We never touch without asking. they were the rules when we first started swinging at the clubs we think there has to be rules at clubs some couples just go to have sex with each other in the company of others and thats fine if thats there thing we have to respect it so no touching without permission. |
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No, it isn't right to touch anyone wherever they are without asking, even an orgy room.
We go in the couples room to have sex with each other. I do like the fact that people who are in there could watch us and there is a viewing window, but noone should assume that we want to be touched by others.
Even in the orgy room guys are usually respectful and start stroking your arm and if you don't brush them off then they carry on. I don't think its right to shove a cock in anyones face because of the room they are in. |
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Its never right to touch anyone without asking
I would'nt dream of doing that to anyone and absolutely hate it when its happened to me
Its just really bloody rude and disrespectful! |
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"Is it ok at when in a couples room at a club all having varying degrees of sex,to touch without asking."
Depends what you mean by 'touch' though..... deffo no groping of boobs or shoving cocks in faces, that's a no-no.
However, when I've been playing in a club as a couple, it's sometimes difficult to know whether another couple are 'interested' or not, especially if both couples are somewhat shy. In those circumstances, I (the lady) have sometimes let my lower leg 'accidentally' come into contact with the other lady's lower leg, after a few minutes. If she moves her leg away, she's just giving me more space (and obviously dunt fancy my fella LOL) If she doesn't move her leg away, it's usually a lot easier to open discussions about whether some kind of 4-some situation would be welcome. |
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We don't mind a soft non-intimate stroke on the arm or leg etc. It can be less intimidating than having to ask in a room of sweaty moving bodies.
We just give a gentle brush off if we're not interested, or nothing meaning - please carry on Hmmmm  |
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To be honest i find it very off putting when people stop my playing to ask if they can join in, i wouldnt dream of interupting someone who was mid play to ask if i could join in
I suppose, like everything to do with swinging, everyones different some like to be asked some dont so theres no right or wrong asnwer it depends on the person
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"Is it ok at when in a couples room at a club all having varying degrees of sex,to touch without asking."
You want a hard and fast rule, there are none,sorry but life isnt that simple.
i usually ask if a woman is bi before touching, but if another woman has one breast, a second is licking her out and she is moaning with pleasure, i am not going to break the mood by doing a poll on what is acceptable.
Just us and another couple,we ask, a writhing pile of bodies, we jump in.
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