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Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.
Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph. |
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"Patience and time....
Or do a search for people within your age range.
Cheers, mate! "
Sorry bud! My simple search made me arrive at this conclusion as numbers of results fall pretty dramatically |
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"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.
Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph."
Without sounding facetious, get a partner... |
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"The only age group I rarely see complain about being excluded are the 35 to 45 year old guys. Clubs, socials and tailored searches are the way forward probably.
Good luck."
I better get my ass out to meet some real people then, thanks for the advice! |
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"The only age group I rarely see complain about being excluded are the 35 to 45 year old guys. Clubs, socials and tailored searches are the way forward probably.
Good luck.
I better get my ass out to meet some real people then, thanks for the advice!"
Truth is its down to getting your personality across in many cases. I think you'll do well, you're responding with humour and none of the aggression that can sometimes creep in. |
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"The only age group I rarely see complain about being excluded are the 35 to 45 year old guys. Clubs, socials and tailored searches are the way forward probably.
Good luck.
I better get my ass out to meet some real people then, thanks for the advice!
Truth is its down to getting your personality across in many cases. I think you'll do well, you're responding with humour and none of the aggression that can sometimes creep in."
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Although I don't face the under-25 issue, age restrictions do hinder me with some women that grab my attention.
I'll just reiterate what everyone else has said and emphasise that patience is key. You seem like a nice guy, which puts you ahead of the ranters and abusive d bags IMO.
Good luck, mon. |
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"Although I don't face the under-25 issue, age restrictions do hinder me with some women that grab my attention.
I'll just reiterate what everyone else has said and emphasise that patience is key. You seem like a nice guy, which puts you ahead of the ranters and abusive d bags IMO.
Good luck, mon."
Thanks mate, yeah I've encountered a couple of those. Nobody can argue that fabs doesn't pull in people from every corner of society. |
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"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.
Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph."
I'd avoid that particular type of tine travel, thing is always breaking and a bugger to hide. Have you considered other choices? Stuey Griffin time travelling device? Or even a Tardis? |
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Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light |
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All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible
You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad "
Cheers! All these compliments im going to have to start buying people drinks at socials  |
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"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.
Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph.
I'd avoid that particular type of tine travel, thing is always breaking and a bugger to hide. Have you considered other choices? Stuey Griffin time travelling device? Or even a Tardis?"
I didn't want to risk being busted by a gang of darleks mid romp but now stewies device is a great idea... anyone got the quahog yellow pages? |
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"Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light"
Appreciate the advice, you will be seeing more of me floating around the forums then. For better or worse  |
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All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible
You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad "
All this can help remove your age as a barrier. Remember it's only a barrier to some on here, not all and the benefits of being young in the real world far outweigh the disadvantages on here. Just think, you'll be around in at least the year 2080 - in fact.....look out for my new thread.  |
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All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible
You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad
Cheers! All these compliments im going to have to start buying people drinks at socials "
I don't drink, so water will do just fine!  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light
Appreciate the advice, you will be seeing more of me floating around the forums then. For better or worse "
Good attitude to have  |
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All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible
You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad
Cheers! All these compliments im going to have to start buying people drinks at socials
I don't drink, so water will do just fine! "
Fantastic I'll get you two! |
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"That's not entirely true OP, I have met two 21 year olds in the past week. Their stamina is unrivalled!"
I agree I definitely can't paint everyone with the same brush, just my own observation from my limited experience. I'm glad other 21 year olds are doing their bit to represent us well! haha |
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Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.
It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.
Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.
The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here  |
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"Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light
Appreciate the advice, you will be seeing more of me floating around the forums then. For better or worse
Good attitude to have "
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"Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.
It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.
Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.
The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here "
Noted I think you will definitely see me around once I have more time away from university |
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"I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones.
Naturally, even from my crowd in the "real world" there are some strange ones about "
There's no age limit on strange  |
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"Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.
It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.
Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.
The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here "
I'm yet to hit the club scene myself, but as the summers approaching, it's an inevitable outcome.
As you say, the midlands is a hot bed, so I'm onto a winner.
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"I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones.
Naturally, even from my crowd in the "real world" there are some strange ones about
There's no age limit on strange "
This!  |
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"Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.
