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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago
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We are having a tough time finding someone, been let down for a few socials. Still trying to arrange more but looking at going to clubs , at least the people there are not time wasters.
I hope as we haven't been yet. |
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"Just wonder if any couple/couples have or had a regular FB for the wife?
It's seem very hard to find a right person these days.
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It's hard finding the right guy but don't give up.
Eventually found the right one for M and she's been seeing him for past 2 years |
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"no thanks fuck buddy = baggage and that is the last thing im on here for  "
Disagree. Wifey had a FB for about 4 years. He was friendly and no bother at all. He was just a cock on speed dial when she fancied a bit of naughty fun. He was always very good with doing my requests like pics, calls or positions/places. If we had the time we'd love for her to get a new one. |
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over a year ago
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We are looking for a regular FB for my Wife and we too are finding it incredibly difficult.
No one seems to want to put in any effort for long term reward  |
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"no thanks fuck buddy = baggage and that is the last thing im on here for
Disagree. Wifey had a FB for about 4 years. He was friendly and no bother at all. He was just a cock on speed dial when she fancied a bit of naughty fun. He was always very good with doing my requests like pics, calls or positions/places. If we had the time we'd love for her to get a new one."
Ditto apart from it's only been two years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no thanks fuck buddy = baggage and that is the last thing im on here for
Disagree. Wifey had a FB for about 4 years. He was friendly and no bother at all. He was just a cock on speed dial when she fancied a bit of naughty fun. He was always very good with doing my requests like pics, calls or positions/places. If we had the time we'd love for her to get a new one."
and ill disagree with you lol because im talking about me not you ? and I don't want the baggage as ive stated lol what others do is totally there choice of course  |
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"no thanks fuck buddy = baggage and that is the last thing im on here for
Disagree. Wifey had a FB for about 4 years. He was friendly and no bother at all. He was just a cock on speed dial when she fancied a bit of naughty fun. He was always very good with doing my requests like pics, calls or positions/places. If we had the time we'd love for her to get a new one.
and ill disagree with you lol because im talking about me not you ? and I don't want the baggage as ive stated lol what others do is totally there choice of course "
Quite right. Everybody's different 
But I am curious to know what baggage you consider a Fuck Buddy comes with? It's not like a Friend With Benefits who you would socialise with or a Boyfriend who who would go on dates/overnighters with. All meets are initiated by Wifey too. Just wondering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe there are genuine guys on Fab who are looking to participate to become regular FB but the matter fact is they don't get the chance to prove their self to become a regular FB.
Reason why because mostly couples go for the guys who mess around and don't try to make a connection or try to deep thier toe to find out about the person.
Plus when they go for the wrong one it comes out to be let down and then other genuine guys have to struggle on Fab !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe there are genuine guys on Fab who are looking to participate to become regular FB but the matter fact is they don't get the chance to prove their self to become a regular FB.
Reason why because mostly couples go for the guys who mess around and don't try to make a connection or try to deep thier toe to find out about the person.
Plus when they go for the wrong one it comes out to be let down and then other genuine guys have to struggle on Fab !! "
Agree mate... I would like a down to earth couple to have a regular thing with but its not easy finding the right couple and wading through the crap on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe there are genuine guys on Fab who are looking to participate to become regular FB but the matter fact is they don't get the chance to prove their self to become a regular FB.
Reason why because mostly couples go for the guys who mess around and don't try to make a connection or try to deep thier toe to find out about the person.
Plus when they go for the wrong one it comes out to be let down and then other genuine guys have to struggle on Fab !! "
This. |
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By *andhCouple
over a year ago
Ilford |
We had a regular guy that we would meet about 4 or 5 times a year for about 7 years.
The arrangement worked well for all three of us.
He was very respectful of me and my requests. He was also a fantastic lover to my wife.
The arrangement ended about 5 years ago and unfortunately despite several attempts to find a suitable replacement none have worked out for one reason or another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems like most hotwife couples had simillar issues That's a hard one ..... every single guy thinks he is a bull or gets the scene. Most don't and will loose interest after first couple of meets... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was seeing a hotwife couple for a few years until work force me to move away. still talk to them now and we are arangeing to meet up again. Can not wait, its so much better with a connection, getting to know what makes each other tick.
