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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a risk...A self inflicted one to,,anything could happen  "
Obviously they don't care and only out for them selves or the lady would be invited. Its a swinging sight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's true your right. But if they want to do it it's up to them. As it's their house and they are the one to deal with the consequences. Just as the one who accepts the invite.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The disrespect is in the lying, cheating and potentially exposing a spouse to STDs without their knowledge or consent.
After all that, does location matter? I guess that's for the spouse to decide...Oh wait... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But what if you.meet a mad person in your home,that then calls the old bill,and next they are at your door,,explain that to your partner,a very dangerous game to play..would rather meet in a field |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful "
Absolutely....if married men want to swing TALK TO YOUR WIFE ABOUT IT ??? if you dare.
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful "
Based on what you have said here no.
For all you know his wife may have arranged to go round so he can meet other women, it could turn her on that her husband is inviting others to ther marital bed.
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Personally, I find that the less I judge others, the less I feel judged.
No matter what you think you know, NO ONE knows the full story of anyone else's life.
Simply put: I don't feel judged these days. What about you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful "
Depends whether their other half is aware and consenting. This seems to have been written with the assumption that they're cheating. |
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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago
Wakefield |
A few women I've met have been very turned on to fuck in the marital bed. At least 3 have told me at the time.
I'm seperated and often accommodate, but some fab ladies really enjoy fucking in 'our' bed.
There's some kinky women on here. |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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I don't fully agree. Although I have never invited anyone to my home. I'm married. Wife is away 4 days a week. With my house being fairly big, you do get lonely in the house and want a meet.
I'm willing to invite people here for a meet if required.
Maybe not to my bedroom instead to one of the other bedrooms. |
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A few guys in this thread are open about being married. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but at least they're being honest about their situation and people can choose to meet or not.
The people that bother me, are the ones that aren't so honest. For example I met a guy off here last year and had a few months relationship with. He invited me to visit him in his home with his son there. The day before I was due to go I found out he was married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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each to there own if you dont like it then dont meet them but the worse thing to do is judge someone you dont know ... live and let live as long as your doing the things you want to do why care about what others do ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see someone that regularly advertises similar, he claims he is in a sexless marriage, his wife knows nothing about fab yet she is his best friend.
I have no issues with men or women being on here without their partners knowledge, they have their reasons and I'm not really interested in the way, but to meet in her home just takes it to a level I consider to be plain wrong and inexcusable.
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"I do know the person.thats why i am disapointed ,wanted others view,he gets funny cus i wont visit,and dosent understand my point."
I'd block him op
If he can't respect you on here or his wife,I doubt he would in real life.
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
I don't judge. I've met some wonderful married men and each had his own reasons. Most married men will not meet at home - either mine or a hotel. The few times I have gone to a married fella's home I'll be honest, it was a real turn on |
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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago
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"I don't judge. I've met some wonderful married men and each had his own reasons. Most married men will not meet at home - either mine or a hotel. The few times I have gone to a married fella's home I'll be honest, it was a real turn on"
You see. Told you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I won't be meeting anyone cheating on a partner. Hubby and I are both on here and are fine with meeting people already in relationships so long as they in turn are open and honest with their partners. I find cheating a huge turn off... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see someone that regularly advertises similar, he claims he is in a sexless marriage, his wife knows nothing about fab yet she is his best friend.
I have no issues with men or women being on here without their partners knowledge, they have their reasons and I'm not really interested in the way, but to meet in her home just takes it to a level I consider to be plain wrong and inexcusable.
Ginger"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I think it's not my place to judge how someone else chooses to behave.. I'll either partake or not, I won't feel the need to vilify someone based on my own opinion though.
It really surprises me how judgemental a lot of people are on here, it's a way of living that is itself deviant in nature and broadly judged.. I'd have hoped people recognised the negative nature of that and chose not to behave in similar ways.
But sadly not. |
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"I see someone that regularly advertises similar, he claims he is in a sexless marriage, his wife knows nothing about fab yet she is his best friend.
I have no issues with men or women being on here without their partners knowledge, they have their reasons and I'm not really interested in the way, but to meet in her home just takes it to a level I consider to be plain wrong and inexcusable.
Ginger"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, I think it's not my place to judge how someone else chooses to behave.. I'll either partake or not, I won't feel the need to vilify someone based on my own opinion though.
It really surprises me how judgemental a lot of people are on here, it's a way of living that is itself deviant in nature and broadly judged.. I'd have hoped people recognised the negative nature of that and chose not to behave in similar ways.
But sadly not."
I agree with what you are saying to a certain extentime but in a round about way you are judging the OP for having creating a post about this. Yes, swinging is an activity/lifestyle that is considered deviant by some but that doesn't equate to hurting people i.e. an unsuspecting wife/husband/partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful "
Some women do it too. |
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"I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful "
I wouldn't be comfortable even meeting a married man without his wife's consent IMO cheating on someone is disrespectful in itself
What others choose to do is up to them but to me this is a swingers site Surely there's other sites for cheating spouses? |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful
I wouldn't be comfortable even meeting a married man without his wife's consent IMO cheating on someone is disrespectful in itself
What others choose to do is up to them but to me this is a swingers site Surely there's other sites for cheating spouses?"
I'm not condoning adultery. Because there's an expectation of fidelity it's true that adultery is deceiving someone. However that's their issue and I don't think I can judge an individual's circumstances because reality is far more complicated. I'm here to have sex with people who I find attractive and marital status doesn't interfere with my decision making process. Others obviously disagree and that's fine. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I find it very distasteful that some men advertise the fact that they are married ,yet say ..I am home alone,anyone free to come round..Wrong..anyone one else feel its wrong to invite people into the marital home.so disrespectful
Some women do it too."
I have a few married GFs who use my place during the day for their fun on the side while I'm at work LOL ! |
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