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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Do people get down being on this site?

Is it a me thing...

A man thing...

A woman thing...

A couple thing...

Or is it the actual site..

Opinions would help

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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not really. i do whinge a lot so that helps but i also block all men when they piss me off and don't take my filters off for ages, and not for long when i do take them off.

if i hadn't accepted that this site is basically an NSA fuck site where the aim is to fuck as many randoms as possible then maybe i'd be down about being here.

the site is great for what it is and does. just it attracts all kinds of people here who are not here for the same things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"not really. i do whinge a lot so that helps but i also block all men when they piss me off and don't take my filters off for ages, and not for long when i do take them off.

if i hadn't accepted that this site is basically an NSA fuck site where the aim is to fuck as many randoms as possible then maybe i'd be down about being here.

the site is great for what it is and does. just it attracts all kinds of people here who are not here for the same things."

Cheers, What you said and your profile makes kinda sense. Can get lost on here sometimes. Thankyou

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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do you feel down?

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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or rather why do you feel down?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people get down being on this site?

Is it a me thing...

A man thing...

A woman thing...

A couple thing...

Or is it the actual site..

Opinions would help"

Does it get you down?

Sometimes it does but I change what I'm doing or don't log in or stop looking at profiles. Life's too short.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Forget sometimes if i'm on Fabswingers or Fab guys tbh OP so nope you're not alone and chin up ol boy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Confused and lost but hey..... Would chat with you privately but you hate men lol. But what you have replied already makes sense so much appreciated.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"Confused and lost but hey..... Would chat with you privately but you hate men lol. But what you have replied already makes sense so much appreciated. "

i don't hate men, i just don't invest much of myself in them. my mind is too precious for me to do that any more.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

From what I've read people do get down on the site.

It seems to me that its frequently as a result of unrealistic expectations.

I think if an internet site is getting a person down it might not be right for them at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"From what I've read people do get down on the site.

It seems to me that its frequently as a result of unrealistic expectations.

I think if an internet site is getting a person down it might not be right for them at the time."

Now what if there was a person who you unexpectedly met here. Fell for annnnnnd.....was just a game for that person or was it actually real. Different people are here for different reasons so cheers guys for your opinions.

Could you actually find love on here realistically?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We are all here for different reasons so thanks for reminding me that x

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"From what I've read people do get down on the site.

It seems to me that its frequently as a result of unrealistic expectations.

I think if an internet site is getting a person down it might not be right for them at the time.

Now what if there was a person who you unexpectedly met here. Fell for annnnnnd.....was just a game for that person or was it actually real. Different people are here for different reasons so cheers guys for your opinions.

Could you actually find love on here realistically?

"

You can realistically find love anywhere I would say.

I don't know what your expectations of the site are but I didn't mean that yours in particular were unrealistic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

The site can be addictive and if you have been a part of it so long you get trapped in it I guess and know no other way and see a different place, a different world. Just woundering is it just me?

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London

I've had a few self imposed time outs when I've been dicked around by people here. Took me a while not to let it get to me down but realised it's wasted emotion on people who don't deserve it.

Try and see this site for fun without expectation and it'll be easier

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"The site can be addictive and if you have been a part of it so long you get trapped in it I guess and know no other way and see a different place, a different world. Just woundering is it just me?"

could be you.

if you want something more than NSA sex then this site will certainly not seem as appealing. and nothing has changed on it, just you have.

that's what's happened for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The site can be addictive and if you have been a part of it so long you get trapped in it I guess and know no other way and see a different place, a different world. Just woundering is it just me?

could be you.

I never wanted anything than nsa as my profile now states. I found something and lost a big everything annnnnnd..m here I am

if you want something more than NSA sex then this site will certainly not seem as appealing. and nothing has changed on it, just you have.

that's what's happened for me anyway."

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By *appy squirrelWoman  over a year ago

Norwich

I know that there are a number of couples who have met here. but generally -any form of contact on here is mostly very unreliable and superficial.

it's great for its purpose but I wouldn't rely on anything that is said on here ...

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By *ittleAcornMan  over a year ago

visiting the beach

I'm a fairly happy-go-lucky sort, so no, it doesn't get me down.

Though in fairness I don't try too hard to meet people off here. So I've not had much bad experience.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"The site can be addictive and if you have been a part of it so long you get trapped in it I guess and know no other way and see a different place, a different world. Just woundering is it just me?

could be you.

I never wanted anything than nsa as my profile now states. I found something and lost a big everything annnnnnd..m here I am

if you want something more than NSA sex then this site will certainly not seem as appealing. and nothing has changed on it, just you have.

that's what's happened for me anyway."

it's easier for women to get NSA than men. anyway your status looks liked you've perked up a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The site can be addictive and if you have been a part of it so long you get trapped in it I guess and know no other way and see a different place, a different world. Just woundering is it just me?

could be you.

I never wanted anything than nsa as my profile now states. I found something and lost a big everything annnnnnd..m here I am

if you want something more than NSA sex then this site will certainly not seem as appealing. and nothing has changed on it, just you have.

that's what's happened for me anyway.

it's easier for women to get NSA than men. anyway your status looks liked you've perked up a bit. "

Have I found an honest woman on here while having my rant

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By *ikstupp2Man  over a year ago

london

It happens fella,but then coming off the site for a bit can help,let's face it no one will be the life and soul at a meet if ther head is a bit wonky at the time

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"The site can be addictive and if you have been a part of it so long you get trapped in it I guess and know no other way and see a different place, a different world. Just woundering is it just me?

could be you.

I never wanted anything than nsa as my profile now states. I found something and lost a big everything annnnnnd..m here I am

if you want something more than NSA sex then this site will certainly not seem as appealing. and nothing has changed on it, just you have.

that's what's happened for me anyway.

it's easier for women to get NSA than men. anyway your status looks liked you've perked up a bit.

Have I found an honest woman on here while having my rant "

if you mean me then yeah. i'm sometimes brutal with that too, haha. not needed to be in here though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The site can be addictive and if you have been a part of it so long you get trapped in it I guess and know no other way and see a different place, a different world. Just woundering is it just me?

could be you.

I never wanted anything than nsa as my profile now states. I found something and lost a big everything annnnnnd..m here I am

if you want something more than NSA sex then this site will certainly not seem as appealing. and nothing has changed on it, just you have.

that's what's happened for me anyway.

it's easier for women to get NSA than men. anyway your status looks liked you've perked up a bit.

Have I found an honest woman on here while having my rant

if you mean me then yeah. i'm sometimes brutal with that too, haha. not needed to be in here though."

Like the honesty bit but no brutality for me thanks lol, I'm fragile and iv had enough of that on here lately

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like this site and generally speaking it cheers me up. I'm not a miserable bastard, mind, it's just usually quite a happy forum.

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By *ittleAcornMan  over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I like this site and generally speaking it cheers me up. I'm not a miserable bastard, mind, it's just usually quite a happy forum. "

Yes, especially if you avoid the obviously contentious or miserable threads if you're not in the mood...

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I like this site and generally speaking it cheers me up. I'm not a miserable bastard, mind, it's just usually quite a happy forum.

Yes, especially if you avoid the obviously contentious or miserable threads if you're not in the mood..."

Yup

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Wish I could close the thread and cheer you all up but hey I can't.

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