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By *irldn OP   Couple  over a year ago

Brighton

Totally understand that some couples are happy to meet alone (without each other). Also understand that in some couples the female wants to specifically meet other girls for bisexual experiences only with no male involvement. In both cases that totally warrants a single female profile (and it is actually good that they are honest about being part of a couple even though the male half won't be there).

What we don't get is single female profiles where it says "I will only meet with my partner"

So that makes it a couples profile right?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends as some also like to chat to in chat rooms together etc, I just move on from it. Mine is like you said at start as I meet alone and together. I wouldn't let it annoy you just move on, plenty more profiles out there lol x

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes OP, the different reasons you give are all valid. But if they only meet with a partner, I'd say that is a couples profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes OP, the different reasons you give are all valid. But if they only meet with a partner, I'd say that is a couples profile too."

yep...we call them bait profiles...we report and block them...dishonest and manipulative...

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By *ot40sCouple  over a year ago

birmingham


"Yes OP, the different reasons you give are all valid. But if they only meet with a partner, I'd say that is a couples profile too.

yep...we call them bait profiles...we report and block them...dishonest and manipulative..."

Totally agree with this ... too many on here with misleading profiles !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have had "couples" msg us start chatting then find it's a single male or just the husband we asked one why his profile says couple and his reply was "I've got more chance of meeting if they think I'm in a couple" yea he got blocked!

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By *eithoWoman  over a year ago

Chatham

Agreed. I report such profiles as they can be used to circumvent filters and waste people's time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agreed. I report such profiles as they can be used to circumvent filters and waste people's time."

Report? Really ?!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think a woman does it as she would get more meets.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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you can report the profiles. they should be couples profiles if they're meeting as a couple.

single women meet on their own.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on."

It's against site rules.

Report the profile and Admin will sort it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

It's against site rules.

Report the profile and Admin will sort it."

Telling someone she only meets with her male friend is not against site rules. She isn't running it as a couples profile. She is simply saying how she is choosing to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

It's against site rules.

Report the profile and Admin will sort it.

Telling someone she only meets with her male friend is not against site rules. She isn't running it as a couples profile. She is simply saying how she is choosing to meet people."

If she only meets with a partner that's a couple. Hence couple profile. If she meets on her own - single woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

It's against site rules.

Report the profile and Admin will sort it.

Telling someone she only meets with her male friend is not against site rules. She isn't running it as a couples profile. She is simply saying how she is choosing to meet people.

If she only meets with a partner that's a couple. Hence couple profile. If she meets on her own - single woman."

Has it even crossed your mind that maybe she uses it as an excuse? Or maybe she will only meet couples with her male friend but she will happily meet men alone? Why should it bother people. Seriously

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

It's against site rules.

Report the profile and Admin will sort it.

Telling someone she only meets with her male friend is not against site rules. She isn't running it as a couples profile. She is simply saying how she is choosing to meet people.

If she only meets with a partner that's a couple. Hence couple profile. If she meets on her own - single woman.

Has it even crossed your mind that maybe she uses it as an excuse? Or maybe she will only meet couples with her male friend but she will happily meet men alone? Why should it bother people. Seriously "

Is it you? You seem quite irate. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

It's against site rules.

Report the profile and Admin will sort it.

Telling someone she only meets with her male friend is not against site rules. She isn't running it as a couples profile. She is simply saying how she is choosing to meet people.

If she only meets with a partner that's a couple. Hence couple profile. If she meets on her own - single woman.

Has it even crossed your mind that maybe she uses it as an excuse? Or maybe she will only meet couples with her male friend but she will happily meet men alone? Why should it bother people. Seriously

Is it you? You seem quite irate. x"

You're funny

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By *osweet69Couple  over a year ago

portsmouth


"Totally understand that some couples are happy to meet alone (without each other). Also understand that in some couples the female wants to specifically meet other girls for bisexual experiences only with no male involvement. In both cases that totally warrants a single female profile (and it is actually good that they are honest about being part of a couple even though the male half won't be there).

What we don't get is single female profiles where it says "I will only meet with my partner"

So that makes it a couples profile right?"

Yep

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

It's against site rules.