I would love to find another hotwife, but it can be hard ti be noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been trying to find one now for about six months, but no luck to date"
We know exactly what you mean is not easy do you know any different website? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did. Well she did for 9 month. Ended up being someone she used to work with lol..Started off with work nights out and flirty texts..Obviously I knew
But trying to find a guy off here, never mind talk to a guy is finding hard to believe. She arranged few meets and all back down at last min. |
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Have been looking for a while & we've just found one, at a club. Easily the best way as you know they're not time wasters & you can try the goods first!
Had 2 excellent meets with him so far with lots more to look forward to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have been looking for a while & we've just found one, at a club. Easily the best way as you know they're not time wasters & you can try the goods first!
Had 2 excellent meets with him so far with lots more to look forward to."
Sounds good guys and good luck X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes A has got one. He is a good friend and she has been seeing him for the last 3 years but he isn't from the site (BBC in our pics) and we have a lot of trust. |
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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago
South London |
We're pretty much decided on a club too. Seems to be the best way to meet genuine people going by what we've read on here. Just trying to decide on the best one for us that's newbie friendly and not too far away.
We just want to get our first threesome done but meeting suitable people purely on Fab seems tougher than either of us expected. (male half of the couple) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thik it is a great idea all in all as long the boundaries are set from the beggining and are never deviated.
It allows the two to get to know eachother. And knowledge is always power with sex. What she does doesnt like and vice versa.
I would love someone regular that doesnt want a full blown relationship. |
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"We're pretty much decided on a club too. Seems to be the best way to meet genuine people going by what we've read on here. Just trying to decide on the best one for us that's newbie friendly and not too far away.
We just want to get our first threesome done but meeting suitable people purely on Fab seems tougher than either of us expected. (male half of the couple)"
We're hoping for this Friday night at Xtasia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like to come home and find her with her fb in bed. "
That or for her to bring either one of them back to ours and just head to the bedroom with them |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
south coast |
Had an amazing 2 and bit years experience with a fantastic couple, I would normally see her once or twice a week either staying at mine or theirs (hubby had spare room), had many a long weekend away but would always keep her hubby in the picture...
Would allow him to watch from time to time or if he was very lucky she would let him clean up.
Sadly work moved and only keep touch as and when now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a regular lover of a gorgeous sexy woman and we all.play as a 3 too for last 2.5 yrs. Best time of my life...but all about respect communication and never over stepping the mark. We all get on as friends as well now. Wrote a post in stories forum called "True story: taking my lover" of an escapade last week.
That only happens when you are regular....love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wonder if any couple/couples have or had a regular FB for the wife?
It's seem very hard to find a right person these days.
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I just checked her pics .......oh let it be me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I currently have 2 semi regular lovers. One has been for 2 years and the three of us are very good friends. When I take a lover we do a mixture of one-to-one-meets and threesomes. I feel I have the best of both worlds. I think the main problem for hotwives search of a lover, is that a lot of guys like the idea more than the reality. I find men come and go, get girlfriends etc. And also not many men really understand the concept.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no thanks fuck buddy = baggage and that is the last thing im on here for
Disagree. Wifey had a FB for about 4 years. He was friendly and no bother at all. He was just a cock on speed dial when she fancied a bit of naughty fun. He was always very good with doing my requests like pics, calls or positions/places. If we had the time we'd love for her to get a new one.
and ill disagree with you lol because im talking about me not you ? and I don't want the baggage as ive stated lol what others do is totally there choice of course "
I agree with you. I find the more you see someone the more they want and having just come out of a nightmare 3 year exclusive relationship that started as a FB from here - I dont want anyone impacting on my time ever again. Also I like the thrill of the chase and build up with new guys. Its boring after that x lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently have 2 semi regular lovers. One has been for 2 years and the three of us are very good friends. When I take a lover we do a mixture of one-to-one-meets and threesomes. I feel I have the best of both worlds. I think the main problem for hotwives search of a lover, is that a lot of guys like the idea more than the reality. I find men come and go, get girlfriends etc. And also not many men really understand the concept.
Mrs"
I love the 3 play...and also encouraged by hubby to have fun as a 2....always very exciting...either way... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So according to this thread, male FBs were literally called "dial-a-cocks".... And no one noticed or bothered.
