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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nice to see that you've been a member for a whole 7 days before you've posted a stroppy thread in the forums ....
Maybe you're on the wrong site if you've joined just to get 'a shag'
This is a swingers site not a sex on demand site, if you just want a shag, go pay for a whore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol, no wonder a lot of women on here aren't exactly in a rush to meet 'single' guys!!!
Maybe a little humility, subtlety, and patience would go a long way to improving your 'strike rate'!!
Women on here aren't just waiting for you to turn up!! There's a long queue and not just anybody get's to the front!!! |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"whats the success rate of meeting anyone and the time it takes to meet someone and gettig a shag on this site.  "
I'm sure there are some people who are on the site just to be notches on your bedbost - good luck in finding them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats the success rate of meeting anyone and the time it takes to meet someone and gettig a shag on this site.
I'm sure there are some people who are on the site just to be notches on your bedbost - good luck in finding them. "
I've complained to admin, but I'm still waiting for the 'Fuck now' button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats the success rate of meeting anyone and the time it takes to meet someone and gettig a shag on this site.
I'm sure there are some people who are on the site just to be notches on your bedbost - good luck in finding them.
I've complained to admin, but I'm still waiting for the 'Fuck now' button "
Ive got a 'fuck now' button. Want to push it???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i first joined it took me about 2 weeks. When I had my month break and rejoined, about 5 hours because I knew more about swinging and how to approach people.
It can take time, but if you put effort in and build up a circle of friends and then get a meet and verified, it does become easier. Just be prepared to put in a lot of effort, but the rewards are worth it. Not just the sex, but the great people you can meet too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats the success rate of meeting anyone and the time it takes to meet someone and gettig a shag on this site. "
Depends on how ugly.. and what kind of a twonk the person is..
Some...  Will take longer than others... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont do quick meets so my meeting time is usually drawn out lol i like to chat for a bit on msn then meet for a drink then arrange a meet to play if we get on, so from first chat to getting into my pants could take anything upto 3 to 4 weeks
im not easy you know lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have actually had a PM from the OP and he has thanked me for actually giving him a mature response, so not to criticise others on the thread, but i don't think you can always appreciate how hard it can be for a single guy to get into this.
This is why i posted a request for newbie guides which will be getting done soon. It is very hard to ask for advice on this subject, so I think it may be time for the more experienced to remember what it was like for them when they started doing this.
Okay, rant over!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your reply I look forward to the guide and till then refrain from doing anything and try will try and learn more about the life style and ettiquates
To all the others I understand your view point and appologize for any offence caused to the indivuals to the group as awhole.Hopefully this will be the end of outburst
Ilook forward to meeting a lot of you and having a fun time here with you guys and invite some to my place as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have actually had a PM from the OP and he has thanked me for actually giving him a mature response, so not to criticise others on the thread, but i don't think you can always appreciate how hard it can be for a single guy to get into this.
This is why i posted a request for newbie guides which will be getting done soon. It is very hard to ask for advice on this subject, so I think it may be time for the more experienced to remember what it was like for them when they started doing this.
Okay, rant over!
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oh dam, us immature ones must really stop posting on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have actually had a PM from the OP and he has thanked me for actually giving him a mature response, so not to criticise others on the thread, but i don't think you can always appreciate how hard it can be for a single guy to get into this.
This is why i posted a request for newbie guides which will be getting done soon. It is very hard to ask for advice on this subject, so I think it may be time for the more experienced to remember what it was like for them when they started doing this.
Okay, rant over!
oh dam, us immature ones must really stop posting on the forums "
I think you're right, we need to go all straight faced and have no sense of humour  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have actually had a PM from the OP and he has thanked me for actually giving him a mature response, so not to criticise others on the thread, but i don't think you can always appreciate how hard it can be for a single guy to get into this.
This is why i posted a request for newbie guides which will be getting done soon. It is very hard to ask for advice on this subject, so I think it may be time for the more experienced to remember what it was like for them when they started doing this.
Okay, rant over!
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just wondering....how can u give advice when only the other day u slated issy on a thread cuz she didnt like the look of you..... so u got the hump,
hope u told him to have balls of steel on here and not to spit his dummy out at rejection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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actually, i didn't get the hump at all. I made a light hearted comment and tried to generate some discussion, then a little group started having a dig at me.
The difference is that I don't really give a shite what is said to me because I am big enough and ugly enough to look after myself.
Not everyone is that confident and when asking for help I think a bit of respect should be shown, and not ganging up and taking the piss. I am sure that if somebody slighted one of you lot, like you believe I did with Issy, you would be on them like a ton of bricks
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"actually, i didn't get the hump at all. I made a light hearted comment and tried to generate some discussion, then a little group started having a dig at me.
The difference is that I don't really give a shite what is said to me because I am big enough and ugly enough to look after myself.