Report the profile and Admin will sort it.

Telling someone she only meets with her male friend is not against site rules. She isn't running it as a couples profile. She is simply saying how she is choosing to meet people.

If she only meets with a partner that's a couple. Hence couple profile. If she meets on her own - single woman.

Has it even crossed your mind that maybe she uses it as an excuse? Or maybe she will only meet couples with her male friend but she will happily meet men alone? Why should it bother people. Seriously "

coz someone looking to meet a single woman doesn't want to meet a couple. basically.

i only wanna meet single men, if one approached me and i was interested but then he mentioned he only meets with a woman i'd pissed off and claim him a time waster coz he is.

search is there for a reason, to make things easier on this site.

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By *orkie321bWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham

I report those kind of profiles too, ticking the box that says chosen wrong gender. I write in the report that this is a couples profile.

I do the same when it is claimed to be a couple but it is actually a single.

If I want to meet a single I look for a single profile. It is misleading to be a couple using a single profile. The same goes the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is what thats really annoying is about fab at moment, we had a so called single bi female messaging us yesterday chatted for a while then she dropped it into conversation she only meets with her f/b who was married. We sent her a message saying thanks for wasting are time and blocked her. Sadly honestly is very lacking on fab it seems at moment. Surely if these single bi women are wanting to meet with there f/b's they should clearly state on there profile

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on."

If they state they only meet with their partner then it should be a couples profile and needs reporting.

If the profile reads - married, hubby knows I'm on here, I'm looking to meet guys on my own.

Then that is fine as a single fem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is what thats really annoying is about fab at moment, we had a so called single bi female messaging us yesterday chatted for a while then she dropped it into conversation she only meets with her f/b who was married. We sent her a message saying thanks for wasting are time and blocked her. Sadly honestly is very lacking on fab it seems at moment. Surely if these single bi women are wanting to meet with there f/b's they should clearly state on there profile "

She was honest and told you upfront, before she had arranged a meet with you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

If they state they only meet with their partner then it should be a couples profile and needs reporting.

If the profile reads - married, hubby knows I'm on here, I'm looking to meet guys on my own.

Then that is fine as a single fem."

So what if she only meets couples with her male friend, yet she happily meets single men and single females alone. Then what?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

If they state they only meet with their partner then it should be a couples profile and needs reporting.

If the profile reads - married, hubby knows I'm on here, I'm looking to meet guys on my own.

Then that is fine as a single fem.

So what if she only meets couples with her male friend, yet she happily meets single men and single females alone. Then what?"

2 profiles.

A couples profile to meet other couples.

A single fem profile to meet other singles.

Yes this is allowed.

I have a couples profile to meet other couples, and this is my single to meet single men profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

If they state they only meet with their partner then it should be a couples profile and needs reporting.

If the profile reads - married, hubby knows I'm on here, I'm looking to meet guys on my own.

Then that is fine as a single fem.

So what if she only meets couples with her male friend, yet she happily meets single men and single females alone. Then what?

2 profiles.

A couples profile to meet other couples.

A single fem profile to meet other singles.

Yes this is allowed.

I have a couples profile to meet other couples, and this is my single to meet single men profile."

Does complicate it but yes I see your point

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

If they state they only meet with their partner then it should be a couples profile and needs reporting.

If the profile reads - married, hubby knows I'm on here, I'm looking to meet guys on my own.

Then that is fine as a single fem.

So what if she only meets couples with her male friend, yet she happily meets single men and single females alone. Then what?"

I wouldn't expect a single man to turn up with his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is what thats really annoying is about fab at moment, we had a so called single bi female messaging us yesterday chatted for a while then she dropped it into conversation she only meets with her f/b who was married. We sent her a message saying thanks for wasting are time and blocked her. Sadly honestly is very lacking on fab it seems at moment. Surely if these single bi women are wanting to meet with there f/b's they should clearly state on there profile

She was honest and told you upfront, before she had arranged a meet with you. "

