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What sort of status would put you off.

By *wo-Good OP Couple over a year ago

South London

Only asking because we were chatting to a guy for a bit and he seemed nice but his status was always so negative, very "woe is me" about not getting anywhere on fab, we decided to stop chatting. Does anything put others off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has to be negative ones it would stop me messaging someone no matter how good the pics and profile were

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Loads!! But mainly phone numbers and 'Who wants to empty my balls?'

type statuses!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

Anything ranty or "oh poor me"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't really give it much thought it depends if we have chemistry is more important.

We all have a little rant at times nobody is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When its just pure grot, moaning about other members and the classic "im done with fab"

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By *wo-Good OP Couple over a year ago

South London

"I don't really give it much thought it depends if we have chemistry is more important.

We all have a little rant at times nobody is perfect."

Totally agree but when it's constant and I mean every day a new status about how crap fab is and why can't he meet anyone. Sort of turned me off.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

Very childish in my opinion

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By *wo-Good OP Couple over a year ago

South London

"Loads!! But mainly phone numbers and 'Who wants to empty my balls?'

type statuses!

" Who want to empty my balls?" Not seen that one, but classic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't really give it much thought it depends if we have chemistry is more important.

We all have a little rant at times nobody is perfect.

Totally agree but when it's constant and I mean every day a new status about how crap fab is and why can't he meet anyone. Sort of turned me off."

Oh well like that yeah understandable but why bother with negative people anyway plenty are not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anything which sounds nasty, ranty, whiney, over-critical or desperate.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Loads!! But mainly phone numbers and 'Who wants to empty my balls?'

type statuses!

These plus negativity are a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's me fucked jaha

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By *rchie300Man over a year ago

Hamworthy

Nothing much really ....if they want very well hung or heavy cummer....I'm not either so I would try and meet them for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Negative nasty or bitchy comments along with meet now for a fuck or anything mentioning bear back

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Woe is me statuses

Balls need emptied now etc..

Naming and shaming/sour grapes

*Think I've covered everything*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'This site is shit' and you see they have only been a member for 2 days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The one's that say " I'm free now who wants to suck my cock now " News flash it's no one lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Overly detailed and indiscreet comments about what people have been up to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The one's that say " I'm free now who wants to suck my cock now " News flash it's no one lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I block people with particularly nasty statuses, even if we've never chatted.

I've seen terrible ones talking about the weight of women.

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Please look at me" & "fab my pics" type updates annoy me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't take notice of status'.

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By *effrey45Man over a year ago

Lytham

Going for op can't meet whilst I recover

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By *rowleyMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

I. It ice some statuses.

It when we start chatting and then they don't reply I hate.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Overly detailed and indiscreet comments about what people have been up to. "

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Cryptic ones which should be kept to a private message. Shouty, moany, cringy ones. Appealing for fabs, being insulting or offensive to others. Telling you that more pics are coming soon

I don't really care for the status update part of Fab in case you can't tell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own but status's that mention "getting high" really is offputting for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Statuses which imply superiority over us "regular folk" are a pet hate of ours, e.g. "Only want to meet super hot women who can handle a hung beast of a man"

Admittedly, no inference is needed in the above example, but the conclusion is the same: get over yourself!

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By *esparate danMan over a year ago

glasgow

Hashtags ... lols and Humblebrags

Loads of variety of humblebrag ..but once you notice them you can stop

E.g

"Aching after tough gym work out - anyone know good at massage (lol)"

"What a night ...cant feel my ears thanks mr(s)"

"Just got my order through from lovehoney ...where to start??"

....sshhuuurrruuppp!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who wants to suck my cock then?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate the ones asking certain members to message them, also those bragging about what a great time they had last night/or are about to have tonight. Whatever happened to discretion?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Begging another user to message then, naming names and saying they can contact them as have been blocked.

Erm

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