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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i wanna go to a club event as I've never been but don't fancy going on my own and trying to found someone who knows all about the club to take me. obv I must fancy them and also do I have to have sex at these events as I will only be going to see what the buzz is all about and what can I expect |
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"i wanna go to a club event as I've never been but don't fancy going on my own and trying to found someone who knows all about the club to take me. obv I must fancy them and also do I have to have sex at these events as I will only be going to see what the buzz is all about and what can I expect"
There's never any expectation that you will have sex at a swinging club... although as a single lady, you'll be able to have sex if you want to, there's always a demand for single ladies.
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"i wanna go to a club event as I've never been but don't fancy going on my own and trying to found someone who knows all about the club to take me. obv I must fancy them and also do I have to have sex at these events as I will only be going to see what the buzz is all about and what can I expect
There's never any expectation that you will have sex at a swinging club... although as a single lady, you'll be able to have sex if you want to, there's always a demand for single ladies
thanks
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There should never be an expectation of play in any club. Rarely are there any problems in the clubs I visit and people are friendly and respectful.
Chams is my personal favourite - great staff, loads of different rooms, jacuzzis etc.
Obviously it's a bit different for single ladies and you might find that you're followed by a Conga line of desperate single guys but even they get the hint eventually!
Give it a go - you'll have a great time! |
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"There should never be an expectation of play in any club. Rarely are there any problems in the clubs I visit and people are friendly and respectful.
Chams is my personal favourite - great staff, loads of different rooms, jacuzzis etc.
Obviously it's a bit different for single ladies and you might find that you're followed by a Conga line of desperate single guys but even they get the hint eventually!
oh that sounds nice and with me they get the hint straight away as i will tell them lol
Give it a go - you'll have a great time!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a great club - give me a shout if you want any more info.
Chams you need to be a member so i think i will pass "
You can join up on the night with a single form of ID.
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"It's a great club - give me a shout if you want any more info.
Chams you need to be a member so i think i will pass
You can join up on the night with a single form of ID.
Jjx "
not to be rude I'm not signing up just to see if i like it no way |
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"It's a great club - give me a shout if you want any more info.
Chams you need to be a member so i think i will pass
You can join up on the night with a single form of ID.
Jjx
not to be rude I'm not signing up just to see if i like it no way "
Most clubs are going to want id, or a membership (for a lady it will be free or nominal), that's there for your benefit too, as it makes sure other people there have joined, and can be prevented from coming again if they don't behave well.
It's part of what makes it a relaxed fun environment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a great club - give me a shout if you want any more info.
Chams you need to be a member so i think i will pass
You can join up on the night with a single form of ID.
Jjx
not to be rude I'm not signing up just to see if i like it no way
Most clubs are going to want id, or a membership (for a lady it will be free or nominal), that's there for your benefit too, as it makes sure other people there have joined, and can be prevented from coming again if they don't behave well.
It's part of what makes it a relaxed fun environment."
I got id lol but I'm just not paying for a membership if im just checking the place out as I dont think it's fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think I'm right in saying you can get a guest pass at Chams. This is dependant on ratios on that day/night but as a single lady or part of a couple then I think you'd probably be ok.
As the other poster said, whichever club you choose you'll need to provide some ID.
Maybe try a Sunday at Chams - tend to be reasonably busy but not mobbed. Friday nights are the most single guy heavy nights. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a great club - give me a shout if you want any more info.
Chams you need to be a member so i think i will pass
You can join up on the night with a single form of ID.
Jjx
not to be rude I'm not signing up just to see if i like it no way
Most clubs are going to want id, or a membership (for a lady it will be free or nominal), that's there for your benefit too, as it makes sure other people there have joined, and can be prevented from coming again if they don't behave well.
It's part of what makes it a relaxed fun environment.
I got id lol but I'm just not paying for a membership if im just checking the place out as I dont think it's fair "
So if you liked it and played would you go back to reception and pay? Why should a club just let you in to have a look around? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a great club - give me a shout if you want any more info.
Chams you need to be a member so i think i will pass
You can join up on the night with a single form of ID.
Jjx
not to be rude I'm not signing up just to see if i like it no way
Most clubs are going to want id, or a membership (for a lady it will be free or nominal), that's there for your benefit too, as it makes sure other people there have joined, and can be prevented from coming again if they don't behave well.
It's part of what makes it a relaxed fun environment.
I got id lol but I'm just not paying for a membership if im just checking the place out as I dont think it's fair
So if you liked it and played would you go back to reception and pay? Why should a club just let you in to have a look around?"
cause I'm not paying for a membership then I'm stuck with it if i don't like I anit got money to waste love I don't mean go in for free like pay for a night then if i like then i get a membership ffs |
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"Think I'm right in saying you can get a guest pass at Chams. This is dependant on ratios on that day/night but as a single lady or part of a couple then I think you'd probably be ok.
As the other poster said, whichever club you choose you'll need to provide some ID.
Maybe try a Sunday at Chams - tend to be reasonably busy but not mobbed. Friday nights are the most single guy heavy nights."
thank you I think i might try that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been to Route69 (Weston Super Mare) a few times. Relaxed, friendly and straight down the M5.
I'm not volunteering though... incompatible, sorry. "
yeah i pass anyways |
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"i wanna go to a club event as I've never been but don't fancy going on my own and trying to found someone who knows all about the club to take me. obv I must fancy them and also do I have to have sex at these events as I will only be going to see what the buzz is all about and what can I expect"
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we are members of quite a few clubs and probably go a few times a year depending on events i think prices are reasonable.Once there we dont spend alot and to be honest cheaper than a vanilla night out.
Having sex there with others isnt a priority with us there although we do enjoy the voyeurism and exhibitionism.
we have no plans to go in near future,but more than welcome to join us if we do. enjoying a bit of vanilla spice at the moment. |
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"Think I'm right in saying you can get a guest pass at Chams. This is dependant on ratios on that day/night but as a single lady or part of a couple then I think you'd probably be ok.
As the other poster said, whichever club you choose you'll need to provide some ID.
Maybe try a Sunday at Chams - tend to be reasonably busy but not mobbed. Friday nights are the most single guy heavy nights.
thank you I think i might try that"
Pretty sure you won't regret it! I'm also in Cheltenham - yell if I can help out! |
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