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Hotwifing does it exist?/my fantasy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone help me?
Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.
My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!
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"There's one or two hiding on here.....
O hello a hotwife !! Nice to meet you! Great pictures 
So any help/tips? "
Approach and message a couple as a couple not just the female. Read their profile to see if you match what they're seeking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone help me?
Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.
My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!
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Sorry for being a plonkaloid but what's a 'hot wife'? |
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"Can anyone help me?
Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.
My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!
Sorry for being a plonkaloid but what's a 'hot wife'?"
A married woman who has the feedom in her marriage to pursue sexual relationships with men other than her husband. Her husband has full knowledge of her activities and consents to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah hot wifing does exist
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Even down in Devon..."
Mine is in Ireland for 4 days and has a date saturday night!
...but has to report back with details.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah hot wifing does exist
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Even down in Devon...
Mine is in Ireland for 4 days and has a date saturday night!
...but has to report back with details.
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So do you have to report back with details as well? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's one or two hiding on here.....
O hello a hotwife !! Nice to meet you! Great pictures
So any help/tips?
Approach and message a couple as a couple not just the female. Read their profile to see if you match what they're seeking. "
Very good advise still find it hard to setup though. Maybe I'm not going about it right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It does exist lol problem is too many single guys who mess people around by not turning up too meets "
Always ass holes who spoil it for everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an idea that intrigues us but not up for it just yet, possibly give it a try in the not to distant future with someone we've met before together and are comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?"
You can always blur the faces/edit the photos at the same time to be discreet. There's gotta be trust and understanding in swinging. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
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Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!  |
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"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
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Same for us. Although we happily share the edit/blurred footage with those involved. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
Same for us. Although we happily share the edit/blurred footage with those involved. "
Sounds fair do you film as well? |
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"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
Same for us. Although we happily share the edit/blurred footage with those involved.
Sounds fair do you film as well? "
Yes. We prefer to film as the camera can be mounted and forgotten about so the concentration can be on the fun. Although, some photos taken by the guy is a bonus.
But videoing isn't for everyone which is completely understandable. But if I'm present at the meet I make sure no faces/tattoos are captured, but harder to do on a solo meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here! "
Haha... There's a good chance she will.
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!
Haha... There's a good chance she will.
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Haha. Has she any meets planned or is not that kind of trip? |
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"So who picks? Obviously she has to be attracted. "
Yes for us it's about mutual attraction. Vixen decides if she's attracted & they are what we're looking for but a meet will only take place if we're both happy. |
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By *aayMan
over a year ago
harrow & Hatfield |
"Yeah hot wifing does exist
;)
Even down in Devon...
Mine is in Ireland for 4 days and has a date saturday night!
...but has to report back with details.
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Ahhh maaaaaan, that's the way it's done. Hopefully she will be texting you as she gets ready and meets with him and she may even call you whilst he's playing with your wife... enjoy it, all of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!
Haha... There's a good chance she will.
Haha. Has she any meets planned or is not that kind of trip? "
Not planned..
But she got chatting to a guy over dinner.. and is meeting on Saturday for drinks and ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs"
Yes, our thoughts are that if you need it explained in a lot of detail, you're never going to get it. Maybe a bit harsh, and we're still on the fence, but it's the way we're leaning. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"How can you be confident the photos won't go astray?
Pics taken on mrs' phone only.
The guest has the memories we have the pics.
Makes sense. I see your gorgeous wife is over in the emerald Isle. Hope she is misbehaving over here!
Haha... There's a good chance she will.
Haha. Has she any meets planned or is not that kind of trip?
Not planned..
But she got chatting to a guy over dinner.. and is meeting on Saturday for drinks and ??"
Oh the naughty minx. Hopefully it goes well. If you fancy chatting feel free to message me.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs"
So what is your understanding of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs"
Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs
Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet......."
