We started our swinging lifestyle with dogging over six years ago .
Over this time it's changed enormously round our way . The etiquette has disappeared , guys just turn up and sit in their cars in darkness till something happens , then all get out at once and crowd round the people playing . Inevitably this just leads to the play stopping and the couple driving off .
We will only meet people through the site now , and more often than not play in the car .
When we started , a car would pull up beside us , he would put his interior light on so we could see him , then get out and start a conversation with me . One in three times we would play , the other times he wouldn't be our type , but we would happily chat for a bit .
The most annoying part is the cars that pull up next to us and just sit there , we can't see who's in it . So we move and it follows doing the same thing again and again . Eventually we get so fed up we leave . Bear in mind we have an interior light on so they can see us , so it's not like we are expecting anything we don't do .
The other deterrent is the boy racers , but that's always been the case . |
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"We started our swinging lifestyle with dogging over six years ago .
Over this time it's changed enormously round our way . The etiquette has disappeared , guys just turn up and sit in their cars in darkness till something happens , then all get out at once and crowd round the people playing . Inevitably this just leads to the play stopping and the couple driving off .
We will only meet people through the site now , and more often than not play in the car .
When we started , a car would pull up beside us , he would put his interior light on so we could see him , then get out and start a conversation with me . One in three times we would play , the other times he wouldn't be our type , but we would happily chat for a bit .
The most annoying part is the cars that pull up next to us and just sit there , we can't see who's in it . So we move and it follows doing the same thing again and again . Eventually we get so fed up we leave . Bear in mind we have an interior light on so they can see us , so it's not like we are expecting anything we don't do .
The other deterrent is the boy racers , but that's always been the case ."
Yea that has some times happend with us two. And fucking boy racers wheel spinning all round the fucking carpark lol |
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