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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing in public with a meet I'd be comfortable with however hand holding is a totally different thing, it's too personal for me. Makes me uncomfortable. No hand holding in public or private either for that matter. Just no I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kissing in public with a meet I'd be comfortable with however hand holding is a totally different thing, it's too personal for me. Makes me uncomfortable. No hand holding in public or private either for that matter. Just no I'm afraid. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing in public with a meet I'd be comfortable with however hand holding is a totally different thing, it's too personal for me. Makes me uncomfortable. No hand holding in public or private either for that matter. Just no I'm afraid. ok"
I sound a little weird!  |
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By *anSMan
over a year ago
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"Kissing in public with a meet I'd be comfortable with however hand holding is a totally different thing, it's too personal for me. Makes me uncomfortable. No hand holding in public or private either for that matter. Just no I'm afraid. "
I concour with this 100%..
There's just something different about holding hands.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing in public with a meet I'd be comfortable with however hand holding is a totally different thing, it's too personal for me. Makes me uncomfortable. No hand holding in public or private either for that matter. Just no I'm afraid. ok
I sound a little weird! "
Ha ha no you don't. Some peeps like it some don't. I love kissing my meet in public whilst hubby watches. It's all about the kink for us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kissing in public with a meet I'd be comfortable with however hand holding is a totally different thing, it's too personal for me. Makes me uncomfortable. No hand holding in public or private either for that matter. Just no I'm afraid. ok
I sound a little weird!
Ha ha no you don't. Some peeps like it some don't. I love kissing my meet in public whilst hubby watches. It's all about the kink for us"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing in public with a meet I'd be comfortable with however hand holding is a totally different thing, it's too personal for me. Makes me uncomfortable. No hand holding in public or private either for that matter. Just no I'm afraid. ok
I sound a little weird!
Ha ha no you don't. Some peeps like it some don't. I love kissing my meet in public whilst hubby watches. It's all about the kink for us"
Kissing I love, anytime anywhere. Just handing holding is just a hard limit and I really don't have many of those in fairness! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing yes! Holding hands no!
Yay  "
I like a good public smooch, not a club neck as that's just shameful. But nothing better when you can't hold back that urge to lock lips and taste each other briefly, leaving you wanting more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol to the people who will fuck the people they won't hold hands with. Whatever makes you happy though! "
To me holding hands is like touching minds, it's a sign of effection as opposed to lust, I don't like getting my mind touched much,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would only entertain holding hands if they wore industrial rubber gloves. Wouldn't want to catch a case of the dreaded feelies and be overwhelmed by the irresistible urge to marry them |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"I would hold hands and mess about in public on a meet if it felt right, It would have to be someone that I get on well with as a genuine friend and the sex is just a lovely added bonus."
You worded it so much better than me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would hold hands and mess about in public on a meet if it felt right, It would have to be someone that I get on well with as a genuine friend and the sex is just a lovely added bonus.
You worded it so much better than me! "
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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"I would hold hands and mess about in public on a meet if it felt right, It would have to be someone that I get on well with as a genuine friend and the sex is just a lovely added bonus.
You worded it so much better than me! "
Thank you, seems like we have a shared opinion then!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would hold hands and mess about in public on a meet if it felt right, It would have to be someone that I get on well with as a genuine friend and the sex is just a lovely added bonus.
You worded it so much better than me! "
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"I would hold hands and mess about in public on a meet if it felt right, It would have to be someone that I get on well with as a genuine friend and the sex is just a lovely added bonus.
You worded it so much better than me!
