"Who wouldn't want a hot wife on the regular! It's the dream.
In all honesty, I think most guys would not be particularly interested in having a Hotwife as a regular lover or FB. It's a very niche market. I am well aware of the advantages of taking someone like me on, but there are understandable disadvantages too.
Mrs
What disadvantages could they be ?
Well the disadvantage is that the woman is not single, and I think most men would rather have a single woman. With a Hotwife the husband will have to approve and the husband will always come first. The arrangement is likely to include the husband in play and in communication, which may not suit all men. But its ideal for men who enjoy threesomes. Hotwives probably won't be able to give a man the kind of time and flexibility that a single woman can give, and hotwives may not be exclusive with their lovers/FBs. It's a good arrangement for a man who is busy and doesn't want a proper relationship.
Mrs
Sounds pretty guid to me
I would like some playtime with just the hotwife though - maybe sending pics or videos to her Husband but as with any new relationship (either single or with a hotwife)
Commumication is key
Arhh, my husband LOVES that! Being sent pics and vids of me playing "
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"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids "
Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up |
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"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids
Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up "
We don't personally find it that hard, and we have always have at least 1 regular, usually 2, and on occasion 3. However that is from playing the long game. If we were to suddenly find ourselves at a loose end, it is unlikely we would find a man to fill that gap, as it does take a bit of hunting to find the men who like Hotwife couples. It certainly took us a long time to get established. But we don't take it for granted - constantly aware that at any time we could lose one of our guys to a girlfriend.
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Sorry to jump on the thread but I've started a Kik group for Lincolnshire Hotwives if anyone in the area would like to join. Just for the Hotwives, not the single guys etc. |
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"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids
Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up
We don't personally find it that hard, and we have always have at least 1 regular, usually 2, and on occasion 3. However that is from playing the long game. If we were to suddenly find ourselves at a loose end, it is unlikely we would find a man to fill that gap, as it does take a bit of hunting to find the men who like Hotwife couples. It certainly took us a long time to get established. But we don't take it for granted - constantly aware that at any time we could lose one of our guys to a girlfriend.
Mrs"
By the sounds of it you are the exception
Seriously though you seem to have the right idea about taking time to find the right person especially as some couples mention guys talkimg the talk and running after the 1st time.
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"Sorry to jump on the thread but I've started a Kik group for Lincolnshire Hotwives if anyone in the area would like to join. Just for the Hotwives, not the single guys etc."
No problem as all are welcome |
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"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids
Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up
We don't personally find it that hard, and we have always have at least 1 regular, usually 2, and on occasion 3. However that is from playing the long game. If we were to suddenly find ourselves at a loose end, it is unlikely we would find a man to fill that gap, as it does take a bit of hunting to find the men who like Hotwife couples. It certainly took us a long time to get established. But we don't take it for granted - constantly aware that at any time we could lose one of our guys to a girlfriend.
Mrs
By the sounds of it you are the exception
Seriously though you seem to have the right idea about taking time to find the right person especially as some couples mention guys talkimg the talk and running after the 1st time.
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The first year year we used to run Craig's list ads every few months. Then in a space of a year met 10 guys in London and rejected 8. There were more that bailed out on us prior to meeting. But we were desperate to find someone. I got so sick of those trips into London. Fab has been better for us, but that's because we made social connections through Fab, making it easier to meet the right type of guys. We don't actively look - that's too much hassle. |
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"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids
Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up
We don't personally find it that hard, and we have always have at least 1 regular, usually 2, and on occasion 3. However that is from playing the long game. If we were to suddenly find ourselves at a loose end, it is unlikely we would find a man to fill that gap, as it does take a bit of hunting to find the men who like Hotwife couples. It certainly took us a long time to get established. But we don't take it for granted - constantly aware that at any time we could lose one of our guys to a girlfriend.
Mrs
By the sounds of it you are the exception
Seriously though you seem to have the right idea about taking time to find the right person especially as some couples mention guys talkimg the talk and running after the 1st time.
The first year year we used to run Craig's list ads every few months. Then in a space of a year met 10 guys in London and rejected 8. There were more that bailed out on us prior to meeting. But we were desperate to find someone. I got so sick of those trips into London. Fab has been better for us, but that's because we made social connections through Fab, making it easier to meet the right type of guys. We don't actively look - that's too much hassle. "
A social does certainly seem to help sort the wheat from the chaff. If you are going to enter into an ongoing hotwife relationship then you have to be able to enjoy the social side as well.
I have seen some couples whose thing is to have a boyfriend for the Lady - not just the sex side but to date and take out for meals and suchlike before bringing her back to hubby. All the fun of a relationship without other parts |
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"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids
Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up
We don't personally find it that hard, and we have always have at least 1 regular, usually 2, and on occasion 3. However that is from playing the long game. If we were to suddenly find ourselves at a loose end, it is unlikely we would find a man to fill that gap, as it does take a bit of hunting to find the men who like Hotwife couples. It certainly took us a long time to get established. But we don't take it for granted - constantly aware that at any time we could lose one of our guys to a girlfriend.
