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why are single guys treated so bad

By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one can make you feel like a second rate citizen but you.

Keep at it. Make an effort and things happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're speaking to the wrong people.

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

A certain ratio. Gives the girls a sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never speak down to single guys or anyone on here, but I do have very strict sexual preferences. So yes I have a lot of do's and don't's. Unfortunately being nice and genuine isn't always enough to get you the girl in this game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A certain ratio. Gives some of the women a sense of entitlement "

Ftfy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We aren't spoken down to. We are bottom of the food chain because there are so many of us.

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"We aren't spoken down to. We are bottom of the food chain because there are so many of us. "
well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poor poor single guys. The swinging scene is full of narcissists and various personality disorders. Everybody gets treated like shit at various stages.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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i'm a sadist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos we're scum. Sub-human scum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never speak down to single guys or anyone on here, but I do have very strict sexual preferences. So yes I have a lot of do's and don't's. Unfortunately being nice and genuine isn't always enough to get you the girl in this game

This is exactly how it works. I'm disappointed that I don't fall within this delightful lady's requirements but I respect her choices.

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

We don't all feel that way you know, I have lovely interactions with a small number of female forumites. I don't feel spoken down to or bound by excessive rules. I either suit what they're looking for or I don't. It's no big deal.

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

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yes I understand , but when you read some profiles its like you're the baddest guy ever without even chatting x

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

I beg to disagree, the problem is with the guys, they handed the power of seduction over to the ladies and made it look as if the ladies are doing them a favour, I play differently, I am very quick to tell a lady to keep her pussy I don't need it, especially if the lady steps to me with that pussy card.

Of course when she sees me, she would see she is lucky that I considered her enough to take interest in her, also when she sees the ladies I fuck she will know she is truly lucky I said hello. No disrespect on my end of the game from the ladies .

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens"

You're not! See my thread!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just chill and be patient, good things cum to those who wait ; )

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"i'm a sadist.

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ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think it's fine on here, any profile i don't like i just back on up and go do something else

there are literally thousands of people on here happy to chat with blokes, enjoy finding them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens"

I'm not spoken down to, I don't obey a list of do's and don'ts. I certainly don't feel like a second date citizen.

Why? Because I consider myself an individual with some self respect. Perhaps if more single guys had that, they wouldn't find themselves treated in a way they didn't appreciate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

I'm not spoken down to, I don't obey a list of do's and don'ts. I certainly don't feel like a second date citizen.

Why? Because I consider myself an individual with some self respect. Perhaps if more single guys had that, they wouldn't find themselves treated in a way they didn't appreciate. "

Rate* damn auto correct

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

OP.

It's a numbers game. For every woman, there are 100's of guys all seeking the same idea.

But you have to help yourself too; you have to SELL YOURSELF, it's as simple as that!

So, go back to your Profile and rethink it. When you greet your friends, how do you do so? Yes, by facially recognising them. Your profile shows two blown up pics of your cock!

To a lot of ladies, it's Instant Turnoff! Put up facial Pics; if you can't, say why but ditch the cock pics to Private.

You don't accommodate, but don't say why; you should say why not. Expand your profile text into sentences.

Get into the Forums, go to clubs or Socials as it's all about getting yourself noticed.

Ladies like to see profiles that show the effort you've put in to tell them about yourself!

It takes Patience, Perseverance, & even mire Patience, but it does work.

Good Luck

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

You're not. Start messaging women without all the dos and don'ts so you're less likely to get the abuse. Own your profile and experience on here and don't turn it into a moan.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Oh and message those who are interested in your age.

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

I'm not spoken down to, I don't obey a list of do's and don'ts. I certainly don't feel like a second date citizen.

Why? Because I consider myself an individual with some self respect. Perhaps if more single guys had that, they wouldn't find themselves treated in a way they didn't appreciate. "
well done fella , fuck them with a huge list of do's and dont's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they allow themselves to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I beg to disagree, the problem is with the guys, they handed the power of seduction over to the ladies and made it look as if the ladies are doing them a favour, I play differently, I am very quick to tell a lady to keep her pussy I don't need it, especially if the lady steps to me with that pussy card.

So you behave exactly like the women the OP is talking about? Nobody is entitled or lucky to be looked at on here...confidence is attractive, arrogance and rudeness isn't. I looked...and I passed you by

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"We aren't spoken down to. We are bottom of the food chain because there are so many of us. well said "

Maybe so, but treat it like a business; you have to stand out from the rest of your competitors, that is, the 10's, 100's or more other guys all asking for the same. So, go out & sell yourselves.

I get meets even at my age, because I constantly tweak my Profile to suit who I'm trying to appeal to. I READ profiles fully and act accordingly, with a personal differing approach to each, NOT copied and pasted from the previous one!

Enough of my style. Go out of your way and create your own!

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"OP.

It's a numbers game. For every woman, there are 100's of guys all seeking the same idea.

But you have to help yourself too; you have to SELL YOURSELF, it's as simple as that!

thank you , but I do have face pics that I can send , I live in a close community and I have seen that there are a few I know who they are on here but I don't want them to see me , I have a couple of businesses but I will share with people i'm willing to trust

So, go back to your Profile and rethink it. When you greet your friends, how do you do so? Yes, by facially recognising them. Your profile shows two blown up pics of your cock!

To a lot of ladies, it's Instant Turnoff! Put up facial Pics; if you can't, say why but ditch the cock pics to Private.

You don't accommodate, but don't say why; you should say why not. Expand your profile text into sentences.

Get into the Forums, go to clubs or Socials as it's all about getting yourself noticed.

Ladies like to see profiles that show the effort you've put in to tell them about yourself!

It takes Patience, Perseverance, & even mire Patience, but it does work.

