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Throw back to before being dirty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah a we have changed in so many ways, both physical and mental
When we first started i was quite closed off, where I grew up and the upbringing i had i was very anti gay and bi (sorry) but now I have a very live and let live attitude and i know not all bi and gay guys are going to try bum me
We have lost 14 stone between us which only really started once we started swinging so we both looked ok in Mrs underwear in clubs
When we first started we only meet single women and now we meet guys and couples and have progressed from 3some's in to more some's and larger group fun, we are unrecognisable from the people who started on this journey 10 years ago |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
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"I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be. "
This is true for me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think I'm definately more confident both in & social & bedroom scenarios. Fab did open my eyes, realised what i knew before was just the tip of a kinky iceberg haha & overtime have learnt a thing or 2 on here to sharpen my skills.
Now I'm a proper Swordsman lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
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I feel I have always had a higher than normal erotic side, swinging has brought out what has always been within me. I'm pleased to say swinging is one of my best decisions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
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All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok "
It's okay to want to do dirty things.
I am not a freak. Just because others don't frown upon them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More cynical "
This, and less trusting. Possibly less tolerant too, although I'm not a swinger per se, as I don't attend clubs, which some feel is paramount to swinging.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Don't think that my attitude and tastes when it comes to sex and sexuality have changed - but do think my view of myself has though. Never particularly thought of myself as attractive before stepping into *this* world, but have discovered since doing so that others find me attractive, which has in itself given me a little boost to my self-confidence, even if I do sometimes struggle to see the attraction.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok
It's okay to want to do dirty things.
I am not a freak. Just because others don't frown upon them. "
I wasn't frowning upon anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok
It's okay to want to do dirty things.
I am not a freak. Just because others don't frown upon them.
I wasn't frowning upon anyone "
Oh no I wasn't saying you said that.
Not at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
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I Dont think i have changed, if i have i mught be a tad more confident. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Yes definitely more confident and open minded. More body confident too as well which is good.
Had great advice on here and hopefully I've given some too.
Great discussions on the forums as well which help to see different points of views. |
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
id never licked an asshole before lol"
Well it's something to pad out a cv |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
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When we first started we were out every night on socials probably going abit wild
We've clamed down abit now so not as much action so it's quality over quantity now
And I've changed my preference from the boys to just girls now
I thought I'd maybe change my mind about this but nope I'm more than happy with what we choose to do
It probably limits the meets we have but hey ho I've got my sexy man and he's all I need  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you started off in the swingers world and to how you are now, have you changed?? More confident ?? More open minded ?? More dirty ??
All of the above, I was already filth. Being here just made me realise that it's ok "
Ditto this.. |
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"I am like a different person - I used to hate my body but now find that lots of people find curves attractive....I love the getting dressed up for a meet....and it's so different to my every day life...it's like a very sexy play. I can be whoever I want to be. "
I could have written this!! Not 100% totally confident but getting there xx |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i'm less confident now. and not as open to being as 'dirty' and 'fun' i used to be.
it's not too bad though, i have changed how i use this site now and that is helping. some guys get to see my fun side coz they make it fun for me to be so. |
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Definitely more dirty than before. I've realised fantasies I never really knew I had. Thankfully my hubby has been my rock, has never judged and has actively encourage at times. It's been a fun ride. Literally |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!). "
Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright.... |
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"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!).
Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright.... "
Such a rush |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!).
Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright....
Such a rush "
When you have people right next to you going at it and you are too
Yeah it's a rush |
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"Yes definitely more confident, more open minded. Have discovered an exhibitionist side I didn't know I had (first time being watched fucking was amazing!).
Oh yes that was a kick of adrenalin alright....
Such a rush
When you have people right next to you going at it and you are too
Yeah it's a rush "
I have only had sex with another couple doing it in the next bed on one occasion, It was very exciting but I did find it hard not to try and keep in the same rhythm as him, Well I only did it for a bit as the Man was a machine
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