Seems like it's not the "bad guy" who ruin it for the "genuine" but the bratty attitude of the couples and women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't a regular FB an "approved affair"? It cannot be NSA if it is always the same guy. Emotions will raise their head i am sure. "
I've had to learn to control emotions in order to have lovers. And I always make sure I have at least 2 so that emotion is not focused on one person. It's not always easy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So according to this thread, male FBs were literally called "dial-a-cocks".... And no one noticed or bothered.
Seems like it's not the "bad guy" who ruin it for the "genuine" but the bratty attitude of the couples and women. "
Not all couples. We treat our guys like gold dust. It's very hard to find that winning combination, so we don't take it for granted.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't a regular FB an "approved affair"? It cannot be NSA if it is always the same guy. Emotions will raise their head i am sure. "
That's why, fun though it would be, I don't think I'd want to be a long-term fb for a married woman. I think I'd end up getting hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn't a regular FB an "approved affair"? It cannot be NSA if it is always the same guy. Emotions will raise their head i am sure.
That's why, fun though it would be, I don't think I'd want to be a long-term fb for a married woman. I think I'd end up getting hurt."
It's the best of both worlds, if you can get your head round it. A Hotwife can give a single man everything except for a commited relationship. No questions, no hassle, no demands, no jealousy. But friendship and sex. What could be better?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn't a regular FB an "approved affair"? It cannot be NSA if it is always the same guy. Emotions will raise their head i am sure.
That's why, fun though it would be, I don't think I'd want to be a long-term fb for a married woman. I think I'd end up getting hurt.
It's the best of both worlds, if you can get your head round it. A Hotwife can give a single man everything except for a commited relationship. No questions, no hassle, no demands, no jealousy. But friendship and sex. What could be better?
Mrs"
That's the problem. In a long-term FB arrangement, I'm not sure I could avoid other feelings developing. With a single woman I'd be willing to risk it, because if it happened it might be mutual. With a married woman, either I'd get hurt or I'd break up the marriage, neither of which appeals to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I currently have 2 semi regular lovers. One has been for 2 years and the three of us are very good friends. When I take a lover we do a mixture of one-to-one-meets and threesomes. I feel I have the best of both worlds. I think the main problem for hotwives search of a lover, is that a lot of guys like the idea more than the reality. I find men come and go, get girlfriends etc. And also not many men really understand the concept.
Mrs"
When I've done it in the past the couple I've been meeting with used a similar principle. 7 times out of 10 I'd meet her alone but he'd be included the other 3. Sometimes I'd just go round and watch the football of F1 with him too. |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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"I currently have 2 semi regular lovers. One has been for 2 years and the three of us are very good friends. When I take a lover we do a mixture of one-to-one-meets and threesomes. I feel I have the best of both worlds. I think the main problem for hotwives search of a lover, is that a lot of guys like the idea more than the reality. I find men come and go, get girlfriends etc. And also not many men really understand the concept.
Mrs
When I've done it in the past the couple I've been meeting with used a similar principle. 7 times out of 10 I'd meet her alone but he'd be included the other 3. Sometimes I'd just go round and watch the football of F1 with him too. "
Exactly and we'll put, I quite often would catch up with hot wife's hubby on our own as became and still are great friends |
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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For couples, finding a regular FB can be difficult or easy, depending on what you're looking for in a FB.
If your attitude as a couple is that you're the senior partner in the relationship and the FB is there to satisfy your needs and he should be at your beck and call, then of course it won't last.
If you manage to have a setup where there's a mutual respect for what each party brings to the relationship and you see yourselves as equal partners then it is more likely to last. |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
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"For couples, finding a regular FB can be difficult or easy, depending on what you're looking for in a FB.
If your attitude as a couple is that you're the senior partner in the relationship and the FB is there to satisfy your needs and he should be at your beck and call, then of course it won't last.
If you manage to have a setup where there's a mutual respect for what each party brings to the relationship and you see yourselves as equal partners then it is more likely to last."
Definitely equal partners, I just brought alittle extra and intensity to their already very loving relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For couples, finding a regular FB can be difficult or easy, depending on what you're looking for in a FB.
If your attitude as a couple is that you're the senior partner in the relationship and the FB is there to satisfy your needs and he should be at your beck and call, then of course it won't last.
