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Quick Question On Meeting Younger Guys...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I've not been having much luck on here. I'm only 21, and quite self conscious about my god awful looks.
The question is, how many of you fabbers would happily meet a younger guy? Just out curiosity... I understand some younger people can be immature and rude, which gives us nice guys a bad name. I also completely get why some people wouldn't want to meet someone younger due to attraction and such like.
Please don't be abusive, I'm only asking a question lol... Just after some serious answers  |
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"So, I've not been having much luck on here. I'm only 21, and quite self conscious about my god awful looks.
The question is, how many of you fabbers would happily meet a younger guy? Just out curiosity... I understand some younger people can be immature and rude, which gives us nice guys a bad name. I also completely get why some people wouldn't want to meet someone younger due to attraction and such like.
Please don't be abusive, I'm only asking a question lol... Just after some serious answers "
We would meet you ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your username is "dominant" yet you're "nervous" & "self conscious" by your own admission.
Do you think perhaps this may come across as a little confused to people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't think I'd ever meet with anyone younger.... I thought to myself....nope they'll not meet with me....however I went against my better judgement and ended up having a bi ffm.
The female was a few years older the male was a few years.
I don't think age should really come to it..but as with everything in life you have the choice.
Good luck op I wish you well on your quest
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Possibly, I'm only nervous due to not doing anything like this before (as in, being on a swingers website). I have had past experiences with ex girlfriend's and such like. I enjoy the dominant role. Maybe a name change is in order, what would you recommend? Thanks for the feedback also. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the feedback
I realise it's not the best question to ask, but I am new to these kinds of sites. I'll alter a few things on my profile and see how it goes... |
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I had a similar thread, the wisdom imparted to me was simply be yourself and be patient.
If you aren't having much luck just sending out messages being active in the forums or attending socials/meets will go a long way for people to get to know you and your personality the latter more than the former.
Confidence can play a role but you're already here with a photo and posting in rhe forum so thats the first step done!
Just realise that for the most part we are all just people behind the profiles treat us as such and you'll be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks mate, I saw your post earlier on actually and thought I'd ask myself.
I know it doesn't help my cause but still... I was just curious. Some people always jump on you for asking something so simple lol. |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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Always worth checking out the 'meet and party requests' forum... theres quite often some Fab social or meet going off your way. Theres one party meet up at the moment , but it might be a 'full on' party rather than a social.
It helps to think of this site as 'another string to your bow', rather than expecting to be knee deep in minge just because you are signed up. (Not saying you think this way)
Oh and check out the local chat rooms.
Good luck!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always worth checking out the 'meet and party requests' forum... theres quite often some Fab social or meet going off your way. Theres one party meet up at the moment , but it might be a 'full on' party rather than a social.
It helps to think of this site as 'another string to your bow', rather than expecting to be knee deep in minge just because you are signed up. (Not saying you think this way)
Oh and check out the local chat rooms.
Good luck!! "
Thank you
I'll check that out, I was only looking for some feedback in all honesty. I don't expect to be knee deep in minge lol.
Much appreciated though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do agree in the sense where I feel that couple assume I am immature and want unpassionate meets BEFORE even talking to me. However, I do completely understand it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll meet you
Oh shoot he's gone 
Hahaha it seems to be that this is the reason that people don't trust my age-group x  
I'm blaming you as the last person to post before he left. "
Go ahead haha! Seems like everybody else does.  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"So, I've not been having much luck on here. I'm only 21, and quite self conscious about my god awful looks.
The question is, how many of you fabbers would happily meet a younger guy? Just out curiosity... I understand some younger people can be immature and rude, which gives us nice guys a bad name. I also completely get why some people wouldn't want to meet someone younger due to attraction and such like.
Please don't be abusive, I'm only asking a question lol... Just after some serious answers "
from past experience it's actually the older guys that are immature and rude, good luck OP x |
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