Not everyone is that confident and when asking for help I think a bit of respect should be shown, and not ganging up and taking the piss. I am sure that if somebody slighted one of you lot, like you believe I did with Issy, you would be on them like a ton of bricks
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Actually, I am one of those people who said you were acting like a man who didn't take rejection too well...and I am not part of any group.
I am not going to go over what was on that thread as I said it all there but I do hope like the other poster has said, that you have made sure in your mail that he knows he will need a thick skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"actually, i didn't get the hump at all. I made a light hearted comment and tried to generate some discussion, then a little group started having a dig at me.
The difference is that I don't really give a shite what is said to me because I am big enough and ugly enough to look after myself.
Not everyone is that confident and when asking for help I think a bit of respect should be shown, and not ganging up and taking the piss. I am sure that if somebody slighted one of you lot, like you believe I did with Issy, you would be on them like a ton of bricks
Actually, I am one of those people who said you were acting like a man who didn't take rejection too well...and I am not part of any group.
I am not going to go over what was on that thread as I said it all there but I do hope like the other poster has said, that you have made sure in your mail that he knows he will need a thick skin."
Thanks ruby for mentioning that, and I was in no way singling anybody out. You were actually civil enough to write to me personally last time on the subject for which I am very grateful as we had a very sensible discussion on the topic.
I don't mean to come across as being too serious, but I do think that sometimes there is a tendency for people on here to take the piss and forget they are talking about an actual human being, a person with feelings and emotions. And lets be honest, sex can be difficult enough without being mocked for things.
But Ruby, you are very very right. If you are going to do well on the Scene, thick skin has to be the biggest pre-requisite you need. Well, that or a 13" cock!
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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Common guys.., the bloke is asking a fair question.., go easy on him you guys that're asking for his head.
The bottom line is this is a sex site. Period. There is no law that states the required etiquette on how to approach people or groom those you're interested in before you ask them if they'd fancy a shag. As if they didn't already know what this is all about.
Everyone is entitled to take their own approach as long as they have no problem dealing with rejection and can fine tune their methods accordingly.
Single guys don't get a bad name in the swinging scene because they want to have a shag the very second they approach a girl or a couple.., there are other reasons for them being at the very bottom of the food chain when it comes to swinging.
People have all sorts of fantasies in this thing called swinging.., and I know for a fact that there are people who get a kick out of getting in touch with someone and wanting them to come over for a shag within the hour. And these group of people include girls and couples.
I had an email the other day from a couple, around 12:10am in the morning, that simply said.., "We like your profile and pics. If you can get to ours in 45 mins, then you can fuck my wife to your hearts content.., no holes barred."
I don't see how that approach is any different from a guy who sends an email and asks to meet for a shag straight away.
Such a strategy of course isn't the norm and is more likely to leave you high and dry than get you a shag, but my point is anyone is perfectly at liberty to do so.., and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Not every girl or couple wants to be courted, groomed, wined and dined by single guys for an appreciable amount of time before they meet for a shag.
There are quite a few girls and couples, single guys will score with by simply asking for a shag! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are saying witchunting took place on this thread rich. Please indicate where and by who. I cannot see any. If it's me private message me and tell me. I will gladly point out your error. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"glad to see somebody else that doesn't like witchhunting on the forums!
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so you agree with the post then.... You think its a valid question.. think it has an answer even lol....
Witch hunt??? Where... Its a twonk of a question .. can't be answered...
Maybe you have a better responce lol????
Witch Hunt pmsl.... |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Thanks ruby for mentioning that, and I was in no way singling anybody out. You were actually civil enough to write to me personally last time on the subject for which I am very grateful as we had a very sensible discussion on the topic.
But Ruby, you are very very right. If you are going to do well on the Scene, thick skin has to be the biggest pre-requisite you need. Well, that or a 13" cock!
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I mailed you about that thread at the time because you seemed to accusing people of having a dig at you, when in fact they were discussing a subject you were asking people to discuss.
The fact we and them were disagreeing with you didn't make it a dig.
It is called a debate.
As for this thread, I can only speak for myself and I don't think the OP did himself any favours by sounding like he was saying " I joined a sex site, I want a shag, why is no one giving me it"
the reaction he got back is going to be natural for people who take this lifestyle seriously and who don't respond well to being thought of as a piece of meat.
You also say that people on the forums forget that men like the OP have feelings and emotions, then maybe this type of poster should realise that the people he is expecting his shag from have those feelings too.
I would like to say Mrhotrod made a great post. No two people will want the same things, and we are of the ilk of not wanting flowers chocs or endless chats for a meet....most like the opposite...but there still has to be a degree of respect between each party before any knickers will be dropped. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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fair enough, he didn't go about it the right way. And when saying about the witchhunt that was about this thread and the previous poster to mine was cock on and I was agreeing. |
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