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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I travel around a bit during the week because I'm a trucker.
I keep myself clean, many of the sites I go to now have showers and I keep the cab fresh, clean and tidy.. for myself more than my boss or anyone else.
It's private and comfy.. maybe a stretch to fit a couple in but possible.
I know it'd put a lot of you off.. but I'd imagine safety wise.. you're actually better off. You have our number plate and most wagons have corporate logos all over them. One call to them and we've lost our job and easily identifiable through the company.. So unlikely to even contemplate upsetting anyone.
I understand people's reasoning.. but if you are semi convinced.. give me a bell. |
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over a year ago
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"I met a guy who turned out to be a trucker. We're great friends and I've sat in his cab but that's it  "
To be honest.. I'd like that.. it's quite a lonely job at times. Not always looking for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too many horror movies been made about truckers . The danger is buried deep in our sub conscious OP "
That's the problem.. everyone makes the worst jokes.. I understand.. but.. in reality.. for the reasons I gave.. it's really probably safer and secure than dogging or home meets.. We're under the cyber security thumb
.. you can check our reg off your phone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not after the several serial killer truckers then nope"
Like I said.. I understand. But you're more likely to get into bother with someone else in reality. Someone who isn't pinned down to an address or on an industrial estate full of cctv cameras. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Done it before, wouldn't do it again now! It was about 12 years ago though xx"
Any particular reason? Was it him or the truck? Or where he'd parked? I've only had one meet in mine so far.. I wasn't expecting it as I wasn't chasing anyone.. she chased me.. and we had a good time.. We're still talking at any rate, so that's a good sign lol |
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"I met a guy who turned out to be a trucker. We're great friends and I've sat in his cab but that's it
To be honest.. I'd like that.. it's quite a lonely job at times. Not always looking for sex."
It's very lonely at times but you still need t meet women in a 'normal' fashion, I mean at a pub first not in the cab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want to try this so contact me if local"
I drive all over and only have any idea exactly where I'll be.. half way through the day I'm going to be parked up.. Which is an issue until I get a regular run with the firm I'm with. They like me as a standby driver because I'm flexible.
For instance.. I'm in Sussex on Monday night.. couldn't tell you where I'll be parked up though because it depends how heavy my run is and which places I'm going to.. So I don't expect to meet anyone on the roads at the moment.. as people rarely do last minute meets.. with a trucker of all people  I'm doomed.. especially as all my locals don't seem very interested.. or interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yep id meet with the right trucker in his truck safely as I would have my husband sit out side in the car and wait for me ive met a couple truckers now and they have been perfect gents before ive met sending me details of the truck and the reg and all that knowing that they are parked in a truck stop where the have to pay and reg the truck for over night and place for then to shower clean and there trucks are super clean inside too ..... but on the side of the road or a lay by then no way not for me but then I think most truckers know that .... something very horny about climbing in a truck and having a fuck lol very horny indeed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"yep id meet with the right trucker in his truck safely as I would have my husband sit out side in the car and wait for me ive met a couple truckers now and they have been perfect gents before ive met sending me details of the truck and the reg and all that knowing that they are parked in a truck stop where the have to pay and reg the truck for over night and place for then to shower clean and there trucks are super clean inside too ..... but on the side of the road or a lay by then no way not for me but then I think most truckers know that .... something very horny about climbing in a truck and having a fuck lol very horny indeed "
Thank you! At last.. somebody who appreciates that it may appear unsafe and silly.. but in actual fact is probably safer than meeting a guy you'd normally meet in your home or theirs, because you have some chance of verifying who they actually work for.
Plus the kink side of climbing into a truck.. dogging-esque but much more private and sophisticated. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"yep id meet with the right trucker in his truck safely as I would have my husband sit out side in the car and wait for me ive met a couple truckers now and they have been perfect gents before ive met sending me details of the truck and the reg and all that knowing that they are parked in a truck stop where the have to pay and reg the truck for over night and place for then to shower clean and there trucks are super clean inside too ..... but on the side of the road or a lay by then no way not for me but then I think most truckers know that .... something very horny about climbing in a truck and having a fuck lol very horny indeed
Thank you! At last.. somebody who appreciates that it may appear unsafe and silly.. but in actual fact is probably safer than meeting a guy you'd normally meet in your home or theirs, because you have some chance of verifying who they actually work for.
