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I always do this.
My wife trusts me completely to make these arrangements as I know her tastes.
Also she/we find it especially kinky when she meets a complete stranger and within minutes sometimes will be naked and sucking his cock. lol |
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We have a set of signals for clubs. When I see the guy (or a couple) that I think she would like, I send the signal. If she responds with the affirmative signal then I will make it happen. We haven't been turned down yet 
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"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.
Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?"
Yes, i know what she likes and she appreciates me vetting all the dregs and given her a choice of nicely vetted fresh meat. Never had a bad experience other than the two times when she picked the guy herself. Vetting is a skill i tell thee. |
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"Maybe for the first few you choose, double check with her until you're both confident you can do it on your own?"
That's what I'd suggest. Either that or having a frank chat as to what she likes in a man, leaving you to interpret that as you will. |
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By *esicupids OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.
Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?
Yes, i know what she likes and she appreciates me vetting all the dregs and given her a choice of nicely vetted fresh meat. Never had a bad experience other than the two times when she picked the guy herself. Vetting is a skill i tell thee. "
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I once had a meet arranged for me. It was a massive turn to go to a stranger's house and not know who to expect. I trusted my friend to pick well as he knows exactly who and what I like and he had discussed everything that would take place in detail with the man first. It took a while for him to arrange as lots of suitable candidates were sceptical of a man arranging a meet for a female .
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"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.
Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?
Yes, i know what she likes and she appreciates me vetting all the dregs and given her a choice of nicely vetted fresh meat. Never had a bad experience other than the two times when she picked the guy herself. Vetting is a skill i tell thee.
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To be fair to my wife, her picks were people she knew rather than swingers and they couldn't perform well with a husband in the room. I understand that because it took me a long time before i could but it's still a disappointing night. |
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"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx"
We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.
She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.
She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol
She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.
Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy. |
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"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx
We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.
She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.
She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol
She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.
Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy."
We've done that, when we go out in town i like to tease her and say stuff like "you know it was that waiter who fucked you" |
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"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx
We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.
She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.
She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol
She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.
Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy.
We've done that, when we go out in town i like to tease her and say stuff like "you know it was that waiter who fucked you""
Funny. I do the same.
At the time I actually teased her about the numbers of guys around the table.
With the blindfold on and strangers in the room she couldn't tell. When I told her there were 6 guys going to fuck her she was astonished.
She didn't refuse though |
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In a club Lee once blindfolded me and arrangered a queue of men for me to give blow jobs to. I lost count of how many it was but afterwards Lee told me there were actually only three different men but they kept queueing up again !
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"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx
We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.
She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.
She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol
She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.
Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy.
We've done that, when we go out in town i like to tease her and say stuff like "you know it was that waiter who fucked you"
Funny. I do the same.
At the time I actually teased her about the numbers of guys around the table.
With the blindfold on and strangers in the room she couldn't tell. When I told her there were 6 guys going to fuck her she was astonished.
She didn't refuse though "
Good girl!
Mine is annoying cool about it, she'll just say "yeah he would be nice". If it were me then i'd have to know who it was and it would annoy the crap out me until i knew. |
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"In a club Lee once blindfolded me and arrangered a queue of men for me to give blow jobs to. I lost count of how many it was but afterwards Lee told me there were actually only three different men but they kept queueing up again !
Sally"
Smart move. Actually our mystery man wasn't a stranger at all, i needed someone i could trust to perform so i wouldn't trust a stranger for the job. |
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"I always do this.
My wife trusts me completely to make these arrangements as I know her tastes.
Also she/we find it especially kinky when she meets a complete stranger and within minutes sometimes will be naked and sucking his cock. lol"
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"In a club Lee once blindfolded me and arrangered a queue of men for me to give blow jobs to. I lost count of how many it was but afterwards Lee told me there were actually only three different men but they kept queueing up again !
Sally"
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"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her. "
Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.
Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife. |
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"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.
Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.
Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife. "
I'm planning to meet a guy on my own for the first time. We'll be filming it for Marc to watch later. I asked the guy what he's into and he responded by saying it depends on what Marc wants to see. I creamed my panties  |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.
Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.
Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife. "
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"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.
Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.
Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife.
I'm planning to meet a guy on my own for the first time. We'll be filming it for Marc to watch later. I asked the guy what he's into and he responded by saying it depends on what Marc wants to see. I creamed my panties "
Good boy!
We have a couple where we've both met the respective wives alone and both filmed it for the other husband. He also likes to phone her whilst we're on the job. It's awesome. |
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"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.
Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.
Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife.
I'm planning to meet a guy on my own for the first time. We'll be filming it for Marc to watch later. I asked the guy what he's into and he responded by saying it depends on what Marc wants to see. I creamed my panties
Good boy!
We have a couple where we've both met the respective wives alone and both filmed it for the other husband. He also likes to phone her whilst we're on the job. It's awesome."
My wife has met couples on her own. Recently she's met a couple who were very understanding of the fact that even though I wouldn't be there, I'm still involved.
They almost seemed too good to be true, but fortunately they were perfect. But we doubt there's many other couples like them out there. |
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I arranged a meet up one time where Marion reviewed a selection of profiles on fab (she ruled out a couple)... then I picked one of them and made the arrangements for the meet. She didn't know which of the guys was going to turn up. We met in the bar and chatted up - obviously she had the option to say no but she was very satisfied with my pick |
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It was mrs first fantasy, she wanted to be blindfolded on the bed, a guy who i had chosen
Who she didnt know come and have fun with her . Had loads of guys interested the one i chose left her very satisfied . Second fantasy is proving more difficult.
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By *esicupids OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?"
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no. |
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"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no. "
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there |
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"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.
Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?"
It's a joint venture, she chats with them on her profile, I read the messages.
I have built in "knobhead" radar and am pretty good at spotting them.
We then arrange a social all three of us in attendance.
Then if I am happy with the guy and she is also, let's not forget it's not just about us he has to be happy as well.
Then we arrange a play date.
But I do have a pretty good idea of the guy's she likes. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Garry often picks men for me either for private meets or at clubs.
Its such a turn on to be fucked by someone who knows all sorts about me and what I like but I no nothing about them not even their name. |
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"Garry often picks men for me either for private meets or at clubs.
Its such a turn on to be fucked by someone who knows all sorts about me and what I like but I no nothing about them not even their name."
Interesting slant on it |
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By *esicupids OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there "
Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked |
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"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there
Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked "
So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar? 
-Mr |
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By *esicupids OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there
Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked
So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?
-Mr "
With such a tight selection criteria that would strike you out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there
Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked
So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?
-Mr
With such a tight selection criteria that would strike you out "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there
Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked
So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?
-Mr
With such a tight selection criteria that would strike you out "
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"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there
Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked
So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?
-Mr "
Open university |
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"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.
Any particular reason?
Yeah what are your vetting criteria?
The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.
Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there
Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked
So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?
-Mr
Open university "
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I normally pick for Sara according to her taste but make sure she is happy with the pics and profile.
My advice is make sure the guy has good verifications. Otherwise you might get let down like we did today |
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