O I see, well me personally I would txt the husband out of respect that it's his wife. I'm thinking a hot wife to be as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs
So what is your understanding of it? "
Me personally? I'm a married woman who likes to have lovers. My husband will have his thoughts, but I won't speak in his behalf. The single man needs to meet the needs of both husband and wife, not just the wife. On a higher level, and in an ideal world, there is a threeway dynamic and bond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs
Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet.......
O I see, well me personally I would txt the husband out of respect that it's his wife. I'm thinking a hot wife to be as a couple."
That is a good start. A lot of men mess it up by marginalising the husband. But it has to be more than that. The single man should want the husband there as part of the equation. Ideally the 2 men should be friends, partners in crime.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs
Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet......."
I wouldn't worry about getting the wrong guy. We've made many mistakes. It doesn't matter though.
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs
So what is your understanding of it?
Me personally? I'm a married woman who likes to have lovers. My husband will have his thoughts, but I won't speak in his behalf. The single man needs to meet the needs of both husband and wife, not just the wife. On a higher level, and in an ideal world, there is a threeway dynamic and bond. "
That's it exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs
Our worry is get the wrong guy and he'll think more into it, hence the need for us both to be comfortable with him, after all it's for our pleasure and if he started contacting Missi all the time and trying to meet.......
O I see, well me personally I would txt the husband out of respect that it's his wife. I'm thinking a hot wife to be as a couple.
That is a good start. A lot of men mess it up by marginalising the husband. But it has to be more than that. The single man should want the husband there as part of the equation. Ideally the 2 men should be friends, partners in crime.
Mrs"
Bang on...i am part of a regular 3 for over 2 years and i love it when me and hubby alternate in fucking his wife. She loves it too....i get on extremely well.with hubby so for me its all about respect and never over stepping the mark. Must say that it is best mozt exciting sex i have ever had with us all involved....no cuck/bull rubbish |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x |
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"Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x"
None of what you've put is for us as it reads like you want to take the wife away to explore what you want.
For us its the Mrs that decides what she wants to do with the guys that join us. But I'm sure there's many couples out there that will be extremely interested in what you have stated.
We wish you luck. |
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Yes my wife is a hot wife .and I like nothing better than watching her get a good seeing too . But we only play at club now , where she can pick who she wants and how far or how many times she wants or how many she is in mood for ?? |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x
None of what you've put is for us as it reads like you want to take the wife away to explore what you want.
For us its the Mrs that decides what she wants to do with the guys that join us. But I'm sure there's many couples out there that will be extremely interested in what you have stated.
We wish you luck. "
I don't not mean to come across the wrong way. Ovcourse the lady and the husband will always have the final say and choose what she would like to do. |
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"Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x
None of what you've put is for us as it reads like you want to take the wife away to explore what you want.
For us its the Mrs that decides what she wants to do with the guys that join us. But I'm sure there's many couples out there that will be extremely interested in what you have stated.
We wish you luck.
I don't not mean to come across the wrong way. Ovcourse the lady and the husband will always have the final say and choose what she would like to do. "
Of course. But you've clearly stated what scenarios you're seeking which isn't for everyone (like us) that's the point I was trying to make. Some may read what you've put and be put off. Wouldn't it be best to perhaps get talking to couples and the run past some scenarios with them. Just an idea.  |
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"Can anyone help me?
Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.
My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!
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Yes it happens, but you have to remember the ratio of men who like this to the availability of couples that want this.
Good luck, just keep trying & checking the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been invited to meet a 'hotwife' couple on Tuesday; they definitely exist.
He wants to meet me then is going to leave us to enjoy each other's company. They sound lovely and she looks great. |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
cheshire |
"We started exploring Hotwifing 4 years ago. In that time we've only found a handful of men who truely understand it. I don't think it's something any man can do.
Mrs"
i love watching wife with other guy. I realy carnt get enough of it. Is this hotwifing Or has she got to go on her own. Shes bieng in private rooms with a guy in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can anyone help me?
Absolutely love the idea of having a hot wife but for some reason can't set anything up.
My fantasy is to be filmed and pictures taken so that she may go back and tell her story with plenty of evidence!
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It happens a lot, i have a few current hotwives that I meet and it's great, |
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