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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find it under rated if done right its the best foreplay slow passionate kissing ..my point is i have come acoross couples who do not kiss and a few single females i was discussing it at my last club visit i am talking as a single male so couples may think differently thoughts please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing no meet for me all my meets get a kissing test at the end of our social
I think a lot of people maybe can't differentiate between passion and affection I know a lot of couples that don't like it
Where the singles tend to be fine with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love kissing. To us it's a form of foreplay and gets the party started if done right.............
When we kiss our playmates it is just sexy fun.....
When we are intimate as man and wife our feelings for each other make it special. This could never be replicated with our play mates and that's why we have no issues kissing.
It really is all about the mindset you have. Same could be said for cock penetration.
Obviously we don't judge people's choices and preferences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on here as a single and as a couple and both times, kissing has been a big part of it. For me the kissing takes the first meet nerves away....and then clearly leads to other forms of foreplay....
I do understand why some don't though and would respect boundaries with in a couple but if a single guy said he didn't kiss....it probably would be a no from me. |
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over a year ago
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I truly enjoy kissing. Just need to find someone who is good at it.
Pushing your face hard into mine, trying to break my nose, is not passionate kissing. |
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"We love kissing. To us it's a form of foreplay and gets the party started if done right.............
When we kiss our playmates it is just sexy fun.....
When we are intimate as man and wife our feelings for each other make it special. This could never be replicated with our play mates and that's why we have no issues kissing.
It really is all about the mindset you have. Same could be said for cock penetration.
Obviously we don't judge people's choices and preferences.
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Exactly the same for us. We dont meet couples who dont kiss. Of course its each to their own but its a big part of play for us. Jack. |
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I am starting to walk away from meets/guys in clubs that don't kiss.
Its a big part of play for me and it all a feels too mechanical and fake without some kissing.
It can be a massive turn off if you are a 'swallow me whole' kisser but I am getting better at taming and slowing these face suckers lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am starting to walk away from meets/guys in clubs that don't kiss.
Its a big part of play for me and it all a feels too mechanical and fake without some kissing.
It can be a massive turn off if you are a 'swallow me whole' kisser but I am getting better at taming and slowing these face suckers lol."
Yeah, I've had a few people seem like they're trying to eat the lower half of my face in the shortest time possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why cant peoole understand simply preferences. Kissing someone i am not in a relationship with in general makes me feel very uncomfortable. Also in 18 years of doing this its been very rare ive had to move my face or say.. sorry i don't kiss... as guys just don't do it.
Hate all this.. makes it cold.. etc ive never had a problem keeping a man interested or excited in a swing situation and I do not kiss except in very rare circumstances ( means i feel incredibly relaxed in the situation) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people want to keep kisisng for themselves thats fine,we understand ,wouldnt meet them though as kissing is a massive turn on for us.
Miss"
we dont keep it for oursleves.. it just makes me ( cali) uncomfortable and I dont enjoy it. Lee cant meet without kissing and not sure even he gets how I can so enjoy kissing him but not enjoy kissing other men... I have kissed on meets.. but till I got with lee.. I didn't kiss anyone.. not even those I was with.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Non intimate sex play has no appeal to me. I have no problem with people who do it but I just have zero interest in joining them. If all that's on offer is a plastic bag hand job, I'd much rather not go there and just enjoy a flirtatious chat instead.
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"Non intimate sex play has no appeal to me. I have no problem with people who do it but I just have zero interest in joining them. If all that's on offer is a plastic bag hand job, I'd much rather not go there and just enjoy a flirtatious chat instead.
Mr "
You have no problem with people who don't kiss, but are happy to say they only participate in 'plastic bag hand jobs' ?
Don't meet them, but why denigrate their choices? |
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 it's amusing to me that people are so emphatic about not meeting people who wouldn't want to meet them either.
Kissers and non-kissers are not compatible. It really is that simple. If it's important either way say so before you meet but respect each other's choices. |
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" it's amusing to me that people are so emphatic about not meeting people who wouldn't want to meet them either.
Kissers and non-kissers are not compatible. It really is that simple. If it's important either way say so before you meet but respect each other's choices. "
unless your difficult like us where Mr needs to kiss the lady of couple's we meet and I will avoid it with the guy lol x |
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"Non intimate sex play has no appeal to me. I have no problem with people who do it but I just have zero interest in joining them. If all that's on offer is a plastic bag hand job, I'd much rather not go there and just enjoy a flirtatious chat instead.
Mr
You have no problem with people who don't kiss, but are happy to say they only participate in 'plastic bag hand jobs' ?
Don't meet them, but why denigrate their choices?"
My point was about all forms of non intimate sex play, not just non kissing. My reference to plastic bag hand jobs is just an extreme example of this type of play. I didn't mean by it that non kissers only give plastic bag hand jobs as you've suggested |
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" it's amusing to me that people are so emphatic about not meeting people who wouldn't want to meet them either.
Kissers and non-kissers are not compatible. It really is that simple. If it's important either way say so before you meet but respect each other's choices. unless your difficult like us where Mr needs to kiss the lady of couple's we meet and I will avoid it with the guy lol x"
Having individual requirements isn't difficult
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We kiss, but have played a couple who don't. It was a fun meet and was better than some meets where there was kissing. Other aspects can have a larger influence. The girls kissed, so after that things had heated up nicely anyway.
A single guy and single woman on a 1:1 meet with no kissing would be very different of course.
Despite the vast majority of single guys on these threads saying they would never do it, in a club there are loads who have their cocks through glory holes, or wanking round people playing, who seem to be able to live with getting a blowjob without being kissed first. 
The dynamic and make-up of the meet changes so much of what feels right.
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