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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.
Is this absolutely correct all of the time?
not exactly b3cause it would be the polite thing to do is to say your not interested rather than blank them
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Don't even go there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.
Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"
If that's how they choose to act then you'll just have to get used to it. |
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"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.
Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"
Easier as then they can't bypass filters you may apply later |
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"I do it. If im not interested I delete because of the abuse if I say sorry im not interested is unbelievable"
Yep I agree. When i joined I'd always try to answer just to b polite but the abuse I got for saying no to a meet was incredible. Still get the abuse if I don't answer but that says more about them than me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the few messages I receive I do reply.
I can understand the ladies and couples deleting without reply due to the sheer volume of mail they get.... if they took time to reply to them all I would imagine the rates of RSI would soar!!  |
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"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.
Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"
Yes but you might choose to reply to some, its just not mandatory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?
Handle your mail in whatever way you wish. "
Agreed, it's you inbox. Reply or don't as you see fit. Don't worry about other's. They won't be worrying about you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do it. If im not interested I delete because of the abuse if I say sorry im not interested is unbelievable
Yep I agree. When i joined I'd always try to answer just to b polite but the abuse I got for saying no to a meet was incredible. Still get the abuse if I don't answer but that says more about them than me x"
Yep. Same here. I used to be polite and reply, but I would then get a tirade of abuse, so I don't bother now. Delete message then block sender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Use me as your sissy fuck toy mistress. That was the last message I got.
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Sorry my bad 
Seriously though, many ask for a comprehensive initial message instead of the 'how's you' so genuine people take time to try and uniquely get attention....to then see "message deleted" nice!.... I wonder why people use one-liners !!! |
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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago
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We do try to reply to all messages, unless we get cock pics sent to us. To be fair we've only had a few idiots reply back once we've said no. Considering how many messages we've been sent since joining a few weeks ago we were surprised we haven't had more. Tom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup I do it fairly regularly. Just have done from a bloke whose sum total of conversation starter was "hi" and his username was not appealing. "
As in Not_Appealing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?"
Depends how you handle your friend list. Mine is made up of a few I've met and one or 2 I'd like to so they're people I like chatting to. I'd have no reason to ignore and delete messages from them. A lot of people add all sorts to their friend list for whatever reason. If someone on my friend list was ignoring me I'd remove them and possibly block them so I didn't waste my time in future. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?
Depends how you handle your friend list. Mine is made up of a few I've met and one or 2 I'd like to so they're people I like chatting to. I'd have no reason to ignore and delete messages from them. A lot of people add all sorts to their friend list for whatever reason. If someone on my friend list was ignoring me I'd remove them and possibly block them so I didn't waste my time in future. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?
Depends how you handle your friend list. Mine is made up of a few I've met and one or 2 I'd like to so they're people I like chatting to. I'd have no reason to ignore and delete messages from them. A lot of people add all sorts to their friend list for whatever reason. If someone on my friend list was ignoring me I'd remove them and possibly block them so I didn't waste my time in future. "
I've now adopted this attitude, I used to add people I was talking to with a view to play in future, but after a spate of not meeting people I added for one reason or another, I now will only add people AFTER meeting them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at it this way: theres hell of a lot more men than women on here. Most women get bombarded with loads of messages from loads of different people. Sometimes they just haven't got time or patience to go through each individual message and reply back. The trick is to actually make your message stand out and catch their eye instead of just "hi how are you" |
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