If you manage to have a setup where there's a mutual respect for what each party brings to the relationship and you see yourselves as equal partners then it is more likely to last."
Spot on |
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"Isn't a regular FB an "approved affair"? It cannot be NSA if it is always the same guy. Emotions will raise their head i am sure.
That's why, fun though it would be, I don't think I'd want to be a long-term fb for a married woman. I think I'd end up getting hurt.
It's the best of both worlds, if you can get your head round it. A Hotwife can give a single man everything except for a commited relationship. No questions, no hassle, no demands, no jealousy. But friendship and sex. What could be better?
Mrs"
I totally agree - what could be better. Have been the FB for a lovely married lady in the past. She had a couple of lovers on the go - all with the approval of her hubby. Something very erotic about going on a "date" with a married lady |
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I used to have a relationship with a lady who was also my fb and quite a hotwife but she gave me up in case we became too serious ( much to my dismay but her decision).
That was a few years ago and we are still very good friends but I would love to find someone local as a fb/fwb but its not that easy!  |
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By *ambanCouple
over a year ago
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A delicate process but once everyone feels at ease it can be very rewarding,just so hard to find that special man and we do try to but it seems that a lot of men just want free sex,they dont want to give anything back,not even the respect we show them?
Its really difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hard for single guy so to meet married or attached women who want more than a once off shag.
I guess it just comes down to finding someone with the same idea of what kind of arrangement you need. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"I currently have 2 semi regular lovers. One has been for 2 years and the three of us are very good friends. When I take a lover we do a mixture of one-to-one-meets and threesomes. I feel I have the best of both worlds. I think the main problem for hotwives search of a lover, is that a lot of guys like the idea more than the reality. I find men come and go, get girlfriends etc. And also not many men really understand the concept.
Mrs"
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"It seems like most hotwife couples had simillar issues That's a hard one ..... every single guy thinks he is a bull or gets the scene. Most don't and will loose interest after first couple of meets..."
So true, we would love to find a regular fb or fwb for N but looks like all the good ones have gone.We only ever seem to get cuck's message, guys that don't match our profile and live miles away or just one nighters. The search continues  |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Hey everyone I'm looking for a couple or single lady for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
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"For couples, finding a regular FB can be difficult or easy, depending on what you're looking for in a FB.
If your attitude as a couple is that you're the senior partner in the relationship and the FB is there to satisfy your needs and he should be at your beck and call, then of course it won't last.
If you manage to have a setup where there's a mutual respect for what each party brings to the relationship and you see yourselves as equal partners then it is more likely to last."
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got to agree with you on that. Any women that needs a regular fb who is in a relationship means there is something she's not happy with in your sex life sorry to say. And for a man to let another male take control of his women when ever they both feel like it is madness. Before you know it feelings appear and your wardrobe is empty of her belonging lmao |
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"I got to agree with you on that. Any women that needs a regular fb who is in a relationship means there is something she's not happy with in your sex life sorry to say. And for a man to let another male take control of his women when ever they both feel like it is madness. Before you know it feelings appear and your wardrobe is empty of her belonging lmao"
I'm very happy in my marriage from all perspectives. But one man will never be enough for me. It's just not the way I'm programmed. It's not some people will understand unless they are wired up like me. I am also a bit different in that I don't like my husband or any of my lovers to be exclusive to me. But if anyone were to say we are not happy with our sex life, I would say they couldn't possibly know.
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"I got to agree with you on that. Any women that needs a regular fb who is in a relationship means there is something she's not happy with in your sex life sorry to say. And for a man to let another male take control of his women when ever they both feel like it is madness. Before you know it feelings appear and your wardrobe is empty of her belonging lmao
I'm very happy in my marriage from all perspectives. But one man will never be enough for me. It's just not the way I'm programmed. It's not some people will understand unless they are wired up like me. I am also a bit different in that I don't like my husband or any of my lovers to be exclusive to me. But if anyone were to say we are not happy with our sex life, I would say they couldn't possibly know.