Plus the kink side of climbing into a truck.. dogging-esque but much more private and sophisticated."
My truck is blank.. which is good for me.. not so good to inspire confidence in someone meeting me.. also my company isn't easy to find on the internet.. even though it's big. However I would provide the reg and details to whoever I was interested in meeting that night.. that can all be backed up by the paperwork we all have to carry around with us.. plus we all have ID on us in the form of our drivers cards.
Seems over the top.. but I understand that meeting anyone on your own, whoever you are.. can be quite a scary thing to do. I'm all up for putting someone's mind at rest if they're genuinely interested.. I'm sure most men would. You just have to ask the right questions to guarantee your safety.. then you can relax a little hopefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I travel around a bit during the week because I'm a trucker.
I keep myself clean, many of the sites I go to now have showers and I keep the cab fresh, clean and tidy.. for myself more than my boss or anyone else.
It's private and comfy.. maybe a stretch to fit a couple in but possible.
I know it'd put a lot of you off.. but I'd imagine safety wise.. you're actually better off. You have our number plate and most wagons have corporate logos all over them. One call to them and we've lost our job and easily identifiable through the company.. So unlikely to even contemplate upsetting anyone.
I understand people's reasoning.. but if you are semi convinced.. give me a bell."
Ohh I love a road trip  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not after the several serial killer truckers then nope
Name one, we all know the names of serial killers but none of them truckers.! "
The yorkshire ripper... also put into google the american ones.. there's a top 10! There's way more serial killers than just the quasi famous ones |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not after the several serial killer truckers then nope
Name one, we all know the names of serial killers but none of them truckers.!
The yorkshire ripper... also put into google the american ones.. there's a top 10! There's way more serial killers than just the quasi famous ones "
Was the Yorkshire Ripper a trucker?  well like I said.. ask the right questions, behave the right way, keep your phone out, text people randomly, let the person you're meeting know thats what youll be doing.. because if you dont at certain intervals that youre not going to tell him when.. make all this clear.. and you'll scare off most nutters.. theyre predators.. predators take easy prey.
I just want to meet nice women for a chat in my cab occasionally.. maybe one day.. talk another one into the bed in the back. |
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"Not after the several serial killer truckers then nope
Name one, we all know the names of serial killers but none of them truckers.!
The yorkshire ripper... also put into google the american ones.. there's a top 10! There's way more serial killers than just the quasi famous ones "
Now I'm gonna have nightmares. Be nice !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not after the several serial killer truckers then nope
Name one, we all know the names of serial killers but none of them truckers.!
The yorkshire ripper... also put into google the american ones.. there's a top 10! There's way more serial killers than just the quasi famous ones
Was the Yorkshire Ripper a trucker? well like I said.. ask the right questions, behave the right way, keep your phone out, text people randomly, let the person you're meeting know thats what youll be doing.. because if you dont at certain intervals that youre not going to tell him when.. make all this clear.. and you'll scare off most nutters.. theyre predators.. predators take easy prey.
I just want to meet nice women for a chat in my cab occasionally.. maybe one day.. talk another one into the bed in the back."
HGV driver its how he got around so much and used the service stations to pick up the prostitutes he murdered amongst the other women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me it's not the safety aspect that's a concern, it's the space, I'm not exactly petite and tbh now I have a nice comfy bed and can afford a hotel I've left vehicle based fun behind. |
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"Done it before, wouldn't do it again now! It was about 12 years ago though xx
Any particular reason? Was it him or the truck? Or where he'd parked? I've only had one meet in mine so far.. I wasn't expecting it as I wasn't chasing anyone.. she chased me.. and we had a good time.. We're still talking at any rate, so that's a good sign lol"
My circumstances have changed a lot since then! I did it when I was single xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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for us,as we used to live not far from some popular lay bys it's the random, I'm parked up 2 miles from you, fancy a meet that you know has gone to everyone within a 5 mile radius on who's near, haven't read the profile, more than likely married chancing his arm on just anybody dropping everything at the drop of a hat...doesnt make me feel particularly special...and I want to feel special damnit!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I travel around a bit during the week because I'm a trucker.
I keep myself clean, many of the sites I go to now have showers and I keep the cab fresh, clean and tidy.. for myself more than my boss or anyone else.
It's private and comfy.. maybe a stretch to fit a couple in but possible.
