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Question for those who play bareback. Do you only play bare when you get to know the other person or persons? Or do you just go bare from the 1st meet?
We have been playing bareback since our 1st meet and choose to only ever play bareback. Would've interested in hearing others views on when to play bare |
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"I played on first meets bare . And other times with condoms on. But nothing better than feeling a guy unload inside you knowing he is satisfied best feeling xx  "
Like your thinking and I have to say, I would love to cum deep inside you   xx |
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over a year ago
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we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy. |
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy."
thats how you like it there is lots who do and don't |
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy."
in fantasy that would be amazing. Reality is I couldnt do it. |
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy."
Totally agree |
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy."
Cummy pussy is great. I love knowing that Janine has had another man inside her and leaving his spunk in her pussy and arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1000000% always
maybe if you become friends , but you dont know who there sleeping with so think , aids or my lovely life ! think about it
lots of things to do , foreplay oral watching , soft fun , instead of bareback
just have some durex handy simple |
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy."
The thing that makes me laugh is that we have been involved in orgies where guys put on a condom and then fuck some women. Then immediately move on to another.
Without even thinking about changing their condom. Clearly they are protected but...
I have also seen guys rubbing their cocks and then immediately fingering some anonymous female.
Don't fool yourselves all you safe sex disciples.
There is no such thing in swinging |
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"Yes I do. I love it  "
Likewise.
We do it. We enjoy it.
Nor are we foolish enough to credit a little prophylactic with some guarantee of being a 100% safety net.
In swinging there is no such thing. |
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy.
I have seen that as well and he got kik out of the club .i get tested as I do gagbangs partys and work with girls in porn
The thing that makes me laugh is that we have been involved in orgies where guys put on a condom and then fuck some women. Then immediately move on to another.
Without even thinking about changing their condom. Clearly they are protected but...
I have also seen guys rubbing their cocks and then immediately fingering some anonymous female.
Don't fool yourselves all you safe sex disciples.
There is no such thing in swinging "
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"Yes I do. I love it
Likewise.
We do it. We enjoy it.
Nor are we foolish enough to credit a little prophylactic with some guarantee of being a 100% safety net.
In swinging there is no such thing."
That is right and it is also sex with feelings, very intimate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy."
We couldn't agree any more, best feeling ever, we know the risks, but that's the choice we choose to make |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy.
The thing that makes me laugh is that we have been involved in orgies where guys put on a condom and then fuck some women. Then immediately move on to another.
Without even thinking about changing their condom. Clearly they are protected but...
I have also seen guys rubbing their cocks and then immediately fingering some anonymous female.
Don't fool yourselves all you safe sex disciples.
There is no such thing in swinging "
But it is safer to use condoms and not have oral sex with strangers
And, nobody, but nobody, apart from my husband, is sticking his fingers in me
- Mrs. J - |
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I'm interested by this... if we lived in a world without STI/ STD... then I could understand choosing BB but I'd be too worried about catching something to be able to enjoy BB. How do you reconcile yourself with the risk? (And obviously the pregnancy risk too)
No judgement, as it's just personal preference just interested, hope you don't mind me asking. xx |
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"I'm interested by this... if we lived in a world without STI/ STD... then I could understand choosing BB but I'd be too worried about catching something to be able to enjoy BB. How do you reconcile yourself with the risk? (And obviously the pregnancy risk too)
No judgement, as it's just personal preference just interested, hope you don't mind me asking. xx"
I've never got pregnant from bareback. |
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"I'm interested by this... if we lived in a world without STI/ STD... then I could understand choosing BB but I'd be too worried about catching something to be able to enjoy BB. How do you reconcile yourself with the risk? (And obviously the pregnancy risk too)
No judgement, as it's just personal preference just interested, hope you don't mind me asking. xx
I've never got pregnant from bareback. "
Shame just think of the fame & fortune it would have brought you!! |
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"I'm interested by this... if we lived in a world without STI/ STD... then I could understand choosing BB but I'd be too worried about catching something to be able to enjoy BB. How do you reconcile yourself with the risk? (And obviously the pregnancy risk too)
No judgement, as it's just personal preference just interested, hope you don't mind me asking. xx
I've never got pregnant from bareback.
