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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, my advice... from one single guy to another.
most of this is fairly obvious, but i'll say them anyway
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when approaching someone either that be via email or chatting in one of the rooms. speak to them like you would if you was to introduce yourself in bar, anything that would get a drink thrown over you in a bar, would normally do the same here.
2, be honest and repsectful. if your married be honest from the start, there are Females/ couples out there that do meet married men, but its best to be up front about it, and let them decide.. don't hide it, as when it comes out, you'll just make things hard for your self.
3, don't be too pushy for a meet, if she wants to meet you she will, asking constantly, or trying to arrange a date with in 5 mins of chatting, while probably find her distancing her self.
4 - get to a social
this is a great way of meeting many people, in a neutral environment. also, this will make you stand out more than most. as once met, you will find more people will chat to you in the room / forums...
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Well said, Jiggle! And although it is fairly obvious advice, not all guys in the chatrooms have taken on board 1, 2 & 3 And then the same guys whine that they can't get meets |