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Just curious to get the views from you fella's out there, how much foreplay do you think us women need or should I say require!?? A recent discussion I had with some friends, showed up some very interesting points, among one was very little, if any, men don't need to indulge in alot of foreplay as the woman, be it wife, partner or fb should just be able to "open the gates" so to speak and away you go!! So I would like to get more views from all you male fabbers out there. What's your view / opinion on this? |
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Difficult question
My view / preference is however much the lady prefers... I stretch it by another third
Because teasing is just way too much fun 
I get off on the other persons enjoyment and struggle to contain |
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over a year ago
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"my one friend at the moment as we both love oral so much its 60-70% oral (69 etc) then some various fcking but everyone is different"
In my whole life I have only cum once! by oral alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally think we should be letting the male or female know and can always keep swapping around fking oral playing toys etc much more fun to keep changing tactics xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious to get the views from you fella's out there, how much foreplay do you think us women need or should I say require!?? A recent discussion I had with some friends, showed up some very interesting points, among one was very little, if any, men don't need to indulge in alot of foreplay as the woman, be it wife, partner or fb should just be able to "open the gates" so to speak and away you go!! So I would like to get more views from all you male fabbers out there. What's your view / opinion on this? "
Personally speaking I enjoy foreplay as much if not more than penetration.
Normally a few hours of foreplay closely followed by 1 min 2 secs of intercourse
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious to get the views from you fella's out there, how much foreplay do you think us women need or should I say require!?? A recent discussion I had with some friends, showed up some very interesting points, among one was very little, if any, men don't need to indulge in alot of foreplay as the woman, be it wife, partner or fb should just be able to "open the gates" so to speak and away you go!! So I would like to get more views from all you male fabbers out there. What's your view / opinion on this? "
Who the hell are you taking to our about. Foreplay, like with most things in life and not just sex, is on a case by case basis surely?!... |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Just curious to get the views from you fella's out there, how much foreplay do you think us women need or should I say require!?? A recent discussion I had with some friends, showed up some very interesting points, among one was very little, if any, men don't need to indulge in alot of foreplay as the woman, be it wife, partner or fb should just be able to "open the gates" so to speak and away you go!! So I would like to get more views from all you male fabbers out there. What's your view / opinion on this?
Who the hell are you taking to our about. Foreplay, like with most things in life and not just sex, is on a case by case basis surely?!..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious to get the views from you fella's out there, how much foreplay do you think us women need or should I say require!?? A recent discussion I had with some friends, showed up some very interesting points, among one was very little, if any, men don't need to indulge in alot of foreplay as the woman, be it wife, partner or fb should just be able to "open the gates" so to speak and away you go!! So I would like to get more views from all you male fabbers out there. What's your view / opinion on this? "
I usually get to the "stick that cock in me now" stage and work it out from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say that everyone is different just as each woman can feel different needs at different times. There is no set "method". If you are attuned to each other and click and communicate or can read each other, then there won't be any issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on the company and the needs/wants of the people involved.
I love playing before fucking, but then I also love playing midway through fucking, alternating between the two.
Foreplay by it's very name suggests something you do first, I think it compliments the whole evening in a woman's company. A bit of play before, some during and some after.
Someone said earlier that they want to make a woman cum first before foreplay, I say, make her cum and cum and cum, it doesn't matter the order, just that there's lots of female screaming and cumming going on, how you make that happens is academic really in my opinion. |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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I've never met a woman that isn't capable of pretty obvious hints, or more directly just saying when she wants the foreplay to stop and the penetration to begin..
Often I find the hint is lacking in subtlety, as my ears are grabbed and I'm pulled up her body..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the company and the needs/wants of the people involved.
I love playing before fucking, but then I also love playing midway through fucking, alternating between the two.
Foreplay by it's very name suggests something you do first, I think it compliments the whole evening in a woman's company. A bit of play before, some during and some after.
Someone said earlier that they want to make a woman cum first before foreplay, I say, make her cum and cum and cum, it doesn't matter the order, just that there's lots of female screaming and cumming going on, how you make that happens is academic really in my opinion."
mmm you nailed it xxxx |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Just curious to get the views from you fella's out there, how much foreplay do you think us women need or should I say require!?? A recent discussion I had with some friends, showed up some very interesting points, among one was very little, if any, men don't need to indulge in alot of foreplay as the woman, be it wife, partner or fb should just be able to "open the gates" so to speak and away you go!! So I would like to get more views from all you male fabbers out there. What's your view / opinion on this? "
There is no set amount it could be two seconds or two hours, it just depends how the woman is feeling at the time and what the man is doing to stimulate her.
The man should be tuned in to his partner and respond to her feelings.
Time is not really important but he should be able to judge how she responds to the different stimuli he applies and be prepa_ed to act on how she responds.
What may be ideal one day could be boring or tiresome the next.
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Depends on the mood and the scenario...sometimes none is requi_ed as the lead up to it can be enough foreplay in itself and then there are times where playful teasing foreplay can last for an age before full sex.....men normally get there alot quicker so its only right and proper to take the time to ensure that both sides are satisfied  |
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I think a lot of it does come down to being aware of how your partner is reacting, having the experience to know when she is becoming aroused, she shouldn't have to tell you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love to have foreplay.
I love pleasuring a women.
I spend roughly 35 mins of just foreplay with the female.
Making her squirt a few times and cum before fucking her! |
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"I love to have foreplay.
I love pleasuring a women.
I spend roughly 35 mins of just foreplay with the female.
Making her squirt a few times and cum before fucking her! "
This sounds very specific in time and individual....  |
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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago
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"Depends on the company and the needs/wants of the people involved.