Good Luck"

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens"

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

I couldn't take it seriously after that I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is why I've no interest in the forum whiners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just play the waiting game, the rate these single guys are making themselves look like twats or leaving in a rage, you'll start looking pretty appealing when you're the last man left.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be true to yourself and thus reduce the "competition" because although the ratio maybe against men the ladies know a fake when they see one and true men ultimately stand out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we don't treat them badly...we're just uninterested in meeting them, which to some is seen as being treated badly...c'est La vie...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

I couldn't take it seriously after that I'm afraid. "

Safety first!

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"Oh and message those who are interested in your age.

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Meli , i'm just about in you're age , you got an awesome ass lol x

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

I couldn't take it seriously after that I'm afraid. "

From a Single Guy perspective, I couldn't state it better. Wholeheartedly agree!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and message those who are interested in your age.

Meli , i'm just about in you're age , you got an awesome ass lol x "

Woah, hold up fella, she can only have one stalker at a time and currently it's me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Read there profile some ladies leave a cheeky message to put as a status to show you have read there profile about there likes dislikes etc. And no messages with I wanna fuck you so bad I know it's a sex site but they are still women not shit ????

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Cool you passed me by, thank you for being so nice as not to engage me and waste my time , If we meet I would hang out with you in appreciation that you did not waste my time, you are talking to a guy who ladies have passed by 250 times in the past, if I add you , it makes 251 girls who passed me by.

My point is I don't care about the ladies who pass me by or turn me down , I didn't miss you, you missed me, am only interested in my fans and the ladies who stand with me, all the ladies that passed me by can keep their pussy, I won't miss or need it , no arrogance here, just the way I play my game, plus I didn't even look at your profile to prove my point.

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

I couldn't take it seriously after that I'm afraid. "
i'm sorry , I can either hide my pics altogether but I can't put face pics public , I do have them though as I say on my profile to send though , give guys a chance

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Oh and message those who are interested in your age.

Meli , i'm just about in you're age , you got an awesome ass lol x

Woah, hold up fella, she can only have one stalker at a time and currently it's me. "

Sorry OP!

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Go for it James

Hilarious!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

I couldn't take it seriously after that I'm afraid. i'm sorry , I can either hide my pics altogether but I can't put face pics public , I do have them though as I say on my profile to send though , give guys a chance"

how about a pic of something between the face and helmet? body shots, bum maybe, whatever...loads of options without showing a face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and message those who are interested in your age.

Meli , i'm just about in you're age , you got an awesome ass lol x

Woah, hold up fella, she can only have one stalker at a time and currently it's me.

Sorry OP! "

Shush you, isn't it about time you hung some underwear out on the line.

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"Read there profile some ladies leave a cheeky message to put as a status to show you have read there profile about there likes dislikes etc. And no messages with I wanna fuck you so bad I know it's a sex site but they are still women not shit ????"
I know they are not shit , but please realise what i'm saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Poor poor single guys. The swinging scene is full of narcissists and various personality disorders. Everybody gets treated like shit at various stages. "

Know who gets treated like shit? People who are stigmatized for having a personality disorder, when ignorant people bandy it around as a catch-all excuse for people being shitty to each other.

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"Oh and message those who are interested in your age.

Meli , i'm just about in you're age , you got an awesome ass lol x "

Well, it's a start! Small steps now!

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Well it's a bit of a fab cliche but anyone got any popcorn?

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"Well it's a bit of a fab cliche but anyone got any popcorn?"

Yep, which flavour?

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

It doesn't have to be a face or a cock. It could be a hand, a tie, a torso, something suggestive, something playful. Something to show you are a person of substance, your picture is your shop window, and you're selling yourself as a helmet.

I really hope you can see it from that point of view now. If my pictures showed me taking lots of cum, I'm sure people would see me differently to how they see me now, if I had lots of tit pics they'd see me differently to how they do now. Now I'm sure they just see me as an arse!

(Amongst other things)

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because woman know that normal they have control when it comes to sex so take full advantage.

Be yourself man don't let shit bother you.

If someone wants to see you they will let you know. If not, well chill man.

Don't get upset or let it get to you that's negative emotions man. Not good for anyone.

Don't let the attention seeker's or the lasses that couldn't pull in a pub full of d*unken squaddies get to you.

There here for self gratification bud.

Wait for the genuine ones .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

(Amongst other things)

Hope that helps."

Not just an arse......A shiny arse!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes I understand , but when you read some profiles its like you're the baddest guy ever without even chatting x"

If you feel like the baddest guy without even chatting and like a second class citizen? Maybe you need thicker skin.

People have on there profile what there looking for its hardly rules.

Just look onto the next profile!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

Without being rude, I clicked on your profile to see who I was replying to. I looked at your public pics to get a feel of who it was, and it was a giant helmet.

(Amongst other things)

Hope that helps."

In all honesty, as soon as I read your name I just think you'd be too much hassle. Youd be forever getting kid napped and dragged away to castles, I'd end up having to do ridiculous tasks to collect stars and fuck up a bunch of turtles, just seems like effort.

I'm sure you're nice though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Poor poor single guys. The swinging scene is full of narcissists and various personality disorders. Everybody gets treated like shit at various stages.

Know who gets treated like shit? People who are stigmatized for having a personality disorder, when ignorant people bandy it around as a catch-all excuse for people being shitty to each other."

Ignorant? As in lacking in knowledge? Yes that's exactly what's happening

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By *otplaythingWoman over a year ago

South West

"We don't all feel that way you know, I have lovely interactions with a small number of female forumites. I don't feel spoken down to or bound by excessive rules. I either suit what they're looking for or I don't. It's no big deal."