I know it'd put a lot of you off.. but I'd imagine safety wise.. you're actually better off. You have our number plate and most wagons have corporate logos all over them. One call to them and we've lost our job and easily identifiable through the company.. So unlikely to even contemplate upsetting anyone.
I understand people's reasoning.. but if you are semi convinced.. give me a bell."
haha that's got to be the funniest advertisement yet ,what's headroom like ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your trying to hard to convince people it's safe that will alway set off alarm bells "
So does saying things that aren't true.. I'm not trying hard.. I'm just saying it as it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd meet you if it wasn't in a truck.
I'd most definitely meet you, even in a truck!
Just as long as you weren't driving of course. ??"
Read profile and you'll see that's not my thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"for us,as we used to live not far from some popular lay bys it's the random, I'm parked up 2 miles from you, fancy a meet that you know has gone to everyone within a 5 mile radius on who's near, haven't read the profile, more than likely married chancing his arm on just anybody dropping everything at the drop of a hat...doesnt make me feel particularly special...and I want to feel special damnit!!! "
I get that, but just because you've got a message it doesn't mean everyone has. But you can normally tell the difference and tell if someone has read your profile or not.
I always read people's profiles because it's frustrating when people don't bother reading mine. If it's not a close match.. I don't bother. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I travel around a bit during the week because I'm a trucker.
I keep myself clean, many of the sites I go to now have showers and I keep the cab fresh, clean and tidy.. for myself more than my boss or anyone else.
It's private and comfy.. maybe a stretch to fit a couple in but possible.
I know it'd put a lot of you off.. but I'd imagine safety wise.. you're actually better off. You have our number plate and most wagons have corporate logos all over them. One call to them and we've lost our job and easily identifiable through the company.. So unlikely to even contemplate upsetting anyone.
I understand people's reasoning.. but if you are semi convinced.. give me a bell.haha that's got to be the funniest advertisement yet ,what's headroom like ?"
Lol.. my headroom is pretty awful if I'm honest.. if I'm really honest.. most nights it'd just be nice to sit and chat with someone face to face as I'm quite a social person doing an in social job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to meet a trucker. We had some great times and his cab was very clean and tidy!
Think if you get to know the guy a bit and feel ok with him then why not.
This was quite a few years ago though. Now i prefer the luxury of a big bed! Lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely not as I'm not interested in random car/truck meets just because you're in the area I wouldn't feel safe"
Why is it less safe than any other meet? That's the point I'm getting at I guess. Personally I think it's safer.
Safety all depends on your own methods of how you protect yourself.
I'm not arguing.. if you don't feel safe then Don't do it.. whatever it is. It's meant to be fun. |
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"for us,as we used to live not far from some popular lay bys it's the random, I'm parked up 2 miles from you, fancy a meet that you know has gone to everyone within a 5 mile radius on who's near, haven't read the profile, more than likely married chancing his arm on just anybody dropping everything at the drop of a hat...doesnt make me feel particularly special...and I want to feel special damnit!!! "
You are special lol x we all are.. some are more special than others.. I'm probably a special case though lol |
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"For me it's not the safety aspect that's a concern, it's the space, I'm not exactly petite and tbh now I have a nice comfy bed and can afford a hotel I've left vehicle based fun behind. "
You'd be surprised how much space there is in the larger articulated trucks.. mines pretty cramped though.. it's a little lorry. So you've got a point. Big ones are like small lounges though.. attempting to help out my big mutha trucking brethren as well as myself here lol |
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The common misconception is that Truckers cabs aren't clean.
However the "Trampers" who are away all week have to spend a lot of time away. So it's their home. 99% of them are immaculate inside. They take a real sense of pride in them.
To the lady who asked if the truck had a "posh room" in the back? Sadly in the UK there are very few cabs that are like that due the size of our roads. There are a few though, things like the Scania Longline which are amazing inside, think double bed, wardrobe, sink etc. Home from home.
Most commonly your looking at things like Volvo Globetrotters, Scania Toplines, Man TGX's, etc
These have a bunk bed style configuration. Just enough room to stand up without stooping etc.
I don't think Clarkson did any favours by referring to Truckers as murderers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to meet a trucker. We had some great times and his cab was very clean and tidy!
Think if you get to know the guy a bit and feel ok with him then why not.