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"I got to agree with you on that. Any women that needs a regular fb who is in a relationship means there is something she's not happy with in your sex life sorry to say. And for a man to let another male take control of his women when ever they both feel like it is madness. Before you know it feelings appear and your wardrobe is empty of her belonging lmao
I'm very happy in my marriage from all perspectives. But one man will never be enough for me. It's just not the way I'm programmed. It's not some people will understand unless they are wired up like me. I am also a bit different in that I don't like my husband or any of my lovers to be exclusive to me. But if anyone were to say we are not happy with our sex life, I would say they couldn't possibly know.
Mrs"
Agree with you Mrs ClassySwingers - have known several women who like a variety of men! And who like to take additional lovers alongside a husband - more power to them |
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I guess there will be some timewasters on here - singles guys and couples alike.
Personally though I have been looking to find a Lass for something more regular and would be more than happy if she was a hotwife as I am not looking for a relationship. The trouble I find is trying to get an initial meeting with couples hence I go to lots of socials so people can actually chat to me and see I am real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a fb to an older couple in my early 20s met up few times a month over the course of 10 years like others have said the more relaxed you with someone the more fun can be had. I would love to have this experience again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him. "
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular |
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I had exactly this arrangement with a lovely couple for about a year, and it worked well for each of us. I am actively seeking a similar arrangement, but like many in the thread have said, it is very difficult to find what we all looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been a fuck buddy for a hotwife for nearly the past 2 years, we don't meet regularly but when we do it great fun and some of the best sex I've ever had! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love a regular FB, have a guy I meet occasionally and it is great to try other things and some risky situations but would love to have a guy that could stop over etc.
Not really into the into the intro bit as it takes up valuble play time.xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular"
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us |
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Seems it's equally difficult for HW and for single guys to find each other, sounds like there could be an idea here for some kind of 'fab introductions tab', I guess based on locations would make most sense?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us "
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them |
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them"
You mean you would only have one regular couple at a time and would be 'faithful' to your couple?
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them
You mean you would only have one regular couple at a time and would be 'faithful' to your couple?
Mrs"
Yes..i am faithful to the couple. But would play with others with them. Time and discretion is huge for me....it all works for everyone.
I know everyone is different. Not what i sought to find when i joined fabs over 5 yrs ago...but now know this works for me |
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them
You mean you would only have one regular couple at a time and would be 'faithful' to your couple?
Mrs"
Forgot to add that motto is quality not quantity....aay too old in the tooth to be trying ahag the whole site lol...have to have that mental. Onnection |
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them
You mean you would only have one regular couple at a time and would be 'faithful' to your couple?
Mrs
Yes..i am faithful to the couple. But would play with others with them. Time and discretion is huge for me....it all works for everyone.
I know everyone is different. Not what i sought to find when i joined fabs over 5 yrs ago...but now know this works for me"
Our first regular single guy, my ideal was that it would be a sort of 'faithful trio', and although we couldn't control what he did and didn't discuss that, it was certainly my aim for him to be my only lover and that I would only play with others with his permission. The whole thing turned into a massive disappointment, which put me off putting all my eggs inside be basket. Then I tried again a few years later having an exclusive lover (although with him, we were one of two couples that he played with). But I got hurt again. So my view now is that exclusivity within Hotwifing doesn't work. Not for me anyway.
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them
You mean you would only have one regular couple at a time and would be 'faithful' to your couple?
Mrs
Yes..i am faithful to the couple. But would play with others with them. Time and discretion is huge for me....it all works for everyone.
I know everyone is different. Not what i sought to find when i joined fabs over 5 yrs ago...but now know this works for me
Our first regular single guy, my ideal was that it would be a sort of 'faithful trio', and although we couldn't control what he did and didn't discuss that, it was certainly my aim for him to be my only lover and that I would only play with others with his permission. The whole thing turned into a massive disappointment, which put me off putting all my eggs inside be basket. Then I tried again a few years later having an exclusive lover (although with him, we were one of two couples that he played with). But I got hurt again. So my view now is that exclusivity within Hotwifing doesn't work. Not for me anyway.
Mrs"
Sorry to hear that....seems to work for me. But each of us is different. Any lover you deem worthy is a truly lucky man given your profile. Tried to add as a friend but i dont qualify....would love to chat more about this with you if you like |
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them
You mean you would only have one regular couple at a time and would be 'faithful' to your couple?