Thank you, seems like we have a shared opinion then! "
Yep. I don't think intimacy like that can be forced but where it's someone you get on well with I like to have that connection. |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"A single swinger would benefit from the butterfly in the stomach feelings. Playing as a couple the holding hands kissing thrill does not have the butterfly effect"
Yeah I can definitely where it would differ as a couple, you already have each other for that. |
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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago
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"A single swinger would benefit from the butterfly in the stomach feelings. Playing as a couple the holding hands kissing thrill does not have the butterfly effect
Yeah I can definitely where it would differ as a couple, you already have each other for that."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A single swinger would benefit from the butterfly in the stomach feelings. Playing as a couple the holding hands kissing thrill does not have the butterfly effect"
Sorry guys but speak for yourselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A single swinger would benefit from the butterfly in the stomach feelings. Playing as a couple the holding hands kissing thrill does not have the butterfly effect"
I'm single and disagree.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a lot of energy in the hands so joining them feels like you're making yourselves an item...Probably not the kind of thing you'd be looking for on a meet. Feels too much like dating doesn't it? |
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"There's a lot of energy in the hands so joining them feels like you're making yourselves an item...Probably not the kind of thing you'd be looking for on a meet. Feels too much like dating doesn't it?"
Says 'lovetotouch'..... |
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holding hands during sex- hell yes! kissing outside wherever we are ...maybe. holding hands only if its not close to where I live- after all I have a reputation
and itdoesn't feel like dating, that's not what I am after but its a connection of some form and that I do need to have good sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of energy in the hands so joining them feels like you're making yourselves an item...Probably not the kind of thing you'd be looking for on a meet. Feels too much like dating doesn't it?
Says 'lovetotouch'..... "
Yep! In the bedroom fine...on the street not so much |
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I'm very affectionate and I like to express that physically and reach out and touch a lot, and I love men who do the same. With one really good kisser we were falling into shop doorways snogging like teenagers one night, it was fabulous!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't put anything on Fab forums these days. Ok our comment was wrong and we apologise. We mustn't
be swingers or we are the old fossil type. "
I'd stick to your guns and present your experience as you've earned it xx |
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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago
nr warrington |
"Can't put anything on Fab forums these days. Ok our comment was wrong and we apologise. We mustn't
be swingers or we are the old fossil type.
I'd stick to your guns and present your experience as you've earned it xx"
It's not worth sharing our experiences or thoughts on Fab forums. The Libtards and Snowflake Social Justice Warriors joined by the Fair Trade Vegan Peace Bean Vegitarionists will be offended because someone somewhere might be offended. Posting for a meet from the back of the Loot newspaper never had the Keyboard warriors problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't put anything on Fab forums these days. Ok our comment was wrong and we apologise. We mustn't
be swingers or we are the old fossil type. "
Your comment wasn't wrong or right. It just generalised single people as needing effection as though they are desperate. I'm single by choice and disagreed with your comment that's all |
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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago
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"Can't put anything on Fab forums these days. Ok our comment was wrong and we apologise. We mustn't
be swingers or we are the old fossil type.
Your comment wasn't wrong or right. It just generalised single people as needing effection as though they are desperate. I'm single by choice and disagreed with your comment that's all"
Sorry. It was the excitement new contact feeling between singles we understand but don't want. The thrill, flirting and excitement is cool and playing is fun. Emotional contact by holding hands or cuddling after Fucking is not for us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't put anything on Fab forums these days. Ok our comment was wrong and we apologise. We mustn't
be swingers or we are the old fossil type.
Your comment wasn't wrong or right. It just generalised single people as needing effection as though they are desperate. I'm single by choice and disagreed with your comment that's all
Sorry. It was the excitement new contact feeling between singles we understand but don't want. The thrill, flirting and excitement is cool and playing is fun. Emotional contact by holding hands or cuddling after Fucking is not for us x "
It's ok I'm single and happy, don't crave or need emotional attachment, I am a big flirt love kissing and touching etc, I'm just not a needy person as such just because I'm single. I know a few of my clients whom are more lonely than me and their married , hate stigmas. Xx |
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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago
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"Can't put anything on Fab forums these days. Ok our comment was wrong and we apologise. We mustn't
be swingers or we are the old fossil type.