Hooray. A man without a massive chip on his shoulder! Now that's attractive!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

Yeah I saw that thread. Buy I'm fairly sure most of the 'beautiful' ones will be giving you a swerve with a nasty attitude like that. And yeah I do think single guys get a hard time on here unfairly. But some of you really don't help your case. Same as some of the woman don't.

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens"

If anyone decides to treat you like shit, judge & tar your because of their experience with someone else or others it tells you all you need to know. Leave them, their irrelevance and issues to it.

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

yes I understand , but when you read some profiles its like you're the baddest guy ever without even chatting x

If you feel like the baddest guy without even chatting and like a second class citizen? Maybe you need thicker skin.

People have on there profile what there looking for its hardly rules.

Just look onto the next profile!

Totally agree, if someone's profile has specific requirements of a single guy and you feel it's unfair then surely they're not what you're looking for so why feel bad?

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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good luck anyway OP. this place will wreck your confidence if you didn't have a lot to start off with.

i can see some men have attacked women in general, it seems you're not like that. and you'll probably do alright on here with your attitude but don't take anything personally so it doesn't knock you back or down.

what people say is how they choose to represent themselves as a person and nothing to do with you personally.

goodnight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good luck anyway OP. this place will wreck your confidence if you didn't have a lot to start off with.

what people say is how they choose to represent themselves as a person and nothing to do with you personally.

goodnight."

Well said. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Poor poor single guys. The swinging scene is full of narcissists and various personality disorders. Everybody gets treated like shit at various stages.

Know who gets treated like shit? People who are stigmatized for having a personality disorder, when ignorant people bandy it around as a catch-all excuse for people being shitty to each other.

Ignorant? As in lacking in knowledge? Yes that's exactly what's happening

Evidently so. Anyone with any knowledge of mental disorders would know that it is more likely to be individuals with psychopathic or sociopathic tendencies who would exhibit that kind of behaviour. Simple fact is that some people are just jackasses, and making sweeping generalisations about personality disorders doesn't help anyone.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"We aren't spoken down to. We are bottom of the food chain because there are so many of us. "

What a pathetic response,bottom of the food chain my bollox.

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Hooray. A man without a massive chip on his shoulder! Now that's attractive! "

Thank you kindly. Nice profile by the way

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

I stand with you my bro, at last I have found another guy with some balls .We are not handing over the power of seduction to the ladies, let the ones that don't stand with us keep their pussy, we are here for the beautiful sweet ladies out there , complete with a great attitude too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

It's fine i can live without your type.

All the best even though another hopeless case block me but attack me.

Sad..

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

Part of the problem is the white knights that bend over backwards to agree with and placate the females and couples hoping for a sympathy fuck,they constantly bitch about how poor single women get awful messages by the bad bad single guys and it is awful for them as they are genuine and would never dare speak to a lady like the bad guys,NEWSFLASH there ain't any ladies or gentlemen on here, practically everyone joined up to get away from the vanilla world where rules and regulations deem swinging to be frowned upon.Don't for a second think that the women/couples on here are better than the single guys because in the real world you would pass by 99% of them without so much as a second glance.

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By *earandmonkeyCouple over a year ago

uxbridge

As a couple weof course look for other couples so both can play as he is straight and im bi then single males are just not of any need to us sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

It's fine i can live without your type.

All the best even though another hopeless case block me but attack me.

Sad..

Well being as I am in another country I wasn't really hoping to meet you. I am neither hopeless nor have I attacked you. And I certainly couldn't be bothered to block you. My profile is hidden, don't take it personally. To be honest I think you are doing a good job of showing your colours. You are a good looking guy. Shame about the personality. oops yeah I guess that was an attack

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Part of the problem is the white knights that bend over backwards to agree with and placate the females and couples hoping for a sympathy fuck,they constantly bitch about how poor single women get awful messages by the bad bad single guys and it is awful for them as they are genuine and would never dare speak to a lady like the bad guys,NEWSFLASH there ain't any ladies or gentlemen on here, practically everyone joined up to get away from the vanilla world where rules and regulations deem swinging to be frowned upon.Don't for a second think that the women/couples on here are better than the single guys because in the real world you would pass by 99% of them without so much as a second glance."

Maybe the 'white knights' are genuinely bothered by the few men that really have no respect for anyone? Yes, there are some people that get offended for no reason (like if someone doesn't reply to their message) but you have to admit there are some really horrible trolls on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love your username. I am curious though. If you honestly think you would pass 99% by in the street and not be interested, then why are you on here??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Poor poor single guys. The swinging scene is full of narcissists and various personality disorders. Everybody gets treated like shit at various stages.

Know who gets treated like shit? People who are stigmatized for having a personality disorder, when ignorant people bandy it around as a catch-all excuse for people being shitty to each other.

Ignorant? As in lacking in knowledge? Yes that's exactly what's happening

Ooooookaaaay. That's me told.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

It's fine i can live without your type.

All the best even though another hopeless case block me but attack me.

Sad..

Why are you so bothered by me ?

Come on be honest i'm intrigued now.

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By *iffaWoman over a year ago

wherever

Fuck em, or not as the case may be. If someone is ignorant to you block and move on. The internet attracts assholes and nutjobs. No one is worth kowtowing too just to get a bit of action. Unless of course that's your thing then rock on

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

The white knights are never genuinely bothered, they scour threads looking for damsels in distress (in their opinion) who need rescuing if a thread is not going the females way,I know some females that have white knights follow them from forum to forum and they get a kick out of the lapdog approach they try.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

Love your username. I am curious though. If you honestly think you would pass 99% by in the street and not be interested, then why are you on here?? "

the 1%

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

That's the thing a lot of guys don't realise, you have to like and value yourself as a man first.