Shame just think of the fame & fortune it would have brought you!! "
Jesus. I can just about look after myself. I'm not a role model for children.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I played on first meets bare . And other times with condoms on. But nothing better than feeling a guy unload inside you knowing he is satisfied best feeling xx "
It's the best feeling ever xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I do. I love it
Likewise.
We do it. We enjoy it.
Nor are we foolish enough to credit a little prophylactic with some guarantee of being a 100% safety net.
In swinging there is no such thing.That is right and it is also sex with feelings, very intimate "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"statistically you can catch more std from oral than fullon sex, depending who with
a serious std is easier to catch than a bus"
thats really bad advice... oral is much less risky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Obviously many enjoy it, that much is clear...
Has anyone gotten STD following bareback? "
we knew a guy that was doing it. He caught something. And told us and then went off the site... we had people contacting us in tears and worrying and had to tell the ladies he had met to get checked out.
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By *en2010Man
over a year ago
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"I played on first meets bare . And other times with condoms on. But nothing better than feeling a guy unload inside you knowing he is satisfied best feeling xx "
Sounds like a plan an local to you and even better to have you sit over my face with cum running out of your pussy then lover yourself onto my tongue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Obviously many enjoy it, that much is clear...
Has anyone gotten STD following bareback?
about 434,500 in 2015..."
Thanks. So only in 2015? None prior or after that. We are all safe then, pheeww...
I meant someone from this thread from their own experience if they were willing to share it or knowing someone personally who got an infection after bb. |
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"Obviously many enjoy it, that much is clear...
Has anyone gotten STD following bareback?
about 434,500 in 2015...
Thanks. So only in 2015? None prior or after that. We are all safe then, pheeww...
I meant someone from this thread from their own experience if they were willing to share it or knowing someone personally who got an infection after bb. "
I think you're going to be very hard pushed to find someone who will admit to catching anything from doing BB off this site.
Too much stigma attached to it. |
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"Obviously many enjoy it, that much is clear...
Has anyone gotten STD following bareback?
about 434,500 in 2015...
Thanks. So only in 2015? None prior or after that. We are all safe then, pheeww...
I meant someone from this thread from their own experience if they were willing to share it or knowing someone personally who got an infection after bb.
I think you're going to be very hard pushed to find someone who will admit to catching anything from doing BB off this site.
Too much stigma attached to it. "
there are a few over the years that have admitted it. Not sure how many are still here. But do remember the threads.
But there are people that have.. and the fall out is never good... especially if they do a runner and leave others to deal with it. |
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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago
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"Obviously many enjoy it, that much is clear...
Has anyone gotten STD following bareback?
about 434,500 in 2015...
Thanks. So only in 2015? None prior or after that. We are all safe then, pheeww...
I meant someone from this thread from their own experience if they were willing to share it or knowing someone personally who got an infection after bb. "
There is a guy in my area who gave another local fabber genital herpes. She messages all local women to warn them every time he rejoins the site. |
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"Obviously many enjoy it, that much is clear...
Has anyone gotten STD following bareback?
about 434,500 in 2015...
Thanks. So only in 2015? None prior or after that. We are all safe then, pheeww...
I meant someone from this thread from their own experience if they were willing to share it or knowing someone personally who got an infection after bb.
There is a guy in my area who gave another local fabber genital herpes. She messages all local women to warn them every time he rejoins the site."
see and there lies a danger. As herpes can be caught while using condoms too. How does she know he gave it to her..?
We once had someone accuse one of us.. only we has several months of all clear texts. They sent oh sorry must have been someone else... but led to us getting checked again and me even more paranoid than before |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Obviously many enjoy it, that much is clear...
Has anyone gotten STD following bareback? "
Of course they have, however you may be suprised at how many have caught an STI whilst using comdoms or got prgnant whilst using protection.
There is more to safe sex than sticking a rubber on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just to correct my husband's above statement. He did NOT mean we only play bare. He meant we will only play bare after a long time of knowing someone and testing has taken place, and that this situation is rare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's an informed choice like everything else in the world. Love it and for me it's BB only. Now block me those who want to."
I agree, personally I prefer bareback sex and have a bit of a thing for cumming inside a lady, it really turns me on.