If her profile didn't state she only meets with her buddy, plus the fact she's on a single female profile means she's not being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is what thats really annoying is about fab at moment, we had a so called single bi female messaging us yesterday chatted for a while then she dropped it into conversation she only meets with her f/b who was married. We sent her a message saying thanks for wasting are time and blocked her. Sadly honestly is very lacking on fab it seems at moment. Surely if these single bi women are wanting to meet with there f/b's they should clearly state on there profile

She was honest and told you upfront, before she had arranged a meet with you. "

I wouldn't class it as been honest far from it in fact. Just imagine if you had been chatting to a couple for day and then discovered it was intact just a male without female would you be happy about that?. Think I probably speak for lots of couples all we want is honesty. If your down as a single women and meet couples fair enough but if your not wanting to meet couples alone then surely either put it in your profile or like mentioned earlier set a couples profile up. Doesn't take a lot to do and would make it a lot easier for everyone

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By *olliPineCouple  over a year ago

swingers clubs


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

If they state they only meet with their partner then it should be a couples profile and needs reporting.

If the profile reads - married, hubby knows I'm on here, I'm looking to meet guys on my own.

Then that is fine as a single fem.

So what if she only meets couples with her male friend, yet she happily meets single men and single females alone. Then what?"

If you only meet with a partner then you should have a couple profile,as essentially that is how you are playing - it will stop wasting others time, and importantly stop wasting your own time with messages from people wanting a meet with a single.

If, as you mentioned, there are some circumstances where they only meet together - Then have a couples profile with her friend. Make reference to this in the single profile. Along the lines of 'also have a couples profile for couples meets'.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We have had "couples" msg us start chatting then find it's a single male or just the husband we asked one why his profile says couple and his reply was "I've got more chance of meeting if they think I'm in a couple" yea he got blocked!"

Or...I'm trying to "persuade" her..

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By *evaquitCouple  over a year ago

Catthorpe

You only have to search the meets section and there's plenty of single females looking for meets who it could be argued are actually couples.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is what thats really annoying is about fab at moment, we had a so called single bi female messaging us yesterday chatted for a while then she dropped it into conversation she only meets with her f/b who was married. We sent her a message saying thanks for wasting are time and blocked her. Sadly honestly is very lacking on fab it seems at moment. Surely if these single bi women are wanting to meet with there f/b's they should clearly state on there profile

She was honest and told you upfront, before she had arranged a meet with you. I wouldn't class it as been honest far from it in fact. Just imagine if you had been chatting to a couple for day and then discovered it was intact just a male without female would you be happy about that?. Think I probably speak for lots of couples all we want is honesty. If your down as a single women and meet couples fair enough but if your not wanting to meet couples alone then surely either put it in your profile or like mentioned earlier set a couples profile up. Doesn't take a lot to do and would make it a lot easier for everyone "

She was honest in telling you though, I've heard where people have turned up to a meet with someone in tow, so wrong. Some couples profiles also should state that they want to meet single fems and be more single fem 'friendly'. Mentioning full swap and room swap doesn't really indicate that couples are wanting singles, so maybe that in itself encourages the single fem to mention she has a male friend. Just my point of view, as a single fem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

if that is the only way the person will meet then yes it is a couples profile - report it to admin

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We get tons of messages on both here and Quest from single guys claiming to be couples. It's awfully annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a partner we both have single profiles to meet individually but also have a couples profile to meet togeather is it so hard to do that? That way we only come up on peoples searches if its what they are looking for then it is not misleading who they are messaging and what we are looking for and we always state within a few messages that we have a partner on here.

what i have noticed which is very worrying is new fem profiles being verified by a meet within a few hours and a year later still only verified by that one meet id say very suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No it isn't a couples profile. It's still a single fem profile but that's how she is choosing to meet. Her perogative, her decision, respect her decisions. Or maybe she uses it as an excuse not to meet those who she isn't attracted to.

Either way, it shouldn't be an issue hoe others run their own profile. If you don't like it, move on.

If they state they only meet with their partner then it should be a couples profile and needs reporting.

If the profile reads - married, hubby knows I'm on here, I'm looking to meet guys on my own.

Then that is fine as a single fem.

So what if she only meets couples with her male friend, yet she happily meets single men and single females alone. Then what?

I wouldn't expect a single man to turn up with his wife. "

Ha ha exactly!

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