Many guys don't require any standards from the ladies,that is why they approach the ladies and allow the ladies speak to them like kids, what are the ladies offering you as a man that would allow you to accept such disrespect? I don't play like that, I am respectful and nice to the ladies, the point is the ladies pussy is not worth my integrity as a man so I am not putting myself in that position.If a lady does not like me am gone from her front, am only here for the ladies that like me.

Ladies gain a lot out of swinging, so guys don't act like you have nothing to offer and you are at their mercy, you will always find ladies that like you and that is the honest truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love your username. I am curious though. If you honestly think you would pass 99% by in the street and not be interested, then why are you on here??

the 1%"

Of course. You remind me of my brother. He said to me I want a girlfriend that is gorgeous, really fit, has a good well-paying job, a good family and her own car so she doesn't want to borrow mine. And I said yeah... because women like that always fall for trainee mechanics that live at home with their parents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's the thing a lot of guys don't realise, you have to like and value yourself as a man first.

Ladies gain a lot out of swinging, so guys don't act like you have nothing to offer and you are at their mercy, you will always find ladies that like you and that is the honest truth."

Well said. Respect goes two ways- stick at it OP, be yourself and you'll find people that will like you for you without making you jump through hoops.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

Love your username. I am curious though. If you honestly think you would pass 99% by in the street and not be interested, then why are you on here??

the 1%

well it's lucky for me that I own my own home and car and am not a trainee anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's the thing a lot of guys don't realise, you have to like and value yourself as a man first.

Ladies gain a lot out of swinging, so guys don't act like you have nothing to offer and you are at their mercy, you will always find ladies that like you and that is the honest truth."

Oh James... thanks for the laugh. Really

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By *dy-ukTV/TS over a year ago

Alcester

"We aren't spoken down to. We are bottom of the food chain because there are so many of us. well said "

Try being a TV with a strange fetish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

It's fine i can live without your type.

All the best even though another hopeless case block me but attack me.

Sad..

Why are you so bothered by me ?

Come on be honest i'm intrigued now. "

I think I have been pretty honest. It's not just you, this thread has brought out a lot of ugly attitudes. But if you honestly can't see why I would consider your first post to be nasty (you know the one where you call a woman "some fat Julie 14 stone" then state 75% of women on here you couldn't fuck with viagra) then I guess there's no point trying to explain further

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By *D835Man over a year ago

London

"That's the thing a lot of guys don't realise, you have to like and value yourself as a man first.

Ladies gain a lot out of swinging, so guys don't act like you have nothing to offer and you are at their mercy, you will always find ladies that like you and that is the honest truth."

Good point

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Ladies with a bad attitude, who are not fine know the truth , they know if they were men they will not go for ladies like them. They only hope and pray you guys continue to sleep and not realise that their pussy is all they can offer you , plus your interest in fucking them as a man is all they have, once you get to the point as a man where you have standards and can say to a lady with her pussy open in front of you ,sorry but am not fucking you as you are not my type, then you have won as a man.

Thats why all the bad guys get so many women because the women know these guys have women everywhere, this is the power these guys have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens

I'm not spoken down to, I don't obey a list of do's and don'ts. I certainly don't feel like a second date citizen.

Why? Because I consider myself an individual with some self respect. Perhaps if more single guys had that, they wouldn't find themselves treated in a way they didn't appreciate. "

This!

If a guy can't respect himself he isn't gonna respect the woman he wants to meet (and vice versa) IMO. So indeed they wouldn't want to meet!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hooray. A man without a massive chip on his shoulder! Now that's attractive!

Thank you kindly. Nice profile by the way

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We meet single guys but do find them not so house trained as attached guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we find some of the married guys way worse than some of the singles ..look its swings and roundabouts guys are singled out because of the fact there are way way more of them and it looks bad because of the numbers

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You are funny!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having spent the start of the weekend trying to line up a couple of single guys to meet with my FB and I for MMMF, I have to say, the majority of single guys on Fab have huge ego issues.

I was going to start a thread on ego and Fab and what role should ego play when you meet someone or a couple.

We found this weekend that so many single guys are purely out for themselves and actually have very little interest in the dynamic they are entering into. For them it's a 'suck my cock bitch' mentality, which is just way off kilter for what I assume most women and couples are looking for. And so the majority of single guys manage to ruin it for the decent ones.

When you've had a ton of messages from single guys that are one line, no photos, they've not read your profile or have just come straight out of the blocks with 'wanna fuck' messages I can see how the recipients of their advances might become less that forthcoming in their replies to all single men.

We try to be polite and say that people aren't for us, but in truth we do delete a lot of messages without replying, there can just be so many of them it's overwhelming, and that's on a couples profile. When my FB uploaded a pic of her sucking my cock to her solo profile and it became the hot pic for a few days (currently 4th of all hot pics for May - sorry couldn't help the brag lol), she literally got 1000s of message, the majority rude, ego filled shit.

It's a tough game as a Singtel guy OP, but I've found the simple solution, be nice, check your ego, and nice things will happen. But as a single guy on fab, you need a thick skin, you've got a lot counting against you before you even click send.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Having spent the start of the weekend trying to line up a couple of single guys to meet with my FB and I for MMMF, I have to say, the majority of single guys on Fab have huge ego issues.

I was going to start a thread on ego and Fab and what role should ego play when you meet someone or a couple.

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like a new division for older "Single Guys" . Those of us over 70 who have been married then widowed are still treated as single guys in the 18-28 bracket who want women to have non-stop sex with. Can we have a section of "Mature Widows to separate us from the other end of the scale ?

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

You are funny! "

Am not funny, am different, am not a sucker and this is my mentality.