Your comment wasn't wrong or right. It just generalised single people as needing effection as though they are desperate. I'm single by choice and disagreed with your comment that's all
Sorry. It was the excitement new contact feeling between singles we understand but don't want. The thrill, flirting and excitement is cool and playing is fun. Emotional contact by holding hands or cuddling after Fucking is not for us x
It's ok I'm single and happy, don't crave or need emotional attachment, I am a big flirt love kissing and touching etc, I'm just not a needy person as such just because I'm single. I know a few of my clients whom are more lonely than me and their married , hate stigmas. Xx"
Sorry has our post offended you ? No offence was meant. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i like PDA and holding hands, not many guys on here are into that -or even going out, so i don't get the chance much.
be nice if more guys wanted this."
whats PDA? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i like PDA and holding hands, not many guys on here are into that -or even going out, so i don't get the chance much.
be nice if more guys wanted this.whats PDA?"
public displays of affection.
i'm very affectionate overall. it's why i stopped the NSA sex, can't be arsed with unaffectionate guys and find them a turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't put anything on Fab forums these days. Ok our comment was wrong and we apologise. We mustn't
be swingers or we are the old fossil type.
Your comment wasn't wrong or right. It just generalised single people as needing effection as though they are desperate. I'm single by choice and disagreed with your comment that's all
Sorry. It was the excitement new contact feeling between singles we understand but don't want. The thrill, flirting and excitement is cool and playing is fun. Emotional contact by holding hands or cuddling after Fucking is not for us x
It's ok I'm single and happy, don't crave or need emotional attachment, I am a big flirt love kissing and touching etc, I'm just not a needy person as such just because I'm single. I know a few of my clients whom are more lonely than me and their married , hate stigmas. Xx Sorry has our post offended you ? No offence was meant."
Gosh no not at all. Was just a point that not all single people crave a gf/bf experience or long to be touchy feely.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about holding hands during sex? As in that moment when you intertwine fingers in a passionate moment.
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find this freaky as hell with a meet and tend to be very put off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hold hands with my lovers. Sometimes I will hold hands with my husband and my lover when I'm walking between them. That's hot to have the affection of 2 men.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done.....but don't think I have on a first meet.
With someone I've met before, and I'm comfortable with....then yes if it feels right for both parties. As the saying goes tho...different strokes for different folks. |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
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I have with a few friends. If we are out and about off for a drink and meal. It depends what type of meet I'm having.I don't see holding hands with emotional attachment. I thread my fingers through theirs while having sex. When I meet I see it as just us and when we part it's back to real life. It's not a gf bf experience it's two friends meeting up. |
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We have enjoyed all sorts of meets over the years , from simple blow and go , to meeting in a pub and my wife flirting with a guy and enjoying the boyfriend / girlfriend experience . This is undoubtably the more rewarding for us , by far .
The simple meet where little or no affection is shown either way , can have its merits . It is what it is , both parties enjoy the sex , and it's uncomplicated fun . But for us we prefer the intimacy , the butterflies in the tummy , the build up , and ultimately the opportunity for my wife to hold hands , or walk arm in arm through town with a new lover as I follow them from a distance . This is way more erotic , more real , more meaningful than a sex from the start to finish meet . Watching them walk hand in hand , then stopping and slowly seeing their lips meet for the first time is so hot , and seeing their bodies tremble with lust .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have enjoyed all sorts of meets over the years , from simple blow and go , to meeting in a pub and my wife flirting with a guy and enjoying the boyfriend / girlfriend experience . This is undoubtably the more rewarding for us , by far .
