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Verifications - useful or not?
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
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I find them useful, if it proves someone turns up and that they are genuine. Don't need to read all the gory details of some veries though!  |
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"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
I find them useful, if it proves someone turns up and that they are genuine. Don't need to read all the gory details of some veries though! "
Yes at least it shows that they are prepared to meet, not just fabbing in their own head |
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I'd say useful, for several reasons.
1. They are hopefully genuine, not always though.
2. Gives an indication of the type they are looking for.
3. If they're a fabber of quality, quantity or both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they are just one of the tools we use when deciding if we want to meet someone. We don't take any notice of photo verification and stop looking if people have a rafy of cam veris but no meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
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We would say very useful, especially to know if someone is who they say they are, we also check the veri's of the people who verified. But one must also know, that verifications are not a golden ticket to open the fab all you can handle free sex flood gates.
Patience, good profile, pictures, charm, good sense of humour, ability to socialise in groups of strangers, amongst many other things are the key |
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"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
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We look and as long as there are a couple then all good.
If there are many then not for us either, don't see the need.
If you are verified then why keep adding to it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said, it can show that people actually get out there and meet. But they're just one of many tools. We find it dodgy when people see them as some of definitive review, so we take them with a pinch of salt and try not to read between the lines.
Especially when couples give each other glowing verifications when they really can't stand each other. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
I find them useful, if it proves someone turns up and that they are genuine. Don't need to read all the gory details of some veries though!
Yes at least it shows that they are prepared to meet, not just fabbing in their own head "
And there are lots of those about!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very useful. If they know people we know, then we will feel more comfortable. Verifications also tell us if they attend clubs, which is useful to know. And veris tell us if a single man plays with couples. We would avoid a single man who has only been verified by single women, because we feel they are unlikely to be interested in us.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
We look and as long as there are a couple then all good.
If there are many then not for us either, don't see the need.
If you are verified then why keep adding to it?"
Because some on here like to see recent ones not ones from years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pay little attention to them, they can be faked and I prefer to make my own mind up about a person rather than go on what a complete stranger says about them after what usually is the first (and last!) time they ever meet them. |
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They can be very useful in ascertaining the reality of a potential meet . Also , if a selection are shown , it shows the type of people they meet , which also helps determine whether a they would be compatible with us . |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I find them quite handy, you can see these people actually meet, the type of people they meet etc. Some are just cringe like the ones that claim ownership on someone, thats enough to put me off! |
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"A tricky one is when someone gives us a verification that we don't like (usually very explicit and lacking any taste) then us trying to explain why we haven't published it on our profile ! "
Always an awkward one that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they have no real use
1. only get to see good verification
2. some are fake some are not, you will never know
3. they say very little about the person/s"
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone having no verifications doesn't bother me at all. I'm put off by men with more than five, to be honest.
They can be useful. But not because of what they say, because they're all very similar. It's interesting to map someone's Fab journey, via their verifications. That's all I'll say.
Which is probably why I'll keep mine hidden, if I ever meet again! |
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Some of the verifications give an insight to what the other party seek and engage during a meet.
I'm always astounded how some members have managed to receive lots of camera based verifications, yet are unable to go to a social or club type meet - even if they just socialised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They put me off if someone has lots of veris from the same person, and also put me off if I see everyone's meeting the same people. I know the fab pond is small but I don't really want to know that we're all doing it with each other by association |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are just fun, a little thank you note, useful to some extent and keeps the holier than thou away from us! We love to get messages saying no thanks you've too many verifications as that helps us avoid the judgemental, be even worse if we showed our summary |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I've approached people based on good verifications. One in particular had spectacular, glowing reviews. Alas I only found him to be ok.
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Ah, I've had that too. Ok would be generous in all honesty. But it is interesting what others consider one way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like verifications. Good to see the type of people others meet and what their particular talents are!
If a guy has verifications from meets with slim sexy women that would put me off as i'm not slim!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've approached people based on good verifications. One in particular had spectacular, glowing reviews. Alas I only found him to be ok.
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We often think that when people get 'glowing reviews' it's just others being polite rather than admitting to a mediocre meet |
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"Lol most people who say veris r pointless r fakes or hav none on there profile?  "
Wouldn't say they are pointless but can give false security.
There is no guarantee a verified person will show, there is no guarantee a verified person is who they say they are. |
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"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
We look and as long as there are a couple then all good.
If there are many then not for us either, don't see the need.
If you are verified then why keep adding to it?
Because some on here like to see recent ones not ones from years ago"
Agreed but don't see the need to have endless verification's, it puts us off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
We look and as long as there are a couple then all good.
If there are many then not for us either, don't see the need.
If you are verified then why keep adding to it?
Because some on here like to see recent ones not ones from years ago
Agreed but don't see the need to have endless verification's, it puts us off."
Why does it put you off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So the rules are
4 or less, not enough.....
More than 6, too many.......
Explicit text, puts us off......
Verified by the same person more than once, puts us off
Hiding verifications, puts us off.......
So if you have 5 verifications, all from different people, not explicit, all displayed, then we will meet you, please form an orderly queue
We are kidding of course, but do you get the point? |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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Mine tell a story. From beginning to end.
I also like the way different people tend to say the same things about me. Because I try to treat everyone the same. If I meet you, I will treat you just as well as those I have already met.
Because that's the kind of guy I am...  |
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Each to their own as we always say.
