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When they reply with Hi.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you suppose to write when you have taken the time to write a well thought out, punctuated message to someone. And they reply with Hi?
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I've had this a few times. Delete and move on, one sided correspondence like this never leads anywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some of the profiles make me laugh when they ask for pics in first message (and they dont even in reply so double standards)
and also want you to write a short story with us single men knowing the chance of it being opened let alone read is slim lol
takes seconds to click a profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes reply with a simple hi and yep often the guy doesn't respond. I will use hi as a simple acknowledgement. A polite way of saying I appreciate his message but not interested |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
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"Up to you. We find that if after a couple of messages people still haven't progressed beyond a couple of words its going nowhere."
Or they are fake... we've had messages like this, then surprise surprise it's usually unlos !! |
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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago
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I must admit some women are hard work!! Some just think they don't even need to try!! Just because they have a pussy they think they can do or say what they like and guys will just roll over!!?
Not all I will add. Xxx |
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"Block...."
Block. Nothing good has ever come of continuing the conversation. You only get one chance to make a first impression and nobody with one line messages has ever subsequently redeemed themselves in our experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If their first message to you is just a hi imagine how boring the social will be. I find it hard work talking to someone who doesn't have much to say because I can be quite shy.  |
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"I must admit some women are hard work!! Some just think they don't even need to try!! Just because they have a pussy they think they can do or say what they like and guys will just roll over!!?
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This also applies to couples  |
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"What are you suppose to write when you have taken the time to write a well thought out, punctuated message to someone. And they reply with Hi?
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That they aren't that interested can't think of what to say back and it's just a polite Hi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I feel your pain. -- I don't message people much. when I do I craft a message - it takes ages to try to refer to something in their profile (some of theirs have crap material to work with) avoiding the cliches (nice tits, great pics, interesting profile etc etc) and then getting a hi, or nothing, or blocked for my trouble.
of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)
So, after a couple of years of intermittently trying to 'chat' to people here, I rarely bother now. - I post from time to time in the forum, read club reviews and occasionally poke my nose in the chat rooms.
Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general |
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"OP I feel your pain. -- I don't message people much. when I do I craft a message - it takes ages to try to refer to something in their profile (some of theirs have crap material to work with) avoiding the cliches (nice tits, great pics, interesting profile etc etc) and then getting a hi, or nothing, or blocked for my trouble.
of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)
So, after a couple of years of intermittently trying to 'chat' to people here, I rarely bother now. - I post from time to time in the forum, read club reviews and occasionally poke my nose in the chat rooms.
Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general"
If they have crap material to work with why you bothering to message them 
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"OP I feel your pain. -- I don't message people much. when I do I craft a message - it takes ages to try to refer to something in their profile (some of theirs have crap material to work with) avoiding the cliches (nice tits, great pics, interesting profile etc etc) and then getting a hi, or nothing, or blocked for my trouble.
of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)
So, after a couple of years of intermittently trying to 'chat' to people here, I rarely bother now. - I post from time to time in the forum, read club reviews and occasionally poke my nose in the chat rooms.
Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general
If they have crap material to work with why you bothering to message them
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Presumably he is only contacting people locally? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP I feel your pain. -- I don't message people much. when I do I craft a message - it takes ages to try to refer to something in their profile (some of theirs have crap material to work with) avoiding the cliches (nice tits, great pics, interesting profile etc etc) and then getting a hi, or nothing, or blocked for my trouble.
of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)
So, after a couple of years of intermittently trying to 'chat' to people here, I rarely bother now. - I post from time to time in the forum, read club reviews and occasionally poke my nose in the chat rooms.
Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general
If they have crap material to work with why you bothering to message them
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like I say, I don't much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must admit some women are hard work!! Some just think they don't even need to try!! Just because they have a pussy they think they can do or say what they like and guys will just roll over!!?
Not all I will add. Xxx"
What you're describing is Golden Vagina Syndrome 
Fortunately, I am immune.  |
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"Have a giggle & move on. Plenty more fish in the sea "
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I always say more than a couple of lines is a complete waste of time, just because they are what you are looking for and you think you match, they see something completely different so even the most well thought out message won't work.
To me luck and timing have more to do with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say I sometimes reply with a hi because im not sure what to say.
Often people send a nice message about how they like the profile etc then end with if you like ours come say hi.
Im not good with the whole flirting or starting conversation thing so I reply hi to show im interested and hope that conversation will start from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you suppose to write when you have taken the time to write a well thought out, punctuated message to someone. And they reply with Hi?
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Maybe they aren't interested in you but are being polite......  |
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"I sometimes reply with a simple hi and yep often the guy doesn't respond. I will use hi as a simple acknowledgement. A polite way of saying I appreciate his message but not interested"
Really? Blimey, I've never thought someone replying with just "hi" is an indicator that they're not interested. Them replying saying, "no thanks" or not replying at all makes it clear where I stand.
I'd honestly think they were interested but just not talkative if all they reply with is "hi". |
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