I would appreciate it if you could be so kind as to explain where you are coming from in terms of your thought process. Do you have something to contribute?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You are funny!

Am not funny, am different, am not a sucker and this is my mentality.

I would appreciate it if you could be so kind as to explain where you are coming from in terms of your thought process. Do you have something to contribute?"

Well ok...the thought that any woman would think themselves 'lucky' to merely be in your sheer presence or to feel even more lucky when they see the women you've previously shagged is I find...hysterical! Do you not think that thought process is rather arrogant of you? I can't say I've ever thought of myself being lucky to be in a man's presence and I certainly wouldn't expect a man you feel like that in mine.

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm finding this amusing. Just bookmarking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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Booooooooo!

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

You are funny!

Am not funny, am different, am not a sucker and this is my mentality.

I would appreciate it if you could be so kind as to explain where you are coming from in terms of your thought process. Do you have something to contribute?

Cool, as I said there is no arrogance here, if you read my verifications you will see there is no single drop of arrogance in me. The thought process I explained earlier is for me as a man and it is there to guide me as a man in making the decision on who to go for and accept. It is not for the ladies, it's my personal arsenal that helps me in making my decision on who to go for, remember I said "the lady would see" , babe I am not lowering my standards for any lady, I owe that to myself, my crew and all the amazing beautiful ladies who are my fans.

Therefore , when I step to any lady or she steps to me , the lady has to meet my criterias, where a good attitude is top of the list,when I start any conversation with any lady, I am checking if I should accept her or not, if she does not cut the mustard I am not accepting her and I would walk away from her front.

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By * Cheeky girlWoman over a year ago

Coventry

"No one can make you feel like a second rate citizen but you.

Keep at it. Make an effort and things happen."

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well that's normal,it's having a conversation and seeing if you're both on the same level,it's not about if someone feel's lowly and grateful enough to be in your presence,that is arrogant no matter how you look at it.

Ps Just out of interest who)/what is your 'crew'?

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By *enuine and horny OP Man over a year ago

gwynedd

"good luck anyway OP. this place will wreck your confidence if you didn't have a lot to start off with.

what people say is how they choose to represent themselves as a person and nothing to do with you personally.

goodnight."

Thank you xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

The only food chain I'm involved in is making sure there is a selection of biscuits and cakes for the ladies at my Coffee Morning parties

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Ps Just out of interest who)/what is your 'crew'?"

Pps I haven't read your verifications,someone who feels I should be lucky to be in the presence would not be the type of man I would have an interest in. I want a man who would see me as an equal,not someone less than himself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe that possessing a sanctimonious opinion of the opposite sex and a heightened sense of self is quite an un-attractive quality to have as a person, be it male or female. Have confidence in yourself, if you wouldn't let a person treat you as below human in the real world, don't allow it in fab. There is somebody for everybody.

As for the body beautifuls or the muscle bound dickheads who think they have the God given right to be antagonistin, women don't need to feel lucky to know that you have viewed their profile, let alone to compare themselves against others whom you have met. Just because a dessert is nice to look at... doesn't mean it won't leave a bitter after taste.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The entitlement is strong in this thread

In a nutshell, women spend too much of their life appeasing boy's egos.

Here, the need to do that is less. And so, although that actually makes things more equal, it's perceived as rudeness from those used to be appeased.

People get the most out of fab when tbey go for what they want whilst accepting their limitations. Whilst "14st Julie" would be dwarfed by this "considerably bigger Jenny" i fi d i hold my own well, in fabland and tge real world.

I am not entitled to anyone's attention, i am not diserving of their disrespect, either.

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Ps Just out of interest who)/what is your 'crew'?"

My crew are my male and female friends who are at the parties with me,we watch each other and if someone within the crew picks someone with a bad attitude ,we would object. I am not checking the ladies level when I am talking to her , I have done all that already by observing her from afar plus I don't need or want anything from any lady so I am actually checking her beauty not her level, , when I am talking to her I am checking her attitude and what she is about and making sure she is not acting like she is doing me a favour, if she cuts the mustard then we are good to go , if not I would walk away from her front faster than the time it took me to walk to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting thread

Some follow the trend and some buck the trend.

If more guys would up their standards (sort out the supply/demand narcissism of a small few ladies) and fab could do some quality control to out the real cretins and losers then this place could flow very well

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By *ertsguy2000Man over a year ago

hertford

"I believe that possessing a sanctimonious opinion of the opposite sex and a heightened sense of self is quite an un-attractive quality to have as a person, be it male or female. Have confidence in yourself, if you wouldn't let a person treat you as below human in the real world, don't allow it in fab. There is somebody for everybody.

Perfectly and eloquently put

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Not all ladies speak down to guys OP. I certainly don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never been made to feel like a second class citizen in all my 15 years swinging. But a lot of single guys behaviour can reflect badly on us, which means that some couples can be a little cautious about us singles

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

My crew are my male and female friends who are at the parties with me,we watch each other and if someone within the crew picks someone with a bad attitude ,we would object."

Ok it's great you look out for each other,but objecting when you don't like who someone is talking to,blink! I presume they still have free will to continue their private conversation even though you object yes?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh look, ego, ego, ego is seeping into this thread and surprise surprise, it's not making those that are showing theirs look too great.

It's simple people:

BE NICE, PUT OTHERS NEEDS BEFORE YOUR OWN AND YOUR PLAYMATE WILL LOOK AFTER YOURS

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Of course you are free to do what you like but if we see you talking to a knockle head we will let you know, it's fun

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

My crew are my male and female friends who are at the parties with me,we watch each other and if someone within the crew picks someone with a bad attitude ,we would object.

