So I was winked by a couple and a lady..
I got chatting to them both seemed to go well and then all of a sudden they both don't reply I'm just confused why people behave that way rather than just saying sorry don't wanna chat anymore.  |
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You've been here before, you've probably seen the countless threads on the same subject.
They changed their minds and didn't want to have to explain themselves. It's easier to just go quiet than have an endless conversation explaining themselves. |
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"So I was winked by a couple and a lady..
I got chatting to them both seemed to go well and then all of a sudden they both don't reply I'm just confused why people behave that way rather than just saying sorry don't wanna chat anymore. "
The reality on here is that once someone says they do not want to chat or anything else, it is very rare that their decision is graciously accepted.
We have seen and experienced it many times.
In our opinion best to just block and walk away in all honesty. |
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"It's awkward to tell someone you've changed your mind and people don't like to see themselves as unkind in any way, so they choose to do block or stop communication.
It's human nature I think."
Guess you're right  |
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I've seen this on other dating sites too. The simple truth I'm afraid is that someone they like better came along and they're investing their time with them instead.
The high volume of messages females ans couples get here doesn't help. It's easy to get missed and drop way back in the queue. Personally if I find someone I'm really interested in, I'll suggest we continue the conversation on whatsapp or kik. It's way easier to keep up the flow of banter that way. |
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"I've seen this on other dating sites too. The simple truth I'm afraid is that someone they like better came along and they're investing their time with them instead.
The high volume of messages females ans couples get here doesn't help. It's easy to get missed and drop way back in the queue. Personally if I find someone I'm really interested in, I'll suggest we continue the conversation on whatsapp or kik. It's way easier to keep up the flow of banter that way. "
That's what I do if I feel it can def go somewhere.. |
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