Pardon the language please....
Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).
This was a social, get to know you thing.
I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!
All I can say is....MEN.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pardon the language please....
Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).
This was a social, get to know you thing.
I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!
All I can say is....MEN.
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it sucks being let down, but bit unfair to generalise all 'men' under same leaf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am never suprised how people are on here at times, I used to get irritated, but after I had 2 no shows from woman, I just expect the worst from the off  |
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It's really annoying, we had been chatting to a guy for a few weeks, he invited us to his house the following week, Mrs spent hours getting ready and I was messaging with him up to about two hours before we were leaving
With the last one saying we would be there about 8 ish just need your address. Still waiting for a reply (blocked named and shamed) so that won't be happening
put us off meeting single guys for ages, getting back into it now tho'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pardon the language please....
Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).
This was a social, get to know you thing.
I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!
All I can say is....MEN.
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We get bored easily, may I suggest you put a little extra legwork into keeping us ''men' interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men loose interest at the suggestion of a social first, I'd say they're the ones just here for sex not swinging "
Men, looking for sex! on this site!!!!!!
Outrageous!!!!!!!!! |
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Can't understand it myself, seems to be a lot of folk complaining about they can't get a meet in the first place and then you get the threads about folk not showing or chickening out.
Guess have been lucky in a 100% shows for meets arranged.
Well 2 out of 2 anyway |
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I think there are too many on here who get off on chatting, talking dirty and making plans but can never follow through.
Had a great chat a couple of days ago with a single guy who wanted to fuck my wife (who wouldn't?). Left it at let's make a plan in the coming days. Went to write to him yesterday to firm up and he is "user no longer on site".
Not as bad as a no show I suppose... |
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There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pardon the language please....
Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).
This was a social, get to know you thing.
I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!
All I can say is....MEN.
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does he know what you look like or you him? |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves"
I do like your profile pic.... |
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"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves
I do like your profile pic.... "
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves
I do like your profile pic.... thanks "
I didn't mean you Trademark!? |
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"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves
I do like your profile pic.... thanks
I didn't mean you Trademark!? "
trade what ? Bodies maybe ......ok |
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"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves
I do like your profile pic.... "
I desperately need some new better pics but im a mechanic and the fine art of photography is lost on me lol |
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"All this carnage going on, meanwhile normal nice guys can't even meet for socials due to mistrust and bad reputation. I do hate some of the guys on this site!"
I reckon it's entirely my responsibility as to how I get on here...nothing to do with anyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why is it a man thing? Couples and single women behave in this way. Most single men I know suck it up, block and move on. It is one of the many fab facts of life which is standard for single men and this fab fact states "expect nothing and you will not be disappointed". |
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"Pardon the language please....
Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).
This was a social, get to know you thing.
I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!
All I can say is....MEN.
We get bored easily, may I suggest you put a little extra legwork into keeping us ''men' interested."
Contrary to the belief of some, I am NOT here to be anyone's boredom relief.
I am here for my own entertainment, no one else's, and I, for one, have never ever stood anyone up or agreed to a meet and then ignored the person.
I DO like a man with enough brains that he is capable of using it. Any man relying on me to overcome his own lack of a life can move right along. He probably doesn't even know what he's missing. |
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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago
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Don't think it's a man thing per say , think it's a certain type of person on fab thing.
Thrill of the chase , not 100% committed to the idea, waiting on a better option , fantasists ...
Any and more |
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Sorry to hear it OP, timewasters are the worst