Yeah of course you are free to do what you like but the crew will tell you if they approve or not, the crew does not need to say it verbally, when you look at their faces you will know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Of course you are free to do what you like but if we see you talking to a knockle head we will let you know, it's fun "

Bit of a double negative don't you think. Free to do what you like... but.

It's not decent to berate someone due to who they talk to..different strokes etc... everyone is an individual and not put on this planet to be keyholed or have a person lord themselves above another.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"LMAO because some fat Julie 14st really thinks i would drop my standards and shag her on here.

Had some sad bird case start a thread tonight because i had the nerve not to reply to her.

I have standards and 75% the women on here i couldn't even with vigra..

Although some beautiful ones on here i'm shocked in a good way.

Some of us do want to be seduced

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

My crew are my male and female friends who are at the parties with me,we watch each other and if someone within the crew picks someone with a bad attitude ,we would object.

Yeah of course you are free to do what you like but the crew will tell you if they approve or not, the crew does not need to say it verbally, when you look at their faces you will know."

Bit like when a child has been naughty and one stern look from mum speaks volumes,like I said you're funny!

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Interesting thread indeed.

When you go to a club, what do you see? More single guys than anyone else. And guess what; single guys pay 6x what a single lady pays to get in!! Nobody approaches them while in there and these cash cows bunch up at the bar trying to outdo each other in talking " nice bullshit" they do not believe in.

If this single guy gathers enough courage to approach a lady, guess what; some brown toothed pot bellied bastard in the background has to vet him first.

The slightest sound of sexual activity and these single guys flock to the Windows to catch a glimpse of the action.

I tell you the funniest part: a single guy waits patiently by the door while a lady is being pummelled inside for almost 45 mins. This lady emerges with sweat soaked and reddened face only for this "patient" single guy to try and take her back into the same room!!! Idiot.

If you are prepared to pay through your nose to get something, common economics and sense dictate that no one will give it to you on a platter. They'd they were as it were letting the side down or cheapening themselves.

This is what I can tell single guys: be yourselves. Do not bend over backwards to please anyone. Trust no fucker on here. Stop going to these clubs. If you message someone and they don't answer, DO NOT send a second message. Do not fuck just anything because at least it's a pussy and you've been offered it. Do not send 100 messages a day playing the game of chance. If you like fat bottomed girls, keep to it. If you like flat chested girls, stick with it. If you like manhoosive boobs, stick with it.

Single guys, wake up and realise that in the real world where you can meet women too, the women OUTNUMBER men!!

You choose to be second class on here by the way you conduct your affairs. Browse till you find someone you are interested in. Do not compose an essay and fire it at anybody within a 200 mile radius of you. Remember, DO NOT compose an essay!!. Do not be bullied into it. Think of life out there. If you saw a woman you liked would you just approach and without introduction, start reciting your life story poetry style? No you would! It's because they have you eating out of the palm of their hand, you have to dance to their tune.

If you missed any of the above, remember this : 50% is all you have to give and see who is willing to top it up or at least make an effort.

50 percent only, guys. Salaam.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because there's nothing in it for the hubby's and their are a bunch of man haters onhere

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Some of you men are a giggle!

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Some of you men are a giggle!"

If that's true, then our job is done because we know women like to giggle. Now your turn. You see me!?

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

My crew are my male and female friends who are at the parties with me,we watch each other and if someone within the crew picks someone with a bad attitude ,we would object.

Yeah of course you are free to do what you like but the crew will tell you if they approve or not, the crew does not need to say it verbally, when you look at their faces you will know.

Bit like when a child has been naughty and one stern look from mum speaks volumes,like I said you're funny!"

Well swinging has rules and so does our crew, it is always in your best interest though , sometimes you might be looking through rose coloured glasses and might not see clearly, this is why pussy does not control us, and you don't see us pleading with ladies for pussy on here and we have the power to turn pussy down and tell a lady we are not interested keep your pussy, there are more than enough beautiful ladies and guys within the crew for all to enjoy.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Some of you men are a giggle!

If that's true, then our job is done because we know women like to giggle. Now your turn. You see me!?"

I think some men on here appear to be very bitter creatures who have an apparent disdain for women merely because they won't drop their knickers for them.

These type of men need to get some self respect and grow a pair of bollocks. If someone feel's this site is not for them then simply leave. I'm sick of hearing whining from these women haters and that we're to blame because we apparently treat them like shit.

I don't treat anyone like shit thankyou unless you start first of course,then you'll get both barrel's back. I prefer to associate with a confident gentleman myself,not some woman hating whiny dickhead.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS over a year ago

Alcester

Some of us do want to be seduced

"Some of want to be abused"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread made me laugh. Especially the comments from the egotistical, entitled, loosers

More, please on this cloudy bank holiday

- Mrs. J -

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

These divkheads are so described because they are advising each other about how to behave?!?

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By *nked_kittenWoman over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

The way I see it is that it's my choice who I meet and even then who I fuck. If 100 guys message and I choose to meet one of them then yes...99 won't be happy but in all honesty I bet most of those 99 don't even give it a second thought, they are already off messaging another 100 girls.

I message guys and don't get replies. It's not personal, it's not aimed at being nasty towards me just as I'm not being nasty when I don't meet every guy who messages me.

People sign up to this site and think that they will have sex offered up to them like a all you can eat buffet and it's just not like that for most people.

I will also say that just because someone gets lots of messages doesn't mean they have anymore luck than those sending them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of you men are a giggle!

If that's true, then our job is done because we know women like to giggle. Now your turn. You see me!?

I think some men on here appear to be very bitter creatures who have an apparent disdain for women merely because they won't drop their knickers for them.