Mrs
By the sounds of it you are the exception
Seriously though you seem to have the right idea about taking time to find the right person especially as some couples mention guys talkimg the talk and running after the 1st time.
The first year year we used to run Craig's list ads every few months. Then in a space of a year met 10 guys in London and rejected 8. There were more that bailed out on us prior to meeting. But we were desperate to find someone. I got so sick of those trips into London. Fab has been better for us, but that's because we made social connections through Fab, making it easier to meet the right type of guys. We don't actively look - that's too much hassle.
A social does certainly seem to help sort the wheat from the chaff. If you are going to enter into an ongoing hotwife relationship then you have to be able to enjoy the social side as well.
I have seen some couples whose thing is to have a boyfriend for the Lady - not just the sex side but to date and take out for meals and suchlike before bringing her back to hubby. All the fun of a relationship without other parts "
Actually with regards to socials, we really only do socials because we find socials fun, not to sort the sheet from the chaff. By the time we meet the decision is made, and from Fab meets we had 100% success rate.
Yes indeed a Hotwife can give a single man a relationship without the commitment or demands.
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"We love hot wifeing but sadly seem to have encountered lots of time wasters along the way . Mr loves when I send pics and vids
Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up
We don't personally find it that hard, and we have always have at least 1 regular, usually 2, and on occasion 3. However that is from playing the long game. If we were to suddenly find ourselves at a loose end, it is unlikely we would find a man to fill that gap, as it does take a bit of hunting to find the men who like Hotwife couples. It certainly took us a long time to get established. But we don't take it for granted - constantly aware that at any time we could lose one of our guys to a girlfriend.
Mrs
By the sounds of it you are the exception
Seriously though you seem to have the right idea about taking time to find the right person especially as some couples mention guys talkimg the talk and running after the 1st time.
The first year year we used to run Craig's list ads every few months. Then in a space of a year met 10 guys in London and rejected 8. There were more that bailed out on us prior to meeting. But we were desperate to find someone. I got so sick of those trips into London. Fab has been better for us, but that's because we made social connections through Fab, making it easier to meet the right type of guys. We don't actively look - that's too much hassle.
A social does certainly seem to help sort the wheat from the chaff. If you are going to enter into an ongoing hotwife relationship then you have to be able to enjoy the social side as well.
I have seen some couples whose thing is to have a boyfriend for the Lady - not just the sex side but to date and take out for meals and suchlike before bringing her back to hubby. All the fun of a relationship without other parts
Actually with regards to socials, we really only do socials because we find socials fun, not to sort the sheet from the chaff. By the time we meet the decision is made, and from Fab meets we had 100% success rate.
Yes indeed a Hotwife can give a single man a relationship without the commitment or demands.
Mrs "
I think if you have a look at my verifications you will find I enjoy the odd social or 2 as well infact there is a rather large one on Fareham this Saturday if you are free?
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Such a shame - seems a bit of an issue for genuine hotwife couples.
There are those of us that are genuinely interested in finding and nurturing an ongoing hotwife dynamic so don't give up
We don't personally find it that hard, and we have always have at least 1 regular, usually 2, and on occasion 3. However that is from playing the long game. If we were to suddenly find ourselves at a loose end, it is unlikely we would find a man to fill that gap, as it does take a bit of hunting to find the men who like Hotwife couples. It certainly took us a long time to get established. But we don't take it for granted - constantly aware that at any time we could lose one of our guys to a girlfriend.
Mrs"
I have had the arrangement Mrs Classy Swinger a couple of times - as Mrs classy says - it can be a perfect arrangement for a single guy - all the benefits of a fb relationship without all the complications of a full on relationship.
What of course, made the whole thing so horny was that the lady was happily married but still had a few lovers on the side. I just found the whole scenario of going on a date with a married lady before taking her back to mine or going to her house (with hubby in the next room) to be so incredibly horny! Happy days! |
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I love being a hot wife ....my hubby does too, he adores the whole situation from leading upto the meets to me coming home with a smile on my face .... we don't do date night ....we do confession time. Where I give him a detailed account of the meeting while we play |
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"I love being a hot wife ....my hubby does too, he adores the whole situation from leading upto the meets to me coming home with a smile on my face .... we don't do date night ....we do confession time. Where I give him a detailed account of the meeting while we play "
I like the confession night ....bet that leads to some hot and horny sex between you both x |
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"I love being a hot wife ....my hubby does too, he adores the whole situation from leading upto the meets to me coming home with a smile on my face .... we don't do date night ....we do confession time. Where I give him a detailed account of the meeting while we play
I like the confession night ....bet that leads to some hot and horny sex between you both x"
Oh God yes x |
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"Think I should move back to Fareham thats two extremely nice lookin hotwifes there x HG whats stoppin you they are on your doorstep"
And there is gorgeous Yvonne (veronalovers) in Portsmouth spoilt for choice down there |
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"Think I should move back to Fareham thats two extremely nice lookin hotwifes there x HG whats stoppin you they are on your doorstep"
Well I may have missed the boat with one... or just not been what they were looking for
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