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" Ruined all of swinging for you? "
We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !
We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .
Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .
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" Ruined all of swinging for you?
We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !
We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .
Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .
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 that's a bit much! owwww  |
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" Ruined all of swinging for you?
We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !
We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .
Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .
that's a bit much! owwww "
He didn't mean it , but it made us very aware of the possible pitfalls of having sex with complete strangers . Ever since we haven't sought the company of dominant men . |
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" Ruined all of swinging for you?
We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !
We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .
Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .
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" Ruined all of swinging for you?
We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !
We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .
Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .
that's a bit much! owwww
He didn't mean it , but it made us very aware of the possible pitfalls of having sex with complete strangers . Ever since we haven't sought the company of dominant men ."
it's a bit of a lack of awareness though, or at least pretty clumsy it seems chances it'd happen again i'd think would be pretty slim but i can see why you'd err on the side of caution with the folks you meet now. selfishly, i'm glad it didn't put you off for good!  |
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Yes a social meet recently made us want to delete our profile, we very nearly fell out over it.
But it made us think about a few things and realise we need to change how we do things. |
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Not ruined it but put me off for a while. While ago meet this couple got chatting & all was good. Organised meet at theirs, got there placed looked like walking into a bomb shelter all I got was a 'hie' she spent next 30mins playing Bingo on her phone whilst he browsed POF on laptop. All I had for company was their cat  |
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My first ever meet very nearly put me off returning to the site.
He was so pushy to meet again afterwards, I would've met him again if he wasnt one of those who would ask to meet and not accept "Let me see when I'm free, I'll message you in an hour" and keep messaging me.
He was calling me a bitch and saying he regretted meeting me, nobody would want me again, why don't I go and have another kid with another fucking idiot.. just wow. Reallyyyy gonna make me want to meet again
He deleted his account after blocking me on whatsapp, recently made a new one and had the cheek to message me "We meeting again or what?" I stuck it out and have met a few lovely people, I didnt meet for weeks after him. He seemed so lovely, bad judgement I think on my part!
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We had one such. We arranged to meet this couple in a local bar. Well, they came by large SUV with a trailer and tractor on it. This guy....all he could talk about was the tractor he just bought, specifications, plow depth and all this kind of stuff. His wife was exited as well. About the tractor.Since then we prefer to meet people in clubs  |
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"Yes a social meet recently made us want to delete our profile, we very nearly fell out over it.
But it made us think about a few things and realise we need to change how we do things. "
This is exactly why we won't do social meets if there's no opportunity for them to turn into play if all parties click . |
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"Yes a social meet recently made us want to delete our profile, we very nearly fell out over it.
But it made us think about a few things and realise we need to change how we do things.
This is exactly why we won't do social meets if there's no opportunity for them to turn into play if all parties click . "
Well it wasn't quite that sort of situation, but I do understand what you mean. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Never ruined swinging for us - but certainly changed how we go about it.
We had a couple of issues in the beginning with our first couple of meets.
Or first mfm was a long time mate of XY and worked really well for us. So when he coupled up decided to look elsewhere (clubs and fab). We fell into the trap that maybe a lot of newbies do, and didn't really know how to shake people off.
Anyway this guy we met in a club became semi regular but then became exceptionally possessive demanding to know where XX was at nearly all times (messaging at all times - messages /Facebook /can etc and phoning when she didn't reply), trying to chaperone her on nights out with her girlfriends etc. Anyway when XX was home alone as XY was working away - he sent pics of a gun and knife and said he passed out house, thought about popping round uninvited.
We also had another guy who used to get insanely jealous when XX was meeting other people - ffs, she's not exclusive to XY, she's won't be exclusive to another bloke.
Basically - this led to us now meeting at clubs almost exclusively. We only communicate on fab now and never of site, and absolutely no one gets numbers, or Facebook etc. Also we will never have anybody round our house as we have kids. Although we never had anyone round when the kids were there - you realise they can get obsessive and when they know she you live, they know where you live.
We've since got much better at shaking people off. It's not ruined swinging for us, but it has certainly changed how we do it. So defo no more guys thinking they can have a regular thing with us. |
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"Never ruined swinging for us - but certainly changed how we go about it.
We had a couple of issues in the beginning with our first couple of meets.
Or first mfm was a long time mate of XY and worked really well for us. So when he coupled up decided to look elsewhere (clubs and fab). We fell into the trap that maybe a lot of newbies do, and didn't really know how to shake people off.
Anyway this guy we met in a club became semi regular but then became exceptionally possessive demanding to know where XX was at nearly all times (messaging at all times - messages /Facebook /can etc and phoning when she didn't reply), trying to chaperone her on nights out with her girlfriends etc. Anyway when XX was home alone as XY was working away - he sent pics of a gun and knife and said he passed out house, thought about popping round uninvited.
We also had another guy who used to get insanely jealous when XX was meeting other people - ffs, she's not exclusive to XY, she's won't be exclusive to another bloke.
Basically - this led to us now meeting at clubs almost exclusively. We only communicate on fab now and never of site, and absolutely no one gets numbers, or Facebook etc. Also we will never have anybody round our house as we have kids. Although we never had anyone round when the kids were there - you realise they can get obsessive and when they know she you live, they know where you live.
We've since got much better at shaking people off. It's not ruined swinging for us, but it has certainly changed how we do it. So defo no more guys thinking they can have a regular thing with us. "
 terrible. Thanks for sharing. |
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