I love playing before fucking, but then I also love playing midway through fucking, alternating between the two.
Foreplay by it's very name suggests something you do first, I think it compliments the whole evening in a woman's company. A bit of play before, some during and some after.
Someone said earlier that they want to make a woman cum first before foreplay, I say, make her cum and cum and cum, it doesn't matter the order, just that there's lots of female screaming and cumming going on, how you make that happens is academic really in my opinion."
There's far too many variables to comment. It depends on the woman, the location, how much time we had, etc. etc. But if she's enjoying it, don't stop  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I generally like foreplay but when she drags you through the door and says 'just bend me over and fuck me', it's rude not to oblige. At least, that's how I remember it. Plenty of time for other stuff later...  |
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"Depends on the company and the needs/wants of the people involved.
I love playing before fucking, but then I also love playing midway through fucking, alternating between the two.
Foreplay by it's very name suggests something you do first, I think it compliments the whole evening in a woman's company. A bit of play before, some during and some after.
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Yes, unhurried sessions that go from one to the other are fabulous, even if it is not 'needed' it prolongs the experience! Sometimes a passionate quickie is great, but usually I like it to last longer.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I personally don't like the word foreplay, it seems to categorise it as a prelude to something. Kissing, oral, teasing, sex, whatever you like to do, should be a mixture at all times.
Mixing up the sensations only heightens the full experience, but that just my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Id like to think the guys would listen to the lady involved. For none relationship interactions I am not interested nor do I want or need foreplay in any way.. so a guy telling me he wants to do this that and the other would put me off. Yet to some women straight to it would be their worst nightmare...
Mr loves all the build up to sex with other ladies and I enjoy watching them in his capable hands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Foreplay is the best part of sex although it is very intimate and sensual so some may not appreciate that intimacy. Finding the erogenous zones is all part of the fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Foreplay is the best part of sex although it is very intimate and sensual so some may not appreciate that intimacy. Finding the erogenous zones is all part of the fun!"
think that is what it is for me. I Do not want intimacy with a meet.
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My view is that "foreplay" isn't a set thing, it encompasses all, teasing, banter, touching etc and is as individual as the situation. However the point was that the friend I was talking to about this, thinks that there is no need for teasing banter etc, no build up beforehand..... so if the female isn't horny or in the mood, has had no stimulation what so ever, the thought won't even be in her head! Good sex can be a quickie, long & sensuous, spontaneous, but ultimately I feel there has to be interaction of some sort for it to happen at all. Mental & physical stimulation is essential I think. Doesn't matter how much or little, but with none, it's just not going to happen! Like most things in life, the more you put into it, the more you can get out of it. No effort equals no reward !! |
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" My view is that "foreplay" isn't a set thing, it encompasses all, teasing, banter, touching etc and is as individual as the situation. However the point was that the friend I was talking to about this, thinks that there is no need for teasing banter etc, no build up beforehand..... so if the female isn't horny or in the mood, has had no stimulation what so ever, the thought won't even be in her head! Good sex can be a quickie, long & sensuous, spontaneous, but ultimately I feel there has to be interaction of some sort for it to happen at all. Mental & physical stimulation is essential I think. Doesn't matter how much or little, but with none, it's just not going to happen! Like most things in life, the more you put into it, the more you can get out of it. No effort equals no reward !! "
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Yeah it differs from woman to woman, some women just need to be told sweet things and they are wet, some need a glass of wine ,it depends , I always ask the ladies "what will you like?" that gives her the opportunity to tell me what will put her in that mood. |
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"Just curious to get the views from you fella's out there, how much foreplay do you think us women need or should I say require!?? A recent discussion I had with some friends, showed up some very interesting points, among one was very little, if any, men don't need to indulge in alot of foreplay as the woman, be it wife, partner or fb should just be able to "open the gates" so to speak and away you go!! So I would like to get more views from all you male fabbers out there. What's your view / opinion on this? "
With my FB it totally depends on her mood, so I don't think this is something you can put a time limit on.
Sometimes she so horny she wet before I walk through the door. Unfortunately for me she is big into her cycling! If she's been out on a long ride. It can take hours. Lol.
Something to do with taking a pounding from her seat. Well at least that's what she tells me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Foreplay is the most fun part getting the woman all wet and tingly and until she is digging her nails in or begging to ride my cock il keep playing as I find it a huge turn on but licking pussy or fingering it as well as many other things I like to do to tease .
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By (user no longer on site)
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" My view is that "foreplay" isn't a set thing, it encompasses all, teasing, banter, touching etc and is as individual as the situation. However the point was that the friend I was talking to about this, thinks that there is no need for teasing banter etc, no build up beforehand..... so if the female isn't horny or in the mood, has had no stimulation what so ever, the thought won't even be in her head! Good sex can be a quickie, long & sensuous, spontaneous, but ultimately I feel there has to be interaction of some sort for it to happen at all. Mental & physical stimulation is essential I think. Doesn't matter how much or little, but with none, it's just not going to happen! Like most things in life, the more you put into it, the more you can get out of it. No effort equals no reward !! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Same i love the foreplays this is maybe my favorite part of having sex, when you can feel the excitation building up, i usually like to make cum my partner at least once during the foreplays, mostly because it's a huge turn on for me. If you enjoy pleasing you'll be keen to do a lot of foreplay i would say. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
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I love foreplay, for everyone involved, but as mentioned I would like to think I am a thoughtful play partner and would listen or look for signs from the person I'm playing with.
Foreplay and after play gives so many possibilities. Add some bdsm and teasing when done well and appropriately and the world is your oyster so to speak! |
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