This was quite a few years ago though. Now i prefer the luxury of a big bed! Lol xx"
I prefer the space and comfort too.. but if someone is worth meeting, then it's worth it right?
Like I said though before.. sometimes I'd just like to chat fab with someone nice.. it's not all about the physical act. |
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"Getting in and out is a problem now ... my back isnt what it used to be "
I can't help you there.. well I could try and lift you up
It's definitely not something for some people.. I just want people who are discounting the idea for safety and hygiene reasons to have a second thought is all. It's no less safe, cramped or hygienic.. it all depends on the person.. not the location.
Pleading and selling over and done with lol..
I'm free for most people up for a laugh and a chat any night I'm out.. if it leads to more that night or later down the line.. great. My life will be a little brighter either way. |
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"For me it's not the safety aspect that's a concern, it's the space, I'm not exactly petite and tbh now I have a nice comfy bed and can afford a hotel I've left vehicle based fun behind.
You'd be surprised how much space there is in the larger articulated trucks.. mines pretty cramped though.. it's a little lorry. So you've got a point. Big ones are like small lounges though.. attempting to help out my big mutha trucking brethren as well as myself here lol"
Ok, so maybe I should be asking for vehicle spec in future but from previous experience guys contacting us about truck meets clearly haven't read our profile.
I imagine for some people concerned about the safety aspect they're assuming an isolated lay-by with no help nearby if things don't go right. Get your point about potentially having the reg and company name but that doesn't necessarily stop bad things happening.
And PP I think most people ignore 99% of what comes out of Clarkson's mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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the tight space adds to the sleaziness of it all mmm lol ...and why truckers get the bad rep ? murderer's drive cars or catch the bus hell they can even walk so that can happen at anytime anywhere not just a truck |
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"the tight space adds to the sleaziness of it all mmm lol ...and why truckers get the bad rep ? murderer's drive cars or catch the bus hell they can even walk so that can happen at anytime anywhere not just a truck "
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"For me it's not the safety aspect that's a concern, it's the space, I'm not exactly petite and tbh now I have a nice comfy bed and can afford a hotel I've left vehicle based fun behind.
You'd be surprised how much space there is in the larger articulated trucks.. mines pretty cramped though.. it's a little lorry. So you've got a point. Big ones are like small lounges though.. attempting to help out my big mutha trucking brethren as well as myself here lol
Ok, so maybe I should be asking for vehicle spec in future but from previous experience guys contacting us about truck meets clearly haven't read our profile.
I imagine for some people concerned about the safety aspect they're assuming an isolated lay-by with no help nearby if things don't go right. Get your point about potentially having the reg and company name but that doesn't necessarily stop bad things happening.
And PP I think most people ignore 99% of what comes out of Clarkson's mouth. "
Obviously if someone hasn't read your profile properly then they aren't right for you.
I try and and park up in industrial estates. They're closer to towns and makes my life easier for food and it's safer for me. We're actually quite vulnerable out on the laybys ourselves.
Regarding truck reg.. and company.. I'd only give that out to someone seriously contemplating meeting me.. as it's something that could get me into trouble with my company in particular. So you'd have to bare with someone regarding that.. information. Anyone who hands it out Willy nilly is a bit of a fool in my opinion.
I try to meet people who may consider picking me up and dropping me back off as I'd prefer the space myself.. if it's available.. or those within walking distance. As you can imagine.. I've not been very successful on that front either lol..
Just seems a shame that I'm all over the place and have the opportunity to meet a few people I'd be really interested in, whose boxes I might tick.. but the whole truck thing puts others off. When I get a regular run I'm hoping it'll be easier as I'll have a better chance of planning ahead and building up some sort of relationship and trust with people.. as things stand I'm just a victim of circumstance..
Just wanted to raise a couple of, hopefully we'll reasoned points and open up some of you to another avenue.
We're not all married, fat, racist, prostitute killers with poor hygiene.
Some of us are laid back hippies at heart.. who love to travel and meet new people. |
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"Had some great meets with truckers,ended up going out on a few runs as well,really cannot see why they get beaten down on fab like all the time.
Truckers
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"Your trying to hard to convince people it's safe that will alway set off alarm bells
So does saying things that aren't true.. I'm not trying hard.. I'm just saying it as it is. "
Yes but how many times does one have to say it |
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