But, but, but, they are God's gift to women in the big-wide world. It is only here that nobody gives them a second glance

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sensing bitterness from both sides

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Of course you are free to do what you like but if we see you talking to a knockle head we will let you know, it's fun

Bit of a double negative don't you think. Free to do what you like... but.

It's not decent to berate someone due to who they talk to..different strokes etc... everyone is an individual and not put on this planet to be keyholed or have a person lord themselves above another. "

Nobody is lording it over anyone, there are benefits of having a crew, of course you can see how guys come on here and its almost as if they are begging for pussy , that does not happen with us, infact we are the ones selecting, if you are not as fine as the ladies in the crew , we are not fucking you, its as simple as that.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

My crew are my male and female friends who are at the parties with me,we watch each other and if someone within the crew picks someone with a bad attitude ,we would object.

Yeah of course you are free to do what you like but the crew will tell you if they approve or not, the crew does not need to say it verbally, when you look at their faces you will know.

Bit like when a child has been naughty and one stern look from mum speaks volumes,like I said you're funny!

Do you see how disrespectful you're coming across don't you?! Pussy?! You're not turning 'pussy' down you're turning the woman down which is fine,like when I turn a man down,I turn him down not his dick! We are not just body part's.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm sensing bitterness from both sides

I'm just finding it very amusing

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm sensing bitterness from both sides

I'm just finding it very amusing

Ditto. Think I'm gonna get me a crew

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Some of you men are a giggle!

If that's true, then our job is done because we know women like to giggle. Now your turn. You see me!?

I think some men on here appear to be very bitter creatures who have an apparent disdain for women merely because they won't drop their knickers for them.

But, but, but, they are God's gift to women in the big-wide world. It is only here that nobody gives them a second glance

- Mrs. J -"

That's very true

. Again I alway's have a giggle when somone say's that,I just think well why the heck are you on here then if it's instashag in the 'real world'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm sensing bitterness from both sides

I'm just finding it very amusing

Ditto. Think I'm gonna get me a crew

Fancy being in my squad?

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'm sensing bitterness from both sides

I'm just finding it very amusing

Ditto. Think I'm gonna get me a crew

Don't to be talking to anyone dodgy though,you'll get dagger eyes from them

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Thanks fuck the sense talking has started this morning.

Couldn't take much more of the butt hurt entitled whining that was happening last night just because women dared to have individual coping mechanisms for receiving hundreds of messages a day.

I love how women are always described as overly emotional and sensitive, and yet men just cannot handle the thought that not every woman wants to fuck them without calling them names.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

Think of yourself as an individual sperm, swimming among fifty million others in a sample of ejaculate, desperately seeking that one, lonely egg to fertilise, and you won't be far wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of you men are a giggle!

If that's true, then our job is done because we know women like to giggle. Now your turn. You see me!?

I think some men on here appear to be very bitter creatures who have an apparent disdain for women merely because they won't drop their knickers for them.

But, but, but, they are God's gift to women in the big-wide world. It is only here that nobody gives them a second glance

- Mrs. J -

That's very true

. Again I alway's have a giggle when somone say's that,I just think well why the heck are you on here then if it's instashag in the 'real world'."

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting thread indeed.

If this single guy gathers enough courage to approach a lady, guess what; some brown toothed pot bellied bastard in the background has to vet him first.

The slightest sound of sexual activity and these single guys flock to the Windows to catch a glimpse of the action.

Single guys, wake up and realise that in the real world where you can meet women too, the women OUTNUMBER men!!

If you missed any of the above, remember this : 50% is all you have to give and see who is willing to top it up or at least make an effort.

50 percent only, guys. Salaam. "

Lol.

Harsh.

Harsh but fair.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"We meet single guys but do find them not so house trained as attached guys "

I've met couples and some are pretty stuck so far up their own arses they are almost conjoined

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By *eisurepleasureMan over a year ago

belfast

Its down to the same standard as nightclubs when ladies were free and us single males had to pay in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting thread indeed.

If this single guy gathers enough courage to approach a lady, guess what; some brown toothed pot bellied bastard in the background has to vet him first.

The slightest sound of sexual activity and these single guys flock to the Windows to catch a glimpse of the action.

Single guys, wake up and realise that in the real world where you can meet women too, the women OUTNUMBER men!!

If you missed any of the above, remember this : 50% is all you have to give and see who is willing to top it up or at least make an effort.

50 percent only, guys. Salaam.

Lol.

Harsh.

Harsh but fair. "

So why is he here still?

- Mrs. J -

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

The worst people for getting single males a bad name is the "oh there are some single males that get the rest of us a bad name" brigade. The sooner these clowns quit their whinging and fawning over women/couples with their hopes of a pity fuck the sooner threads like this would become obsolete.( I understand there is a touch of irony in my reply but being ironic does not make it less true)

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -"

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"The worst people for getting single males a bad name is the "oh there are some single males that get the rest of us a bad name" brigade. The sooner these clowns quit their whinging and fawning over women/couples with their hopes of a pity fuck the sooner threads like this would become obsolete.( I understand there is a touch of irony in my reply but being ironic does not make it less true)"

I'd agree with that.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Well if you can't ask the question because you probably have no balls, this is your answer: I am not here for that sort of thing! If I wanted an instashag( as u call it) I know where to get that.

Anyway, my initial post is to the single who come here with the wrong mentality( not attitude) and ALLOW themselves to be treated as second class citizens. If you don't understand that, well, too bad. There's only so much a man can do.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

and don't forget women RULE!

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

My crew are my male and female friends who are at the parties with me,we watch each other and if someone within the crew picks someone with a bad attitude ,we would object.

Yeah of course you are free to do what you like but the crew will tell you if they approve or not, the crew does not need to say it verbally, when you look at their faces you will know.