Mrs
Yes..i am faithful to the couple. But would play with others with them. Time and discretion is huge for me....it all works for everyone.
I know everyone is different. Not what i sought to find when i joined fabs over 5 yrs ago...but now know this works for me
Our first regular single guy, my ideal was that it would be a sort of 'faithful trio', and although we couldn't control what he did and didn't discuss that, it was certainly my aim for him to be my only lover and that I would only play with others with his permission. The whole thing turned into a massive disappointment, which put me off putting all my eggs inside be basket. Then I tried again a few years later having an exclusive lover (although with him, we were one of two couples that he played with). But I got hurt again. So my view now is that exclusivity within Hotwifing doesn't work. Not for me anyway.
Mrs
Sorry to hear that....seems to work for me. But each of us is different. Any lover you deem worthy is a truly lucky man given your profile. Tried to add as a friend but i dont qualify....would love to chat more about this with you if you like"
Oh it's fine now. I suspect the main reason that it's difficult to establish a trio in the manner that you have done, is because there is no need for a single man to make that level of commitment too one couple. If a single man wants that then he may as well have a girlfriend. I guess you are a bit different though. But since I changed my thought process, what I find my current lovers appreciate about me is that I don't restrict their freedom or demand their time, which I may have done if I were their girlfriend. But the flip side is that I will need an alternative amusement when they are too busy to see me.
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"I'd love an FB but not sure my partner would allow me to have one. He works away and has told me I'm. Not to meet without him.
Then you meet with him...what i do. Love a 3...great being a regular
Like most couples on Here we've met a few guys but they've not wanted to be regular fun. A nice t-girl would be perfect for both of us
I am.the reverse ...think regular is best and only play with others if i am with them
You mean you would only have one regular couple at a time and would be 'faithful' to your couple?
Mrs
Yes..i am faithful to the couple. But would play with others with them. Time and discretion is huge for me....it all works for everyone.
I know everyone is different. Not what i sought to find when i joined fabs over 5 yrs ago...but now know this works for me
Our first regular single guy, my ideal was that it would be a sort of 'faithful trio', and although we couldn't control what he did and didn't discuss that, it was certainly my aim for him to be my only lover and that I would only play with others with his permission. The whole thing turned into a massive disappointment, which put me off putting all my eggs inside be basket. Then I tried again a few years later having an exclusive lover (although with him, we were one of two couples that he played with). But I got hurt again. So my view now is that exclusivity within Hotwifing doesn't work. Not for me anyway.
Mrs
Sorry to hear that....seems to work for me. But each of us is different. Any lover you deem worthy is a truly lucky man given your profile. Tried to add as a friend but i dont qualify....would love to chat more about this with you if you like
Oh it's fine now. I suspect the main reason that it's difficult to establish a trio in the manner that you have done, is because there is no need for a single man to make that level of commitment too one couple. If a single man wants that then he may as well have a girlfriend. I guess you are a bit different though. But since I changed my thought process, what I find my current lovers appreciate about me is that I don't restrict their freedom or demand their time, which I may have done if I were their girlfriend. But the flip side is that I will need an alternative amusement when they are too busy to see me.
Mrs"
Ha ha ha very true...i am not restricted in anyway and encouraged to play. But as i said time is a biggie for me and something i dont have a lot of. I can imagine your lovers enjoying the time they have with you |
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"no thanks fuck buddy = baggage and that is the last thing im on here for "
I disagree. A FB or FWB is simply somebody you can get along with that you can also shag!
I'm certainly not on here to find someone to ride off in to the sunset with, but someone someone I can get on with and also rattle their heaboird, well that's a different story! |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back  "
I noticed your profile earlier, just a shame you're not a bit closer to Bristol! |
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over a year ago
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Hi Would love to meet a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x |
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"Just wonder if any couple/couples have or had a regular FB for the wife?
It's seem very hard to find a right person these days.
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Just keep looking until you find someone compatible! |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back "
Hahaha....if I wasn't so far away you would sure be spoilt rotten! |
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"Just wonder if any couple/couples have or had a regular FB for the wife?
It's seem very hard to find a right person these days.
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Yes OP, we've had a regular but found it very difficult to find another after he moved abroad.
