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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol "
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner. |
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner. "
Wives are people not possessions. |
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner.
Wives are people not possessions."
If you have a religious wedding they are. The father walking the bride down the isle and handing her to the husband isn't just for the camera's, it's a transfer of responsibility as part of a legally binding contract. |
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner.
Wives are people not possessions."
Here we're M/s and I do consider myself his property. But we still have no interest in sharing me. We have separate accounts and if we do meet anyone together it will be a mutual decision not me being shared. |
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner.
Wives are people not possessions.
If you have a religious wedding they are. The father walking the bride down the isle and handing her to the husband isn't just for the camera's, it's a transfer of responsibility as part of a legally binding contract. "
Good job we used the registry office then. |
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner.
Wives are people not possessions.
If you have a religious wedding they are. The father walking the bride down the isle and handing her to the husband isn't just for the camera's, it's a transfer of responsibility as part of a legally binding contract.
Good job we used the registry office then."
Indeed. The clergy don't tend to appreciate being asked to arbitrate wife swapping disputes |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Wives are people not possessions."
We have been married over 35 years we see each other as 2 people but one entity.
When we swing we share our bodies with others.
We don't swap as the sharing is only for the meet.
Perhaps that is why our marriage has survived the years because we understand that we share each other with outsiders all the time.
When we meet others socially we share ourselves with others, not as intimately as when we swing in every interaction with the world we share part of ourselves with others. |
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"Think people are missing the point here.
Maybe I have worded it wrong"
na i know what you ment.it's just that you are on the internet so there is always going to be a couple people that will look for anything to find fault with what you say. . |
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Wives are people not possessions.
We have been married over 35 years we see each other as 2 people but one entity.
When we swing we share our bodies with others.
We don't swap as the sharing is only for the meet.
Perhaps that is why our marriage has survived the years because we understand that we share each other with outsiders all the time.
When we meet others socially we share ourselves with others, not as intimately as when we swing in every interaction with the world we share part of ourselves with others."
Yeah I prefer the word 'sharing' as opposed to 'swapping'. Compare it with having dinner in a restaurant. 2 people could order a meal each, then decide to swap plates. Or people could order 2 meals and share both by eating from both plates. I like the latter as everybody gets a bit of everything. Although with regards to somebody being a possession, I don't think either 'swap' or 'share' necessarily suggests that in the context of swinging. Whether my husband and I swap or share, it's done with mutual consent and so neither of us are owning anybody. Sharing is just more fun. And admittedly he shares me more than I share him, but that's circumstantial. That's my interpretation anyway.
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Having been the single male sharing someone else's wife a few times now, both with hubby present and without, I would love to take it one step further and go out for a few drinks or something to eat, talk about what goes on in their heads in this situation. From the small amount of chat if had with couples it seems they are all different but if more conversation was had I'm sure I could make the situation even more memorable for them. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner.
Wives are people not possessions."
Exactly. You can only share what you own. We share enjoyment while swinging because we both have it. |
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"Wifes are for sharing".....?
Firstly I'd say ONLY if they want to.
Secondly they are in this as a person with their own mind and are not commodities.
Yes I like to share but only if she likes the idea too and more importantly if she likes the others involved. |
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner.
Wives are people not possessions."
Don't ask me why but,
"Fish are Friends, not Food."
Popped in my head when I read that.  |
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"If not why not but ask yourself how many single guys ( fab single that is ) would lol
Being a single person on a swinger's site doesn't automatic mean you have to swap partners when you get one. Notice I said swap, not share. If I marry again my husband won't be sharing me if we decide to meet others for extra-marital sex. I won't be his to give away. I would also respect other peoples' choices to not want to stay here, once they find a partner.
Wives are people not possessions.
Exactly. You can only share what you own. We share enjoyment while swinging because we both have it."
Do you have to own something to share it? My husband and I share each other with other sexual partners, but we hardly ever swap (think a swap has only happened twice). But we don't own each other. In fact I don't think it's possible for 2 people to own each other - there has to be an owned and an owner. Maybe if 'share' is associated with ownership, there is another word for 'share' where there is no ownship and swapping is not taking place?
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