The simple meet where little or no affection is shown either way , can have its merits . It is what it is , both parties enjoy the sex , and it's uncomplicated fun . But for us we prefer the intimacy , the butterflies in the tummy , the build up , and ultimately the opportunity for my wife to hold hands , or walk arm in arm through town with a new lover as I follow them from a distance . This is way more erotic , more real , more meaningful than a sex from the start to finish meet . Watching them walk hand in hand , then stopping and slowly seeing their lips meet for the first time is so hot , and seeing their bodies tremble with lust .... "
Love this Glos My oh my you two are turning into a couple of softies in your old age. We'll have you in our free love commune yet |
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I guess it very much depends. If you know a couple very well you could hold hands with the lady...I hold hands with female friends (i.e. platonic) occasionally, so it's no big deal. I also once spent an evening with a couple in a jazz bar and she wanted us both to hold her hand as it turned her on (prior to taking her home and undressing her LOL). Would be quite odd with someone you've just met though! Also some couples aren't at all into it (i.e. it intrudes on their personal intimacy). That said holding hands whilst all sensually entwined and hammering away is extremely common.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have enjoyed all sorts of meets over the years , from simple blow and go , to meeting in a pub and my wife flirting with a guy and enjoying the boyfriend / girlfriend experience . This is undoubtably the more rewarding for us , by far .
The simple meet where little or no affection is shown either way , can have its merits . It is what it is , both parties enjoy the sex , and it's uncomplicated fun . But for us we prefer the intimacy , the butterflies in the tummy , the build up , and ultimately the opportunity for my wife to hold hands , or walk arm in arm through town with a new lover as I follow them from a distance . This is way more erotic , more real , more meaningful than a sex from the start to finish meet . Watching them walk hand in hand , then stopping and slowly seeing their lips meet for the first time is so hot , and seeing their bodies tremble with lust .... "
this surprises me lol didn't think you would like anything like that...
But shows we are all different. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes please, hold my hand, kiss my forehead and whisper in my ear how much you're gonna enjoy spanking my arse and pulling my hair when we're alone "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how do you feel about holding hands and messing about out in public on a meet if you have met the person before?"
If both people are comfortable with it why Not ?? It's a meet. Doesn't mean we will marry one another. It's part of teasing. Holding hands kissing teasing one another. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"how do you feel about holding hands and messing about out in public on a meet if you have met the person before?
If both people are comfortable with it why Not ?? It's a meet. Doesn't mean we will marry one another. It's part of teasing. Holding hands kissing teasing one another. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not great with public affection at the best of times. (Alcohol can fix that!  )
Or being in love.
But a 'meet' guy... err no. In a club, behind closed doors, anything can run. But In public.., no way, keep your distance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how do you feel about holding hands and messing about out in public on a meet if you have met the person before?
If both people are comfortable with it why Not ?? It's a meet. Doesn't mean we will marry one another. It's part of teasing. Holding hands kissing teasing one another. "
see i just get straight to playing. No need for all this teasing stuff. And hand holding and kissing is not for me on a meet at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love kissing and holding hands .... not on the first meeting of course .... but if theres a chemistry there.... why not."
Very much what I said Mellons.....take care you don't agree with me too much...or I may have to hold your hand! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about holding hands during sex? As in that moment when you intertwine fingers in a passionate moment.
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Whilst been held above your head, slightly holding and slightly pinning? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely enjoy holding hands, it adds to the whole experience for me. Something to get the adrenaline flowing and excitement. Love to hold hands during sex, grabbing a mans hands while riding him to pin him down, or having a man do the same to me, fantastic.
If someone wouldn't be willing to hold my hand then they certainly wouldn't be getting their hands anywhere else on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about holding hands during sex? As in that moment when you intertwine fingers in a passionate moment.
Whilst been held above your head, slightly holding and slightly pinning? "
Oh that's a must |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How about holding hands during sex? As in that moment when you intertwine fingers in a passionate moment.
Whilst been held above your head, slightly holding and slightly pinning?
Oh that's a must "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about holding hands during sex? As in that moment when you intertwine fingers in a passionate moment.
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Now that is hot.
With regard to holding hands on a 2nd meet I wouldnt do that.
I do recall having a fwb and we held hands a couple of times. Depends on the type of relationship you have i suppose. |
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