That said, I totally understand where people are coming from regarding the risks. I tend to make a judgement call when it situation presents itself |
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"Just to correct my husband's above statement. He did NOT mean we only play bare. He meant we will only play bare after a long time of knowing someone and testing has taken place, and that this situation is rare "
Another example when the wife needs to pull her husband by the scruff of his neck and remedy a situation that arose from his actions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we, like many others prefer bareback and its our first choice 1st meet or regular friends. We leave the decision on condoms to the others - If they want safe then safe it is.
In group play bareback is easier for all to just swap around. We love the feeling of a cummy pussy."
This. I love being able to swap between penetration and oral, even one on one in addition to the sensation of being bare and then the bonus of a creamy pussy to lick at the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I simply LOVE feeling other guys cum dribbling over my cock as i fuck a messy pussy or ass. Also the taste of licking clean a messy pussy or ass i think is second to none xxxx |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"We don't play bare back with others only ever play safe, although the last meet we had not only did the guy show up late, he forgot to mention he had "accidentally" forgot get some comdoms until in the heat of the moment  lucky I had come prepared and had some of hubbys in my bag, don't think he enjoyed the night after that he kept on losing it and hasn't been in touch since or left a veri no great loss turns out he wasn't the right guy after all "
I mean how do you forget condoms - for me it's first thing in play bag, its different if he said do you have a condom as I ran out but to completely forget is shit
Also not even to veri to say thanks for evening. |
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I hate that. I love bareback and it would always be my first choice but that's bullshit behaviour. "
Your telling me, something didn't seem right about the night he finally messaged us after thinking he had stood us up saying he was about 25 mins away, what he didn't know we could see him from the hotel room parked up just down the road 
M |
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"I mean how do you forget condoms - for me it's first thing in play bag, its different if he said do you have a condom as I ran out but to completely forget is shit
Also not even to veri to say thanks for evening. "
Maybe he thought we had booked the hotel for afternoon tea and a chat
I find the no veri just rude, N was very nervous on the night as it was the first time playing with him on her own I thought it would be a bit of a confidence builder for her and we both liked the idea but no veri or contact from him looks like it's come back to bite me in the arse. M |
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"statistically you can catch more std from oral than fullon sex, depending who with
a serious std is easier to catch than a bus"
That is so not true
- Mrs. J - |
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"statistically you can catch more std from oral than fullon sex, depending who with
a serious std is easier to catch than a bus
That is so not true
- Mrs. J -"
It's probably easy enough to catch a serious STD on a bus. |
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"statistically you can catch more std from oral than fullon sex, depending who with
a serious std is easier to catch than a bus
That is so not true
- Mrs. J -
It's probably easy enough to catch a serious STD on a bus. "
Where I am, it is harder to catch a bus
- Mrs. J - |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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bareback i always prefer and consider, but i tend to want to know more about the person or couple
as i will be honest i hate condoms as they will make me never cum and will give me a itchy dick for the the next couple of weeks. |
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"bareback i always prefer and consider, but i tend to want to know more about the person or couple
as i will be honest i hate condoms as they will make me never cum and will give me a itchy dick for the the next couple of weeks. "
you might be allergic to latex ( I am) try the mates Skyns ones the whole range is latex free x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have done on the first meet, been fortunate enough not to regret it. Not something I'd consider now unless they could prove they were clean. Bareback is the only way for me though. Proof they're clean-fine. Unable to prove-no sex |
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"Have done on the first meet, been fortunate enough not to regret it. Not something I'd consider now unless they could prove they were clean. Bareback is the only way for me though. Proof they're clean-fine. Unable to prove-no sex"
You can never have 100% proof.
A negative test result simply proves that there was no std up to the time of the test. That's all. How do you know if he didn't catch something in between the test and fucking you, even if the test was recent? |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Bareback threads prove one thing to us.
Many people on fab have little idea about safe sex.
The show obvious lack on knowledge not only about the risks involved but how to avoid such risks.
Some seem to think a clear test proves a person is clear of STIs, they do not understand just what a test shows.
Others think sex using a condom is safe and yet others think unprotected oral sex is safe.
As the saying goes ignorance is bliss.
If you are going to indulge in sex remember one think there are risks with all forms of sex, from simple kissing through the whole gambit of play.
The risk comes from not knowing what forms a risk, find out the facts then make an educated decision how you play based on the facts.
That is what has kept us safe for over 37 years of play which is longer than many judgemental people here have lived let alone indulged in sex. |
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