We feel that the problem is that whilst there must be suitable guys on Fab or who visit clubs, it's so time consuming to trawl through the timewasters on Fab which is compounded by the poor search parameters e.g. no Hotwife option, no straight male option.
If we went to clubs twice a week, every week we'd probably meet a guy there but we simply don't have the time.
There must also be guys who aren't on Fab and don't visit clubs who would also be suitable but without an intermediary to connect us we'll never know each other exists.
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back "
You must have ruined them I can't see any guy not wanting to come back |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back Hahaha....if I wasn't so far away you would sure be spoilt rotten! "
Now that's just teasing |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
You must have ruined them I can't see any guy not wanting to come back"
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
You must have ruined them I can't see any guy not wanting to come back
I'd love to be ruined so to speak
Definitely doing something wrong then "
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
You must have ruined them I can't see any guy not wanting to come back
I'd love to be ruined so to speak
Definitely doing something wrong then "
I'd love to be ruined so to speak |
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"I noticed your profile earlier, just a shame you're not a bit closer to Bristol!
I think part of the problem is that we're not close to anywhere  "
Yep, it's a common problem in here
Geography bites. |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
You must have ruined them I can't see any guy not wanting to come back
Definitely doing something wrong then "
You don't do that thing where you ride a guy so hard you snap his cock do you? |
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There is a couple I meet when I can at a club. I would consider them both friends and we now spend as much time socialising as we do playing. I agree with some of the previous posts - seeing the same people regularly leads to a greater understanding of each others' sensual needs and sexual quirks. For example, we found that she and I sharing his cock orally was a huge turn on for her (and us men) only after several meets.
The issue that we have is that I'm frequently away for work for very extended periods of time. If this wasn't the case, I'm sure that something more frequent would be in place as the three of us get on so well when we meet.
I still very much enjoy the 'one off' meet, but the depth of pleasure is greater with people you are familiar with, I think. |
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"We are having a tough time finding someone, been let down for a few socials. Still trying to arrange more but looking at going to clubs , at least the people there are not time wasters.
I hope as we haven't been yet."
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"Just wonder if any couple/couples have or had a regular FB for the wife?
It's seem very hard to find a right person these days.
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I've been a regular FB for hot wives for years and have really enjoyed the relationships, those from just NSA sex right through to those involving full intimacy and love. Can't beat it ... hot wife FB polyamorous meets are incredible. |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
You must have ruined them I can't see any guy not wanting to come back
Definitely doing something wrong then
You don't do that thing where you ride a guy so hard you snap his cock do you? "
...Is that not meant to happen?!
In all honesty, the thought of that makes me want to vomit |
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"We're having loads of trouble with this we really want a regular Fuck buddy but it is so hard men do t turn up or they only come once it's really hard"
shame your so far ..
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back "
More fool them in that case!!!
All the sexy ones are always too far away |
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"We are having a tough time finding someone, been let down for a few socials. Still trying to arrange more but looking at going to clubs , at least the people there are not time wasters.
I hope as we haven't been yet.hello"
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"Just wonder if any couple/couples have or had a regular FB for the wife?
It's seem very hard to find a right person these days...... I am a regular FB for a hot wife and it's bloody great so is she... come to think of it so is he...it suits us all !
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I'd be quite satisfied to be the regular FWB or NSA on a regular basis for some local lady. There must be ladies who like me need something extra outside of their steady relationship/marriage. And I happen to believe great sex comes from practice and exploration with the same person |
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We now have one regular FB but ideally she'd like another for maybe once a month fun, her preference is professional BBC, especially Caribbean, American or British BBC men who can accommodate or get a hotel room locally.
We expect we will find what we are looking for at a club but who knows, we could find on fab? |
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"Just wonder if any couple/couples have or had a regular FB for the wife?
It's seem very hard to find a right person these days.
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I guess we do, more accident than design - but someone we trust, who we know doesn't come with baggage, is up to the task and is friendly and respectful (I mean why wouldn't I keep going back - it's a hard list of qualities to find lol) |
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"We now have one regular FB but ideally she'd like another for maybe once a month fun, her preference is professional BBC, especially Caribbean, American or British BBC men who can accommodate or get a hotel room locally.
We expect we will find what we are looking for at a club but who knows, we could find on fab?"