It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.
Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.
The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here
Noted I think you will definitely see me around once I have more time away from university "
I'm glad my semester is coming to a close too |
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"Not yet, will be definitely looking to go when I build up the brass to turn up on my own."
Clubbing alone isn't that scary once you've been the first time and if you become a regular you'll always see people you know eventually. Give it a go you'll be surprised. |
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"I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones.
Naturally, even from my crowd in the "real world" there are some strange ones about
There's no age limit on strange "
ah touché |
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"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.
Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph."
I'm sure you're not old enough to remember that movie  |
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"Try being 20
You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!
GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!"
Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!
Bring it on!! |
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I used to meet many youngters - then ended up in a three year relationship with a guy from here who was 20 years younger. He was 18 when we met. However he seemed to get progressively more immature as he grew up ! Lol
Its put me off the young guys for now ..... but never say never
You look and sound nice OP - good luck xx |
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"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.
Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph.
I'm sure you're not old enough to remember that movie "
Fortunately for me it became a staple christmas movie  |
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"I used to meet many youngters - then ended up in a three year relationship with a guy from here who was 20 years younger. He was 18 when we met. However he seemed to get progressively more immature as he grew up ! Lol
Its put me off the young guys for now ..... but never say never
You look and sound nice OP - good luck xx "
Seems like you found a curious case of behavioural Benjamin Button! Thank you anyway im hopeful x |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"Try being 20
You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!
GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!
Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!
Bring it on!!"
No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5. |
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21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site? |
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"Try being 20
You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!
GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!
Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!
Bring it on!!
No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5."
I binged the hell outta the final two seasons in three days when I was behind! Enjoy! |
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?"
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me  |
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"You'll do fine mate... You're already displaying more humour and maturity than most 'look at me' posters.
I'm willing to bet you'll have several approaches by the end of the day.
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Sir I think you owe me a drink! but thank you, it's reassuring to know. |
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"Try being 20
You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!
GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!
Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!
Bring it on!!
No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5."
Just remember to hold the door  |
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"Try being 20
You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!
GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!
Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!
Bring it on!!
No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5.
Just remember to hold the door "
Heartbreaking scene! |
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me "
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs"
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach. |
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach. "
Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.
Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.
Mrs"
Thanks a lot of good advice, im not against MMF but having never been in that situation i honestly don't know if I'd perform with the right build up I probably could |
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.
Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.
Mrs
Thanks a lot of good advice, im not against MMF but having never been in that situation i honestly don't know if I'd perform with the right build up I probably could"
I would not advise a man to pursue MFM if they are not interested in it - from a couples point of view there is nothing worse than a man using a couple in order to have sex with the woman! However, if you want to experience non-vanilla that's the sort of thing that takes place in clubs. MFF is rare. Just to manage expectations. |
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.
Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.
Mrs
Thanks a lot of good advice, im not against MMF but having never been in that situation i honestly don't know if I'd perform with the right build up I probably could
I would not advise a man to pursue MFM if they are not interested in it - from a couples point of view there is nothing worse than a man using a couple in order to have sex with the woman! However, if you want to experience non-vanilla that's the sort of thing that takes place in clubs. MFF is rare. Just to manage expectations. "
Good job I wasn't trying to actively pursue it I'm more laid back about the entire thing and I know im aware I was just listing things as examples. |
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach. "
He's a clever little shit this one ain't he!!
Dude you are going to have no issues on here. I'm going to be very surprised if you've not already got a few vaginas dripping with your great pics, and the attitude and maturity you've displayed will only fuel them cougars. I'd be even more surprise if a few of your "boxes" get ticked off within weeks!
Happy Fabbing kid! Played an absolute blinder lol
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.
He's a clever little shit this one ain't he!!
Dude you are going to have no issues on here. I'm going to be very surprised if you've not already got a few vaginas dripping with your great pics, and the attitude and maturity you've displayed will only fuel them cougars. I'd be even more surprise if a few of your "boxes" get ticked off within weeks!
Happy Fabbing kid! Played an absolute blinder lol
Aj "
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"21, great physique, witty...????
Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?
Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me
OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.
Mrs
An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach. "
I'm pretty sure you can meet women like this on normal nights out? |
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