Bit like when a child has been naughty and one stern look from mum speaks volumes,like I said you're funny!

Please don't bring morality into it, am not trying to disrespect anyone, just having conversation in a language the guys would understand and wake up, I agree you are a beautiful lady but as you can see I am not a sucker and cannot be pussy whipped. That is the main power women have over most men, not me though, it is a free gift to you , its yours and you can keep it, it has no single effect on me , I have it in different area codes and all over my city trust me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

There are loads of tall, handsome single men with nice personalities here; and you will never find them on threads like these. Because they have nothing to complain about

It is just the loosers who complain

They should heed to, "the only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it"

The trouble is that some little, tubby guy tries to hook up with the likes of Claudia Schaffer here and gets rejected, again and again and again. Finally he gets bitter and ends up ranting on threads like these

- Mrs. J -

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By *rx1Couple over a year ago

North Devon-ish

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens"

Don't be daft, we don't think that at all. We quite often get a kicking and abusive messages...Those that have lots of Rules and BIG SHOUTY LETTERS in our view miss out. There has to be some preference rules though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pussy = power

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are loads of genuine nice single guys out there , so why are we spoken down to , with loads of rules and so many dont's . makes us feel like second rate citizens"

I've not experienced it? No one has spoken down to me and I don't feel second rate?

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Fuck me fella!

Have you not heard of the favourite, " my block list is growing" threat?!?

I used to laugh at it.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Pussy = power "

Not really though

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

and don't forget women RULE!

I will correct that statement, women rule the Suckers not the real men, who can say no and have an abundance of women.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Buggered if I know what language you're talking? You have what in all different area codes,oh we talking 'pussy'?!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Buggered if I know what language you're talking? You have what in all different area codes,oh we talking 'pussy'?!

No idea either, have we wandered into the Bronx?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Buggered if I know what language you're talking? You have what in all different area codes,oh we talking 'pussy'?!

The language of the illiterate

- Mrs. J -

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

and don't forget women RULE!

I will correct that statement, women rule the Suckers not the real men, who can say no and have an abundance of women."

Can you point me in the direction of the 'real' men please?

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Pussy = power "

Correction pussy = power to men who are Suckers

Cock = power to the real men who are diamonds, they have plenty of pussy everywhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

and don't forget women RULE!

I will correct that statement, women rule the Suckers not the real men, who can say no and have an abundance of women.

Can you point me in the direction of the 'real' men please?

Him, ofcourse

- Mrs. J -

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Buggered if I know what language you're talking? You have what in all different area codes,oh we talking 'pussy'?!

The language of the illiterate

- Mrs. J -"

Like I've said I like simple,but riddles have alway's been a mystery to me. I like thing's spelt out in simple terms

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

and don't forget women RULE!

I will correct that statement, women rule the Suckers not the real men, who can say no and have an abundance of women."

Love your confidence but you seem to have gone off on a tangent and ostracised yourself from a lot of peeps,I agree with some of your sentiments don't agree with others but hey life would be a bucket of piss if we all agreed for the sake of it,just ask the white knights.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Because, dare I say, they are making a feeble attempt at reverse psychology hoping that someone might take the bait

- Mrs. J -

That's to complicated for me,I like my men simple,bit like myself

Just lighten up people,it's not fucking rocket science. If the sites not working for you take your whiney self somewhere else. It's not attractive,it's just sex go and wank instead

and don't forget women RULE!

I will correct that statement, women rule the Suckers not the real men, who can say no and have an abundance of women.

Can you point me in the direction of the 'real' men please?

Him, ofcourse

- Mrs. J -"

Bloody hell no,no disrespect to him but my head would be throbbing by the end of the night with utter confusion

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

This thread is a hoot with the usual suspects.

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By *othcpluk1Couple over a year ago

Sheffield

"why are single guys treated so bad"

Why do single guys not read and understand your profile.

And when you ask them if they have, you get a message saying ' well I thought I would try it on its worth a try '

And that's why we just delete 90% of messages from single guys.

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Buggered if I know what language you're talking? You have what in all different area codes,oh we talking 'pussy'?!

You said it, I didn't say anything, you just made up your mind yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Buggered if I know what language you're talking? You have what in all different area codes,oh we talking 'pussy'?!

The language of the illiterate

- Mrs. J -

Like I've said I like simple,but riddles have alway's been a mystery to me. I like thing's spelt out in simple terms

This might help

https://youtu.be/bbanWHx5AFQ

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

It's a pity!!

It's really a pity!!!. Poor fella asks for advice/ pointers and his fellow men try to help. Try to tell him there is no such thing and that he should be proud of himself and get his act together and then some arse holes think they have the godgiven right go pontificate!?

Well, you can shout all you can and block all you can. There is life out there. There is life ( real life) out there where your "PUSSY RULES" no one except the morons who bow to it because they do not know their own worth. Pssst

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It won't be just your head throbbing; hasn't he yet claimed superiority as a real man who has a 16" dickhead

- Mrs. J -

PS. Apologies for the typo; I meant, dick

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just admit it you guy's love us really,we're all little kittens here to serve you in any way you desire. Look I'm on my knees ready for you

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

16"?!

. Now two guy's with 8" would be more than welcome

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Now why did I think the op was only young?!

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By *arvin35Man over a year ago

penrith

Some of the responses by guys on this thread make me embarrassed to be one myself!

Simple economics of scale is that there are far more men than women so it's always harder to stand out as a guy, I'm not going to change who I am to get someone, if polite, funny and well mannered is not enough then so be it. Speak as I wish to be spoken too and some will respond some won't.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Thankyou Marvin sense has been restored and a good note to finish on

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh hang on what about good looks?!

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