If you would ever consider a young professional white male I would happily fill that vacancy |
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I've done one ,fucked his wife infront of him on the bed while he sat on a chair watching told to say nothing..
After about a hour I got off her and stood there watching her rub her used gaping minge and she sdkef me if hubby could lick her out... i said yes so let him then told him to Sit back down while I finished the job .
He got nothing apart from that but I bet they shagged good when I fucked off |
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"We are having a tough time finding someone, been let down for a few socials. Still trying to arrange more but looking at going to clubs , at least the people there are not time wasters.
I hope as we haven't been yet."
Im in london guys |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back "
We've experienced the same
Many guys (not all) seem to think that once they get a verification that it's a golden ticket for more meets and ignore us until they realise they're not getting inundated with offers and then seem to want to get back in touch.
A few of the guys we've met with have been repeat meets though but it's very rare to find guys that want regular/repeat meets, The search continues for us, so until then one off meets suits us and now we don't even ask if they want regular/repeat meets |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
We've experienced the same
Many guys (not all) seem to think that once they get a verification that it's a golden ticket for more meets and ignore us until they realise they're not getting inundated with offers and then seem to want to get back in touch.
A few of the guys we've met with have been repeat meets though but it's very rare to find guys that want regular/repeat meets, The search continues for us, so until then one off meets suits us and now we don't even ask if they want regular/repeat meets "
You aint too far from me guys |
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over a year ago
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
We've experienced the same
Many guys (not all) seem to think that once they get a verification that it's a golden ticket for more meets and ignore us until they realise they're not getting inundated with offers and then seem to want to get back in touch.
A few of the guys we've met with have been repeat meets though but it's very rare to find guys that want regular/repeat meets, The search continues for us, so until then one off meets suits us and now we don't even ask if they want regular/repeat meets "
Would you know whether they might be regular material following the initial meet? How well you all got on, did he meet both your requirements/ needs from the meet?
If he did then I would suggest just asking him, as he may not want to come across as intrusive or pushy, so might be worth asking if he'd like to meet again?
Who knows the lover for you both could be just around the corner.
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We met a guy at a party a couple of years ago and arranged to meet again. We all really got on the sex for me was fantastic, lasted longer he also knew what he was doing
I was also meetiting him and going to business meetings with him. It works for all three of us. Most times hubby just sits back and watches. Hope you the op finds someone to suit xx |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
We've experienced the same
Many guys (not all) seem to think that once they get a verification that it's a golden ticket for more meets and ignore us until they realise they're not getting inundated with offers and then seem to want to get back in touch.
A few of the guys we've met with have been repeat meets though but it's very rare to find guys that want regular/repeat meets, The search continues for us, so until then one off meets suits us and now we don't even ask if they want regular/repeat meets Would you know whether they might be regular material following the initial meet? How well you all got on, did he meet both your requirements/ needs from the meet?
If he did then I would suggest just asking him, as he may not want to come across as intrusive or pushy, so might be worth asking if he'd like to meet again?
Who knows the lover for you both could be just around the corner.
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That's the point. We used to ask. Many say yes to keep you open but you don't ever hear from them again and ignore your messages.
Maybe we've just been unlucky so far. |
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"Hotwife here, would love to meet a couple of guys to see regularly with/without my husband... No one ever seems to want to come back
We've experienced the same
Many guys (not all) seem to think that once they get a verification that it's a golden ticket for more meets and ignore us until they realise they're not getting inundated with offers and then seem to want to get back in touch.
A few of the guys we've met with have been repeat meets though but it's very rare to find guys that want regular/repeat meets, The search continues for us, so until then one off meets suits us and now we don't even ask if they want regular/repeat meets Would you know whether they might be regular material following the initial meet? How well you all got on, did he meet both your requirements/ needs from the meet?
If he did then I would suggest just asking him, as he may not want to come across as intrusive or pushy, so might be worth asking if he'd like to meet again?
Who knows the lover for you both could be just around the corner.
That's the point. We used to ask. Many say yes to keep you open but you don't ever hear from them again and ignore your messages.
Maybe we've just been unlucky so far. "
Ah OK. It does sound like it should be easy to get a regular guy, but I suppose most on here are after meeting various types of couples and not commiting to just one couple.
I would keep asking tough...good things come to those who wait and all that...
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