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Quick Meetings..really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can only comment on myself. To date, I have never turned up to a late night 'I'm in a hotel right now near you, I'd love you to come over right now' message  |
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Only in as far as we've been looking for a second guy for a bi mmf when the original guy has done a disappearing act on the day of the meet,so I've stuck a quick status up asking if anyone is free. |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Only in as far as we've been looking for a second guy for a bi mmf when the original guy has done a disappearing act on the day of the meet,so I've stuck a quick status up asking if anyone is free."
Only fair...
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The only time i ever do a quick meet is with someone i've previously met, i prefer a message exchange first and then a social.
I had a lovely last minute meet yesterday afternoon with a fb. He text me to say he was nearby and we took a stroll around the local park, ate ice cream and had a jolly good snog  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondering how many people actually do spur ofthe moment meetings.....Chat for a few messages...and be right around...does this really happen.  "
rarely but sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We mostly prefer a social 1st to avoid getting swept along in the moment and then finding out one of us wasn't as into it as the other later. Mind you, now and again it's fun to impromptu dive in |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
If you include meeting someone on the spur of the mimenr in clubs then yes have done that - but would never do so through here, even if circumstances did allow.
Much prefer to get to know someone and establish a connection and chemistry first. |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
tamworth |
"We mostly prefer a social 1st to avoid getting swept along in the moment and then finding out one of us wasn't as into it as the other later. Mind you, now and again it's fun to impromptu dive in "
lol..........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will keep this very vague due to descreetion and the circumstances but quickest meet I ever had was a very local girl that's part of a couple off here.
I won't mention names but we said a quick hello on here and her bf was telling me about a female time waster that had wasted both our time recently.
We added each and I complemented him on how pretty his gf was and we didn't speak after that.
I recived a message quite recently of her saying are you busy now.
I just said no I've just finished work and just got out the bath why?
She replyed I'm really horny and he's not here and I'm alone in bed could you come to me now I don't want any thing just sex and you can't verify me as he will know I met you and you will need to go through the back gate.
I said ok then and she sent me her full adress.
I was there within half a hour and literally within 5min of getting there we was full on fucking in her bed.
We've done that twice now and the instant sex and risk of what we were doing added to the excitement. |
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"Wondering how many people actually do spur ofthe moment meetings.....Chat for a few messages...and be right around...does this really happen. "
I used to do these all the time. I hate planning my weeks out and sex came far down the priority list for me. Only once ever thing I wanted to sort out was fine o would look for sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is exactly how my first meet happened. Admittedly it was a bank holiday and I had looking for a meet up too. It was literally a couple of messages back and forth and some proof of who we were before I was on my way.
Loved it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of our meets are like this now, put a meet up exchange messages swap face pictures and numbers and on our way,
So much simpler than trying to arrange things 3 months in the future
We call them panda meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondering how many people actually do spur ofthe moment meetings.....Chat for a few messages...and be right around...does this really happen. "
We have had loads of meets like this and often post in the "meet me" seeking someone local if none of our swinging friends are free.
We once met a guy this way that had only been on the site about 1/2 hour  |
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"Wondering how many people actually do spur ofthe moment meetings.....Chat for a few messages...and be right around...does this really happen. "
I must admit I've done quite a few and some of them have been great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes quite a few meets within an hour or 2 of initial contact, we are not for messages or socials at the moment, simply as we don't have time, so an hour or 90 minutes free means exactly that.
Nearly all of our meets are spontaneous. Supply face/body pic, read profiles, yes or no....lets see what happens. Had plenty of no-shows who delete their accounts right away.. .
We met one guy who had been on the site 15 minutes, he had his 1st meet completed within an hour of joining the site....I think we gave him false hope as he left 3 months later after not getting another meet, he was good looking and a good meet. Just fell into the same trap of the 'fancy a fuck' type single guy and wondered why he never got another liaison.  |
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"Wondering how many people actually do spur ofthe moment meetings.....Chat for a few messages...and be right around...does this really happen. "
Many times.
Some couples put a meet up looking for a spontaneous meet, after a few messages, numbers exchanged, you're off on your way.
Some my best meets were spur of the moment encounters.
It can be nerve racking but the there is the thrill of going into the unknown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quick meet! Takes me over 2 hours to get ready!"
If Shaz wants a quick meet then she gets ready first and then we go hunting, if nothing can be found quick then we go out instead so nothing lost |
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"Hearing about alot of no shows....and guys are complaining about lackof meetings....whats goingon... "
Maybe the guys who complain of lack of meets are not the ones failing to show...just a thought... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I haven't. I like there to be a connection to have sex. I don't do socials though. Once I know I like him and he's not a crazy axe murderer then I'll meet for sex |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
tamworth |
"No I haven't. I like there to be a connection to have sex. I don't do socials though. Once I know I like him and he's not a crazy axe murderer then I'll meet for sex "
Use the same procedure for bunny boiler filtering... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't plan meets in advance and couldn't on my last profile either due to my job and my kids,so as a single male have only really done short-notice same-day meets through here.None on this profile yet but several on my last profile |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
tamworth |
"I can't plan meets in advance and couldn't on my last profile either due to my job and my kids,so as a single male have only really done short-notice same-day meets through here.None on this profile yet but several on my last profile"
Have tried it no success as yet with posting meetings....  |
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