What floats some couples boat is a turn off for others.
We all know why we are on here but having endless full depth blow by blow details from endless veris is a big no from us.
A verification in our book is just that, proof that you are who you say in your profile??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here awhile and alot of ppl won't even chat without verifications,how ya supposed to get these if they won't. Been frustrated lately by this."
get photo verified it'd easiest veri to get or go and get cam verified
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Useful for the genuine single men because your struggling to get a meet without a verification?
Me personally I only accommodate and don't go to clubs, I do socials of course, but for me to get a single woman to meet at my house is virtually impossible without proof I'm not a lunatic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the rules are
4 or less, not enough.....
More than 6, too many.......
Explicit text, puts us off......
Verified by the same person more than once, puts us off
Hiding verifications, puts us off.......
So if you have 5 verifications, all from different people, not explicit, all displayed, then we will meet you, please form an orderly queue
We are kidding of course, but do you get the point? "
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"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
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I read verifications before I even look at the pics. Its great to hear others views and to see the snippets of information left by others |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Probably been discussed before, so apologies.
Are personal verifications useful. How important do you find them?
Cheers
We look and as long as there are a couple then all good.
If there are many then not for us either, don't see the need.
If you are verified then why keep adding to it?
Because some on here like to see recent ones not ones from years ago
Agreed but don't see the need to have endless verification's, it puts us off."
When you've been on many years you tend to accumulate veries, especially if you go to parties and socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't mean a thing, most are cam veris and people begging to be veried. Waste of time as they do not mean you are a goo reliable meet. I am and I don't show veris or give them. I get more meets form other sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always look for in person veris to check guys turn up. Then use mine as an advertisement to show I do do what I say I do. So they work both way. Also useful for finding people who have played well with others. |
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
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We find them useful in a few ways we only see couples so couples with lots of single men verifications gives Mrs Kinky warning. Bells that the other man might not be upto much and she might leave a meet dissapointed in the bedroom department. The odd 1 or 2 is fine and a TV in their is also good for what we like. Also age of meets is a good indicator if they would see oldies like us.
What's actually written is pretty unimportant as people tend to put the same stuff in.
D&K
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"We find them useful in a few ways we only see couples so couples with lots of single men verifications gives Mrs Kinky warning. Bells that the other man might not be upto much and she might leave a meet dissapointed in the bedroom department. The odd 1 or 2 is fine and a TV in their is also good for what we like. Also age of meets is a good indicator if they would see oldies like us.
What's actually written is pretty unimportant as people tend to put the same stuff in.
D&K
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That made me chuckle a bit. Not thought people might interpreted our profile like that! In our case we meet single guys because I'm a greedy bitch and Sir is bi and likes his cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't mean a thing, most are cam veris and people begging to be veried. Waste of time as they do not mean you are a goo reliable meet. I am and I don't show veris or give them. I get more meets form other sites."
Yeah, well that's just, like, your opinion man.
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"Don't mean a thing, most are cam veris and people begging to be veried. Waste of time as they do not mean you are a goo reliable meet. I am and I don't show veris or give them. I get more meets form other sites."
Fab guys? Your profile on here shows you aren't verified. You'd have a green tick if you were |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find them useful in a few ways we only see couples so couples with lots of single men verifications gives Mrs Kinky warning. Bells that the other man might not be upto much and she might leave a meet dissapointed in the bedroom department. The odd 1 or 2 is fine and a TV in their is also good for what we like. Also age of meets is a good indicator if they would see oldies like us.
What's actually written is pretty unimportant as people tend to put the same stuff in.
D&K
That made me chuckle a bit. Not thought people might interpreted our profile like that! In our case we meet single guys because I'm a greedy bitch and Sir is bi and likes his cock "
Yes, this ties into my earlier point that people try to read between the lines with verifications, which is understandable. But you could end up building a false picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications just say who they met that they want you to know about. They could have 1 showing and 4000 hidden bareback gangbang veris.
They might have only met single men so far but had no luck meeti_g couples. Doesn't mean they don't want to meet couples, just they haven't yet.
They might have none showing because the people they met left the site... or they value discretion & privacy.
They might have 6 veris from slim women but really adore bigger women but haven't had chance to meet any because the bigger women see the slim veris and won't meet them....
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I just show party hosts and club verifications
Just so people know I attend and am real
What goes on in our meets are personal between us so I don't show
Not bothered about seeing guys verifications as meet at parties I see them for real if they cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications just say who they met that they want you to know about. They could have 1 showing and 4000 hidden bareback gangbang veris.
They might have only met single men so far but had no luck meeti_g couples. Doesn't mean they don't want to meet couples, just they haven't yet.
They might have none showing because the people they met left the site... or they value discretion & privacy.
They might have 6 veris from slim women but really adore bigger women but haven't had chance to meet any because the bigger women see the slim veris and won't meet them....
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"Verifications just say who they met that they want you to know about. They could have 1 showing and 4000 hidden bareback gangbang veris.
They might have only met single men so far but had no luck meeti_g couples. Doesn't mean they don't want to meet couples, just they haven't yet.
They might have none showing because the people they met left the site... or they value discretion & privacy.
They might have 6 veris from slim women but really adore bigger women but haven't had chance to meet any because the bigger women see the slim veris and won't meet them....
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They are far from perfect. They are just one tool in the box. |
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